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Wait Your Turn!

rachel.sewell

Tier 1
For Schools

Lesson Plan

Wait Your Turn! Lesson Plan

Children will learn to take turns and practice patience through guided role-play, a cooperative game, and reflective discussion.

Building turn-taking skills fosters self-regulation, cooperation, and positive peer interactions—key foundations for classroom success and friendships.

Audience

Preschool (4-year-olds)

Time

20 minutes

Approach

Hands-on role-play and a simple game with guided reflection.

Materials

  • Turn-Taking Picture Cards, - Soft Ball or Bean Bag, - Timer, and - Breathing Exercise Poster

Prep

Prepare Materials

5 minutes

  • Print and cut out Turn-Taking Picture Cards
  • Locate a soft ball or bean bag and a timer
  • Display or hang the Breathing Exercise Poster
  • Review the Wait Your Turn! Lesson Plan

Step 1

Welcome and Introduction

3 minutes

  • Have children sit in a circle on the floor
  • Show Turn-Taking Picture Cards one by one
  • Ask: “What do you notice? Whose turn is it here?”
  • Explain: “Today we will practice waiting and taking turns!”

Step 2

Role-Play Demonstration

4 minutes

  • Teacher and one volunteer stand in the circle with the soft ball or bean bag
  • Teacher holds the ball, says “My turn,” and gently passes it to the volunteer
  • Volunteer replies, “Thank you,” holds the ball, says “My turn,” and passes it back
  • Repeat the exchange once more so children see the full interaction
  • Invite children to chime in with “My turn” and “Thank you” when prompted
  • Call on two volunteers to practice the turn-taking exchange with each other

Step 3

Pass the Ball Game

7 minutes

  • Children remain in circle; teacher gives the soft ball or bean bag to one child
  • Set the timer for 10 seconds
  • When the timer dings, the child holding the ball says “I’m waiting” and gently passes it to the next child
  • Continue passing until everyone has had multiple turns
  • Encourage polite language: “Please,” “Thank you,” and “Your turn”

Step 4

Discussion

3 minutes

  • Gather children back in circle
  • Ask: “How did you feel when you waited for the ball?”
  • Prompt: “What helped you stay patient?”
  • Reinforce positive behaviors: praise sharing, waiting quietly, kind words

Step 5

Cool Down

3 minutes

  • Stand by the Breathing Exercise Poster
  • Lead deep breaths: inhale for three counts, exhale for three counts
  • Invite children to place hands on belly and feel breaths
  • Conclude: “Great job waiting your turn! You’re super patient friends.”
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Game

Pass the Ball Game

Purpose: A cooperative circle game that reinforces waiting patiently, taking turns, and using polite language.
Duration: 7 minutes

Materials:

  • Soft ball or bean bag
  • Timer (set for 10–15 seconds)
  • Turn-Taking Picture Cards (optional visual prompts)

Steps:

  1. Gather in a Circle (30 seconds)
    • Have children sit or stand in a circle, spaced comfortably apart.
  2. Explain the Rules (1 minute)
    • Show the soft ball and explain: “When I start the timer, we will pass the ball around the circle.”
    • Demonstrate: hold the ball, say “I’m waiting,” then gently roll or hand it to the next friend.
    • Emphasize polite words: “Please pass,” “Thank you,” and “Your turn.”
  3. Play the Game (4 minutes)
    • Give the ball to one child and start the timer for 10 seconds.
    • While the timer runs, the child holds the ball and waits quietly.
    • When the timer dings, the child says, “I’m waiting,” then passes to the next child, saying, “Your turn.”
    • The receiving child responds, “Thank you,” holds the ball until the next ding, and repeats.
    • Continue until each child has had multiple turns (adjust time as needed).
  4. Encourage and Reinforce (throughout)
    • Praise children who use polite language and wait quietly.
    • Offer gentle reminders or show a Turn-Taking Picture Card if a child forgets the words.

Differentiation and Supports:

  • Slow the timer interval (e.g., 15 seconds) for children needing extra processing time.
  • Provide sentence strips or gesture cues for nonverbal learners: point to “My turn,” “Please,” “Thank you.”
  • Pair more independent children with those needing additional support.

Assessment & Follow-Up:

  • Observe who uses correct phrases without prompting.
  • Note children who rush the pass or need visual cues; plan targeted practice in small groups.
  • In future sessions, invite children to pass other classroom items (crayons, blocks) using the same steps.

Teacher Reflection Questions:

  • Which children waited patiently and used polite words?
  • Who benefited from slower pacing or extra visual supports?
  • How can I adapt the game to maintain engagement and scaffold emerging turn-taking skills?
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Discussion

Turn-Taking Talk Discussion

Purpose: Reflect on feelings and strategies after practicing taking turns and patience.
Duration: 3 minutes

Materials:

  • Turn-Taking Picture Cards

Steps:

  1. Gather in a Circle (30 seconds)
    • Invite children to sit comfortably in their circle spots.
    • Show one Turn-Taking Picture Card (child waiting patiently).
  2. Feeling Check (1 minute)
    • Ask: “How did you feel when you were waiting for the ball?”
    • Prompt with faces: “Show me a calm face 😊 or an excited face 😃.”


    • Follow-up: “Why did you feel that way?”


  3. Strategy Share (1 minute)
    • Ask: “What helped you stay patient?”
    • Encourage sentence frames: “I took deep breaths.” or “I said ‘Please wait.’”


  4. Friendly Advice (30 seconds)
    • Ask: “What can you tell a friend who is waiting?”
    • Scaffold: “You can say…” and invite responses: “It’s OK, your turn is next!”


  5. Wrap-Up (30 seconds)
    • Praise efforts: “I saw super listening and kind words!”
    • Conclude: “Remember, waiting shows you care about friends.”

Teacher Reflection Questions:

  • Which children named a strategy they used?
  • Who responded well with sentence frames?
  • How can I support children who felt frustrated?
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Cool Down

Breathe and Reflect

Purpose: Guide children through a simple breathing exercise to help them calm down and practice self-regulation after the activity.
Duration: 3 minutes

Materials:

  • Breathing Exercise Poster

Steps:

  1. Gather in a Circle (30 seconds)
    • Invite children to sit or stand comfortably in a circle.
    • Ask them to place one hand on their belly and one hand on their chest.
  2. Introduce Breathing (30 seconds)
    • Show the Breathing Exercise Poster.
    • Explain: “We will breathe in through our nose like smelling a flower, and blow out through our mouth like blowing out a candle.”
  3. Lead Deep Breaths (1 minute)
    • Inhale for three counts: “Breathe in… 1, 2, 3.”
    • Exhale for three counts: “Breathe out… 1, 2, 3.”
    • Repeat this cycle 4–5 times, speaking slowly and encouraging gentle movements of the belly.
  4. Feeling Check (1 minute)
    • Ask: “How do you feel now?”
    • Invite children to finish the sentence: “I feel ______.”





  5. Closing Praise (30 seconds)
    • Celebrate: “Great job calming your bodies and waiting patiently today!”
    • Encourage them to use these breaths anytime they need a quiet moment.

Teacher Reflection Questions:

  • Did children settle and engage in the breath work?
  • Who might need additional modeling or visual cues next time?
  • How can I integrate breathing breaks into our daily routine?
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Activity

Role-Play Demonstration Activity

Purpose: Model polite turn‐taking language and patient behavior using a teacher–volunteer exchange.
Duration: 4 minutes

Materials:

  • Soft ball or bean bag

Steps:

  1. Gather in a Circle (30 seconds)

    • Invite children to sit where they can clearly see you and a volunteer.
  2. Teacher Models (1 minute)

    • Teacher holds the ball and says, “My turn, please.”
    • Teacher gently hands or rolls the ball to the volunteer and says, “Your turn.”
    • Volunteer responds, “Thank you,” holds the ball, says “My turn,” then hands it back.
    • Repeat once so the full exchange is clear.
  3. Children Chime In (1 minute)

    • Prompt the class: “Friends, what does the teacher say?”
    • Children respond together: “My turn, please.”
    • Then ask: “What does our friend say when it’s their turn?”
    • Children reply: “Thank you.”
  4. Volunteer Practice (1 minute)

    • Select two new volunteers to stand in the circle.
    • Guide them through one full exchange: “Friend A: My turn, please. Friend B: Thank you, your turn.”
    • Offer gentle prompts as needed.

Differentiation & Supports:

  • Visual Cue: Hold up a Turn-Taking Picture Card showing “My turn” or “Thank you.”
  • Sentence Frame Poster: Display “My turn, please” and “Thank you” on the board.
  • Extra Wait Time: Pause 3–5 seconds after each prompt for children needing more processing.
  • Positive Praise: Acknowledge children who wait quietly and use polite words.

Assessment & Follow-Up:

  • Note which children say the phrases without prompts.
  • Encourage children who need more practice to watch or repeat the demo.
  • In later sessions, invite volunteers to model with different classroom items (blocks, crayons).

Teacher Reflection:

  • Which children confidently used the language?
  • Who needed additional visual supports or prompting?
  • How can I vary the model to keep all children engaged?
lenny
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