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Why Do Leaves Change?

Lesson Plan

Why Do Leaves Change? Lesson Plan

Students will be able to explain the process of photosynthesis and identify the role of chlorophyll in leaf color, understanding why leaves change color in the fall.

Understanding why leaves change color connects students to natural phenomena, fosters scientific curiosity, and explains a common seasonal event. It also introduces fundamental biological concepts like photosynthesis and plant pigments.

Audience

Elementary School Students

Time

45 minutes

Approach

Hands-on observation, interactive slides, and a creative activity.

Materials

Whiteboard or projector, Markers or pens, Sample leaves (if available), Fall Colors Slide Deck, Leaf Change Worksheet, Fall Leaf Journal Prompt, and Leaf Observation Activity

Prep

Gather Materials & Review

15 minutes

Step 1

Warm-Up: What Do You Notice?

5 minutes

  • Begin by asking students what they notice about the leaves outside. What colors do they see?
    - Introduce the question: "Why do leaves change color?" Write student ideas on the board.

Step 2

Introduction to Photosynthesis and Chlorophyll

15 minutes

  • Use the Fall Colors Slide Deck to explain photosynthesis in simple terms.
    - Focus on the role of chlorophyll and how it gives leaves their green color.
    - Discuss what happens to chlorophyll as the seasons change and how other colors become visible.

Step 3

Leaf Observation Activity

10 minutes

  • Distribute sample leaves (if available) or refer to images on the slide deck.
    - Guide students through the Leaf Observation Activity, encouraging them to identify different colors and textures. Discuss their observations.

Step 4

Worksheet: Unlocking Leaf Secrets

10 minutes

  • Distribute the Leaf Change Worksheet.
    - Students will answer questions about photosynthesis, chlorophyll, and the reasons for color change.
    - Circulate to provide support and answer questions.

Step 5

Cool Down & Reflection

5 minutes

  • Have students complete the Fall Leaf Journal Prompt.
    - Ask students to share one new thing they learned about why leaves change color.
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Slide Deck

The Mystery of Changing Leaves

What do you notice about the leaves outside? What colors do you see? Why do you think they change?

Welcome students and ask them about their observations of leaves. Encourage them to share what colors they see and any questions they have about why leaves change. Write down their ideas on the board.

Meet Chlorophyll: The Green Powerhouse

• Chlorophyll is what makes leaves green!
• It helps plants make their food from sunlight – this process is called photosynthesis.
• Think of it as the leaf's own little kitchen!

Introduce the concept of chlorophyll as the 'leaf's chef' or 'food maker'. Explain that chlorophyll makes leaves green and helps the plant get energy from the sun (photosynthesis).

When Green Fades Away...

• As autumn arrives, days get shorter and cooler.
• The plant realizes it's almost winter and stops making chlorophyll.
• The green color starts to disappear, like magic!

Explain that as days get shorter and temperatures drop in the fall, the plant knows it's time to prepare for winter. The chlorophyll starts to break down, and the green color fades away.

Hello Yellow, Orange, and Red!

• Hidden beneath the green are other beautiful colors!
Yellow and Orange: These colors are always in the leaf, but chlorophyll covers them up.
Red and Purple: These colors are made in the fall as the plant gets ready for winter.

Now that the green is gone, other colors that were always there, but hidden by the strong green, can finally shine through. Introduce yellow, orange, and red pigments.

The Grand Finale: Fall Colors!

• It's not magic, it's science!
• Green chlorophyll fades, and other colors shine through.
• A beautiful way for trees to get ready for winter!

Summarize the key takeaways: chlorophyll makes leaves green, it breaks down in the fall, and then other pigments (yellow, orange, red) become visible. Ask students to recap in their own words.

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Activity

Leaf Observation Activity

Objective: To observe and describe the characteristics of different leaves, noting their colors, textures, and shapes.

Materials:

Instructions:

  1. Examine Your Leaf: Take one leaf and look at it closely. What do you notice first?

  2. Color Detective:

    • What are the main colors you see on your leaf?
    • Are there different shades of the same color?
    • Do you see any small spots or lines of different colors?
  3. Texture Explorer: Gently touch your leaf. Describe how it feels.

    • Is it smooth or rough?
    • Is it soft or crunchy?
    • Can you feel the veins?
  4. Shape and Size: Look at the overall shape of your leaf.

    • Is it round, pointy, or something else?
    • How big is your leaf compared to your hand?
  5. Share Your Discoveries: Discuss your observations with a partner or the class. What was the most interesting thing you noticed about your leaf?













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Worksheet

Leaf Change Worksheet

Name: ____________________________

Date: ____________________________


Part 1: Observe and Describe

Look closely at a leaf. Describe what you see and feel.

  1. What colors do you see on your leaf?


  2. How does your leaf feel (texture)? Is it smooth, rough, crunchy, or soft?


  3. What shape is your leaf?


Part 2: Understanding Leaf Science

Answer the following questions based on what you learned.

  1. What is the special green substance in leaves that helps them make food?


  2. What is the name of the process where plants use sunlight to make food?


  3. Why do leaves stop being green in the fall?


  4. Where do the yellow and orange colors in leaves come from?


  5. Why do some leaves turn red or purple in the fall?


Part 3: Reflect and Connect

  1. What is one new thing you learned about why leaves change color that you found interesting?





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Journal

Fall Leaf Journal Prompt

Name: ____________________________

Date: ____________________________


Reflect and Imagine

Think about what you've learned today about why leaves change color.

  1. If you were a leaf preparing for winter, how would you feel as your green color faded away and your new colors appeared? What colors would you want to show off and why?












  2. Imagine you could paint a picture of your favorite fall tree. What colors would you use, and what would you want people to notice about your painting? Describe the scene in detail.












  3. Why do you think it's important for trees to change their leaves in the fall? What would happen if they stayed green all winter?












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Answer Key

Leaf Change Worksheet Answer Key

Part 1: Observe and Describe

(Answers will vary based on student observations of individual leaves.)

  1. What colors do you see on your leaf?
    Example: I see red, orange, and some patches of yellow.

  2. How does your leaf feel (texture)? Is it smooth, rough, crunchy, or soft?
    Example: My leaf feels a bit crunchy, and the veins are slightly rough.

  3. What shape is your leaf?
    Example: My leaf is shaped like a star with five points.

Part 2: Understanding Leaf Science

  1. What is the special green substance in leaves that helps them make food?

    • Answer: Chlorophyll
    • Thought Process: The lesson plan and slide deck explain that chlorophyll is the green pigment responsible for making food in leaves.
  2. What is the name of the process where plants use sunlight to make food?

    • Answer: Photosynthesis
    • Thought Process: This term is introduced and defined when discussing how chlorophyll helps plants create food from sunlight.
  3. Why do leaves stop being green in the fall?

    • Answer: In the fall, there is less sunlight and cooler temperatures. The trees stop making chlorophyll, and the chlorophyll that is already there breaks down, making the green color disappear.
    • Thought Process: The slide deck and lesson instructions detail that chlorophyll breaks down as days shorten and temperatures cool, leading to the loss of green.
  4. Where do the yellow and orange colors in leaves come from?

    • Answer: Yellow and orange colors are pigments that are always in the leaf, but they are hidden by the strong green chlorophyll during the growing season. When the chlorophyll goes away, these colors become visible.
    • Thought Process: The slide deck explains that yellow and orange pigments are present year-round but masked by chlorophyll.
  5. Why do some leaves turn red or purple in the fall?

    • Answer: Red and purple colors are made in the fall by the plant as it gets ready for winter. These colors are not usually in the leaf during the summer.
    • Thought Process: The slide deck distinguishes red and purple as colors newly produced in the fall, unlike the pre-existing yellow and orange.

Part 3: Reflect and Connect

  1. What is one new thing you learned about why leaves change color that you found interesting?
    • (Answers will vary based on individual student learning and interests.)
    • Example: I thought it was interesting that the yellow and orange colors are already in the leaves, just hidden by the green!
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Lesson Plan

Week 1: My Awesome Strengths

Students will identify and articulate at least three personal strengths and understand that self-esteem is built on recognizing their positive qualities.

Recognizing personal strengths is the foundational step in building self-esteem and empowering students to see their inherent value, which is crucial for positive self-perception and future growth.

Audience

6th Grade Girl

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Through guided discussion and a creative activity, students will explore and affirm their unique strengths.

Materials

Confidence Quest Slide Deck](#week-1-slide-deck), My Strengths Worksheet, Discussion Guide: Inner Sparkle, and Strength Shield Activity Guide

Prep

Review Materials

15 minutes

Step 1

Welcome and Check-in (5 minutes)

5 minutes

  • Greet the student warmly and establish a comfortable, private space.
  • Briefly check-in on her week, asking about any highlights or challenges.
  • Introduce the purpose of the 8-week program: building confidence, improving relationships, and having her voice heard positively.

Step 2

Introduction to Strengths (5 minutes)

5 minutes

  • Use the Confidence Quest Slide Deck to introduce the concept of personal strengths.
  • Explain that everyone has unique talents, positive qualities, and things they are good at.
  • Ask the student to think about what makes her special or what she enjoys doing.

Step 3

My Strengths Worksheet (10 minutes)

10 minutes

  • Distribute the My Strengths Worksheet.
  • Guide the student through the worksheet, helping her brainstorm and write down her strengths (e.g., kind, creative, funny, good at art, good listener).
  • Offer prompts if she struggles, such as: 'What do your friends like about you?' or 'What's something you're proud of?'

Step 4

Discussion: Inner Sparkle (5 minutes)

5 minutes

  • Lead a discussion using the Discussion Guide: Inner Sparkle.
  • Focus on how recognizing these strengths contributes to a strong inner feeling (self-esteem).
  • Emphasize that these strengths are her 'inner sparkle' that makes her unique and valuable.

Step 5

Wrap-up & Preview (5 minutes)

5 minutes

  • Briefly discuss the Strength Shield Activity Guide for next time or as a take-home option if time allows.
  • Affirm the student's participation and the strengths she identified.
  • Remind her that these strengths are always with her.
  • Conclude the session, thanking her for her openness.
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Slide Deck

Welcome to Your Confidence Quest!

Discovering Your Inner Awesome

  • A journey to celebrate YOU!
  • Learn how to feel good about yourself.
  • Understand your strengths and how to use them.
  • Handle tough situations with grace.

Welcome the student and explain the exciting journey we're about to embark on. Emphasize that this is a safe space for her to explore and grow.

What Makes You, YOU?

Your Unique Strengths Are Your Superpowers!

  • What are you good at?
  • What makes you happy?
  • What do others like about you?
  • These are your personal strengths!

Introduce the idea that everyone has special qualities. Ask the student, "What makes a superhero strong? It's not just muscles, right? They have special powers inside! You do too!"

Let's Find Your Sparkle!

It's time to brainstorm!

  • We all have amazing qualities.
  • Sometimes we just need a little help to see them.
  • No strength is too small!

Explain that we'll be exploring these strengths together. Introduce the worksheet as a tool to help her think about these things. Transition to the worksheet activity.

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Worksheet

My Strengths Worksheet

Name: _________________________ Date: _____________

Everyone has amazing strengths! These are the things you are good at, the positive qualities you have, and what makes you special. Let's explore your unique superpowers!

Part 1: Brainstorm Your Strengths

Think about yourself. What are you good at? What do you enjoy? What do others say they like about you? Write down as many strengths as you can think of in the boxes below. Don't worry about perfect answers, just let your ideas flow!

My Strengths:



















Part 2: My Favorite Strengths

Look at your list. Pick your top three favorite strengths. Why are these your favorites? How do they make you feel?

  1. Strength: _________________________
    Why I like this strength:





  2. Strength: _________________________
    Why I like this strength:





  3. Strength: _________________________
    Why I like this strength:





Part 3: Using My Strengths

How did you use one of your strengths this past week, even in a small way?












How could you use one of your strengths to help someone else this week?












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Discussion

Discussion Guide: Inner Sparkle

Introduction: Your Amazing Qualities (2 minutes)

Teacher: "We just spent some time thinking about your strengths. How did it feel to list all those positive things about yourself? Was it easy or a little tricky?"




Exploring Your Strengths (8 minutes)

Teacher: "Let's talk about some of the strengths you wrote down on your My Strengths Worksheet. Can you share one or two that you feel particularly proud of?"




Teacher: "Why do you think it's important to know your strengths? How does it make you feel when you recognize something good about yourself?"







Teacher: "Sometimes, when we have a bad day or things go wrong, it's easy to forget our strengths. How can remembering your strengths help you when you're feeling down or frustrated?"







Connecting Strengths to Self-Esteem (5 minutes)

Teacher: "We talked about your 'inner sparkle'—those amazing qualities inside you. How does thinking about your inner sparkle connect to how you feel about yourself overall?"







Teacher: "Self-esteem is basically how you feel about yourself. Do you think recognizing your strengths helps build your self-esteem? How so?"







Looking Ahead (5 minutes)

Teacher: "This week, I want you to try to notice when you use one of your strengths, even if it's small. Maybe you were a good listener, or you showed kindness. What strength do you think you'll try to pay attention to this week?"




Teacher: "How do you think knowing your strengths might help you next time you feel frustrated or have a problem with a friend or a teacher?"







Teacher: "Thank you for sharing your amazing strengths today! Remember, your inner sparkle is always there."

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Activity

Strength Shield Activity Guide

Goal: To visually represent and celebrate your personal strengths, creating a reminder of your inner power.

Materials:

  • Paper (cardstock or construction paper works best)
  • Markers, colored pencils, or crayons
  • Optional: Glitter, stickers, magazines (for cut-outs)
  • Your My Strengths Worksheet

Instructions:

Part 1: Design Your Shield (10-15 minutes)

  1. Draw Your Shield: On your paper, draw a large shield shape. This shield will represent your personal protection and power.
  2. Centerpiece: In the very center of your shield, write your name or draw a symbol that represents you.
  3. Add Your Strengths: Look at your My Strengths Worksheet and choose 3-5 of your most important strengths. Write each strength in a different section of your shield. You can use words, or draw small pictures/symbols that represent each strength (e.g., a heart for kindness, a lightbulb for creativity, a book for intelligence).
  4. Decorate! Make your shield colorful and unique. Use patterns, colors, and any extra materials (glitter, stickers) to make it shine. This is your shield, so make it look powerful and positive!

Part 2: Reflect and Share (if time permits) (5 minutes)

  1. **
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Lesson Plan

Week 2: Teacher Talk - Speaking Up Positively

Students will learn and practice three positive communication strategies to use when interacting with teachers, aiming to reduce conflict and improve understanding.

Effective communication with teachers helps students advocate for themselves, manage conflict constructively, and build respectful relationships, leading to a more positive school experience.

Audience

6th Grade Girl

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Through role-playing and script practice, students will gain practical skills for positive teacher interactions.

Prep

Review Materials

15 minutes

Step 1

Welcome & Check-in (5 minutes)

5 minutes

  • Greet the student and check in on her week, especially regarding any teacher interactions or instances where she tried to use her strengths.
  • Briefly recap Week 1's focus on strengths and connect it to today's topic: using her strengths in communication.

Step 2

Introduction to Teacher Talk (5 minutes)

5 minutes

  • Use the Teacher Talk Slide Deck to introduce the idea that how we speak to teachers can change their response.
  • Discuss common frustrations (e.g., feeling misunderstood, being told 'no') and how an 'attitude' can make things worse.
  • Introduce the three key strategies: 'I' statements, asking for clarification, and taking a pause.

Step 3

Practice Strategies: Worksheet (10 minutes)

10 minutes

  • Distribute the Teacher Talk Scenarios Worksheet.
  • Work through the scenarios together, helping the student rephrase common 'attitude' responses into more positive, solution-oriented 'I' statements or clarifying questions.
  • Emphasize the importance of respectful tone and body language (even if not explicitly written on the worksheet).

Step 4

Discussion: Tone & Impact (5 minutes)

5 minutes

  • Lead a discussion using the Discussion Guide: Tone & Impact.
  • Focus on how tone of voice and body language can impact how a message is received.
  • Ask the student to reflect on times when her tone might have been misinterpreted or when a teacher's tone impacted her.

Step 5

Role-Play & Wrap-up (5 minutes)

5 minutes

  • Use one or two Role-Play Cards: Teacher Interactions to practice a scenario.
  • Offer constructive feedback, focusing on her strengths in the role-play (e.g., 'You used a clear 'I' statement very well!').
  • Encourage her to try one new communication strategy this week.
  • Affirm her efforts and thank her for participating.
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Slide Deck

Teacher Talk: Speaking Up Positively

How we talk to teachers matters!

  • Sometimes it feels like teachers don't understand.
  • Sometimes we get frustrated.
  • But our words and how we say them can change everything!

Welcome the student and briefly recap Week 1's focus on strengths. Ask her if she noticed any of her strengths in action this week. Transition to today's topic.

When Things Get Tricky...

What happens when you feel:

  • Frustrated?
  • Misunderstood?
  • Like you're being unfairly treated?

How do you usually react? What happens next?

Ask the student to brainstorm some common situations where she might feel frustrated with a teacher. Examples: 'Teacher told me to stop talking,' 'Teacher gave me a bad grade,' 'Teacher didn't listen to my side.'

Strategy 1: Use "I" Statements

Express how you feel, not what they did wrong.

  • Instead of: "You never listen to me!"
  • Try: "I feel unheard when I try to explain my side."

This helps teachers understand your perspective.

Introduce the first strategy: 'I' statements. Explain that these help you express your feelings without blaming. Provide an example: 'Instead of 'You always pick on me,' try 'I feel frustrated when I get called on first because I haven't had a chance to think.'

Strategy 2: Ask for Clarification

If you don't understand, ask questions politely.

  • Instead of: "I don't get it, this is dumb!"
  • Try: "Could you please explain that direction again? I want to make sure I understand."

It shows you're engaged and want to learn.

Introduce the second strategy: Asking for Clarification. Emphasize that it's okay not to understand and that asking respectfully shows you're trying. Example: 'Instead of 'This is stupid,' try 'Can you explain this again? I'm not quite sure what to do.'

Strategy 3: Take a Pause

When you feel your anger rising, take a deep breath.

  • Count to three in your head.
  • Think before you speak.
  • This helps you choose your words wisely and avoid saying something you'll regret.

Introduce the third strategy: Taking a Pause. Explain that sometimes a quick breath or counting to three can prevent an automatic, unhelpful reaction. 'If you feel yourself getting angry, take a silent breath. This gives you a moment to choose your words.'

Practice Makes Progress!

These are new skills!

  • It takes practice to use them.
  • Don't expect perfection right away.
  • Every time you try, you get better!

Let's practice these strategies together.

Encourage the student that these are skills that take practice. Transition to the worksheet to practice these strategies.

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Worksheet

Teacher Talk Scenarios Worksheet

Name: _________________________ Date: _____________

It can be tough to talk to teachers sometimes, especially when you're feeling upset or misunderstood. Let's practice how to use "I" statements, ask for clarification, and take a pause to communicate more positively.

Part 1: "I" Statements Practice

Rewrite these common frustrated thoughts into respectful "I" statements. Remember, focus on how you feel, not on blaming the teacher.

  1. Original thought: "My teacher never calls on me! They always pick on Sarah."
    "I" statement:





  2. Original thought: "This homework is stupid! I don't understand it and the teacher didn't even explain it well."
    "I" statement:





  3. Original thought: "The teacher keeps telling me to be quiet, but everyone else is talking too! It's not fair!"
    "I" statement:





Part 2: Asking for Clarification

Rewrite these frustrated statements into polite questions asking for more information.

  1. Original thought: "I don't know what to do! These directions make no sense!"
    Polite question:





  2. Original thought: "Why do we have to do another group project? I hate working with other people!"
    Polite question:





  3. Original thought: "My grade on this essay is terrible! I thought I did everything right."
    Polite question:





Part 3: Taking a Pause

Imagine you're in these situations. What would you want to say right away? What could you say after taking a quick pause and a deep breath?

  1. Situation: Your teacher just told you to put your phone away, but you were just checking the time for a second.
    First thought (before pause):



    After a pause, I could say:





  2. Situation: You feel like a teacher is ignoring your raised hand for the fifth time in a row.
    First thought (before pause):



    After a pause, I could say:





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Discussion

Discussion Guide: Tone & Impact

Introduction: Beyond the Words (5 minutes)

Teacher: "Last week we focused on your strengths, and today we're talking about how you communicate with teachers. We've practiced some great ways to say things using 'I' statements and polite questions. But sometimes, it's not just what we say, but how we say it, right?"




Teacher: "What do you think 'tone of voice' means? Can you give an example of how the same words can sound different with a different tone? (e.g., 'Okay' said cheerfully vs. sarcastically)"







The Power of Tone (8 minutes)

Teacher: "Think about a time someone spoke to you with a tone that made you feel upset or angry, even if their words weren't technically rude. What was that like? How did it make you feel?"







Teacher: "Now, think about a time someone spoke to you with a kind or calm tone, even when they were giving you difficult news or a correction. How did that make you feel differently?"







Teacher: "How do you think your tone of voice might affect how a teacher responds to you, especially when you're feeling frustrated?"







Body Language Matters (7 minutes)

Teacher: "It's not just our voice; our body also 'talks.' What kind of body language might show a teacher you're engaged and respectful? (e.g., eye contact, calm posture)"







Teacher: "What kind of body language might accidentally give a teacher the impression you have an 'attitude,' even if you don't mean to? (e.g., rolling eyes, slumped shoulders, crossed arms)"







Teacher: "How can taking a pause, like we discussed, help you manage both your tone and your body language when you're feeling upset?"







Applying It (5 minutes)

Teacher: "This week, in addition to practicing 'I' statements and asking for clarification, I'd like you to try to be more aware of your tone of voice and body language when you talk to teachers. What's one thing you can try to focus on?"







Teacher: "Remember, you have the power to choose how you present yourself, and that can make a big difference in how others respond to you. Great job discussing today!"

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Activity

Role-Play Cards: Teacher Interactions

Goal: To practice using positive communication strategies ("I" statements, polite questions, taking a pause) in realistic teacher scenarios.

Materials:

Instructions:

  1. Choose a Card: The teacher will pick a scenario card, or the student can choose one that sounds challenging.
  2. Assign Roles: The teacher will play the role of the teacher, and the student will play herself.
  3. Act it Out: Play the scenario, with the student trying to use the strategies we discussed: "I" statements, asking polite questions, and remembering to take a pause if she feels frustrated.
  4. Reflect and Discuss: After each role-play, discuss:
    • What went well? (e.g., "You used a great 'I' statement!")
    • What felt challenging?
    • What could be done differently next time?
    • How did it feel to use these new ways of communicating?

Role-Play Scenarios (Cut along the dotted lines)


Scenario 1: Unfair Consequence

Teacher's setup: "Okay, [Student's Name], I saw you talking during the silent reading time. You'll need to stay after class for five minutes."

Student's goal: You feel it's unfair because you were just asking your friend a quick question about the book, and others were talking too. Use an "I" statement and try to understand the teacher's perspective.


Scenario 2: Confusing Assignment

Teacher's setup: "Alright class, for your science project, you need to research an ecosystem and create a 3D model. It's due next Friday."

Student's goal: You have no idea what an "ecosystem" is or how to start a 3D model. You're feeling overwhelmed. Use a polite question to ask for clarification, maybe about where to find information or examples.


Scenario 3: Feeling Ignored

Teacher's setup: (Teacher is busy helping another student, or walking around the room, making eye contact with others but not you.)

Student's goal: You've had your hand raised for a while with a question about the assignment, and you feel frustrated that the teacher hasn't called on you. Take a pause, and then try to get the teacher's attention respectfully without being disruptive or rude.


Scenario 4: Graded Paper Disagreement

Teacher's setup: (Hands back a graded essay with a lower grade than you expected.) "[Student's Name], you missed a few key points on this."

Student's goal: You thought you addressed all the requirements and are confused by the grade. You feel a little angry and disappointed. Take a pause, and then ask for clarification on specific feedback or how you could improve.


Scenario 5: Group Project Frustration

Teacher's setup: "For your history project, you'll be working in groups of three. [Student's Name], you're with John and Emily."

Student's goal: You've had some past issues working with John, and you're worried it won't go well. You feel a knot in your stomach. Use an "I" statement to express your concern and ask if there are strategies to help group work be more successful.


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Lesson Plan

Week 3: Friend or Foe?

Students will identify characteristics of healthy vs. unhealthy friendships and practice strategies for handling peer conflict and drama constructively.

Understanding healthy peer dynamics and developing conflict resolution skills are essential for positive social development, reducing emotional distress, and fostering a supportive social environment.

Audience

6th Grade Girl

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Through scenario analysis and guided discussion, students will differentiate friendship types and practice constructive responses to conflict.

Prep

Review Materials

15 minutes

Step 1

Welcome & Check-in (5 minutes)

5 minutes

  • Greet the student and check in on her week, specifically asking about any new strategies she tried with teachers and how it went.
  • Briefly recap the importance of positive communication and introduce today's topic: navigating peer relationships and understanding different kinds of friendships.

Step 2

Introduction to Friendship Qualities (5 minutes)

5 minutes

  • Use the Peer Power Slide Deck to introduce the concepts of healthy vs. unhealthy friendship qualities.
  • Discuss traits like trust, respect, support, equality (healthy) vs. jealousy, gossip, control, feeling bad about yourself (unhealthy).
  • Ask the student to share what she thinks makes a good friend.

Step 3

Friendship Qualities Worksheet (10 minutes)

10 minutes

  • Distribute the Friendship Qualities Worksheet.
  • Guide the student in listing qualities for both healthy and unhealthy friendships, and then applying these to hypothetical or (general) real-life situations.
  • Encourage her to think about how different friendships make her feel.

Step 4

Discussion: Drama Detectives (5 minutes)

5 minutes

  • Lead a discussion using the Discussion Guide: Drama Detectives.
  • Focus on why peer drama happens and how it impacts self-esteem and school life.
  • Explore strategies for recognizing drama and choosing not to engage (e.g., walking away, changing the subject).

Step 5

Role-Play & Wrap-up (5 minutes)

5 minutes

  • Pick one of the Conflict Resolution Role-Play Cards and practice a scenario for handling peer drama or conflict.
  • Encourage the student to use her communication strengths.
  • Remind her that she has the power to choose her friends and how she responds to conflict.
  • Affirm her insights and thank her for her openness.
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Slide Deck

Friend or Foe? Navigating Friendships

Friends are awesome, but sometimes they can be tricky!

  • How do you know who your real friends are?
  • How do you handle drama?
  • Let's learn to build strong, happy friendships.

Welcome the student and check in on her week, especially regarding any new communication strategies she tried with teachers. Briefly recap Week 1 (strengths) and Week 2 (teacher communication). Introduce today's topic: friends!

What Makes a Healthy Friendship?

Healthy friendships make you feel good!

  • Trust: You can count on each other.
  • Respect: You value each other's feelings and opinions.
  • Support: You cheer each other on and help when needed.
  • Kindness: You're nice to each other, even when you disagree.
  • Equality: You both have a say and feel heard.

Ask the student what she thinks makes a 'good friend'. Write down some of her ideas. Then, introduce some key traits of healthy friendships.

Warning Signs: Unhealthy Friendships

Some friendships can make you feel bad.

  • Gossip: They talk about others behind their backs (or you).
  • Jealousy: They get upset when you spend time with others or succeed.
  • Control: They tell you what to do or who to be friends with.
  • Put-downs: They make fun of you or criticize you often.
  • Drama: There's always conflict or big problems.

Now, introduce the idea that not all friendships are healthy. Ask her what might make a friendship feel 'unhealthy' or 'draining'.

Understanding Peer Drama

What is 'peer drama'?

  • Arguments, disagreements, or conflicts between friends.
  • Sometimes it's small, sometimes it's big.
  • It can make you feel stressed, sad, or angry.
  • How can we deal with it constructively?

Transition to the idea of 'peer drama' and how it can affect us. Explain that we're going to practice identifying these situations and how to respond.

Your Friendship Toolbox

You have tools to handle tricky friendship situations!

  • Knowing what a good friend looks like.
  • Knowing how to speak up respectfully.
  • Learning how to handle conflict calmly.

Let's put these tools to work!

Explain that we'll be looking at scenarios and practicing how to respond. Transition to the worksheet and discussion.

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Worksheet

Friendship Qualities Worksheet

Name: _________________________ Date: _____________

It’s important to know what makes a friendship feel good and what might make it feel not-so-good. This helps you choose friends who lift you up!

Part 1: Healthy Friendship Qualities

Think about what makes you feel good in a friendship. List words or phrases that describe a healthy, supportive friend and friendship.

What makes a good friend? What does a good friendship feel like?
















Part 2: Unhealthy Friendship Qualities

Now, think about what makes you feel bad or uncomfortable in a friendship. List words or phrases that describe unhealthy, draining, or dramatic friendships.

What makes a friendship feel bad? What does it feel like when a friendship is unhealthy?
















Part 3: Scenario Sorting

Read each scenario. Decide if it describes a Healthy Friendship or an Unhealthy Friendship. Explain your reasoning.

  1. Scenario: Your friend, Maya, always wants to know who you’re hanging out with. If you spend time with other people, she acts cold towards you the next day.

    • Type of Friendship: ____________________
    • Why?





  2. Scenario: You told your friend, Chloe, a secret. Later that day, you overhear Chloe telling another friend your secret, and they both laugh.

    • Type of Friendship: ____________________
    • Why?





  3. Scenario: You messed up on a school project and feel really sad. Your friend, Sam, listens patiently, tells you it's okay to make mistakes, and offers to help you study for the next one.

    • Type of Friendship: ____________________
    • Why?





  4. Scenario: Your friend, Olivia, is always making jokes about your clothes or your hair. She says, "I'm just kidding!" when you tell her it hurts your feelings.

    • Type of Friendship: ____________________
    • Why?





Part 4: My Own Friendships Reflection

Without naming names, think about a friendship in your life. What healthy qualities does it have? What unhealthy qualities might be present?













What is one thing you could do to make one of your friendships healthier, or to protect yourself from an unhealthy one?













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Discussion

Discussion Guide: Drama Detectives

Introduction: The Mystery of Drama (5 minutes)

Teacher: "We just talked about healthy and unhealthy friendships. Sometimes, those unhealthy friendships lead to something we call 'drama.' What does 'drama' mean to you in the context of friends? What does it look like?"




Teacher: "How does being involved in friend drama usually make you feel? (e.g., stressed, sad, anxious, angry)"




Why Does Drama Happen? (8 minutes)

Teacher: "Why do you think drama happens between friends? What are some common reasons? (e.g., jealousy, misunderstandings, trying to fit in, gossip, boredom)"







Teacher: "When you find yourself in the middle of drama, what's often your first reaction? Do you feel pressure to pick sides, or to talk about others?"







Teacher: "How does drama impact your day at school or even how you feel when you get home? Does it make it harder to focus?"







Becoming a Drama Detective: Strategies (8 minutes)

Teacher: "As 'Drama Detectives,' our goal is to spot drama and figure out how to respond so it doesn't get bigger or hurt us. What are some things you can do when you see drama starting or when someone tries to pull you into it?"

  • (Prompts: Can you walk away? Can you change the subject? Can you say 'I'm not getting involved in that'?) Is it always your responsibility to fix it?)







Teacher: "What if someone is gossiping about another friend? What could you say or do to show you're not interested in participating?"







Teacher: "How can using an 'I' statement, like we practiced last week, help you express your discomfort if a friend is trying to involve you in drama? (e.g., 'I feel uncomfortable when we talk about people behind their backs.')"







Protecting Your Peace (4 minutes)

Teacher: "Remember, you have a choice about what drama you get involved in. How does choosing to step away from drama protect your own self-esteem and happiness?"







Teacher: "What is one strategy you want to try this week if you encounter peer drama?"




Teacher: "Great job being a Drama Detective today! Remember, protecting your peace is a powerful move."

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Activity

Conflict Resolution Role-Play Cards

Goal: To practice constructive ways of responding to common peer drama and conflict situations.

Materials:

Instructions:

  1. Choose a Card: The teacher will pick a scenario card, or the student can choose one that feels relevant or challenging.
  2. Assign Roles: The teacher will play the role of the peer(s), and the student will play herself.
  3. Act it Out: Play the scenario, with the student trying to use the strategies we discussed:
    • Using "I" statements to express feelings.
    • Politely asking for clarification or to change the subject.
    • Taking a pause before reacting.
    • Choosing to walk away or not engage in gossip.
  4. Reflect and Discuss: After each role-play, discuss:
    • What went well? (e.g., "You stayed calm even when the friend was upset!")
    • What felt challenging in this scenario?
    • What could be done differently next time?
    • How did it feel to use these new responses?

Role-Play Scenarios (Cut along the dotted lines)


Scenario 1: Gossip Circle

Peer setup: Your friend, Jessica, pulls you aside during lunch. "Guess what? Sarah told me that Emily said you were being really mean in class today. Isn't that wild? What do you think about Emily?"

Student's goal: You feel a bit uncomfortable and don't want to get involved in gossip. How can you respond without being rude, but also not participating in the drama? (Hint: Change the subject, or state you don't want to talk about others.)


Scenario 2: Exclusion

Peer setup: You see a group of your friends planning something fun for the weekend, and they don't invite you or even mention it when you're standing right there. Later, one of them, Chloe, says, "Oh, we thought you were busy!"

Student's goal: You feel hurt and left out. Use an "I" statement to express your feelings and clarify if there's a misunderstanding. (e.g., "I felt hurt when I heard about the plans because I wasn't invited.")


Scenario 3: Disagreement over a Game

Peer setup: You and your friend, Ben, are playing a game during recess. You both disagree about a rule, and Ben gets loud and says, "You're always trying to change the rules!"

Student's goal: You feel unfairly accused and a little angry. Take a pause. How can you calmly explain your side or suggest a solution (like asking a teacher or looking up the rule)?


Scenario 4: "You Have To Choose!"

Peer setup: Your friend, Mia, is mad at another friend, Lily. Mia comes to you and says, "Lily is being totally annoying. You can't be friends with both of us, you have to choose!"

Student's goal: You don't want to pick sides. How can you express that you value both friendships (if that's true) or set a boundary about being pulled into their conflict? (Hint: Use an "I" statement about your feelings or decline to choose.)


Scenario 5: Unwanted Advice/Critique

Peer setup: You're working on an art project, and your friend, Jake, comes over and says, "That's not how you're supposed to draw that. It looks weird. You should do it my way."

Student's goal: You feel a bit annoyed or criticized. How can you politely tell him you appreciate his ideas but want to do it your own way? (Hint: Use an "I" statement about your preference.)


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Lesson Plan

Week 4: My Super Self - Boosting Self-Esteem

Students will identify positive self-talk strategies and practice replacing negative thoughts with empowering ones to strengthen their self-esteem.

Developing positive self-talk is crucial for internalizing self-worth, resilience, and maintaining a healthy perspective, especially when facing challenges.

Audience

6th Grade Girl

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Through journaling and guided reflection, students will challenge negative self-talk and cultivate a more compassionate inner voice.

Prep

Review Materials and Prepare

15 minutes

Step 1

Welcome & Check-in (5 minutes)

5 minutes

  • Greet the student warmly and check in on her week, asking about any successes with teacher communication or navigating peer situations.
  • Briefly recap the journey so far (strengths, teacher talk, friendships) and introduce today's focus: strengthening her inner voice.

Step 2

Introduction to Self-Talk (5 minutes)

5 minutes

  • Use the Confidence Builder Slide Deck to introduce the concept of 'self-talk' – the thoughts we have about ourselves.
  • Discuss how self-talk can be positive or negative, and how it impacts how we feel about ourselves.
  • Introduce the idea of an 'inner critic' and an 'inner cheerleader'.

Step 3

Positive Self-Talk Journaling (10 minutes)

10 minutes

  • Distribute the Positive Self-Talk Journal.
  • Guide the student through the journal prompts, helping her identify common negative thoughts and brainstorm positive, realistic counter-statements.
  • Connect this back to her strengths from Week 1. How can her strengths be her inner cheerleader?

Step 4

Discussion: Inner Critic vs. Inner Cheerleader (5 minutes)

5 minutes

  • Lead a discussion using the Discussion Guide: Inner Critic vs. Inner Cheerleader.
  • Explore how to recognize the inner critic's voice and consciously choose to listen to the inner cheerleader instead.
  • Emphasize that positive self-talk is a skill that takes practice.

Step 5

Affirmation & Wrap-up (5 minutes)

5 minutes

  • Introduce the Affirmation Mirror Activity Guide as a fun way to practice positive self-talk throughout the week.
  • Work together to create one or two affirmations for her mirror.
  • Affirm her efforts and the progress she's making, reminding her of her inherent value.
  • Thank her for her participation.
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Slide Deck

Your Super Self: Inner Strength!

How do you talk to yourself?

  • We all have a voice in our heads.
  • Sometimes it's kind, sometimes it's not so kind.
  • Let's make sure our inner voice is our biggest fan!

Welcome the student and check in. Ask about her previous week's experiences with teacher communication and peer interactions. Link these back to how she felt about herself. Introduce today's theme.

Meet Your Inner Voices

The Inner Critic

  • Says things like, "You're not good enough," "You'll fail," "No one likes you."
  • Makes you feel small or doubtful.

The Inner Cheerleader

  • Says things like, "You've got this!" "Keep trying!" "You are kind and smart."
  • Makes you feel strong and capable.

Ask the student, "What kinds of things does your inner voice say?" Guide her to think about both positive and negative thoughts. Introduce the idea of an 'Inner Critic' and 'Inner Cheerleader'.

Choosing Your Voice

Which voice do you listen to?

  • Your Inner Critic might be loud, but it's often wrong.
  • Your Inner Cheerleader reminds you of your true strengths and potential.
  • You have the power to decide!

Explain that we can choose which voice to listen to. Connect this to the strengths identified in Week 1. "Remember your strengths? Those are your Inner Cheerleader's superpowers!"

The Power of Positive Self-Talk

Changing the Channel

  • Negative thought: "I'm so bad at math."

  • Positive self-talk: "Math is challenging for me, but I can ask for help and keep trying!"

  • This isn't about ignoring problems, but about approaching them with belief in yourself.

Introduce the idea of 'positive self-talk' as a strategy. Provide an example of turning a negative thought into a positive one. Transition to the journal activity to practice this.

Practice Makes Progress!

It takes practice to retrain your brain.

  • Be patient with yourself.
  • Notice when your inner critic speaks.
  • Practice responding with your inner cheerleader!

Let's get started with our journal.

Explain that this isn't about being fake or always happy, but about being realistic and kind to oneself. "It's like being your own best friend."

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Journal

Positive Self-Talk Journal

Name: _________________________ Date: _____________

Your thoughts have power! The way you talk to yourself, often called "self-talk," can change how you feel and what you believe you can do. Let's practice being your own best cheerleader!

Part 1: My Inner Critic (The Doubtful Voice)

Think about times when you've felt bad about yourself. What are some common negative things your inner critic says to you? (e.g., "I'm not smart enough," "I'm going to mess up," "No one cares what I think.") Write down a few examples.










Part 2: My Inner Cheerleader (The Supportive Voice)

Now, let's turn those around! For each negative thought above, write a positive, realistic, and kind response from your inner cheerleader. Think about your strengths from Week 1!

  1. Inner Critic says:



    Inner Cheerleader says:





  2. Inner Critic says:



    Inner Cheerleader says:





  3. Inner Critic says:



    Inner Cheerleader says:





Part 3: Daily Reflection

  • Scenario: Imagine you have to give a presentation in class, and your inner critic says, "You're going to totally mess up and everyone will laugh."

    • What could your inner cheerleader say to help you?










  • Scenario: You tried out for a school club, but you didn't get in, and your inner critic says, "See? You're not good enough."

    • What could your inner cheerleader say to help you?










Part 4: My Own Positive Affirmation

Write one positive sentence about yourself that you want to remember this week. It should be something true and uplifting!

My Affirmation:





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Discussion

Discussion Guide: Inner Critic vs. Inner Cheerleader

Introduction: The Voices in Our Head (5 minutes)

Teacher: "We all have thoughts about ourselves that run through our minds all day long. Sometimes these thoughts are positive, and sometimes they're negative. What do you notice about the thoughts you have about yourself?"




Teacher: "I introduced the idea of an 'Inner Critic' and an 'Inner Cheerleader.' How would you describe the difference between these two voices?"







Listening to the Critic (8 minutes)

Teacher: "Let's be honest, sometimes the Inner Critic can be pretty loud. What are some of the things your Inner Critic often says to you? (Refer to Positive Self-Talk Journal Part 1 if needed.)"







Teacher: "How do you feel when your Inner Critic is speaking loudly? Does it make you want to try new things or hold you back?"







Teacher: "Why do you think our brains sometimes create these negative thoughts, even when they aren't completely true? (e.g., trying to protect us from failure, past experiences)"







Empowering the Cheerleader (8 minutes)

Teacher: "Now let's talk about your Inner Cheerleader. What kinds of things does your Inner Cheerleader say? (Refer to Positive Self-Talk Journal Part 2.)"







Teacher: "How does it feel when you actively choose to listen to your Inner Cheerleader? Does it give you more energy or confidence?"







Teacher: "How can remembering your strengths (from Week 1) help your Inner Cheerleader speak up more loudly?"







Teacher: "Is it always easy to turn a negative thought into a positive one? What happens if you try and it feels difficult? (Emphasize practice, small steps, and self-compassion.)"







Practicing Self-Compassion (4 minutes)

Teacher: "Sometimes, even our best friends make mistakes, and we still love them. How can you be as kind and understanding to yourself as you would be to a good friend?"







Teacher: "What is one positive affirmation you will try to say to yourself this week, even if it feels a little silly at first?"




Teacher: "You're doing an amazing job learning to be your own best friend. Keep practicing, and your Inner Cheerleader will get stronger and stronger!"

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Activity

Affirmation Mirror Activity Guide

Goal: To create a visual reminder of positive self-talk and practice daily affirmations.

Materials:

  • Small mirror (a compact mirror, locker mirror, or even a piece of reflective foil can work)
  • Sticky notes or small pieces of paper
  • Markers or pens
  • Your Positive Self-Talk Journal

Instructions:

Part 1: Choosing Your Affirmation (5 minutes)

  1. Look at the affirmations you wrote in your Positive Self-Talk Journal (Part 4) or brainstorm a new one.
  2. Choose one or two affirmations that feel most important for you to remember right now. An affirmation is a positive statement that helps you challenge negative thoughts and build self-esteem. It should be true (or something you want to be true and are working towards).
    • Examples:
      • "I am capable and strong."
      • "I am a good friend."
      • "My voice matters."
      • "I can learn and grow."
      • "I am worthy of kindness."

Part 2: Decorate Your Mirror (10 minutes)

  1. Take your sticky notes or small pieces of paper.
  2. Write your chosen affirmation(s) clearly on the notes. You can use colorful markers and decorate them to make them visually appealing.
  3. Attach the sticky note(s) to the frame of your mirror, or directly onto the mirror if it won't damage the surface. The goal is for you to see your affirmation every time you look in the mirror.

Part 3: Daily Practice (Ongoing)

  1. Placement: Put your Affirmation Mirror in a place where you will see it every day – like on your desk, in your locker, or on your bathroom counter.
  2. Look and Say: Each day, when you look into your mirror, read your affirmation out loud. Look yourself in the eyes as you say it. Even if it feels strange at first, saying positive things to yourself can really change your mindset over time.
  3. Reflect (Optional): Take a moment to think about what the affirmation means to you. How can you embody that affirmation in your day?
  4. Change it Up: If an affirmation starts to feel less powerful, you can create a new one! Your journey of self-love is always evolving.
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Lesson Plan

Week 5: My Feelings, My Signals

Students will identify common emotions, understand their physical signals, and practice healthy coping strategies for managing strong feelings.

Learning to identify and manage emotions is critical for self-regulation, reducing impulsive reactions, and improving overall emotional well-being, especially in challenging social situations.

Audience

6th Grade Girl

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Through emotion mapping and guided relaxation, students will connect feelings to physical sensations and develop coping tools.

Materials

Prep

Review Materials and Prepare

15 minutes

Step 1

Welcome & Check-in (5 minutes)

5 minutes

  • Greet the student and check in on her week, asking about her experience with positive self-talk and affirmations.
  • Briefly recap previous weeks and introduce today's topic: understanding and managing emotions.

Step 2

Introduction to Emotions (5 minutes)

5 minutes

  • Use the Emotion Detectives Slide Deck to introduce the idea that emotions are signals from our bodies.
  • Discuss common emotions (happy, sad, angry, frustrated, anxious) and their purpose. Emphasize that all emotions are okay to feel, but it's how we react that matters.

Step 3

Feelings Map Worksheet (10 minutes)

10 minutes

  • Distribute the Feelings Map Worksheet.
  • Guide the student to identify where she feels different emotions in her body (e.g., anger in her fists/stomach, anxiety in her chest).
  • Encourage her to color or draw to represent the intensity/location of feelings. This helps build body awareness.

Step 4

Discussion: Emotion Triggers (5 minutes)

5 minutes

  • Lead a discussion using the Discussion Guide: Emotion Triggers.
  • Explore what situations or thoughts 'trigger' strong emotions for her, especially frustration or anger that leads to attitude.
  • Connect this to teacher and peer interactions.

Step 5

Coping Skills & Wrap-up (5 minutes)

5 minutes

  • Introduce the Coping Skills Fortune Teller Activity Guide as a fun tool for practicing coping skills.
  • Briefly demonstrate or review a couple of coping skills (e.g., deep breathing, counting to 10).
  • Affirm her openness in discussing emotions and encourage her to notice her feelings this week and try a coping skill.
  • Thank her for her participation.
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Slide Deck

My Feelings, My Signals

What are feelings?

  • They are messages from your body and brain.
  • They tell you what's going on inside.
  • All feelings are okay to have!

Welcome the student and check in. Ask about her experience with positive self-talk and affirmations from last week. Transition to today's topic: exploring our feelings.

Emotions: Our Inner Messengers

Common Feelings:

  • Happy 😊
  • Sad 😥
  • Angry 😠
  • Frustrated 😤
  • Anxious 😟
  • Excited 🤩

What other feelings do you know?

Ask the student to name some feelings she experiences. Write them down. Explain that feelings are normal, and we all have them.

Where Do Feelings Live?

Our bodies give us clues!

  • Happiness: Light, energetic, smile on face.
  • Sadness: Heavy, tired, tears in eyes.
  • Anger: Hot, tight muscles, fast heart.
  • Anxiety: Butterflies in stomach, shaky hands, tense shoulders.

What do you notice in your body when you feel a strong emotion?

Explain that feelings don't just happen in our heads; we feel them in our bodies too. Ask for examples: 'Where do you feel happiness? Where do you feel anger?'

Becoming an Emotion Detective

Let's map our feelings!

  • We can learn to notice feelings early.
  • This helps us choose how to respond.
  • It's like having a superpower for self-control!

Introduce the idea that knowing where we feel emotions helps us notice them sooner. Transition to the Feelings Map Worksheet.

Your Coping Skills Toolbox

What do you do when feelings get big?

  • Sometimes feelings can feel overwhelming.
  • We need healthy ways to deal with them.
  • These are called 'coping skills'!

Briefly introduce the concept of coping skills as healthy ways to handle strong emotions. Explain that we'll be exploring these more.

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