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Chatting Champions

Sara Andrea Mendoza

Tier 1

Lesson Plan

Chatting Champions Lesson Plan

Help 9th-grade students practice initiating conversations with 1-2 turn-taking responses while learning to use coping strategies to manage frustration or sadness.

This lesson encourages social inclusion and emotional well-being, equipping students with essential communication and coping skills for challenging situations.

Audience

9th Grade

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Interactive and engaging activities.

Materials

Chatting Champions Lesson Plan

Prep

Preparation

5 minutes

  • Review the Chatting Champions Lesson Plan details.
  • Ensure any additional materials or props needed for role-play exercises are available.
  • Prepare discussion prompts related to conversation initiation and coping strategies.
  • Familiarize yourself with simple coping strategies to share with the class.

Step 1

Introduction

5 minutes

  • Welcome students and briefly explain the lesson's objective.
  • Introduce the importance of initiating conversations and managing feelings such as frustration or sadness.
  • Outline the session's structure and what is expected during interactive activities.

Step 2

Activity: Conversation Role-Play

15 minutes

  • Organize students into pairs or small groups.
  • Assign a conversation scenario where each student practices a 1-2 turn-taking response.
  • Encourage them to incorporate a coping strategy, such as taking a deep breath or using positive self-talk if the conversation becomes challenging.
  • Circulate around the room, providing feedback and support.

Step 3

Debrief & Reflection

10 minutes

  • Bring the class together to discuss the role-play activity.
  • Ask students to share their experiences: What worked well? Which coping strategies were effective?
  • Highlight key takeaways in communication and emotional regulation.
  • Answer any questions and recap the lesson's goals.
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Slide Deck

Welcome to Chatting Champions!

Today, we will practice starting conversations & using coping strategies to handle frustration or sadness.

Welcome the students and set a friendly atmosphere. Introduce the lesson, its importance for social inclusion and emotional well-being, and the overall structure of the session.

Lesson Objectives

• Practice initiating conversations with 1-2 turn-taking responses.
• Employ coping strategies like deep breathing or positive self-talk.
• Enhance social inclusion and manage challenges in conversations.

Explain the objective of the session clearly, emphasizing both the conversation skills and the emotional coping strategies that will be used.

Session Structure

  1. Introduction (5 minutes)
  2. Conversation Role-Play (15 minutes)
  3. Debrief & Reflection (10 minutes)

Outline the session structure. Explain that the lesson includes a warm-up, role-playing activities, and a debrief for reflection.

Activity: Conversation Role-Play

Instructions:
• Form pairs or small groups.
• Practice a 1-2 turn-taking conversation.
• Use a coping strategy when the conversation gets challenging (e.g., take a deep breath, use positive self-talk).

Explain the role-play activity structure. Encourage students to practice a conversation scenario in pairs/small groups. Remind them to apply a coping strategy if needed.

Debrief & Reflection

Discussion Prompts:
• What worked well in your conversation?
• Which coping strategy helped you the most?
• How can you apply these skills in real-life situations?

This slide is for debriefing. Encourage discussion about the experience and strategy effectiveness, and summarize the key takeaways.

Thank You & Recap

Remember, good conversation and effective coping strategies can help you navigate challenging situations while maintaining positive relationships.

Conclude the session with reinforcing the importance of both effective communication and emotional coping mechanisms.

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Activity

Conversation Role-Play Activity

This activity provides students with a chance to put their conversation skills and coping strategies into practice through role-play. Students will work in pairs or small groups and follow a structured scenario for a short conversation.

Activity Setup

  1. Group Formation: Divide the class into pairs or small groups (3-4 students per group).
  2. Scenario Cards: Prepare a set of scenario cards that describe different conversation contexts (e.g., greeting a new classmate, discussing a group project, or handling a minor disagreement). These scenarios should include cues for initiating the conversation and using a coping strategy if feelings of frustration or sadness arise.
  3. Coping Strategy Guide: Display or provide a handout with simple coping strategies, such as:
    • Taking a deep breath
    • Positive self-talk
    • Asking for a short break in the conversation

Instructions for Students

  1. Role Assignment: Each student in the group chooses a role (e.g., person initiating the conversation, responsive partner, observer). The observer should note any effective use of coping strategies.

  2. Initiate the Conversation:

    • Begin with a greeting or introduction appropriate to the scenario.
    • Each participant should contribute at least 1-2 turns in the conversation. A turn consists of one contribution to the conversation (a sentence or brief comment).
  3. Implement Coping Strategy:

    • If a conversation becomes challenging or if you feel frustrated or sad, pause and use one of the coping strategies from the guide. For example, take a deep breath before responding or use positive self-talk.
  4. Switch Roles: After one round (approximately 5 minutes per scenario), rotate roles so every student practices both initiating conversation and applying a coping strategy.

Discussion Prompts (Post-Activity)

After all groups have completed at least one round of role-play, come together as a class and discuss:

  • What did you notice about how it felt to initiate the conversation?
  • Did using a coping strategy help you manage your feelings? Which one was most effective?
  • What challenges did you face in maintaining a balanced conversation?
  • How can these skills be applied to real-life situations?












This activity not only bolsters conversational skills but also reinforces the importance of managing emotional responses to ensure positive interactions.

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Worksheet

Conversation Practice Worksheet

This worksheet will help you practice initiating conversations and using effective coping strategies to manage your emotions during challenging interactions. Work through the warm-up activity first, then complete the conversation scenarios by writing out your responses and reflections.

Warm-Up Activity: Quick Conversation Starter

  1. Think of a time when you had to start a conversation with someone new. Briefly describe the situation and how you felt at the beginning.

Your Response:





  1. What was one coping strategy (like taking a deep breath or using positive self-talk) that you could use to feel more confident during a challenging conversation?

Your Strategy:





Conversation Scenario 1: Greeting a New Classmate

Imagine you are meeting a new classmate for the first time. Plan out a short conversation where you greet them and ask an open-ended question to keep the dialogue going. Also, include a moment where you use a coping strategy if you feel nervous.

  • What would you say to start the conversation?


  • How would you ask a question to know them better?


  • Describe the moment when you feel nervous and how you plan to use your coping strategy.





Conversation Scenario 2: Handling a Minor Disagreement

Consider a situation where you are discussing a group project and a minor disagreement arises. Write out a conversation that shows how you would address the disagreement while using a coping strategy to remain calm.

  • How do you initiate the conversation about the disagreement?


  • What response do you give that shows you are open to resolving the issue?


  • Explain which coping strategy you use and how it helps you manage any frustration or sadness during this dialogue.





Remember to take your time and be thoughtful in your responses. This practice aims to help you feel more comfortable starting conversations and managing emotions effectively during social interactions.

Good luck and have fun practicing!

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Warm Up

Quick Conversation Starter

This warm-up activity is designed to get you thinking about your personal experiences with initiating conversations and introduces the idea of using coping strategies when feeling nervous or uncertain.

Instructions:

  1. Think about a time when you had to start a conversation with someone new. It could be at school, during a club meeting, or any situation where you were meeting someone for the first time.

  2. In your own words, briefly describe the situation and how you felt when starting the conversation.





  3. Reflect on a time when you felt nervous about starting a conversation. What is one coping strategy (such as taking a deep breath, using positive self-talk, or pausing to collect your thoughts) that you used or could use in similar situations?





Write your responses on a separate sheet of paper or in your digital journal.

Enjoy the activity and remember: every conversation is a chance to practice making connections!

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