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What’s Our Safe Space?

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Jessica Rigby

Tier 1

Lesson Plan

Safe Space Session Guide

Students will collaboratively establish classroom norms and build trust through interactive activities, culminating in a shared set of group agreements that foster a safe and supportive environment.

This lesson lays the foundation for a trusting classroom community, encouraging students to express themselves and support one another—essential for their social-emotional development and positive peer interactions.

Audience

5th Grade Class

Time

45 minutes

Approach

Interactive games, collaborative discussion, reflective check-out.

Materials

Building Our Circle, Trust Ball Toss, Group Agreements Brainstorm, Feelings Check-Out, Soft Tossable Ball, Chart Paper, Colored Markers, and Index Cards

Prep

Prepare Materials and Space

10 minutes

  • Arrange chairs in a circle in an open space
  • Preview the Building Our Circle slide deck and note key discussion points
  • Print or project the Group Agreements Brainstorm worksheet
  • Gather a soft tossable ball for the Trust Ball Toss
  • Prepare chart paper and colored markers to record group agreements
  • Create or shuffle index cards for the Feelings Check-Out

Step 1

Warm-Up: Trust Ball Toss

5 minutes

  • Have students stand or sit in a circle
  • Explain the rules of the Trust Ball Toss: when you catch the ball, share one hope for our safe space
  • Begin tossing; ensure every student gets a turn to speak and toss

Step 2

Building Our Circle

10 minutes

  • Introduce the concept of a safe space and why it matters
  • Present the Building Our Circle slide deck, highlighting respect, listening, and confidentiality
  • Facilitate brief Q&A to ensure understanding

Step 3

Group Agreements Brainstorm

15 minutes

  • Divide students into small groups of 4–5
  • Provide each group with the Group Agreements Brainstorm worksheet
  • Groups list norms and behaviors that will keep the circle safe and supportive
  • Reconvene; have each group share top 2–3 ideas while teacher records them on chart paper

Step 4

Consolidate and Finalize Agreements

5 minutes

  • Review all proposed norms as a whole class
  • Reach consensus on 5–7 final agreements
  • Invite a volunteer to write or illustrate the final agreements on chart paper
  • Display the agreement chart prominently in the room

Step 5

Cool-Down: Feelings Check-Out

10 minutes

  • Distribute index cards to each student
  • Introduce the Feelings Check-Out: draw or write how you feel after today’s session
  • Students share with a partner or place their card into a feelings box for private review
  • Thank students for their openness and reinforce that these agreements guide future work
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Slide Deck

Building Our Circle

Welcome to our Safe Space kickoff! Today we’ll learn how to create a space full of trust, respect, and kindness.

Let’s work together to build our circle.

Welcome everyone! Introduce yourself and explain that today we’re building a classroom “circle” – a safe space where everyone feels respected and heard. Invite students to share what they think makes a place feel safe.

What Is a Safe Space?

A safe space is a place where we can:
• Share our thoughts and feelings without fear
• Respect each other’s differences
• Listen and support one another

Ask: “Have you ever been somewhere you didn’t feel safe to speak up?” Solicit a few quick responses. Then define “safe space” in your own words and check for understanding.

Why Do We Need a Safe Space?

• Feel comfortable sharing ideas and questions
• Build trust and friendships
• Solve conflicts in a kind way
• Grow together as a class community

Highlight why a safe space matters at school: it helps us learn, make friends, and solve problems together. Encourage students to nod or give a thumbs up if they agree.

Key Element: Trust

Trust means:
• Believing classmates will be kind and honest
• Knowing your ideas will be valued
• Feeling safe to make mistakes and try again

Explain that trust means believing others will treat us with care. Invite a volunteer to share an example of trust in a friendship.

Key Element: Listening

We practice listening by:
• Looking at the speaker
• Waiting our turn to talk
• Asking clarifying questions
• Showing we care with our body language

Discuss active listening: looking at the speaker, not interrupting, and asking questions. Model with a brief role-play: Student A shares, Student B listens.

Key Element: Confidentiality

Confidentiality means:
• Not sharing classmates’ stories outside the circle
• Respecting privacy
• Keeping our circle a judgment-free zone

Clarify confidentiality: what’s said in the circle stays in the circle. Emphasize that sharing is optional and private feelings stay private.

Examples of Safe Space Behaviors

• Speaking honestly and kindly
• Listening without interrupting
• Respecting each other’s opinions
• Keeping shared stories private

Review each behavior. Ask students to give thumbs up if they agree to try these actions. Transition to brainstorming our own agreements.

Next: Group Agreements Brainstorm

Get into groups of 4–5 and list norms for our safe space.

• What rules help us trust each other?
• How do we show respect?
• What keeps our circle supportive?

Explain that now we’ll split into groups to brainstorm our own class agreements. Remind them to think of 2–3 norms to keep our circle safe.

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Warm Up

Warm-Up Activity: Trust Ball Toss

Time: 5 minutes
Materials: Soft tossable ball

Instructions:

  • Have students form a circle, either sitting or standing.
  • Explain the rules:
    1. When you catch the ball, share one hope or expectation for our safe space.
    2. Toss the ball to another classmate when you’re done speaking.
  • Model one example share and toss, highlighting clear speaking and active listening.
  • Continue until every student has had a turn.
  • Encourage students to listen respectfully and offer nods or thumbs-up to the speaker.

This quick game builds trust, sets a positive tone, and gives everyone a chance to voice their hopes for our safe space.

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Discussion

Group Agreements Brainstorm

Time: 15 minutes • Group Size: 4–5 • Materials: Worksheet, Chart Paper, Colored Markers

Purpose

In this activity, you’ll work in small groups to create ideas—called agreements—that will help everyone feel safe, respected, and included in our circle. Be honest, be kind, and listen to each other!


Step 1: Form Your Group

• Find 3–4 classmates and sit together with your materials.
• Decide who will be your group’s note-taker and who will share (your “speaker”).

Step 2: Discuss and Write

Take turns answering each question. The note-taker writes all ideas. Aim for at least 2–3 ideas per question.

  1. Speaking Kindly: What can we say or do to make sure everyone feels heard and respected when it’s their turn to talk?






  2. Showing Respect: How can we show respect when someone else is sharing—through words, actions, or body language?






  3. Keeping It Private: What rule will remind us to keep our circle’s stories and feelings confidential (what’s said in the circle stays in the circle)?






  4. Including Everyone: How can we make sure no one feels left out and everyone has a place in our safe space?






Step 3: Choose Your Top Agreements

• Look at all your ideas and pick the 2–3 strongest agreements that will help keep our circle safe and supportive.
• Write them clearly below:






2. _________________________________________________________________




3. _________________________________________________________________



Step 4: Prepare to Share

• Your speaker will share your group’s top agreements when we come back together.
• Listen carefully to other groups—take note of ideas you like!


Next, we’ll reconvene and create our final class agreements together on chart paper. Get ready to share!

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Activity

Cool-Down Activity: Feelings Check-Out

Time: 10 minutes
Materials: Index Cards, Pencils, Feelings Chart (optional)

Purpose

Help students process and express their emotions privately after the session. The teacher uses the responses to gauge the group’s emotional climate and plan future support.


Instructions

  1. Distribute one index card and a pencil to each student.

  2. Explain that this is a private reflection: they can choose to draw, write, or both to show how they feel after today’s session.

  3. Offer these prompts for guidance:
    • Draw a picture of your current mood.

    • Write one word (or a short phrase) that describes how you feel.

  4. Give students 3–5 minutes to complete their cards quietly.






  5. After time is up, invite students to either:
    • Share with a partner (only if they feel comfortable), or
    • Fold their card and drop it in a feelings box for the teacher’s eyes only.






  6. Thank students for their honesty and remind them that anything shared stays confidential within our class community.

Follow-Up

• Review the cards to identify any common concerns or emotions.
• Use insights to plan check-in activities or one-on-one support as needed.
• Celebrate positive feelings and address any worries in the next session.

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