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What's a School Counselor?

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Lesson Plan

Students will identify the role and responsibilities of the school counselor and understand when and how to seek support through interactive chart review, scenario discussions, and a reflective exit ticket.

Understanding the school counselor’s role empowers students to seek help for academic or personal challenges, fostering a supportive school environment and promoting student well-being.

Audience

2nd and 3rd Grade Students

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Interactive visuals, group role-play, and reflection.

Prep

Teacher Preparation

10 minutes

Step 1

Introduction & Review

5 minutes

  • Gather students on the carpet and display the Counselor Role Chart.
  • Read each role and responsibility aloud, pointing to visuals.
  • Prompt students: “What do you think a school counselor does?” and record responses.

Step 2

Role-Play Scenarios

15 minutes

  • Divide the class into small groups of 3–4 students.
  • Distribute one School Counselor Scenario Card to each group.
  • In groups, have students read their scenario and discuss when and how a student might seek help from the counselor.
  • Invite groups to role-play their scenario for the class, demonstrating the help-seeking process.

Step 3

Class Discussion & Reflection

5 minutes

  • Reconvene the whole class and ask volunteers to share their scenario and response.
  • Highlight key points: counselor confidentiality, availability, and types of support offered.
  • Reinforce that it’s always okay to ask for help.

Step 4

Exit Ticket

5 minutes

  • Distribute the Counselor Reflection Worksheet to each student.
  • Ask students to write or draw:
    • One situation where they might talk to the school counselor.
    • One question they have for the counselor.
  • Collect worksheets to review and address common questions later.
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Activity

Role-Play with Scenario Cards

Objective: Students will practice identifying when and how to seek help from the school counselor by acting out realistic situations in small groups.

Time: 15 minutes

Materials:

Instructions

  1. Setup (2 minutes)
  2. Group Discussion (3 minutes)
    • In each group, students read their card together.
    • Prompt: “What is happening in this situation? When would someone talk to the counselor? How would they start the conversation?”
    • Encourage students to refer to the Counselor Role Chart for ideas on what the counselor can help with.
  3. Role-Play (7 minutes)
    • Assign roles: one student plays the person seeking help, another plays the counselor, and others observe.
    • Students act out the conversation step by step:
      1. Student asks to see the counselor.
      2. Counselor listens and asks clarifying questions.
      3. Counselor offers a next step or solution.
    • Observers note one thing the seeker did well and one question they still have.
  4. Share & Feedback (3 minutes)
    • Invite one or two groups to perform their role-play for the class.
    • After each performance, observers share:
      • “One thing the student seeker did that helped them get support.”
      • “One question we have for the counselor.”
    • Reinforce positive help-seeking language (e.g., “Can I talk to you about something?”) and confidentiality.

Follow-up: Use student observations to guide the whole-class discussion in the subsequent reflection step of the lesson.

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Discussion

Counselor Role Q&A Discussion

Time: 5 minutes
Materials: Counselor Role Chart, class chart paper or whiteboard, markers, Counselor Reflection Worksheet

Objectives

  • Reinforce understanding of the school counselor’s role and responsibilities.
  • Give students a chance to ask real questions and hear peer ideas.
  • Build confidence in asking for help.

Discussion Guidelines

  • Raise your hand and wait to be called on.
  • Listen respectfully when classmates speak.
  • Speak in a clear voice and use complete sentences.
  • There are no “silly” questions—every question is important!

1. What Does a Counselor Do?

Teacher Prompt: “Who can share one thing our counselor helps with?”
Follow-Ups:

  • “Can someone give an example from our Counselor Role Chart?”
  • “Why is that important for students?”



2. Why Do We Have a School Counselor?

Teacher Prompt: “Why do schools have counselors? How do they help our classroom feel safe and happy?”
Follow-Ups:

  • “What might happen if we didn’t have a counselor?”
  • “How does it feel to know someone is there to listen?”



3. Practicing Help-Seeking Language

Teacher Prompt: “Let’s practice asking to see the counselor. I’ll say the first part, and you finish the sentence.”
Model: “May I talk to you…”
Student Completion: “…about something?” “…about feeling sad?” “…about my work?”

Then invite 2–3 volunteers to role-play that sentence with a partner in front of the class.







4. When Could You Visit the Counselor?

Teacher Prompt: “Can someone tell me a time they might decide to talk to the counselor?”
Possible Answers:

  • Feeling worried or sad
  • Having trouble with friends
  • Needing help with schoolwork
  • Wanting someone to listen

Follow-Up: “If you ever aren’t sure, what could you do first?”
(Example: “Ask the teacher,” “Write a note,” “Raise my hand”)




5. Questions for the Counselor

Teacher Prompt: “Remember the questions you wrote on your Counselor Reflection Worksheet? Who would like to share one question they still have?”

  • Write each question on chart paper.
  • Invite classmates to help answer or add ideas.











Teacher Wrap-Up

  • Review key ideas recorded on the chart.
  • Remind students it’s always okay to ask for help.
  • Encourage them to visit the counselor anytime they need support.
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Reading

Counselor Role Chart

What Is a School Counselor?
A school counselor is a helpful grown-up at our school. They listen, support, and guide students when they need help.


What Can the School Counselor Help With?

  1. Feelings & Emotions
    • Feeling sad, worried, or angry? The counselor listens and helps you feel better.
  2. Friendship Problems
    • Having a fight with a friend or finding it hard to make friends? The counselor helps you talk it out and find solutions.
  3. Schoolwork Support
    • Struggling with a lesson or feeling nervous about a test? The counselor shares tips and plans to help you succeed.
  4. Family Changes
    • Moving to a new home, parents getting divorced, or a new baby in the family? The counselor helps you understand and cope with changes.
  5. Bullying & Safety
    • If you feel bullied or unsafe, the counselor works with you and adults to keep you protected.
  6. Dreams & Goals
    • Want to set goals for reading, sports, or other activities? The counselor helps you make a plan to reach your dreams.

How It Works

Confidentiality: The counselor keeps what you say private. They only share if someone’s safety is at risk.
How to Visit:

  1. Ask your teacher.
  2. Write a note and give it to the counselor.
  3. Walk to the counselor’s office during class with a pass.

Remember:
It’s always okay to ask for help. Your counselor is here to listen!

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Activity

School Counselor Scenario Cards

Instructions: Print and cut these cards. Give each small group one card for the role-play activity. Students should read their scenario, discuss when and how to visit the counselor, and then act it out.


Card 1: New in School
You just moved to a new neighborhood and don’t know anyone. You feel lonely at recess and aren’t sure what to do.




Card 2: Friendship Fight
You and your best friend had a disagreement at lunch. Now you feel sad because you can’t play together.




Card 3: Test Worries
You have a big spelling test tomorrow. You’re nervous and don’t know how to study.




Card 4: Family Change
Your parents recently got separated. You feel confused and miss how things were before.




Card 5: Bullying
Someone in another class called you mean names on the playground. You feel hurt and don’t want to go out there.




Card 6: Goal Planning
You want to get better at reading but aren’t sure how to practice or who to ask for help.




Card 7: Feeling Scared
A big storm last night made your house shake. You feel scared and had trouble sleeping.




Card 8: Feeling Excluded
All the students are choosing partner groups for a project. You worry no one will pick you.

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Worksheet

Counselor Reflection Worksheet

Name: ________________ Date: ________________

1. Draw or Write One Situation Where You Might Talk to the School Counselor

(You can draw a picture or write a few sentences.)












2. Write One Question You Have for the School Counselor







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