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Mindful DBT Journey Plan

Provide a 16‐week DBT group curriculum for K–5 students, introducing mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness through playful activities, icebreakers, and visual handouts each session.

This structured, tier-2 DBT program builds self-awareness, coping skills, and positive social behaviors for neurodiverse elementary students, reducing challenging behaviors.

Audience

Grades K–5, Tier 2 group support

Time

30 minutes per session

Approach

Weekly themes with interactive, multi-sensory activities

Materials

Glitter Jars & Spoons, Bubble Wands, Five-Senses Scavenger Checklist, Wise Mind Character Cards, Calm Box Items, TIPP Skills Cue Cards, Change the Channel Cards, ACCEPTS Strategies Poster, Color Monster Feelings Chart, Feelings Thermometer Sheets, Fact vs. Feeling Sorting Mats, Opposite Action Choice Board, DEAR MAN Skeleton, GIVE Skills Prompt Cards, FAST Skills Reminder Sheet, and DBT Jeopardy Game Board

Prep

Gather & Prep Materials

45 minutes

Step 1

Session 1: Introduce Mindfulness

30 minutes

  • Icebreaker: Play Mindful Simon Says (slow stretching, gentle tapping)
  • Lesson: Explain “mindfulness” as paying attention to right now.
  • Activity: Make and shake glitter jars; watch calm as glitter settles.
  • Game: Glitter Jar Freeze – when jar stops moving, freeze in place.
  • Visual Handout: Glitter Jar Visualization
  • Script: "Today we're going to slow down like this jar. Notice how your breathing can settle your mind. Shake, watch, and breathe deep."
  • Differentiation: Offer step-by-step picture sequence cards for students needing extra structure.

Step 2

Session 2: Bubble Breathing

30 minutes

  • Icebreaker: Bubble Popping Race (gentle, 1:1 pacing)
  • Lesson: Teach “bubble breathing” to calm big feelings.
  • Activity: Demonstrate deep breaths by blowing bubbles; count as they rise.
  • Game: Bubble Trail – follow bubble path with eyes and breathe.
  • Visual Handout: Bubble Breathing Guide
  • Script: "We breathe in slowly to fill our tummies, then blow out gently like these bubbles."
  • Differentiation: Provide visual breathing exhale cue (color changing chart).

Step 3

Session 3: Five Senses Scavenger Hunt

30 minutes

  • Icebreaker: Sound Bingo (identify classroom sounds)
  • Lesson: Use senses to anchor in the present.
  • Activity: Small teams find items matching each sense on checklist.
  • Game: Sensory Relay – pass a mystery object, describe by sense.
  • Visual Handout: Five Senses Scavenger Hunt
  • Script: "Notice colors, textures, smells to help your mind stay calm right now."
  • Differentiation: Pair students to support varied reading levels.

Step 4

Session 4: Wise Mind

30 minutes

  • Icebreaker: Emotion Charades (act out happy, sad, calm)
  • Lesson: Introduce Wise Mind (head, heart, and balanced mind).
  • Activity: Sort statements into Head Mind vs. Heart Mind vs. Wise Mind.
  • Game: Wise Mind Tag – tag peers with ‘head’, ‘heart’, or ‘wise’.
  • Visual Handout: Wise Mind Character Chart
  • Script: "Head mind thinks facts. Heart mind feels strong feelings. Wise mind balances both."
  • Differentiation: Use picture icons for each “mind” concept.

Step 5

Session 5: Building Your Calm Box

30 minutes

  • Icebreaker: Show & Tell (bring one calming item)
  • Lesson: Explain Calm Box for self-soothing items.
  • Activity: Choose items (stress ball, soft fabric) and decorate box.
  • Game: Calm Box Mystery – guess item by touch, then practice.
  • Visual Handout: Calm Box Assembly Guide
  • Script: "When big feelings come, open your Calm Box and use what helps you."
  • Differentiation: Offer templates for decorating for fine motor support.

Step 6

Session 6: Simplified TIPP Skills

30 minutes

  • Icebreaker: Quick Energy Burst (jumping jacks)
  • Lesson: Teach Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, Progressive muscle tensing.
  • Activity: Rotate through 4 TIPP stations.
  • Game: TIPP Bingo – mark each skill as practiced.
  • Visual Handout: TIPP Skills Cue Cards
  • Script: "Use these skills when you feel your body racing. Try ice or a fast walk."
  • Differentiation: Modify exercise intensity per ability.

Step 7

Session 7: Change the Channel

30 minutes

  • Icebreaker: TV Remote Freeze (freeze when teacher says ‘change channel’)
  • Lesson: Distract and redirect thoughts like changing TV channels.
  • Activity: Create “channels” on cards (colors, jokes, songs).
  • Game: Channel Race – switch cards and practice redirecting.
  • Visual Handout: Change the Channel Cards
  • Script: "When upsetting thoughts play, flip to a happier channel in your mind."
  • Differentiation: Pre-select channels for students who need fewer choices.

Step 8

Session 8: ACCEPTS Strategies

30 minutes

  • Icebreaker: Accept or Decline? (peer suggestions)
  • Lesson: Teach ACCEPTS: Activities, Contributing, Comparisons, Emotions, Pushing away, Thoughts, Sensations.
  • Activity: Role-play one ACCEPTS each.
  • Game: ACCEPTS Scavenger – find classroom examples.
  • Visual Handout: ACCEPTS Strategies Poster
  • Script: "When upset, try doing something fun, help a friend, or imagine a happy place."
  • Differentiation: Use social stories for each strategy example.

Step 9

Session 9: Identifying Feelings

30 minutes

  • Icebreaker: Emotion Musical Chairs
  • Lesson: Introduce feeling vocabulary with Color Monster story.
  • Activity: Match feeling words to Color Monster slides.
  • Game: Feeling Freeze Tag – tag and name a feeling.
  • Visual Handout: Color Monster Feelings Chart
  • Script: "What color is your feeling? Let’s name it to understand it."
  • Differentiation: Provide word banks for emerging readers.

Step 10

Session 10: Feeling Thermometer

30 minutes

  • Icebreaker: Temperature Check (rate excitement on count of 1–5)
  • Lesson: Teach how to “check the facts” and rate feelings.
  • Activity: Draw personal feeling thermometer; rate current mood.
  • Game: Thermometer Relay – move up/down cones by feeling intensity.
  • Visual Handout: Feelings Thermometer Sheet
  • Script: "Is the situation really dangerous or is your thermometer reading high? Let’s check facts."
  • Differentiation: Use number lines for students needing extra support.

Step 11

Session 11: Fact vs. Feeling

30 minutes

  • Icebreaker: True or False statements
  • Lesson: Differentiate objective facts from subjective feelings.
  • Activity: Sort scenario cards on mats labeled Fact vs. Feeling.
  • Game: Fact/Feeling Toss – toss beanbag into correct bin.
  • Visual Handout: Fact vs. Feeling Sorting Mats
  • Script: "Facts are what happened; feelings are how we react."
  • Differentiation: Provide paired reading support.

Step 12

Session 12: Opposite Action

30 minutes

  • Icebreaker: Mirror emotions in partners
  • Lesson: Teach opposite action to change mood (e.g., wave when shy).
  • Activity: Choose scenarios and pick opposite action from board.
  • Game: Opposite Action Charades
  • Visual Handout: Opposite Action Choice Board
  • Script: "If you’re grumpy, try smiling to trick your brain into feeling better."
  • Differentiation: Use photo prompts for each scenario.

Step 13

Session 13: DEAR MAN Basics

30 minutes

  • Icebreaker: Role-play ordering lunch politely
  • Lesson: Introduce DEAR MAN: Describe, Express, Assert, Reinforce, Mindful, Appear confident, Negotiate.
  • Activity: Fill in skeleton script for asking a friend to share a toy.
  • Game: DEAR MAN Role-play Stations
  • Visual Handout: DEAR MAN Skeleton
  • Script: "Use DEAR MAN to ask clearly and stand up for yourself respectfully."
  • Differentiation: Provide sentence starters for each step.

Step 14

Session 14: GIVE Skills

30 minutes

  • Icebreaker: Compliment Circle
  • Lesson: Teach GIVE: Gentle, Interested, Validate, Easy manner.
  • Activity: Practice active listening in pairs with prompts.
  • Game: GIVE Relay – pass validation ball with new compliment.
  • Visual Handout: GIVE Skills Prompt Cards
  • Script: "Show you care by listening and using kind words."
  • Differentiation: Use visual social story demonstrating each skill.

Step 15

Session 15: FAST Skills

30 minutes

  • Icebreaker: Fair or Not? scenarios discussion
  • Lesson: Teach FAST: Fair, Apologies, Stick to values, Truthful.
  • Activity: Sort statements that show/hide FAST skills.
  • Game: FAST Skit – perform short skits modeling skills.
  • Visual Handout: FAST Skills Reminder Sheet
  • Script: "Speak your truth kindly and keep your promises."
  • Differentiation: Offer sentence frames for skit dialogue.

Step 16

Session 16: Review & Celebration

30 minutes

  • Icebreaker: DBT Karaoke – sing your favorite skill name
  • Lesson: Quick recap of all four modules.
  • Activity: DBT Jeopardy reviewing key concepts.
  • Game: Jeopardy using DBT Jeopardy Game Board
  • Visual Handout: Certificates of Completion
  • Script: "You’ve learned amazing tools! Let’s celebrate your journey."
  • Differentiation: Celebrate individual progress with personalized notes.
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Mindful DBT Journey

A 16-week DBT skills program for K-5 students
• Mindfulness
• Distress Tolerance
• Emotion Regulation
• Interpersonal Effectiveness

Each 30-min session: Lesson • Activity • Game • Handout

Welcome everyone! Introduce yourself and the purpose of this 16-week journey. Highlight that we’ll learn skills to notice thoughts, manage big feelings, and build stronger friendships.

Today’s Agenda

  1. What is DBT?
  2. Our Four Modules
  3. How Sessions Work
  4. Questions

Review today’s roadmap. Emphasize that every week we’ll practice new skills in playful, multi-sensory ways, with visual supports for all learners.

Our Four Modules

Module 1: Mindfulness (Weeks 1-4)
Module 2: Distress Tolerance (Weeks 5-8)
Module 3: Emotion Regulation (Weeks 9-12)
Module 4: Interpersonal Effectiveness (Weeks 13-16)

Briefly define each module so students know what’s ahead—and get excited about trying fun activities each week.

Session 1: Glitter Jar Mindfulness

Lesson: What is mindfulness?
Activity: Make & shake glitter jars
Game: Glitter Jar Freeze
Handout: Glitter Jar Visualization

Icebreaker: Mindful Simon Says. Script: “Today we’ll slow down like this jar. Shake, watch, and breathe deep.”

Session 2: Bubble Breathing

Lesson: Bubble breathing to calm big feelings
Activity Prompt: Blow & count bubbles
Game Prompt: Bubble Trail (follow with eyes)
Handout: Bubble Breathing Guide

Icebreaker: Bubble Popping Race. Script: “We breathe in slowly to fill our tummies, then blow out gently like these bubbles.”

Session 3: Five Senses Scavenger Hunt

Lesson: Anchor in the present with your senses
Activity: Team scavenger hunt
Game: Sensory Relay
Handout: Five Senses Scavenger Hunt

Icebreaker: Sound Bingo. Script: “Notice what you see, hear, smell, taste, and touch to help your mind stay calm right now.”

Session 4: Wise Mind

Lesson: Head Mind vs. Heart Mind vs. Wise Mind
Activity: Sort statement cards
Game: Wise Mind Tag
Handout: Wise Mind Character Chart

Icebreaker: Emotion Charades. Script: “Head mind thinks facts. Heart mind feels strong feelings. Wise mind balances both.”

Session 5: Building Your Calm Box

Lesson: What is a Calm Box?
Activity Prompt: Decorate & fill your box
Game Prompt: Calm Box Mystery Touch
Handout: Calm Box Assembly Guide

Icebreaker: Show & Tell calming items. Script: “When big feelings come, open your Calm Box and use what helps you.”

Session 6: Simplified TIPP Skills

Lesson: Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, Progressive muscle tensing
Activity: Rotate through TIPP stations
Game: TIPP Bingo
Handout: TIPP Skills Cue Cards

Icebreaker: Quick Energy Burst. Script: “Use these skills when you feel your body racing. Try ice, a fast walk, or muscle squeezes.”

Session 7: Change the Channel

Lesson: Distract and redirect thoughts
Activity Prompt: Create your favorite “channels”
Game Prompt: Channel Race switcheroo
Handout: Change the Channel Cards

Icebreaker: TV Remote Freeze. Script: “When upsetting thoughts play, flip to a happier channel in your mind.”

Session 8: ACCEPTS Strategies

Lesson: A.C.C.E.P.T.S techniques
Activity: Role-play each strategy
Game: ACCEPTS Scavenger Hunt
Handout: ACCEPTS Strategies Poster

Icebreaker: Accept or Decline? Script: “When upset, try doing something fun, help a friend, or imagine a happy place.”

Session 9: Identifying Feelings

Lesson: Feeling vocabulary with Color Monster
Activity: Match words to monster slides
Game: Feeling Freeze Tag
Handout: Color Monster Feelings Chart

Icebreaker: Emotion Musical Chairs. Script: “What color is your feeling? Naming it helps us understand it.”

Session 10: Feeling Thermometer

Lesson: Rate feelings & check facts
Activity: Draw personal thermometer
Game: Thermometer Relay cones
Handout: Feelings Thermometer Sheet

Icebreaker: Temperature Check. Script: “Let’s check our facts—how hot is our feeling thermometer?”

Session 11: Fact vs. Feeling

Lesson: Distinguish facts from feelings
Activity: Sort scenario cards
Game: Fact/Feeling Toss
Handout: Fact vs. Feeling Sorting Mats

Icebreaker: True or False statements. Script: “Facts are what happened; feelings are how we react.”

Session 12: Opposite Action

Lesson: Change mood with opposite action
Activity: Pick scenario & act opposite
Game: Opposite Action Charades
Handout: Opposite Action Choice Board

Icebreaker: Mirror emotions. Script: “If you’re grumpy, try smiling to trick your brain into feeling better.”

Session 13: DEAR MAN Basics

Lesson: D-E-A-R-M-A-N steps
Activity: Fill in a DEAR MAN script
Game: Role-play stations
Handout: DEAR MAN Skeleton

Icebreaker: Role-play ordering lunch politely. Script: “Use DEAR MAN to ask clearly and stand up for yourself respectfully.”

Session 14: GIVE Skills

Lesson: G-I-V-E communication skills
Activity: Active listening pair practice
Game: GIVE Relay compliment ball
Handout: GIVE Skills Prompt Cards

Icebreaker: Compliment Circle. Script: “Show you care by listening and using kind words.”

Session 15: FAST Skills

Lesson: F-A-S-T self-respect skills
Activity: Sort statements by FAST
Game: FAST Skit performances
Handout: FAST Skills Reminder Sheet

Icebreaker: Fair or Not? Script: “Speak your truth kindly and keep your promises.”

Session 16: Review & Celebration

Lesson: Quick recap of all skills
Activity: DBT Jeopardy review game
Game: Jeopardy with class teams
Handout: Certificates of Completion

Icebreaker: DBT Karaoke. Script: “You’ve learned amazing tools—let’s celebrate!”

Next Steps & Contact

• Practice skills daily
• Use visual handouts at home
• Reach out with questions:
Email: teacher@school.edu

Thank everyone and share how to practice skills at home. Provide your contact for follow-up questions.

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Script

I’m updating the “Mindful DBT Journey Script” with word-for-word teacher scripts for all 16 sessions. You can review and let me know if any tweaks are needed!

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Worksheet

Glitter Jar Visualization Worksheet

Use this handout to guide you through the glitter jar mindfulness exercise. Shake your jar and watch the glitter settle as you follow the steps below.


1. Before You Shake
How do you feel right now? Write or draw your current mood and body sensations.







2. Draw Your Jar
In the space below, sketch your glitter jar. Include where the glitter starts and where it lands when it settles.

[Drawing Space]











3. Notice Your Thoughts
As you watch the glitter swirl, what thoughts come up? Write down any words or images that pop into your mind.







4. Tune into Your Body
Pay attention to how your body feels as the glitter settles:

  • Where do you feel calm or tight?
  • What changes do you notice in your breathing?

Write or draw your observations:







5. After the Glitter Settles
When the glitter stops moving, take a deep breath in and out.

How would you describe your mood now?
Answer: ______________________________________




6. Reflection
When could you use your glitter jar in your day? List two moments:






Great job! Keep this handout near your glitter jar and use it whenever you need a moment to slow down and calm your mind.

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Activity

Group Glitter Jar Practice

Use this guided group activity to practice the glitter jar mindfulness exercise together. Students will observe, reflect, and share insights in pairs and as a full group.

Materials

Activity Outline (30 minutes)

  1. Setup & Introduction (5 min)
    • Gather students in a circle.
    • Remind them of today’s goal: practice noticing thoughts, feelings, and body sensations as the glitter settles.
    • Distribute glitter jars and worksheets.
  2. Glitter Jar Observation (5 min)
    • Ask everyone to complete Step 1 (“Before You Shake”) on their worksheet.
    • At the count of three, have students shake their jars together.
    • Set the timer for 2 minutes of silent observation as the glitter swirls and settles.
  3. Individual Reflection (5 min)[Allow drawing/writing space:]















    • Invite students to finish Steps 2–5 on their worksheets while observing the jar again if needed.
    • Encourage drawing or writing:
      • What did you notice in your thoughts?
      • How did your breathing or body sensations change?
  4. Pair Share (7 min)
    • Pair students up (or form small triads).
    • Provide these reflection prompts:
      1. What was your biggest “wow” moment watching the glitter?
      2. Which part of your body felt most calm or tense?
      3. How did your mood shift from start to finish?
    • Give each student 1–2 minutes to share and listen.
  5. Whole-Group Debrief (5 min)
    • Reconvene as a circle.
    • Ask 3–4 volunteers to share one insight from their pair/trio discussion.
    • Reinforce: “Noticing small changes in our mind and body helps us practice mindfulness every day.”
  6. Closure & Next Steps (3 min)
    • Have the group take three deep, slow breaths together.
    • Remind students to keep their Glitter Jar Visualization Worksheet and use it whenever they need a calm moment.
    • Collect worksheets or invite students to take them to their Calm Boxes for future use.

This group practice builds self-awareness and sharing skills while reinforcing the glitter jar mindfulness tool. Feel free to adjust pairing or timing for your class needs!

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