Lesson Plan
Wait Your Turn! Lesson Plan
Children will learn to take turns and practice patience through guided role-play, a cooperative game, and reflective discussion.
Building turn-taking skills fosters self-regulation, cooperation, and positive peer interactions—key foundations for classroom success and friendships.
Audience
Preschool (4-year-olds)
Time
20 minutes
Approach
Hands-on role-play and a simple game with guided reflection.
Materials
- Turn-Taking Picture Cards, - Soft Ball or Bean Bag, - Timer, and - Breathing Exercise Poster
Prep
Prepare Materials
5 minutes
- Print and cut out Turn-Taking Picture Cards
- Locate a soft ball or bean bag and a timer
- Display or hang the Breathing Exercise Poster
- Review the Wait Your Turn! Lesson Plan
Step 1
Welcome and Introduction
3 minutes
- Have children sit in a circle on the floor
- Show Turn-Taking Picture Cards one by one
- Ask: “What do you notice? Whose turn is it here?”
- Explain: “Today we will practice waiting and taking turns!”
Step 2
Role-Play Demonstration
4 minutes
- Teacher and one volunteer stand in the circle with the soft ball or bean bag
- Teacher holds the ball, says “My turn,” and gently passes it to the volunteer
- Volunteer replies, “Thank you,” holds the ball, says “My turn,” and passes it back
- Repeat the exchange once more so children see the full interaction
- Invite children to chime in with “My turn” and “Thank you” when prompted
- Call on two volunteers to practice the turn-taking exchange with each other
Step 3
Pass the Ball Game
7 minutes
- Children remain in circle; teacher gives the soft ball or bean bag to one child
- Set the timer for 10 seconds
- When the timer dings, the child holding the ball says “I’m waiting” and gently passes it to the next child
- Continue passing until everyone has had multiple turns
- Encourage polite language: “Please,” “Thank you,” and “Your turn”
Step 4
Discussion
3 minutes
- Gather children back in circle
- Ask: “How did you feel when you waited for the ball?”
- Prompt: “What helped you stay patient?”
- Reinforce positive behaviors: praise sharing, waiting quietly, kind words
Step 5
Cool Down
3 minutes
- Stand by the Breathing Exercise Poster
- Lead deep breaths: inhale for three counts, exhale for three counts
- Invite children to place hands on belly and feel breaths
- Conclude: “Great job waiting your turn! You’re super patient friends.”

Game
Pass the Ball Game
Purpose: A cooperative circle game that reinforces waiting patiently, taking turns, and using polite language.
Duration: 7 minutes
Materials:
- Soft ball or bean bag
- Timer (set for 10–15 seconds)
- Turn-Taking Picture Cards (optional visual prompts)
Steps:
- Gather in a Circle (30 seconds)
- Have children sit or stand in a circle, spaced comfortably apart.
- Explain the Rules (1 minute)
- Show the soft ball and explain: “When I start the timer, we will pass the ball around the circle.”
- Demonstrate: hold the ball, say “I’m waiting,” then gently roll or hand it to the next friend.
- Emphasize polite words: “Please pass,” “Thank you,” and “Your turn.”
- Play the Game (4 minutes)
- Give the ball to one child and start the timer for 10 seconds.
- While the timer runs, the child holds the ball and waits quietly.
- When the timer dings, the child says, “I’m waiting,” then passes to the next child, saying, “Your turn.”
- The receiving child responds, “Thank you,” holds the ball until the next ding, and repeats.
- Continue until each child has had multiple turns (adjust time as needed).
- Encourage and Reinforce (throughout)
- Praise children who use polite language and wait quietly.
- Offer gentle reminders or show a Turn-Taking Picture Card if a child forgets the words.
Differentiation and Supports:
- Slow the timer interval (e.g., 15 seconds) for children needing extra processing time.
- Provide sentence strips or gesture cues for nonverbal learners: point to “My turn,” “Please,” “Thank you.”
- Pair more independent children with those needing additional support.
Assessment & Follow-Up:
- Observe who uses correct phrases without prompting.
- Note children who rush the pass or need visual cues; plan targeted practice in small groups.
- In future sessions, invite children to pass other classroom items (crayons, blocks) using the same steps.
Teacher Reflection Questions:
- Which children waited patiently and used polite words?
- Who benefited from slower pacing or extra visual supports?
- How can I adapt the game to maintain engagement and scaffold emerging turn-taking skills?


Discussion
Turn-Taking Talk Discussion
Purpose: Reflect on feelings and strategies after practicing taking turns and patience.
Duration: 3 minutes
Materials:
Steps:
- Gather in a Circle (30 seconds)
- Invite children to sit comfortably in their circle spots.
- Show one Turn-Taking Picture Card (child waiting patiently).
- Feeling Check (1 minute)
- Ask: “How did you feel when you were waiting for the ball?”
- Prompt with faces: “Show me a calm face 😊 or an excited face 😃.”
- Follow-up: “Why did you feel that way?”
- Strategy Share (1 minute)
- Ask: “What helped you stay patient?”
- Encourage sentence frames: “I took deep breaths.” or “I said ‘Please wait.’”
- Friendly Advice (30 seconds)
- Ask: “What can you tell a friend who is waiting?”
- Scaffold: “You can say…” and invite responses: “It’s OK, your turn is next!”
- Wrap-Up (30 seconds)
- Praise efforts: “I saw super listening and kind words!”
- Conclude: “Remember, waiting shows you care about friends.”
Teacher Reflection Questions:
- Which children named a strategy they used?
- Who responded well with sentence frames?
- How can I support children who felt frustrated?


Cool Down
Breathe and Reflect
Purpose: Guide children through a simple breathing exercise to help them calm down and practice self-regulation after the activity.
Duration: 3 minutes
Materials:
Steps:
- Gather in a Circle (30 seconds)
- Invite children to sit or stand comfortably in a circle.
- Ask them to place one hand on their belly and one hand on their chest.
- Introduce Breathing (30 seconds)
- Show the Breathing Exercise Poster.
- Explain: “We will breathe in through our nose like smelling a flower, and blow out through our mouth like blowing out a candle.”
- Lead Deep Breaths (1 minute)
- Inhale for three counts: “Breathe in… 1, 2, 3.”
- Exhale for three counts: “Breathe out… 1, 2, 3.”
- Repeat this cycle 4–5 times, speaking slowly and encouraging gentle movements of the belly.
- Feeling Check (1 minute)
- Ask: “How do you feel now?”
- Invite children to finish the sentence: “I feel ______.”
- Closing Praise (30 seconds)
- Celebrate: “Great job calming your bodies and waiting patiently today!”
- Encourage them to use these breaths anytime they need a quiet moment.
Teacher Reflection Questions:
- Did children settle and engage in the breath work?
- Who might need additional modeling or visual cues next time?
- How can I integrate breathing breaks into our daily routine?


Activity
Role-Play Demonstration Activity
Purpose: Model polite turn‐taking language and patient behavior using a teacher–volunteer exchange.
Duration: 4 minutes
Materials:
- Soft ball or bean bag
Steps:
-
Gather in a Circle (30 seconds)
- Invite children to sit where they can clearly see you and a volunteer.
-
Teacher Models (1 minute)
- Teacher holds the ball and says, “My turn, please.”
- Teacher gently hands or rolls the ball to the volunteer and says, “Your turn.”
- Volunteer responds, “Thank you,” holds the ball, says “My turn,” then hands it back.
- Repeat once so the full exchange is clear.
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Children Chime In (1 minute)
- Prompt the class: “Friends, what does the teacher say?”
- Children respond together: “My turn, please.”
- Then ask: “What does our friend say when it’s their turn?”
- Children reply: “Thank you.”
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Volunteer Practice (1 minute)
- Select two new volunteers to stand in the circle.
- Guide them through one full exchange: “Friend A: My turn, please. Friend B: Thank you, your turn.”
- Offer gentle prompts as needed.
Differentiation & Supports:
- Visual Cue: Hold up a Turn-Taking Picture Card showing “My turn” or “Thank you.”
- Sentence Frame Poster: Display “My turn, please” and “Thank you” on the board.
- Extra Wait Time: Pause 3–5 seconds after each prompt for children needing more processing.
- Positive Praise: Acknowledge children who wait quietly and use polite words.
Assessment & Follow-Up:
- Note which children say the phrases without prompts.
- Encourage children who need more practice to watch or repeat the demo.
- In later sessions, invite volunteers to model with different classroom items (blocks, crayons).
Teacher Reflection:
- Which children confidently used the language?
- Who needed additional visual supports or prompting?
- How can I vary the model to keep all children engaged?

