Lesson Plan
Hello, Counselor! Lesson Plan
Students will meet the school counselor, share about themselves, and learn one simple coping strategy to use when feeling upset.
Building trust and introducing coping tools sets a positive tone, supports self-regulation for students with diverse needs, and fosters a safe, inclusive classroom environment.
Audience
Kindergarten–4th Grade
Time
30 minutes
Approach
Interactive introductions, reflections, and guided practice
Prep
Prepare Materials & Space
10 minutes
- Review the Counselor Introduction Slide Deck to familiarize yourself with talking points and visuals
- Print enough copies of the All About Me Worksheet for each student
- Cut and shuffle cards for the Feelings Matching Game
- Gather craft supplies (beads, string, name tags) for the Name Necklace Warm Up
- Prepare any fidget tools and visual supports for students with ADHD or autism
- Arrange seating in a circle to promote inclusion and socialization
Step 1
Warm Up: Name Necklace
5 mins
- Pass out string, beads, and name tags from the Name Necklace Warm Up
- Ask each student to choose beads representing something they like (color, shape)
- As they string, share their name and favorite thing with the group
- Provide visual supports and one-to-one assistance for fine motor needs
Step 2
Introduce the Counselor
7 mins
- Display the first slides of the Counselor Introduction Slide Deck
- Counselor shares their role: listening, helping solve problems, teaching coping skills
- Use clear visuals and simple language; pause for questions
- Use a “talk token” or visual cue for turn-taking to support students with social communication challenges
Step 3
Worksheet: All About Me
7 mins
- Hand out the All About Me Worksheet
- Prompt students to draw or write (with assistance as needed) about their favorite activity, color, and a place they feel safe
- Offer flexible response options (stickers, stamps, drawings) for students with fine motor challenges
- Circulate and praise effort, offer sentence starters if needed
Step 4
Game: Feelings Matching
5 mins
- Show cards from the Feelings Matching Game face down in the center
- Students take turns flipping two cards, naming the emotion, and finding its match
- Model naming feelings and coping statements (e.g., “I feel sad, I can ask for help”)
- Provide extra support or simplify for students who need it
Step 5
Activity: Coping Strategy Brainstorm
3 mins
- On chart paper, list one simple strategy: deep breathing
- Demonstrate the steps: inhale, hold, exhale; use hand-on-stomach visual
- Invite students to suggest other calming ideas, writing or drawing responses
- Acknowledge all contributions, ensuring every voice is heard
Step 6
Cool Down: Deep Breathing
3 mins
- Lead the class in three deep breaths using the Deep Breathing Cool Down
- Count aloud, showing fingers or a breathing visual for pacing
- Encourage students to notice how they feel afterward
- Reinforce that they can use this strategy anytime they feel upset
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Slide Deck
Hello! I'm Your School Counselor
Welcome! I’m your school counselor, Ms. Rivera. I’m here to listen, help you solve problems, and teach you ways to feel calm and happy.
Welcome students to the class. Introduce yourself by name and role. Show a friendly photo if you have one. Encourage students to wave or say hello back.
A Little About Me
• I studied at State University
• I’ve been a counselor for 5 years
• I love reading, hiking, and painting
• I have a dog named Sunny
Briefly share your background: where you studied, years of experience, and a few personal interests. Show any pictures of pets or hobbies if available.
What Does a School Counselor Do?
• Listen when you need to talk
• Help you make friends
• Teach ways to handle big feelings
• Work with teachers and families to support you
Explain each bullet: listening to feelings, helping make friends, teaching coping skills, working with teachers and families. Pause to let students ask clarifying questions.
How I Can Help You
• Provide a safe, caring space to talk
• Teach you coping strategies
• Support you when you’re upset
• Cheer you on when you succeed
Emphasize that students can visit you anytime they need help. Reinforce confidentiality: you won’t share their secrets without permission unless they’re unsafe.
Coping Strategies
• Deep breathing
• Counting to five
• Drawing or coloring
• Asking for help from a trusted adult
Introduce each coping strategy briefly, then ask students if they’ve tried any of these before. Note additional ideas on chart paper if mentioned.
Let’s Practice Deep Breathing
- Sit comfortably with hands on your stomach
- Breathe in slowly through your nose (count to 3)
- Hold for 1 second
- Exhale slowly through your mouth (count to 3)
- Repeat three times
Lead students step by step. Model with your hand on your belly to show breathing. Use a visual (fingers or a breathing ball) to pace each inhale and exhale.
Questions?
What would you like to know about school counseling?
I’m here to help you feel safe and supported!
Invite any final questions or comments. Remind students they can see you anytime in the counseling office or send a note through their teacher.
Warm Up
Name Necklace Warm Up
Materials Needed:
- Pre-cut yarn or string (about 24 inches per student)
- Large, colorful beads in various shapes
- Laminated name tags or cardstock name labels
- Permanent markers or stickers for decorating name tags
- Scissors (for teacher use to trim ends)
- Optional: bead threaders or large-holed beads for students with fine motor challenges
Steps:
- Gather students in a circle so everyone can see and hear.
- Pass out one piece of string, a handful of beads, and a name tag to each student.
- Demonstrate:
- How to write or stick their name on the tag.
- How to thread beads onto the string, explaining they can pick beads that represent something they like (e.g., blue for favorite color, star shape for a favorite shape).
- How to tie the ends of the string together when they finish.
- Invite each student, one at a time, to share their name, slide a bead on, and tell the group why they chose that bead.
- Once all beads are strung and the necklace is tied, students wear their necklaces proudly during the lesson.
Inclusion & Differentiation Strategies:
- Pre-cut the string to a manageable length to avoid students having to measure.
- Offer larger beads or use bead threaders for students with limited dexterity.
- Provide a template or visual step-by-step card showing each stage of the activity.
- Allow peer or adult assistance for students who need one-to-one support.
- For students with severe fine motor challenges, offer paper necklaces: decorate a paper strip with stickers or drawings instead of threading beads.
- Use a calm, quiet workspace and fidget tools for students who become overstimulated.
This activity warms up social interaction, fine motor skills, and helps students share about themselves in a supportive environment.
Worksheet
All About Me Worksheet
Welcome! Use words, drawings, or stickers to tell us all about yourself. There are no wrong answers—have fun!
1. My Name:
__________________________________________
2. I am ___ years old.
__________
3. Draw a picture of yourself:
[Draw Here]
4. My Favorite Activity:
What do you love to do? Write or draw below.
__________________________________________
5. My Favorite Color:
__________________________________________
6. My Safe Place
(Where I feel calm and happy—draw or write about it.)
__________________________________________
7. How am I feeling today?
Circle any that match:
[ ] Happy [ ] Sad [ ] Excited [ ] Nervous [ ] Other: ________
8. When I feel upset, I can:
Write or draw one thing I can try when big feelings come.
__________________________________________
Great job sharing about yourself! We can use this to help you feel safe and supported all year long.
Game
Feelings Matching Game
Materials Needed:
- Index cards printed with simple emotion faces and words (e.g., happy, sad, angry, scared, excited, calm)
- Two of each emotion card (for matching pairs)
- Table or floor space for laying cards face down
Setup:
- Prepare 12 cards (6 emotion pairs) and shuffle them face down in rows.
How to Play:
- Students take turns flipping over two cards.
- When a card is flipped, the student names the emotion (e.g., “This is happy.”).
- If the two cards match:
- The student keeps the pair and shares one way they could cope with that feeling (e.g., “When I feel happy, I can share my joy with a friend”).
- They take another turn.
- If the cards do not match:
- The student names one thing they could do if they ever feel that emotion (e.g., “When I feel scared, I can take deep breaths”).
- Flip the cards back face down. The next student’s turn begins.
- Continue until all pairs are found. Celebrate all students’ success rather than focusing on winning to foster cooperation.
Inclusion & Differentiation Strategies:
- Use clear, high-contrast icons and large text for students with visual challenges.
- Provide tactile cards (laminated or textured) for sensory learners.
- Reduce the number of pairs (e.g., 4 instead of 6) for students who need fewer choices.
- Offer a picture-word emotion reference chart nearby for students who need help recalling names.
- Allow play in pairs (peer or adult) for additional support.
- Use a visual timer or turn-taking cue for students who benefit from structure.
This game builds emotion recognition, memory skills, and introduces simple coping strategies in a playful, supportive environment.
Activity
Coping Strategy Brainstorm
Materials Needed:
- Large chart paper or whiteboard titled “Coping Strategies”
- Colorful markers
- Picture–word icons for common strategies (deep breathing, drawing, stretching, taking a break, etc.)
- Small blank cards or index cards for student responses
Steps:
- Gather students in a circle where everyone can see the chart paper.
- Model one strategy: say, “When I feel upset, I can take three deep breaths,” then write on the chart:
“I can take three deep breaths” and draw or place the deep-breathing icon next to it. - Prompt students: “What can YOU try when you feel big feelings like anger, sadness, or worry?”
- Use a talking token or visual cue to give each student a turn. As each child shares:
- Write their idea starting with “I can …”
- Draw or attach the matching picture icon.
- Encourage all contributions—offer sentence starters (“I can ____”) and allow drawing or pointing for non-writers.
- Once you have 5–8 strategies listed, read each one aloud, point to its icon, and briefly demonstrate or act it out.
- Hand each student a blank card. Invite them to draw or write their favorite strategy to keep at their desk or take home.
Inclusion & Differentiation Strategies:
- Provide picture–word cards as prompts for students with language delays.
- Use color–coded markers and icons for visual learners.
- Allow students with fine motor challenges to dictate their strategy to an adult or peer.
- Pair students who need extra support with a buddy for sharing and writing.
- Offer a calm workspace or fidget tool for those who may become overstimulated.
Follow-Up: Display the master chart in the classroom as a daily reminder. Collect student cards in a pocket chart so each child can quickly find and use their chosen strategy when needed.
Cool Down
Deep Breathing Cool Down
Lead students in a short, sensory-rich breathing practice to help them transition calmly out of the lesson.
Time: 3–4 minutes
Goal: Regulate heart rate, calm the nervous system, strengthen mind–body awareness.
Materials
- Visual cue (e.g., breathing ball or inflatable “breathe” ball)
- Simple finger-count visual (teacher holds up 3 fingers for inhale, 1 for hold, 3 for exhale)
- Optional: scented item (e.g., a lavender sachet) or textured object (e.g., stress ball)
Steps
- Gather & Settle (30 sec)
• Invite students to sit or stand comfortably with feet flat and hands resting on their bellies.
• Dim lights slightly or lower classroom noise to signal a transition. - Explain the Process (30 sec)
• Show the breathing visual and explain:
– When you breathe in, you fill your belly like a balloon.
– When you breathe out, you let all the air go, making the balloon deflate.
• Model placing a hand on your stomach to feel the rise and fall. - Practice Together (2 mins)
• Inhale (count to 3): Teacher holds up three fingers and breathes in slowly through the nose, demonstrating with the ball expanding.
• Hold (count to 1): Hold breath, keeping fingers up.
• Exhale (count to 3): Slowly breathe out through mouth, fingers lowering, ball deflating.
• Repeat 3–5 cycles, pausing between each for students to notice any changes in how they feel. - Add Sensory Supports (optional)
• For students who benefit: pass around a scented sachet to inhale during the “in” phase.
• Offer a stress ball or textured object to squeeze on the “exhale” to reinforce release. - Reflect & Close (30 sec)
• Ask students to put hands down and notice: “How does your body feel? Shoulders high or low? Heart calm or fast?”
• Reinforce: “You can use this anytime you feel upset, worried, or just need a break.”
• Signal end with a soft chime or gentle clap pattern.
Inclusion Strategies
- Visual learners: Use pictorial cards showing inhale–hold–exhale.
- Auditory learners: Pair breaths with a soft bell or chime for cues.
- Sensory learners: Incorporate scented items or tactile tools.
- Motor needs: Allow students to practice in their personal space with minimal movement.
- Language supports: Provide simple one-step instructions and model each phrase slowly.
This cool down promotes self-regulation, supports diverse sensory needs, and empowers students with a portable calming tool.