Lesson Plan
What's Your Body Saying?
Students will be able to identify and interpret common non-verbal social cues to better understand others and improve their own communication.
Understanding non-verbal cues helps students navigate social situations, build empathy, and communicate more effectively with peers and adults. It's a key skill for developing strong relationships and avoiding misunderstandings.
Audience
6th Grade Students
Time
30 minutes
Approach
Interactive discussion, examples, and a fun observation activity.
Prep
Teacher Preparation
15 minutes
- Review the Non-Verbal Cues Slide Deck and familiarize yourself with the content.
* Print or prepare to project the Warm-Up: Guess the Feeling.
* Prepare the Discussion Prompts: Reading Between the Lines for class discussion.
* Cut out or prepare the 'Cue Cards' from the Activity: Cue Card Charades.
* Prepare the Cool-Down: My Non-Verbal Takeaway for distribution or projection.
* Ensure projector and computer are working properly.
Step 1
Warm-Up: Guess the Feeling
5 minutes
- Begin with the Warm-Up: Guess the Feeling activity.
* Ask students to silently observe the images/scenarios and guess the emotion or message being conveyed without words.
* Briefly discuss their observations, highlighting that they are already 'reading' non-verbal cues.
Step 2
Introduction to Non-Verbal Cues
5 minutes
- Use the first few slides of the Non-Verbal Cues Slide Deck to introduce the concept of non-verbal communication.
* Explain what non-verbal cues are (body language, facial expressions, eye contact, gestures, tone of voice).
* Emphasize their importance in daily communication.
Step 3
Discussion: Reading Between the Lines
10 minutes
- Lead a discussion using the Discussion Prompts: Reading Between the Lines.
* Present scenarios and ask students to identify possible non-verbal cues and what they might mean.
* Encourage students to share their experiences and observations respectfully.
Step 4
Activity: Cue Card Charades
7 minutes
- Introduce the Activity: Cue Card Charades.
* Divide students into small groups or pairs.
* Have students pick a 'Cue Card' and act out the emotion or situation using only non-verbal cues.
* The other students/groups guess what is being conveyed.
Step 5
Cool-Down: My Non-Verbal Takeaway
3 minutes
- Distribute or project the Cool-Down: My Non-Verbal Takeaway.
* Ask students to reflect on one new thing they learned or one non-verbal cue they will pay more attention to.
* Collect their responses as an exit ticket.
Slide Deck
What's Your Body Saying?
How do we communicate without words?
Think about it: Can you 'talk' without speaking?
Welcome students and introduce the day's topic: understanding how we communicate without words. Ask them if they've ever known someone was happy or sad without them saying anything.
Silent Signals: Non-Verbal Cues
What are non-verbal cues? They're our body's secret language!
- Body language: How you stand or sit (e.g., slumped shoulders, upright posture)
- Facial expressions: What your face shows (e.g., a smile, a frown, wide eyes)
- Eye contact: Where you look (e.g., direct gaze, looking away)
- Gestures: Hand movements (e.g., waving, pointing, crossing arms)
- Tone of voice: How your voice sounds (e.g., whisper, shout, soft, loud)
Discuss: Can you think of a time someone said one thing, but their body said another? What happened?
Explain that non-verbal cues are all the ways we show what we're thinking or feeling without speaking. Give simple examples like a smile or a frown. Ask students for examples they've seen and discuss how even small movements can send a message.
Why Do They Matter?
Non-verbal cues are super important! They help us:
- Understand others' feelings: (even when they don't say much)
- Communicate clearly: (without even trying)
- Avoid misunderstandings: (so we don't accidentally upset someone)
- Build better friendships: (by 'reading' our friends better)
Think & Share: Imagine you see a friend sitting alone with their head down and arms crossed. What might their non-verbal cues be telling you? What would you do?
Discuss why these cues are important. Ask students how understanding these cues might help them in school or with friends. Connect it to avoiding misunderstandings and building empathy. Encourage them to think about how they might feel if they misread someone's cues.
Critical Check: Decode the Vibe!
Scenario 1: A classmate is tapping their pencil rapidly, looking at the clock, and has a slight frown. What do you think they might be feeling? What makes you say that?
Scenario 2: You see a group of students laughing loudly and giving each other high-fives. What non-verbal cues are they using, and what message are they sending?
Turn & Talk: Share your thoughts with a partner and explain your reasoning!
Present a hypothetical scenario or show a simple image (if possible). Give students a minute to discuss with a partner what they observe and interpret. Emphasize that there isn't always one 'right' answer, but it's about looking for clues.
Let's Play: Guess the Feeling!
Can you tell what someone is feeling just by looking at them? Let's try to be emotion detectives!
Briefly introduce the warm-up activity. Explain that they will see some examples and try to guess the emotion without hearing any words. Transition to the warm-up material.
Reading Between the Lines
Time to put our detective skills to work! Let's talk about some examples together and see if we can decode the silent signals.
Facilitate the discussion prompts. Encourage open and respectful sharing. Ask follow-up questions to deepen their understanding, using the provided discussion material.
Activity: Cue Card Charades
Time to put your detective skills to the test!
- Act out emotions or situations.
- Only use your body, face, and gestures – no talking!
- Can your teammates guess what you're saying?
Explain the charades activity. Model an example if needed. Emphasize that only non-verbal cues should be used. Encourage creativity and observation.
Your Non-Verbal Power!
You now have a better understanding of:
- What non-verbal cues are
- Why they are important
- How to 'read' them (and send your own clear signals!)
What's one thing you'll remember or try to do differently after today's lesson?
Summarize the key takeaways. Reiterate the importance of being aware of both their own non-verbal cues and those of others. Introduce the cool-down question as a final reflection.
Warm Up
Warm-Up: Guess the Feeling!
Instructions: Look at the images or read the short scenarios below. Without using any words, try to guess what emotion or message the person is conveying. Write your answer in the space provided.
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Image 1: A person with wide eyes, slightly raised eyebrows, and an open mouth.
What emotion do you think they are showing?
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Scenario: A student is sitting hunched over their desk, with their head resting on their arms. They aren't looking at anyone.
What might their body language be telling you?
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Image 2: Someone crossing their arms tightly and looking away.
What non-verbal message might this send?
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Scenario: A teacher is nodding slowly and smiling gently as a student speaks.
What non-verbal cue is the teacher using, and what does it mean?
Discussion
Discussion Prompts: Reading Between the Lines
Let's talk about how we observe and interpret non-verbal social cues in different situations.
- Imagine your friend walks into class with their shoulders slumped, not making eye contact, and they quickly sit down without saying hello. What non-verbal cues are you noticing, and what do you think they might be feeling?
- You're telling a story to a group of friends, and one of them keeps looking at their phone and tapping their foot. What message are their non-verbal cues sending to you? How does that make you feel?
- Someone is speaking to you, and they have a big smile, their eyes are crinkling at the corners, and their hands are open. What are these cues telling you about how they feel about what they're saying or about you?
- Think about a time someone misunderstood you because of your body language or facial expression. What happened, and how could you have communicated more clearly, non-verbally?
- Why do you think it's important to pay attention to both what people say and how their bodies are communicating?
Activity
Activity: Cue Card Charades
Objective: To practice recognizing and expressing emotions and situations using only non-verbal cues.
Instructions:
- Divide into small groups or pairs.
- One person from the group will pick a "Cue Card" (provided by the teacher) without showing it to their group.
- The person will then act out the emotion or situation described on the card using only their body language, facial expressions, eye contact, and gestures. No talking or sounds are allowed!
- The rest of the group will try to guess what emotion or situation is being acted out.
- Once guessed correctly, another person takes a turn.
Examples of Cue Cards (Teacher to prepare on separate slips of paper):
- Happy Surprise: (e.g., finding money, seeing an old friend)
- Confused: (e.g., trying to understand a difficult math problem, reading a confusing sign)
- Frustrated: (e.g., a pen not working, a tangled shoelace)
- Excited: (e.g., going on a trip, receiving a gift)
- Sad/Disappointed: (e.g., losing a game, a favorite toy breaking)
- Bored: (e.g., waiting in a long line, listening to a very long speech)
- Angry: (e.g., someone taking your turn, unfair treatment)
- Shy/Nervous: (e.g., meeting new people, giving a presentation)
- Proud: (e.g., finishing a big project, winning an award)
- Thoughtful/Pondering: (e.g., trying to solve a puzzle, deep in thought)
Cool Down
Cool-Down: My Non-Verbal Takeaway
Instructions: Take a moment to think about what we discussed and practiced today. In your own words, answer the question below.
What is one new thing you learned about non-verbal social cues, or one non-verbal cue you will try to pay more attention to in the future?