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Peaceful Paths

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Peaceful Paths Workshop Guide

Students will learn and practice three key strategies for de-escalating conflicts and finding peaceful solutions in everyday situations.

Learning how to resolve conflicts peacefully is a vital life skill. It helps students build stronger friendships, feel more confident, and create a positive environment for everyone.

Audience

4th Grade Group

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Through discussion, visuals, and role-playing, students will actively engage with conflict resolution.

Materials

Peaceful Paths Slide Deck, and Role-Play Conflict Scenarios Activity

Prep

Review Materials

10 minutes

Step 1

Introduction: What is Conflict?

5 minutes

  • Begin by asking students what comes to mind when they hear the word "conflict."
    - Facilitate a brief discussion, emphasizing that conflict is a natural part of life and doesn't have to be negative.
    - Introduce the concept of finding "peaceful paths" to resolve disagreements. (Refer to Peaceful Paths Slide Deck - Slide 1)

Step 2

Explore De-escalation Strategies

10 minutes

  • Present three key de-escalation strategies using the Peaceful Paths Slide Deck:
    1. Stop, Breathe, Think: Taking a moment to calm down before reacting.
    2. Use "I" Statements: Expressing feelings and needs without blaming.
    3. Find Common Ground: Looking for solutions that work for everyone.
    - For each strategy, discuss why it's effective and provide a simple example.

Step 3

Role-Play Practice

10 minutes

  • Divide students into small pairs or groups.
    - Distribute the Role-Play Conflict Scenarios Activity cards.
    - Instruct students to choose a scenario and practice using the de-escalation strategies they just learned.
    - Circulate among groups, offering guidance and positive feedback.

Step 4

Share and Reflect

5 minutes

  • Bring the groups back together.
    - Ask a few volunteers to share how they used the strategies in their role-plays.
    - Conclude by reiterating the importance of choosing peaceful paths and that these skills get easier with practice. (Refer to Peaceful Paths Slide Deck - Slide 5)
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Slide Deck

Welcome to Peaceful Paths!

What is a Conflict?

Sometimes, friends or classmates don't agree. This is called a conflict.

It's a normal part of life! But how we handle it matters.

Today, we'll learn ways to find peaceful paths to solve problems!

Welcome students and introduce the topic of conflict. Ask them what 'conflict' means to them. Emphasize that it's okay to have disagreements, but it's important how we handle them.

Strategy 1: Stop, Breathe, Think

When things get heated, what should you do?

  1. STOP: Take a moment.
  2. BREATHE: Take a deep breath.
  3. THINK: What's the best way to handle this?

This helps you calm down and choose your words wisely!

Introduce the first strategy: Stop, Breathe, Think. Explain that pausing helps us calm down before reacting. Ask for examples of when this might be useful.

Strategy 2: Use "I" Statements

Speak for yourself, not at others!

Instead of saying:

  • "You always take my ball!"

Try saying:

  • "I feel sad when my ball is taken without asking, because I want to play with it."

This helps others understand how you feel.

Introduce 'I' Statements. Explain the difference between blaming ('You always...') and expressing feelings ('I feel...'). Give a simple example: "You made me mad!" vs. "I feel frustrated when...".

Strategy 3: Find Common Ground

Look for a win-win!

Can you find a solution that works for everyone?

  • Maybe you can take turns?
  • Maybe you can combine ideas?
  • Maybe you can find a completely new solution?

The goal is for everyone to feel heard and respected.

Introduce finding common ground. Explain that a good solution makes everyone feel a little bit happy, not just one person winning. Ask for ideas on how to find common ground.

Let's Choose Peaceful Paths!

Remember our strategies:

  1. Stop, Breathe, Think!
  2. Use "I" Statements!
  3. Find Common Ground!

These tools will help you resolve conflicts and build stronger relationships.

Practice makes perfect!

Review the strategies and encourage students to use them. Emphasize that practice makes perfect. Congratulate them on learning these important skills.

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Activity

Role-Play Conflict Scenarios

Instructions: Work with a partner or small group. Choose one scenario below. Practice using the "Stop, Breathe, Think," "I" Statements, and "Find Common Ground" strategies to resolve the conflict peacefully.

Scenario 1: The Shared Toy

You and your friend both want to play with the same popular toy during free time. Neither of you wants to give it up.

  • How do you feel?
  • What can you say using an "I" statement?
  • What is a peaceful solution you can both agree on?












Scenario 2: Group Project Ideas

You are working on a group project, and your idea is very different from your partner's idea. You both think your idea is best.

  • How do you feel when your ideas clash?
  • How can you express your feelings without blaming?
  • Can you find a way to combine your ideas or create a new one together?












Scenario 3: Accidental Bump

Someone accidentally bumps into you in the hallway, and your books fall. You feel annoyed and think they did it on purpose.

  • What should you do before reacting?
  • What can you say to understand what happened?
  • How can you resolve this without getting angry?












Scenario 4: Different Game Rules

You and your friends are playing a game, but two of you have different ideas about the rules. It's causing an argument.

  • How can you calmly discuss the rule differences?
  • What is fair for everyone?
  • Can you come up with a new rule that satisfies both sides?












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