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Super Calm Strategies

Lesson Plan

Super Calm Strategies

Students will learn and practice self-regulation strategies to manage defiant behavior and outbursts, and will identify calming tools to use when feeling overwhelmed.

Building self-regulation skills helps all students—especially those with autism—to recognize emotions early, reduce classroom disruptions, and stay engaged in learning.

Audience

5th Grade Students

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Model, practice, and reflect on calming strategies in a supportive setting.

Prep

Prepare Materials

10 minutes

Step 1

Warm-Up

5 minutes

  • Greet students and invite them to choose an Emotion Check Warm-Up Card
  • Ask each student to name the emotion on their card and share a time they felt it
  • Model labeling your own feeling and why accurate naming matters for calming

Step 2

Introduction

5 minutes

Step 3

Guided Practice (Game)

10 minutes

  • Divide students into small groups around the Calming Strategies Game Board
  • Take turns drawing scenario cards and choosing a calming strategy to move forward on the board
  • Encourage peers to support each other and discuss why strategies work

Step 4

Independent Practice (Worksheet)

5 minutes

  • Hand out the Self-Regulation Worksheet
  • Students read short scenarios and write or draw which calming tool they would use and why
  • Circulate to prompt thinking and provide sentence starters as needed

Step 5

Cool-Down

5 minutes

  • Invite students to the calming corner and select a Cool-Down Reflection Card
  • Students reflect silently (or draw) on today’s strategy that helped most
  • Voluntarily share one takeaway and place their card in a reflection basket
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Slide Deck

Super Calm Strategies

Learning self–regulation tools to manage strong emotions and stay focused in class.

Welcome everyone! Today we’re going to learn ways to stay calm when we’re upset or frustrated. Use this title slide to introduce the lesson and set a positive tone.

Today’s Goal

By the end of our lesson, you will:

  1. Understand what self-regulation means
  2. Identify triggers for outbursts
  3. Practice two calming strategies

Explain the goal in student-friendly language. Emphasize that these tools help everyone, not just students with big feelings.

What Is Self-Regulation?

Self-regulation means noticing your feelings early and using tools to calm down before you have an outburst.

Define self-regulation and give a quick classroom example (e.g., taking a breath before speaking). Encourage students to ask questions.

Common Triggers

• Loud noises or sudden surprises
• Feeling rushed or pressured
• Confusion about instructions
• Peer disagreements

List simple triggers. Invite students to raise hands if they’ve felt these situations. Keep it brief and relatable.

Classroom Calming Tools

• Fidget toy
• Noise-reducing headphones
• Stress ball
• Calm-down corner (soft pillows)
• Coloring sheets

Show pictures or icons of each tool on your Classroom Calming Tools Chart. Explain that students can use any of these when they notice big feelings.

Strategy 1: Deep Breathing

  1. Sit comfortably
  2. Inhale slowly to a count of 4
  3. Hold for 2 seconds
  4. Exhale slowly to a count of 4
  5. Repeat 3 times

Model the breathing: place one hand on your chest and one on your belly. Breathe in for 4 seconds, hold 2, exhale 4. Have students practice with you.

Strategy 2: 5-4-3-2-1 Method

• 5 things you see
• 4 things you feel
• 3 things you hear
• 2 things you smell
• 1 thing you taste

Explain the 5-4-3-2-1 sensory countdown. Ask students to name examples aloud. Use it as a grounding technique.

Practice & Reflection

• Game: Choose a strategy for different scenarios
• Worksheet: Draw or write which tool you’d use
• Cool-down: Reflect on your favorite tool

Remind students they’ll practice these in the game and worksheet. Encourage them to try tools when they feel upset.

You’ve Got This!

Remember, everyone has big feelings sometimes. Using these strategies helps you stay super calm and ready to learn.

Thank students for participating. Invite them to share one new tool they’ll try next time they feel upset.

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Game

Calming Strategies Game Board

Objective: Students practice selecting and applying calming strategies in realistic classroom scenarios while playing a fun, cooperative board game.

Materials Needed:

  • Calming Strategies Game Board (1 per group)
  • Game tokens (1 per student)
  • Scenario Card Deck (print & cut) Scenario Cards
  • Strategy Reference Cards (brief reminders of each tool) Strategy Reminder Cards
  • One six-sided die per group

Game Setup (1 minute):

  1. Place the game board in the center of each small group.
  2. Each student chooses a token and places it on the “Start” space.
  3. Shuffle the Scenario Card Deck and place it face-down by the board. Shuffle the Strategy Reference Cards and fan them nearby.
  4. Decide play order (youngest to oldest or rock-paper-scissors!).

How to Play (10 minutes):

  1. On your turn, roll the die and move your token forward that many spaces.
  2. Read the Scenario Card aloud (or have a peer read). Each card describes a trigger or challenging moment (e.g., “You hear a loud fire drill when you’re in the middle of a test.”).
  3. Choose one calming strategy from the Strategy Reference Cards that would help in this scenario. Show your card to the group and explain how you’d use it.
    • If the group agrees (thumbs up), move forward 1 extra space as a “support bonus.”
    • If the group has questions, you can swap for another strategy and explain again.
  4. Play passes to the next student.
  5. First player to reach the “Calm Corner” space wins—but everyone celebrates each other’s successes!

Example Scenario Cards:

  • “Someone bumped into you in line, and you felt embarrassed.”
  • “You can’t find your assignment and the clock is ticking.”
  • “A friend said something unkind to you at recess.”
  • “Lightning flashed and the classroom lights went off.”
  • “You have three assignments due and feel overwhelmed.”

Strategy Reference Cards:

  • Deep Breathing (4-2-4 count)
  • 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Method
  • Use a stress ball or fidget toy
  • Visit the calm-down corner for 2 minutes
  • Draw/color a quick picture of your feelings

Differentiation & Support:

  • Students who struggle to explain can draw their strategy in a small notebook and point to it.
  • Offer sentence starters on the board: “I would use ___ because it helps me ___.”
  • Allow non-verbal students to gesture or point to strategies instead of speaking.

Extension:
After the game, invite students to choose one strategy they haven’t tried before and practice it silently for 1 minute. Discuss how it felt.




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Warm Up

Emotion Check Warm-Up Cards

Instructions: Print and cut these cards. Distribute one card to each student. Ask them to read the emotion aloud and share a brief example of when they felt that way.

EmotionPrompt
HappyShare a time you felt happy.
SadDescribe something that made you feel sad.
AngryTalk about a moment you felt angry.
ExcitedTell us about something you felt excited for.
CalmDescribe something that helps you feel calm.
NervousShare a time you felt nervous.
SurprisedTalk about a surprise you experienced.
ProudName something that made you feel proud.
ScaredDescribe something that scared you and how you coped.
FrustratedShare a moment you felt frustrated and what you did.
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Activity

Classroom Calming Tools Chart

Display this chart near the calm-down corner or at the front of the classroom. When you notice big feelings, choose a tool and head to the spot where it lives.

ToolHow to UseLocation
Fidget ToySqueeze, spin, or twist to release nervous energyCalm-down corner container
Noise-Reducing HeadphonesPut on to block out distractions and loud noisesHook by the classroom door
Stress BallSqueeze slowly and release to ease tensionTeacher’s desk drawer
Calm-Down CornerSit on soft pillows, use quiet activities (books, plush)Back corner of the classroom
Coloring SheetsDraw or color to focus your mind on something calmingBaskets on the shelf in the corner

Encourage students to choose one tool, practice it for 2 minutes, and share how it helped them feel calmer with a friend or adult.

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Worksheet

Self-Regulation Worksheet

Name: ________________________ Date: _____________

Use the Classroom Calming Tools Chart or your memory of today’s strategies to help you complete each part. You can draw or write your answers in the spaces provided.


Part 1: Choose a Strategy

Read each scenario below. Under the scenario, write or draw the calming tool you would use and explain why it helps you.

  1. Scenario: You realize you left your homework at home right before class starts. You feel worried and your stomach twists.

Which tool would you choose? Why?







  1. Scenario: A fire drill siren goes off while you’re taking a reading quiz. The noise makes it hard to focus.

Which strategy will you use? Why?







  1. Scenario: During recess, a friend ignores your greeting and you feel upset and alone.

What calming tool can help you calm down? Why?







  1. Scenario: The teacher gives confusing directions for a new art project. You start to feel frustrated and want to shut down.

Which tool or strategy would you pick? Why?








Part 2: Plan Your Calm

a) When I notice my body getting tense or my thoughts racing, I will use ___________ because ____________________________________________________.







b) My favorite calming tool is ___________. I like it because ___________________________________________________.








Part 3: Draw Yourself Staying Calm

In the space below, draw or sketch yourself using one of the strategies we practiced today. Show how you look and what tool or technique you’re using.












Great work! Keep this worksheet as a reminder of tools you can try whenever you feel upset or overwhelmed.

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Cool Down

Cool-Down Reflection Cards

Instructions: Print and cut these cards. Place them face-up in a basket or spread them out. At cool-down time, each student picks one card, turns it over, and writes or draws their response on the back. Collect cards in a reflection basket.

Prompt
1. Which strategy helped you feel calm today? Why?
2. When did you notice your body starting to relax?
3. What calming tool will you try next time you feel upset?
4. How did deep breathing or the 5-4-3-2-1 method help you?
5. What will you do if you feel frustrated tomorrow?
6. Draw yourself using your favorite calming tool.
7. How do you feel now compared to the start of class?
8. Who can you ask for help when you need a calm break?
9. What one word describes how you feel after using a strategy?
10. How will you remind yourself to use these tools outside of class?
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