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  1. Peer Support & Allyship
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Peer Support & Allyship

Discover a curated collection of free resources focused on building relationship skills through peer support and allyship. This page empowers educators, students, and parents with actionable activities, ready-to-use lessons, and real-world scenarios that foster empathy, communication, and inclusive leadership. Unlock practical strategies to nurture supportive peer connections and create a more compassionate learning environment.

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Your Squad: Peer Support & Allyship

This lesson introduces students to the core concepts of peer support and allyship, empowering them to build a supportive community. Students will learn practical strategies to offer and receive support, and how to stand up for others. Designed for Middle School and High School Students, this lesson is 1 session long and takes approximately 60 minutes.

Tier 1
9/23
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ConceptX

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AR General Education Teacher

Friendship Challenge

This lesson engages 4th-grade students in a game-based activity to explore problem-solving in difficult situations with friends and support anti-bullying. Through role-playing and discussion, students will learn strategies to stand up for themselves and others, fostering a supportive and inclusive environment. This lesson is important as it empowers students with the skills to handle conflicts and promotes a positive school culture.

Tier 1
2/25
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Sophia Perlmutter

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NY Social Worker

Building Supportive Peer Networks

This lesson focuses on building supportive relationships among classmates through discussion, role-play, and group exercises. Students will learn how to offer and seek support, fostering a sense of community and belonging. This lesson is important as it helps students develop social-emotional skills, enhances empathy, and creates a positive classroom environment.

Tier 1
2/25

Suzanne Graun

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AZ Counselor

Friendship Skills

This is a 30-minute Tier 2 small-group workshop for 6th graders focused on CASEL Relationship Skills—empathy and cooperation. Students will engage in interactive activities to practice perspective-taking, collaborate on role-play challenges, and reflect on supportive peer interactions.

Tier 2
5/13
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Karen Sullivan

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MA Counselor, Social Worker, Behavior Interventionist

Emotion Commotion: Taming Your Feelings

This lesson helps middle school students identify, understand, and manage their emotions in healthy ways. It's crucial for developing emotional intelligence and building resilience. This lesson is designed for one 45-minute session.

Tier 1
Sunday
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Joanna Plata

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NJ Counselor, Psychologist, Behavior Interventionist

Ally Up!

This targeted resource provides practical strategies for students to identify situations where a peer needs an ally and how to effectively step in. Empowering students to advocate for others fosters a safer and more inclusive school environment. This lesson is for a 7th Grade Group and will take approximately 60 minutes.

Tier 2
9/25
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Pamela Sarria Eskenazi

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CA Counselor

Your Squad: Peer Power!

This lesson empowers 5th and 6th-grade students to understand and practice peer support and allyship. It teaches them how to be a supportive friend and an advocate for others, fostering a positive and inclusive classroom community. This lesson will be completed in one 60-minute session.

Tier 1
9/22
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ConceptX

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AR General Education Teacher

Friendship Toolkit

A six-session module for 6th graders to develop essential friendship skills like empathy, communication, and conflict resolution in fun, interactive 30-minute lessons. Building strong peer relationships supports social-emotional growth and a positive classroom community.

Tier 1
9/12
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Laura Dyer

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OH Counselor

Friendship Quest

This lesson engages students in a game-based activity designed to build relationships and enhance social skills. Through interactive play, students will learn the importance of teamwork, communication, and empathy. This lesson is crucial for developing interpersonal skills that are essential for personal and academic success.

Tier 1
2/25

Bri’Anca Jordan

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TN Instructor

Who's Got Your Back? Discovering Your Support Squad

In this engaging 1st-grade lesson, students will explore the concept of support systems by identifying the people in their lives who help them. This lesson is important as it fosters emotional awareness and helps students recognize the importance of seeking help and building relationships. The session will last 30 minutes and include a fun game to reinforce learning.

Tier 1
2/27

Katie Ray

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TX Counselor

Be a PAL: Peer & Ally Leaders!

This lesson teaches 5th and 6th graders the importance of peer support and allyship. Students will learn practical strategies to support their friends and be an ally to others. This single-session lesson is designed for a one-hour class.

Tier 1
9/23
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ConceptX

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AR General Education Teacher

Circle of Support

In this 30-minute Tier 1 counseling session for 7th graders, students will explore the power of peer support and active listening, learning skills to build a stronger classroom community. This lesson fosters empathy, communication, and self-awareness, equipping students with tools to support themselves and each other.

Tier 1
5/22
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Laura Evendorff

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CA Psychologist

Support System Match-Up

In this lesson, students will engage in a game-based activity to match various school-related scenarios with the appropriate support figures, such as teachers, counselors, or deans. This lesson aims to normalize the importance of seeking help and navigating school and emotional stress. By understanding who to approach for different issues, students will be better equipped to manage their school life effectively.

Tier 1
2/25

Robyn Bilotta

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CT Instructor

Friendship: Level Up!

This 30-minute lesson for 7th-grade students focuses on developing empathy and practical skills for being a good friend. It's important because strong friendships contribute to positive social-emotional well-being and a supportive classroom community. Designed for a single session.

Tier 1
9/22
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Bianca Mauro

CANADA General Education Teacher

Friendship Helpers

In this quick, engaging 15-minute lesson, 1st graders explore three superpowers for getting along—kindness, cooperation, and clear communication—to build a supportive classroom community. Through a lively warm-up, role-play scenarios, and reflective sharing, students practice real-life social skills that foster empathy and teamwork.

Tier 1
5/27
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Jordyn Dowd

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IN General Education Teacher

Your Buddy's Back!

This lesson teaches Primary 3 & 4 students the importance of peer support and allyship. Students will learn practical ways to be a good friend and stand up for others, fostering a positive classroom community. This one-hour lesson includes various activities to engage young learners.

Tier 1
9/24
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ConceptX

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AR General Education Teacher

Buddy Up! Inclusion Rocks

In this 30-minute Tier 1 lesson, second graders learn to recognize and respond when peers target someone with disabilities, fostering empathy and inclusion. Students will practice strategies to support classmates and build a respectful classroom community.

Tier 1
8/12

Caroline Rose Anastasi

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MA Counselor

Friendship Quest

This lesson engages Grade 7 students in understanding the components of healthy friendships through a game-based activity, collaborative learning, and inquiry-based discussion. By exploring these elements, students will develop social-emotional skills that are crucial for building and maintaining positive relationships.

Tier 1
2/25
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Sydney Menard

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MA Psychologist

Friendship SOS

This interactive 35-minute session helps 2nd graders practice building friendship skills and resolving small conflicts through role-play, discussion, and positive reinforcement. It empowers students to be supportive friends and enhances classroom community.

Tier 3
6/3
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Shannon Songin

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MA Counselor, Behavior Interventionist

Bounce Back Buddies

In this 30-minute Tier 1 lesson for 1st graders, students will learn simple strategies to handle friendship ups and downs, understand feelings, and practice making up after disagreements. By building empathy and conflict-resolution skills, kids will feel more secure in their friendships and reduce the cycle of “I’m not your friend anymore.”

Tier 1
5/17
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Alexis McAndrew

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FL General Education Teacher

Friendship and Support

This lesson focuses on teaching 3rd-grade students the importance of friendship and peer support for mental wellness. Through interactive activities and discussions, students will learn how to identify qualities of a good friend, understand the value of supporting peers, and practice empathy. This lesson is crucial for fostering a supportive classroom environment and helping students develop essential social-emotional skills.

Tier 1
2/25

Allison Thibodaux-Wing

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CA Psychologist

Classmate Heroes

In this 30-minute Tier 1 lesson, 6th graders will learn what it means to be supportive, respectful classmates and practice simple acts of kindness. This foundational social-emotional learning lesson helps build a positive classroom community and empowers students with real-life strategies for cooperation and empathy.

Tier 1
9/3
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sheryl.bauer

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NM Counselor

Who's Got Your Back? Building Your Support Squad

In this engaging 3rd-grade lesson, students will explore the concept of a support system and identify the people in their lives who 'have their back.' This lesson is crucial for fostering social-emotional awareness and helping students recognize the importance of community and relationships. The session will include a mix of reading, activities, and a fun game to reinforce the concept, all within a 30-minute timeframe.

Tier 1
2/27

Katie Ray

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TX Counselor

Mastering the Art of Friendship

This lesson focuses on teaching 7th graders essential social skills to build and maintain friendships. By understanding the importance of communication, empathy, and conflict resolution, students will be better equipped to form meaningful relationships. This single 30-minute session will provide students with practical strategies to enhance their social interactions, fostering a supportive and inclusive classroom environment.

Tier 1
4/11
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karen.putnam

Instructor

Friendship Web

A 1-on-1 series empowering a 1st grader to explore their social connections, understand different friendship roles, and set personal goals for inclusive play. This Tier 3 CASEL-aligned lesson is delivered in three 20-minute sessions to foster self-awareness and relational skills in a safe environment.

Tier 3
8/31
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Janani Rayan

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US Counselor

Building Bridges: Friendship and Empathy

In this lesson, students will explore the importance of empathy in building strong friendships. Through interactive activities and discussions, they will learn how to understand and support their friends, fostering a more inclusive and caring classroom environment. This lesson is crucial for developing social-emotional skills that are essential for creating a supportive and inclusive community.

Tier 1
2/25

Courtenay Labson

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MA Counselor

Friendship Fun

This lesson aims to help first-grade students understand the importance of friendship and how to rebuild it through fun and engaging activities. By using game-based learning and restorative practices, students will learn how to communicate effectively, show empathy, and work together to solve problems. This lesson is crucial for developing social skills and fostering a positive classroom environment.

Tier 1
2/25

Sydney Reynolds

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NY Special Education Teacher

Super Social Skills: Teamwork and Friendship Fun

This engaging 30-minute lesson for 1st graders focuses on developing essential social skills through teamwork and friendship activities. By participating in group activities and games, students will learn how to communicate effectively, cooperate with peers, and build positive relationships, which are crucial for their social development and success in school.

Tier 1
3/13

Delilah Murray

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NY Counselor

Building Community Through Peer Support

This lesson introduces students to the concept of Peer Support Circles, where they can share thoughts and feelings in a supportive environment. It aims to build a sense of community and improve communication skills among students. By participating in these circles, students will learn to express themselves openly and listen empathetically to others, fostering a supportive classroom environment.

Tier 1
2/25
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Imani Russell

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MI Social Worker, Special Education Teacher, Behavior Interventionist

Friendship Fixers

In this 30-minute, single-session lesson, 5th graders will explore empathy by examining real-life friendship conflicts and practicing active listening and perspective-taking. Understanding empathy in friendships helps students build healthier relationships, resolve disagreements peacefully, and foster a positive classroom community.

Tier 1
7/14

Cassy Ryley

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CA Counselor

Friendship Builders: Creating Our Classroom Community

Designed for grades 3-5, this engaging lesson explores the essential elements of strong friendships, such as empathy, active listening, and problem-solving. Students will learn actionable steps to build and maintain positive peer relationships, fostering a supportive classroom environment.

Tier 1
Monday
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Lee Hughes

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TN Social Worker

Ready, Set, Connect!

In this 30-minute Tier 1 lesson for 7th graders, students will learn essential relationship skills—empathy, active listening, and healthy communication—through engaging activities. By the end, they’ll be better equipped to build positive connections with peers and navigate social interactions with confidence.

Tier 1
8/26
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Michele Burgess

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TN Special Education Teacher

Friendship Superpowers!

This 30-minute lesson for 4th-grade students helps them develop stronger peer relationships by understanding different perspectives and practicing key friendship-making skills. It incorporates ABA and ACT strategies to build empathy and connection.

Tier 1
Yesterday
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Scott Penna

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MA Behavior Interventionist

Friendship Building Challenge

This lesson engages students in a game-based activity designed to help them introduce themselves and build new friendships. Through a series of interactive and collaborative tasks, students will learn effective communication and social skills. This lesson is important as it fosters a sense of community and belonging, which is crucial for students' social-emotional development and well-being.

Tier 1
2/25
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Julia McGary

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MA Counselor

The Friendship Formula

In this single 30-minute Tier 1 SEL lesson, 7th graders will explore the key elements of healthy friendships—communication, trust, empathy—and practice skills to build and maintain strong peer relationships. By engaging in interactive activities and reflective discussions, students will gain confidence in identifying positive qualities in themselves and others, setting the stage for supportive, lasting friendships.

Tier 1
5/12
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Itzel Perez

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CA Counselor

Friendship Circle

In this 15-minute Tier 1 lesson, 1st Grade students will explore the qualities of a good friend and practice friendship skills through discussion and a cooperative activity. Building these social-emotional skills helps students create a positive classroom community and develop lifelong relationship habits.

Tier 1
7/30
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Tatianna Davis

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IL General Education Teacher

Friendship Forces: Building Your Crew

This lesson helps two 8th-grade students identify challenging classes and build resilience in forming new, positive friendships. It addresses social-emotional well-being and anxiety coping strategies for a 30-minute group session.

Tier 2
9/16
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ldemoraes

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MA Counselor

Allyship Adventures

In this engaging lesson, 1st graders will explore the concept of allyship, learning how to support and stand up for their friends and classmates. This lesson is important as it fosters empathy, kindness, and inclusivity from a young age, helping students build a supportive classroom community. The session will last 30 minutes and is designed for a Tier 1 classroom setting.

Tier 1
4/25

Courtenay Labson

S

MA Counselor

Be A Buddy

An 8-session, one-on-one individual support series teaching 3rd–5th graders the importance of kindness and the harms of bullying. Through engaging warm-ups, discussions, activities, games, and differentiated worksheets, each 20-minute session builds empathy and conflict-resolution skills. Tier 3 ensures tailored pacing and supports to meet each student’s unique needs.

Tier 3
9/8
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Zachary Covington

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NC Instructor

Building Friendships

This lesson is designed to help children ages 9-10 learn how to build and maintain healthy friendships. The lesson includes interactive activities, group discussions, and a reflection period to help students identify key characteristics of good friends and practice social skills.

Tier 1
2/25

Tamara peay

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TN English

Buddy Up!

In this 30-minute Tier 1 lesson for 2nd graders, students will explore what makes a good friend, practice kind communication, and celebrate friendship through interactive activities. This lesson helps young learners build social-emotional skills, empathy, and positive classroom relationships.

Tier 1
5/26

Ainslie Murray

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CA General Education Teacher

Mastering the Art of Friendship

This lesson focuses on teaching 7th-grade students essential social skills to build and maintain healthy friendships. By understanding the importance of communication, empathy, and conflict resolution, students will be better equipped to navigate social interactions. This 30-minute session is designed to be engaging and interactive, providing students with practical tools to enhance their social lives.

Tier 1
4/4
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Виктория Андрухович

Instructor

Friendship Quest

In this 30-minute Tier 2 group session for 6th graders, students will engage in fun, structured icebreakers and team-building activities to build connections and practice social skills. This lesson fosters a supportive classroom community by encouraging open communication and empathy.

Tier 2
9/9
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Julie Donovan

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MA Counselor

Empathy Builders

This resource focuses on developing empathy skills among 7th-grade students, which is a cornerstone of a compassionate and respectful school climate. It's important for resolving conflicts and building stronger peer relationships. Designed for a 60-minute session with a small group of 7th-grade students.

Tier 2
9/22
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Jennifer Hogue

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TX General Education Teacher

Cheer On Your Crew!

This lesson teaches 3rd-6th grade students the importance of encouraging and celebrating their friends. Through interactive activities, discussions, and a video, students will learn practical ways to uplift their peers. This lesson is designed for a 45-minute group session and focuses on building positive friendships.

Tier 2
Monday
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Ronica Lien

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CA Counselor

Be a Buddy, Not a Bully!

This lesson introduces Pre-primary 1 and 2 students to the concepts of peer support and allyship. Students will learn how to be kind, helpful friends and stand up for others, fostering a positive classroom environment. This single session is designed for 60 minutes.

Tier 1
9/24
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ConceptX

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AR General Education Teacher

Pressures of the Playground

This small group activity focuses on the subtle forms of peer pressure that occur in everyday school settings. Students will learn strategies to resist negative influences and build supportive friendships. This lesson is crucial for helping students navigate social dynamics and develop resilience against peer pressure, fostering a positive school environment. Designed for a 7th-grade group, this session will last 30 minutes and is classified under Tier 2: Group Supports.

Tier 2
3/20
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Kayle Jordan

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NC Counselor

Why Be an Ally?

A classwide exploration for 3rd graders on why supporting peers matters, fostering kindness and trust in everyday interactions. This Tier 1, 30-minute session uses stories, discussions, and hands-on activities to build relationship skills and peer support.

Tier 1
8/28
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Trà Khánh Vy Nguyễn

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SC General Education Teacher

Friendship Fun

This lesson helps students identify and describe healthy peer relationships through engaging activities. Understanding healthy relationships is crucial for social development and emotional well-being, fostering a supportive and inclusive environment.

Tier 1
2/25

Ryan Holt Ph.D.

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CA Psychologist