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De-escalation

Discover a collection of free resources focused on trauma-informed de-escalation strategies, designed specifically for educators, students, and parents. Gain practical skills to recognize stress triggers, respond calmly, and create safer learning environments. Engage with real-world scenarios, step-by-step guides, and interactive activities that empower you to defuse conflicts and support emotional well-being effectively.

Suggested Resources

How Do I Keep My Cool When Things Get Hot

Tier 1

K-12 Teachers

60 mins

This resource empowers teachers with strategies for maintaining their own emotional regulation during high-stress de-escalation moments. Understanding personal triggers and proactive self-care is crucial for effective behavioral support in the classroom.

Calm Zone

Tier 1

Elementary School Class

45 mins

Discover how to transform your classroom into a proactive 'Calm Zone' where students feel safe, understood, and supported before behaviors escalate. This guide provides practical steps for creating a preventative environment.

The Empathy Advantage

Tier 2

Middle School Small Group

30 mins

Unlock the power of empathy to understand student behavior from their perspective, paving the way for more effective de-escalation. This resource helps small groups practice active listening and perspective-taking.

What's My Trigger

Tier 2

High School Small Group

40 mins

Help students identify their personal emotional triggers and develop early warning signs for escalating feelings. This resource provides tools for self-awareness, a critical step in self-regulation and de-escalation.

De-escalation Dialogue Decoded

Tier 1

K-12 Teachers

75 mins

Master the art of verbal de-escalation with practical phrases and communication techniques that calm rather than provoke. This resource offers a script and role-playing scenarios for teachers to practice effective language.

Behavior Breakthroughs

Tier 3

Elementary School Student

50 mins

This individualized project guide helps a student identify a specific challenging behavior and develop a personalized plan for managing it. It fosters self-advocacy and empowers them to take ownership of their actions.

Are My Words Helping or Hurting

Tier 1

K-12 Teachers

30 mins

Explore the impact of language on de-escalation and learn to choose words that build rapport and reduce tension. This resource guides teachers in self-assessing their communication styles.

Sensory Solutions

Tier 2

Middle School Small Group

45 mins

Discover how sensory strategies can be powerful de-escalation tools for students experiencing dysregulation. This resource provides a guide for creating a 'sensory toolkit' tailored to small group needs.

The Power of Proximity

Tier 1

K-12 Teachers

35 mins

Learn how strategic movement and non-verbal cues can prevent escalation and provide subtle support. This resource focuses on using proximity, body language, and silence effectively in the classroom.

Behavioral Detective

Tier 3

High School Student

60 mins

Equip an individual student with the skills to become a 'behavioral detective' to analyze their own challenging behaviors and identify underlying needs. This journal-based activity promotes self-reflection and problem-solving.

Before the Storm

Tier 1

K-12 Teachers

50 mins

Master the art of early intervention by recognizing subtle signs of escalating behavior. This resource provides a comprehensive guide to proactive strategies that prevent full-blown crises in the classroom.

The Escape Route

Tier 2

Elementary School Small Group

35 mins

Teach small groups of students healthy coping mechanisms and 'escape routes' for managing intense emotions before they lead to challenging behaviors. This resource focuses on practical, child-friendly strategies.

Community Resources

Community Resources

De-escalation Superpowers

This resource equips staff with practical, actionable de-escalation techniques to effectively manage challenging behaviors and reduce conflict in the school environment. Mastering these skills fosters a safer, more predictable space for everyone. Audience: Adults, 1 session, 90 minutes.

Tier 3
9/16
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Julie Young

Behavior Interventionist

De-escalation Strategies

This resource provides targeted training for individual educators on effective de-escalation techniques, helping them manage intense situations with calm and empathy. It's crucial for maintaining safety and preventing further harm. Audience: Individual Educator Coaching. Duration: 45 minutes.

Tier 3
10/1
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Christa Stevenson

District Administrator

De-escalation Moves That Work

This 30-minute lesson for 7th-grade students will equip them with practical de-escalation techniques, fostering a more peaceful and understanding classroom and school environment. Students will learn and practice key strategies like managing tone, using space effectively, employing time-out signals, and self-regulation to navigate conflicts constructively.

Tier 1
Yesterday
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Shannon Loving

General Education Teacher

De-Escalate: Stay Cool

This lesson helps students understand and practice de-escalation techniques. It's crucial for managing intense emotions and resolving conflicts peacefully. Designed for small groups of middle school students, this 15-minute session provides practical strategies.

Tier 2
9/16
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Cking

Behavior Interventionist

De-Escalation Relay

A 40-minute K-12 whole-staff activity where teams race to respond correctly to flash de-escalation prompts, reinforcing quick thinking and collective calm under pressure. This Tier 1, trauma-informed practice builds school climate by equipping all staff with rapid de-escalation strategies in a fun, interactive format.

Tier 1
9/4
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Mina Bradley-Belcaid

Instructor

What’s Your De-Escalation Style?

A 75-minute whole-staff interactive workshop where faculty and staff identify their personal de-escalation styles, recognize strengths and growth areas, and practice trauma-informed conflict strategies to foster a positive school climate.

Tier 1
8/18
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Dr. Angela Parana

School Administrator

Conflict? Solved!

A dynamic group lesson focusing on de-escalation and conflict resolution skills. Over 60 minutes, adult participants will engage in practical scenarios to reduce tension and cooperate effectively. Tier 2 group supports enhance real-life workplace and community interactions.

Tier 2
5/13

Kyle

Social Worker

Calm the Storm: De-escalation

This lesson provides teachers with foundational de-escalation strategies to effectively support dysregulated students. Understanding and implementing these techniques can create a calmer, more supportive classroom environment, reduce disruptions, and foster students' emotional regulation skills. This is a single 15-minute session for teachers.

Tier 1
9/16
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Cking

Behavior Interventionist

De-escalation Detectives

This resource engages a small group of 5th graders in scenario-based learning to practice de-escalation techniques and problem-solving. It's crucial for developing practical skills in a low-stakes environment, building confidence in managing challenging situations. Audience: 5th Grade Small Group. Duration: 55 minutes.

Tier 2
10/3
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Clare Mahoney

Counselor

Cool Heads, Calm Classrooms

In this 90-minute Tier 1 professional development session, teachers will learn effective de-escalation strategies to manage classroom conflicts and behavioral challenges. This lesson equips educators with practical tools to maintain a positive learning environment, strengthen teacher-student relationships, and reduce disruptions.

Tier 1
5/28

Alyssha Walker

Behavior Interventionist

Calm the Storm: De-escalation for Teachers

This lesson equips teachers with essential de-escalation strategies to help students co-regulate emotions and manage challenging behaviors effectively, fostering a calm and productive classroom environment. Designed for K-12 teachers, this 30-minute session provides practical tools to prevent situations from escalating and support student well-being.

Tier 1
9/26
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Desirae Skelley

Counselor

Calm Amid Chaos

In this 90-minute Tier 2 professional development session, teachers will learn research-based de-escalation strategies to manage challenging student behaviors and restore a positive learning environment. Participants will engage in interactive role-plays and analyze real-life scenarios to build confidence in applying these techniques in their classrooms.

Tier 2
5/28

Alyssha Walker

Behavior Interventionist

Conflict Deescalation Workshop

This lesson focuses on teaching 9th graders how to deescalate conflicts through collaborative learning. Students will watch a video on managing emotions and engage in group activities to practice conflict resolution skills. This lesson is important as it equips students with essential life skills to handle conflicts constructively, promoting a positive and supportive school environment.

Tier 1
2/25
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Andrea Gillis

General Education Teacher

Behavior Breakthroughs: Support Staff Training

This 15-minute training for support staff provides practical, individualized behavioral strategies for managing and supporting students like Richard, Asher, and Mikey. It focuses on proactive engagement, clear expectations, and effective de-escalation techniques to foster a positive and productive learning environment.

Tier 1
Tuesday
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Kymberli Magallanes

Behavior Interventionist

De-Escalation Bingo

In this playful Tier 2 group lesson, Middle School Advisors will reinforce and practice trauma-informed de-escalation strategies through a collaborative bingo game. Over 30 minutes, participants will recall key moves, build confidence under pressure, and reflect on implementing these strategies in real scenarios.

Tier 2
7/15
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Brianne

Parent

Calm in Crisis

In this 90-minute Tier 3 professional learning session, teachers will develop individualized de-escalation strategies to manage and diffuse challenging student behaviors. By exploring evidence-based techniques and practicing through guided role-plays and reflections, participants will leave with a personalized action plan to create calmer, safer classrooms.

Tier 3
5/28

Alyssha Walker

Behavior Interventionist

De-escalation Dynamo

This resource focuses on practical de-escalation techniques for small groups of students, emphasizing calm communication and active listening. It's critical for building confidence in managing tense situations and supporting peers. Audience: 8th Grade Group, 1 session, 70 minutes.

Tier 2
9/15

Lar

Psychologist

De-Escalate: The Defensive Challenge

An engaging game for 150 school employees to review de-escalation strategies at the Defensive level of the CPI Crisis Development Model. Participants will identify defensive behaviors and practice effective intervention techniques. This single-session game lasts 30 minutes.

Tier 1
Tuesday
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Kymberli Magallanes

Behavior Interventionist

Behavioral Support Essentials

Focuses on providing support strategies for students facing behavioral challenges in a high school setting. This resource equips educators with the tools to create positive behavioral change through evidence-based practices.

Tier 1
4/24
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davisd

Special Education Teacher

Calm Superpowers: De-escalation!

This lesson introduces 1st-grade students to simple de-escalation strategies to help them regulate their emotions and calm down when feeling big emotions. It teaches essential life skills for emotional well-being and positive social interactions. Designed for a 1-hour session for the entire classroom.

Tier 1
10/17
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Christina Pulley

Behavior Interventionist

How Can We Manage Big Emotions?

In this 45-minute Tier 1 behavioral supports lesson for 3rd graders, students will learn and practice self-regulation strategies through interactive modeling, discussions, and reflection activities. This lesson helps students understand their emotions and equips them with calming tools to reduce classroom disruptions.

Tier 1
8/11
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Aaron Kahle

English, Language Arts, History

How Can We Calm the Storm?

In this foundational professional development module, staff will explore key factors that shape school climate and learn trauma-informed de-escalation strategies. This 60-minute Tier 1 session builds shared language and empathy, equipping all staff with practical tools to support students and calm behavioral storms.

Tier 1
7/16
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Brianne

Parent

How Can We Cool the Fire?

This interactive 45-minute session guides all school staff through recognizing trauma triggers and practicing real-time de-escalation using peer-led scenarios. Essential for creating a safer, more supportive school climate.

Tier 1
9/4
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Mina Bradley-Belcaid

Instructor

Express, Don't Suppress

This lesson aims to equip 8th grade boys with the skills to de-escalate situations and verbalize their emotions instead of resorting to physical altercations. By using trauma-informed teaching and restorative practices, students will learn to recognize their emotions and express them in a healthy manner. This lesson is crucial in fostering emotional intelligence and conflict resolution skills, which are essential for personal development and social interactions.

Tier 1
2/25

Alicia Wilson

School Administrator

Cool Down, Calm Down

This 45-minute Tier 3 lesson provides an individual middle school African American male student with strategies for de-escalation and anger management. It addresses increased aggressive behaviors following the loss of private counseling, offering practical tools to manage emotions and reactions. It's designed for one 45-minute session.

Tier 3
10/10

gra

Psychologist

Timeout or Take a Breather?

This lesson teaches high school special education students effective de-escalation strategies, using basketball analogies to make the concepts relatable and engaging. Students will learn to identify triggers, apply coping mechanisms, and communicate effectively during escalating situations. This 45-minute lesson is designed for a single session.

Tier 1
10/10

lchism

District Administrator

Peaceful Problem Solvers: Handle Conflicts with Care

This lesson teaches a 3rd-grade student respectful strategies for resolving conflicts at school and home. It's crucial for helping the student manage strong emotions, communicate needs effectively, and build positive relationships, especially given a history of PTSD and trauma. This is a single 30-minute session for an individual student.

Tier 3
Thursday

Kemone Hedge

Social Worker, Counselor

Crisis Code

In this 20-minute individual intervention, the educator uses a clear, consistent crisis response script to guide a 9th-grade student through self-regulation steps during an emotional crisis. This Tier 3 support ensures clarity, safety, and empowers the student with coping tools for future challenges.

Tier 3
6/16
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Rae Britton

Counselor, School Administrator

Impulse Control in Action

This lesson focuses on helping a 3rd grade student with impulsivity learn to regulate their behavior in a classroom setting. Using game-based learning, the lesson includes a scenario-based activity set in a PE context to engage the student actively. This approach is important as it provides a practical and interactive way for the student to understand and practice self-regulation, which is crucial for their social and academic success.

Tier 3
2/25

Ryan Holt Ph.D.

Psychologist

How Can We Cool the Fire?

This 45-minute Tier 1 staff development session helps all school staff identify trauma triggers, practice trauma-informed de-escalation strategies, and build a safer school climate through peer-led role-plays. By engaging with real-life scenarios, participants gain hands-on skills to defuse tense situations and support our school community.

Tier 1
9/9
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Laci Galyen

Instructor

Respectful Behavior Strategies

In this 90-minute professional development session, teachers will learn and practice effective, respectful strategies to handle challenging student behaviors. This session is crucial for fostering a positive classroom environment and equipping teachers with tools to manage behaviors while maintaining student dignity. Audience: K-12 educators; Tier: Classroom-wide supports; Sessions: 1; Duration: 90 minutes.

Tier 1
5/30

Alyssha Walker

Behavior Interventionist

Responding Positively to Redirection

This lesson aims to help students with low cognitive deficits learn how to respond positively to redirections. By using active and game-based learning strategies, students will engage in activities that promote understanding and practice of appropriate responses. This lesson is important as it equips students with essential social skills, reducing aggressive behavior and improving classroom dynamics.

Tier 2
2/25
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ARDRENA MCLEAN

Special Education Teacher

Responding Positively to Redirection

This lesson aims to help students with low cognitive deficits learn how to respond positively to redirections. By using active and game-based learning strategies, students will engage in activities that promote understanding and practice of appropriate responses. This lesson is important as it equips students with essential social skills, reducing aggressive behavior and improving classroom dynamics.

Tier 2
2/25

Bonita Williams

Instructor

Pause, Process, Prevent

This 20-minute lesson for 11th-grade boys teaches strategies to de-escalate fighting responses. It helps students recognize anger and frustration, redirect aggressive impulses, and choose constructive actions over reactive ones. Learning these skills is crucial for fostering healthier relationships and preventing conflicts in and out of school.

Tier 1
10/16
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madeline.weight

Instructor

Managing Anger and Conflict

This lesson plan is designed to help a 7th-grade student manage their anger and reduce physical aggression when they don't get their way. Over three weeks, the student will engage in activities that teach them to recognize anger, understand its consequences, and practice coping skills. This lesson is important as it equips the student with essential emotional regulation skills, promoting healthier interactions and reducing conflict.

Tier 3
2/25
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Michele Figueroa

Social Worker

Ready to Respond?

A small-group training designed for school counselors to recognize early warning signs of student distress and practice de-escalation strategies through guided scenarios. This Tier 2 workshop equips adults with trauma-informed practices to enhance school climate in a 40-minute session.

Tier 2
9/4
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Mina Bradley-Belcaid

Instructor

Crisis Toolkit

A small-group program offering targeted tools and strategies for students who need extra support in de-escalating emotions during crisis moments. This 30-minute Tier 2 (group) session for 7th graders helps them identify triggers, practice de-escalation skills, and create personalized safety plans.

Tier 2
5/7
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Art Fergusson

District Administrator

Calm in the Storm

In this 90-minute individual session, adult learners will master de-escalation strategies to handle high-tension interactions effectively. This lesson equips participants with practical communication tools, emotional regulation techniques, and real-life role-play practice to enhance workplace and personal conflict resolution.

Tier 3
5/28

Alyssha Walker

Behavior Interventionist

Unmasking Behavior Functions

In this 90-minute Tier 1 professional development session, teachers will learn about the four primary functions of student behavior—escape, attention, sensory, and tangible—and how to apply strategies to address them proactively. This lesson equips teachers with practical tools to understand why behaviors occur and to create classroom environments that minimize challenging behaviors.

Tier 1
5/30

Alyssha Walker

Behavior Interventionist

Super Calm Strategies

This 30-minute Tier 1 lesson for 5th graders introduces classroom-wide strategies to help students with autism manage defiant behavior and outbursts. Students will learn self-regulation tools, practice calming techniques, and engage in supportive activities that foster empathy and a positive learning environment.

Tier 1
9/10

kjohangiry

Counselor

Your Choices, Your Power

This Tier 3 intervention is designed for a 9th-grade student exhibiting verbal aggression towards staff, class refusal, and academic failure. Over a single 30-minute session, it aims to empower the student to identify triggers, understand consequences, and develop coping strategies for managing emotions and improving school engagement.

Tier 3
10/9
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kscorzella

Social Worker

Positive Response Adventure

This lesson is designed to help a non-verbal student with pathological demand avoidance respond positively to teacher requests. Through a game-based and experiential learning approach, the student will engage in activities that encourage compliance without aggression. This lesson is important as it provides a safe and supportive environment for the student to practice responding to demands, which can improve his interactions and reduce stress.

Tier 3
2/25
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Jason Stewart

Special Education Teacher

Triggers and Tactics

Dive into identifying common triggers and practicing targeted coping tactics through interactive scenarios, paving the way for proactive behavior management in a one-on-one setting with a 6th grade student. This Tier 3 behavioral support lesson helps students recognize personal triggers and apply coping strategies, fostering self-awareness and goal-oriented behavior over a 55-minute session.

Tier 3
6/5
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Justine Wassef

Behavior Interventionist

Coping Strategies Adventure

This lesson engages a 3rd grader with impulsivity in a game-based learning activity to identify coping strategies in stressful academic settings. By using scenario-based activities, the student will learn to recognize stress triggers and apply appropriate coping mechanisms. This lesson is important as it equips the student with essential skills to manage stress, enhancing their academic performance and emotional well-being.

Tier 3
2/25

Ryan Holt Ph.D.

Psychologist

Hands to Myself

In this individual 30-minute session, we'll teach a 7th grader with autism how to manage and replace hitting, spitting, and water-throwing behaviors with positive coping strategies. Through visual social stories, role-play, and self-monitoring tools, students learn to identify triggers, practice self-control techniques, and track progress. This targeted Tier 3 intervention fosters self-regulation and promotes safer social interactions.

Tier 3
5/30
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Joleen Shillingford

Counselor

Peaceful Problem Solvers

In this one-session, 30-minute Tier 3 individual lesson for 4th graders, students will learn and practice key conflict resolution skills like identifying feelings, using “I” statements, and brainstorming solutions. This targeted intervention supports IEP and 504 needs by offering scaffolded language supports, visual cues, and personalized feedback.

Tier 3
6/20
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avolis

Social Worker

Conflict: Handle with Care!

This 45-minute lesson for 9th-grade students explores effective strategies for resolving conflicts respectfully, particularly in professional settings. It emphasizes communication skills and empathy to foster positive relationships and productive environments.

Tier 1
Tuesday

Jessica

Instructor

Calm and Cool Strategies

This lesson is designed for a 7th grader with autism who has been exhibiting challenging behaviors such as flipping desks, hitting his paraprofessional, and using profanity. Over three 30-minute sessions, the student will learn strategies to manage emotions and behaviors effectively. This lesson is crucial as it empowers the student with tools to handle stress and frustration, promoting a positive and safe learning environment.

Tier 3
4/2
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Joleen Shillingford

Counselor

Coping Strategies Game

This lesson engages students in a game-based activity to explore and practice positive coping strategies in a classroom setting. By participating in this experiential learning activity, students will learn how to remain calm and manage their emotions effectively, which is crucial for their behavioral development and success in school.

Tier 1
2/25
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Shari Attebery

Counselor

Coping Skills Adventure

This lesson engages a 3rd-grade student with impulsivity in a game-based activity to identify appropriate coping skills across various scenarios. By using relatable situations from the classroom, recess, and physical education class, the student will learn to apply coping strategies effectively. This lesson is crucial for helping students manage their emotions and reactions, fostering a more positive and productive learning environment.

Tier 3
2/25

Ryan Holt Ph.D.

Psychologist

What Would You Do?

Engage students in scenario-based discussions to practice emotional regulation in hypothetical challenging situations. This lesson is important as it helps students develop critical emotional regulation skills, which are essential for managing stress and making thoughtful decisions. Designed for 9th-grade students, this lesson is intended to be completed in a single 25-minute session and is classified as Tier 3: Individual support.

Tier 3
3/28
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Alissa Wright

Counselor

Conflict Coping Toolkit

This 10-minute individualized lesson, designed for a 9th-grade non-binary student with an IEP, focuses on identifying and practicing healthy coping mechanisms for social conflicts. It aims to provide practical strategies to navigate challenging social situations more effectively. The lesson is tailored to the student's individual needs as a Tier 3 support.

Tier 3
10/14
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Roberte Souverin

Counselor

Behavior Management Strategies

This lesson focuses on equipping Tier III high school students with strategies to avoid negative behaviors such as cutting class and inappropriate conduct. By watching a short video on managing peer pressure and engaging in a guided discussion, students will learn practical techniques to make positive choices and resist negative influences. This lesson is crucial for fostering self-awareness and decision-making skills, empowering students to take control of their actions and improve their school experience.

Tier 3
2/25
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Michael Clavin

Instructor

Positive Attention & Problem-Solving

This 30-minute Tier 3 individual lesson for an 8th-grade student with autism focuses on teaching positive ways to ask for attention and effective problem-solving strategies, addressing past challenging behaviors. This lesson will help the student manage emotions and communicate needs constructively.

Tier 3
9/30
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Joleen Shillingford

Counselor

Mindful Regulation and Safe Responses

This lesson focuses on helping students manage their responses to social and environmental triggers through cognitive exposure and practice. By using trauma-informed teaching, active learning, and project-based learning strategies, students will engage in activities that promote self-regulation and safe behavior responses. This lesson is crucial for developing emotional intelligence and resilience, enabling students to navigate challenging situations effectively.

Tier 1
2/25
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Francesca Styles

Behavior Interventionist

What Do We Do Now

A whole-class lesson that introduces students to recognizing and responding calmly during a behavioral crisis, building a shared language and safety plan to foster a supportive classroom environment. This Tier 1, 45-minute lesson for 6th graders equips students with strategies to de-escalate and seek help, strengthening classroom safety and emotional resilience.

Tier 1
6/16
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Rae Britton

Counselor, School Administrator

Calm in the Storm

A 90-minute interactive session for parents on de-escalation strategies to defuse conflicts with their children. This group workshop equips parents with practical communication techniques, emotional regulation tools, and role-play scenarios to foster calmer home environments.

Tier 2
5/28

Alyssha Walker

Behavior Interventionist

How Can We Stay Calm?

A 30-minute small-group workshop for 4th graders focused on teaching self-regulation strategies to students who struggle with impulse control. Tier 2 targeted behavioral supports equip students with practical calm-down techniques to foster a more peaceful classroom climate.

Tier 2
9/7
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Senada Cosovic

General Education Teacher

Cool Heads, Clear Choices

This 15-minute Tier 2 lesson for 2nd and 3rd graders focuses on teaching students how to resolve conflicts peacefully, without resorting to physical contact. It directly supports IEP goals related to non-physical conflict resolution by providing practical strategies and practice opportunities.

Tier 2
9/16
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Tamika Biggers

Counselor

Cool Heads, Clear Choices

This 15-minute Tier 2 lesson for 2nd and 3rd graders focuses on teaching students how to resolve conflicts peacefully, without resorting to physical contact. It directly supports IEP goals related to non-physical conflict resolution by providing practical strategies and practice opportunities.

Tier 2
9/16
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Tamika Biggers

Counselor

Stop the Hit

In this 15-minute individual support session, 4th graders will learn how to manage anger and resolve conflicts without resorting to hitting. Through discussion, guided role-play, and reflection, students will practice using words and calming strategies to handle frustration. This Tier 3 intervention strengthens social skills and fosters a safer classroom environment.

Tier 3
8/26
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Kendell Simms

Math

Impulse Control and Communication

This lesson focuses on helping students with autism manage impulsivity and verbal threats through self-awareness and communication strategies. By engaging in activities that promote emotional regulation and effective communication, students will learn to recognize their impulses and express themselves in a positive manner. This lesson is important as it equips students with essential skills to navigate social interactions and reduce conflicts.

Tier 3
2/25
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Victoria Douglas

Behavior Interventionist

Impulse Control and Communication

This lesson focuses on helping students with autism manage impulsivity and verbal threats through self-awareness and communication strategies. By engaging in activities that promote emotional regulation and effective communication, students will learn to recognize their impulses and express themselves in a positive manner. This lesson is important as it equips students with essential skills to navigate social interactions and reduce conflicts.

Tier 3
2/25
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Shequeta Harris

Behavior Interventionist

Calm in the Chaos

In this 90-minute, one-session workshop for parents, participants will learn practical de-escalation strategies to manage and diffuse tense situations with children and teens. By mastering these skills, parents will foster calmer home environments, strengthen relationships, and model healthy emotional regulation.

Tier 1
5/28

Alyssha Walker

Behavior Interventionist

Speak Up, Calm Down

This lesson combines occupational therapy and social work to teach 3rd graders about self-advocacy and self-regulation. Students will learn how to express their needs and manage their emotions effectively, which are crucial skills for their personal and academic growth. The lesson is designed for a single 30-minute session, providing classroom-wide support.

Tier 1
4/29
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mesullivan

Counselor, Social Worker

My Behavior Map

In this individualized Tier 3 behavior support session, a 2nd-grade student will use a visual timeline to identify challenging behaviors, triggers, and plan alternative choices. This 25-minute intervention fosters self-monitoring and planning skills, crucial for developing positive behavior patterns.

Tier 3
5/9
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Kylie Taniguchi

Counselor

Signal for Support

In this quick 15-minute session, 9th graders learn a three-step self-advocacy process—recognize when they need help, signal support staff, and state their request clearly—to confidently ask for assistance in class. This life skill boosts confidence, ensures access to support, and helps students thrive academically and socially.

Tier 2
9/5
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dandre

Counselor, Social Worker, Behavior Interventionist

What’s Your Calm Code?

Students learn to identify personal stress triggers and develop individual calm-down strategies. This proactive lesson empowers the whole classroom to recognize early warning signs and practice self-regulation. Intended for a 5th grade class in a single 45-minute session under Tier 1 Behavioral Supports.

Tier 1
7/29
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Eva Fedd

Counselor

Managing Emotions and Behavior

This lesson is designed for a 7th grader with autism to help them understand and manage their emotions, specifically focusing on not hitting others. The lesson will include interactive activities and a video to engage the student, and it will last for 60 minutes.

Tier 3
2/25
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Joleen Shillingford

Counselor

Calm Signals

In this 20-minute, Tier 3 support lesson for a 6th grader, the student co-creates a personal, discreet signal system to request help without interrupting class. This student-centered approach empowers them with self-advocacy skills and seamless support, fostering independence and confidence.

Tier 3
8/31
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Karen J D Frigillana

Special Education Teacher

Cool Down, Not Blow Up!

This intervention provides undergraduate students with a practical, at-home strategy to manage and reduce the impact of anger. It teaches a cognitive behavioral technique to identify triggers and apply coping skills. Designed for individual use (Tier 3) and takes approximately 30 minutes.

Tier 3
Tuesday
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Natalie Santiago

Counselor, Social Worker, Behavior Interventionist

Safe Signals

Small-group instruction on using nonverbal signals to request help or breaks; improves communication and reduces disruptions. This Tier 2 lesson for a 4th grade group spans one 30-minute session and equips students with practical tools for managing their needs in the classroom.

Tier 2
6/9
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Debbe Lowe

General Education Teacher

Trauma-Informed Toolbox

This 50-minute, group-focused lesson equips counselors and interventionists with concrete strategies to recognize trauma signs and apply de-escalation scripts in real time. By the end, participants will have a ready-to-use trauma-informed toolkit for supporting students. Audience: Adult professionals. MTSS Tier: 2. Includes embedded practice and collaborative planning.

Tier 2
7/22
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Brianne

Parent

Calm Down Steps

In this 30-minute one-on-one session, the student will learn simple self-regulation strategies (Stop, Breathe, Count, and Choose) to manage frustration and big emotions. This Tier 3 behavior intervention empowers Kindergarteners with a personal calm-down toolkit, reinforcing emotional awareness and positive behavior through modeling and guided practice.

Tier 3
7/25
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Jaleh Kashani-Al Arab

Behavior Interventionist

Cool Heads, Calm Hearts

In this 40-minute Tier 1 anger management session for adult forensic patients, participants will learn practical strategies to identify anger triggers, apply coping techniques, and reflect on personal progress. This lesson empowers adults to manage intense emotions safely, improving behavior and relationships.

Tier 1
6/2
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Sheryce Rice - CDHS

Counselor, Psychologist, Social Worker

Cool Heads Prevail

A four-session individual program designed to help high school students who have experienced fighting learn conflict resolution, understand the consequences of violence, and practice de-escalation strategies. Each 30-minute session builds skills for self-awareness and peaceful problem-solving.

Tier 3
7/8
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torilittle

School Administrator

Behavioral Intervention Quest

Help students recognize and self-manage impulses through gamified behavior interventions. This lesson equips elementary students with strategies to enhance self-control and focus through playful quests.

Tier 1
5/20
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Avery Hower

Special Education Teacher

Conflict Catcher: Stay Calm

This 30-minute lesson for 7th-grade students teaches practical strategies for managing emotions and staying calm during conflicts. By understanding their triggers and practicing calming techniques, students will learn to de-escalate situations and respond thoughtfully, improving their relationships and overall well-being.

Tier 1
Tuesday
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Sheela Pagkalinawan

Special Education Teacher

Creating a Supportive Classroom

This lesson aims to equip students with strategies to create a supportive and inclusive classroom environment. By understanding the importance of respect, kindness, and effective communication, students will learn how to manage disruptive behaviors and support peers with explosive behavior. This lesson is crucial for fostering a positive learning environment where all students feel valued and understood.

Tier 1
2/25
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Aisha Squalli

Counselor

Calm Down Techniques

Discover effective techniques to calm down and manage stress in everyday situations. This lesson is essential for improving emotional intelligence and resilience.

Tier 1
2/26
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Kayle Jordan

Counselor

Respectful Behavior Toolbox

In this 90-minute parent workshop, caregivers will learn practical, respectful strategies to handle challenging child behaviors. This session equips parents with communication tools, de-escalation techniques, and actionable routines to create a positive home environment.

Tier 1
5/30

Alyssha Walker

Behavior Interventionist

Self-Control Superpower

An individualized 15-minute support plan to help a 1st grade student identify emotional triggers and develop self-control strategies through personalized cool-down techniques. This tailored lesson focuses on behavioral supports and empowers the student to recognize feelings, track triggers, and reflect on progress one-on-one.

Tier 3
8/26
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Joi Sears

Parent

Real Strength: Cool Heads

In this 30-minute group session, 9th grade students learn practical coping skills and conflict resolution strategies to replace physical or verbal fighting, helping them navigate peer disrespect without violence. This Tier 2 lesson uses interactive discussions and activities to challenge 'street rules' thinking and empower students with real-world tools to de-escalate conflicts.

Tier 2
5/16
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R Silva

Social Worker, Special Education Teacher

Managing Your Anger: Practical Techniques

This lesson aims to educate middle school students on effective anger management techniques. Through a combination of video content, readings, activities, and discussions, students will learn practical steps to manage their anger healthily and constructively. This lesson is crucial as it helps students develop emotional regulation skills that are essential for their overall well-being and interpersonal relationships.

Tier 1
2/25
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CHRISTY DESKOVITZ

Counselor

Managing Anger with Empathy

This lesson focuses on teaching 4th-grade students with anger management needs how to handle triggering situations using problem-solving strategies. Through experiential and game-based learning, students will learn to play cooperatively, ask questions politely, and check their perspectives. This lesson is crucial for helping students develop emotional regulation and social skills, which are essential for their personal and academic growth.

Tier 2
2/25

Iana Aguilera

Instructor

Managing Conflict Moments

This 30-minute Tier 3 individual lesson helps a 9th-grade student with a Multiply Disabled - Specific Learning Disability and ADHD develop conflict management skills. It focuses on identifying conflict triggers, expressing feelings effectively, and seeking support when overwhelmed, aligning with their IEP goals for self-awareness and social-emotional learning.

Tier 3
10/7
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Jada Murray

Social Worker

Speak Your Calm

A ten-session, 30-minute Tier 3 counseling series for an 8th-grade student with ODD, teaching how to identify triggers, express anger using “I” statements, and practice coping strategies. This scaffolded plan supports self-regulation, reduces outbursts, and builds mature communication skills.

Tier 3
8/14
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Hannah Ryan

Social Worker

Chill Out: Conflict Control

This lesson helps 7th-grade students in a small group setting learn to manage their anger effectively during conflicts. Over 30-40 minutes, students will practice modulating their voices, recognizing signs of escalating anger, and developing coping strategies for unavoidable frustrations. This is crucial for fostering responsible decision-making and healthy social interactions.

Tier 2
Tuesday
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mrivera

Counselor

From Fists to Words

In this 30-minute individual lesson, 10th-grade students will learn strategies to manage and de-escalate physical altercations. By practicing conflict-resolution skills, students will be empowered to replace aggression with positive communication and self-control. Audience: 10th grader; Duration: 1 session of 30 minutes; Tier: 3 (Individual Lesson).

Tier 3
6/18
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spoirier

Social Worker

Calm in the Chaos

In this two-session behavior-focused mini-unit, small groups of students will explore what drives disruptive behavior and learn strategies to self-regulate and support positive classroom environment. By understanding triggers and practicing constructive responses, students build self-awareness and collaborative skills.

Tier 2
8/5

Gwendolyn Greer

Counselor

The Ripple Effect

An individualized support plan showing how one positive act can influence peers, with targeted reflections and goal-setting for a 6th grader in a 20-minute session. This Tier 3 behavioral support helps the student recognize their impact and set personal goals.

Tier 3
8/19
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Elijah Glenn

General Education Teacher

Impulse Control Toolkit

An individualized support plan providing real-time impulse control strategies and visual reminders for a 4th grade student, fostering self-regulation and confidence during 20-minute one-on-one sessions.

Tier 3
8/31
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Szocs Andras

Special Education Teacher

Emotional Superpowers: Navigating Feelings at Camp

This lesson is designed to provide emotional support to a 10-year-old child who is emotionally dysregulated at camp. The goal is to help the child recognize and manage their emotions effectively, using redirection techniques. This single 5-minute session will focus on empowering the child with emotional awareness and coping strategies, crucial for their well-being and social interactions at camp.

Tier 3
4/1

Pattie Pultorak

Social Worker

Speak Up, Stand Out

Empowering a 10th grader to confidently advocate for their needs and navigate peer interactions. In this 15-minute Tier 3 session, the student will learn self-advocacy strategies, practice using "I" statements, and develop an action plan to handle peer challenges.

Tier 3
6/13
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Ryan Holt

Psychologist

Calm Corners

A small-group intervention where 3rd grade students create personalized calm-down spaces and routines, fostering self-regulation and positive behavior. This Tier 2 support spans one 30-minute session, providing practical tools to help students manage emotions.

Tier 2
5/27
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Nancy Benowitz

Special Education Teacher

What Pushes Your Buttons?

Investigate common triggers and stressors that lead to disruptive behavior and develop strategies to manage them. This lesson helps students understand their emotional responses and equips them with tools to handle stress effectively. It's designed for a classroom setting as a Tier 1 behavioral intervention, suitable for students of all ages.

Tier 1
4/6
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Gina Guerrero

School Administrator

Frustration SOS

In this two-session, Tier 3 individual support lesson, students who struggle with biting and hitting will learn strategies to recognize and manage frustration. Each 20-minute session includes a targeted lesson plan, engaging activity, interactive game, and guided discussion to build emotional regulation skills.

Tier 3
9/12

Myriam Baquero

Counselor

The Power of Pause

This individualized support plan teaches an 8th grade student a brief mindful pause technique to regulate emotions during challenging moments. Over a single 20-minute session, the student will learn steps, practice a guided dialogue, reflect on their experience, and set personal goals. This plan empowers self-regulation skills in real time.

Tier 3
8/26
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Diane DeRienzis

General Education Teacher

Think First

This individualized resource provides targeted strategies and practice for a student struggling with specific impulsive behaviors. It's vital for offering personalized support and building coping mechanisms for challenging situations. Audience: 3rd Grade Student. Duration: 25 minutes. 1 session.

Tier 3
9/17
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Katie Lewis

Instructor

Mastering Behavior Support

In this 30-minute Tier 3 training, clinical staff will learn to design and implement personalized behavior support plans for individual students. This session covers assessment, strategy selection, and monitoring progress, empowering clinicians with practical tools to improve student outcomes.

Tier 3
8/1
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phuckaby

Psychologist

Walk Away: Conflict Exit

This lesson teaches 8th-grade students practical strategies for disengaging from conflicts peacefully to reduce aggressive behaviors like fighting. It empowers students with a crucial life skill for managing peer interactions. Designed for a single 30-minute session.

Tier 1
10/14
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Victoria Douglas

Behavior Interventionist

Peaceful Problem Solvers

This lesson focuses on teaching students effective conflict resolution skills through engaging role-playing and problem-solving activities. Students will learn to communicate effectively and find peaceful solutions to disagreements, which are essential skills for their social and emotional development. By practicing these skills, students will be better equipped to handle conflicts in a constructive manner, fostering a more harmonious classroom environment.

Tier 1
2/25
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Denise Lasky

Counselor

Distract & Combat: Your Way

This individual 15-minute lesson for 7th graders focuses on personalized strategies to manage overwhelming emotions or situations using 'distract' and 'combat' techniques. It empowers students to identify and practice healthy coping mechanisms.

Tier 3
10/6
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Gena Robinson

Special Education Teacher

Behavior Boost

In this engaging 30-minute classroom lesson, 6th-grade ESL students develop positive behavior skills by understanding triggers, practicing coping strategies, and building a supportive peer environment. This Tier 1 session sets the foundation for a respectful classroom culture and equips students with social-emotional tools to reduce negative behaviors.

Tier 1
7/30
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Tracey Bennett

Counselor

Skillful Scenarios

In this lesson, students will engage in an experiential learning activity where they will be presented with various scenarios requiring the use of calming or problem-solving skills. This lesson is important as it helps students develop critical thinking and emotional regulation skills, which are essential for navigating everyday challenges.

Tier 1
2/25

Ryan Holt Ph.D.

Psychologist

Conflict & Anger Management Adventure

This lesson plan is designed to help 4th grade students learn how to manage conflict and anger through engaging activities and a video. By using Game-Based Learning, students will explore different strategies to handle their emotions effectively. This lesson is important as it equips students with essential life skills to navigate social interactions and maintain healthy relationships.

Tier 1
2/25
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Ali Shwartz

Instructor

Conflict Resolution Skills

Students will learn techniques to resolve conflicts peacefully and effectively, improving their interpersonal relationships. This lesson is crucial for fostering a supportive and cooperative classroom environment, specifically designed for a 3rd-grade group. The session will last 30 minutes and is classified as Tier 2: Group support, focusing on small group instruction to enhance specific skills.

Tier 2
3/4

Nicole Walsh

Counselor

Peace Pathways

In this 45-minute lesson for 9th graders, students will learn and practice conflict resolution strategies to handle disagreements respectfully and effectively. This lesson is designed for Tier 1 classroom-wide support and includes interactive activities, discussions, and reflection to build lifelong social-emotional skills.

Tier 1
9/11
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Theresa Franklin

Counselor

Coping Skills in Action

This lesson focuses on reinforcing coping skills that the student has previously learned, with an emphasis on practical application in the classroom setting. By engaging in a hands-on activity and reflective discussion, the student will better understand how to apply these skills in real-life situations, ultimately enhancing their emotional regulation and classroom behavior.

Tier 3
2/25

Erica Carlos

Psychologist

Social Support Toolkit

A 90-minute Tier 1 training session to equip teachers with strategies to support shy, anxious, and aggressive students in building positive peer interactions. This lesson helps teachers create an inclusive classroom climate by learning practical techniques and activities they can implement immediately.

Tier 1
5/30

Alyssha Walker

Behavior Interventionist

Express & Advocate Skills

A 30-minute Tier 2 group training for clinical staff on strengthening interpersonal and social skills, learning to identify and express emotions effectively, and practicing self-advocacy strategies. This session equips staff with tools to support clients and colleagues in emotional expression and assertive communication.

Tier 2
8/25
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Gabrielle Self

Social Worker

Behavior Busters

A small-group intervention to help 5th grade students recognize emotional triggers and practice self-regulation with peer support and targeted feedback. This Tier 2, 30-minute session series equips students with tools to identify triggers, discuss strategies, and commit to positive actions in a supportive group setting.

Tier 2
9/12

rachel.sewell

Counselor

Signals for Support

This lesson helps 11th-grade students create personal regulation and support plans. Students will learn to identify early warning signs of stress and utilize classroom signals to request support, fostering a proactive approach to their well-being. This 30-minute lesson focuses on practical, actionable strategies for self-regulation and help-seeking. Audience: 11th Grade. Duration: 30 minutes.

Tier 1
Wednesday
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tammilia.grace

Special Education Teacher