Lesson Plan
Treat Me Right!
Students will learn to treat friends kindly and respectfully by listening, sharing, and using kind words. They will practice empathy and positive interactions through stories, songs, and role-play.
Building kindness and respect in Pre-K helps children develop strong friendships, empathy, and a supportive classroom community from an early age.
Audience
Pre-K
Time
30 minutes
Approach
Storytime, interactive song, and guided role-play practice.
Materials
Kindness Storybook: 'The Golden Rule', Kindness Song Lyrics Poster, Friendship Role-Play Props, Paper Hearts (craft materials), and Crayons
Prep
Prepare Materials
10 minutes
- Print and gather Kindness Storybook: 'The Golden Rule'
- Print and display Kindness Song Lyrics Poster
- Assemble Friendship Role-Play Props (hats, small toys)
- Cut out enough paper hearts for each student
- Arrange seating in a circle area
Step 1
Welcome and Introduction
5 minutes
- Invite students to sit in a circle
- Ask: “How do you show you care about your friends?”
- Listen to responses and highlight words like “sharing,” “listening,” and “helping.”
Step 2
Story Time
10 minutes
- Show cover of Kindness Storybook: 'The Golden Rule'
- Read the story aloud with expressive voice
- Pause after key moments to ask: “What would you do?” and “How does the character feel?”
- Encourage students to share their ideas
Step 3
Kindness Song
5 minutes
- Point to Kindness Song Lyrics Poster
- Teach students simple melody and actions (e.g., high-five, hug motion)
- Sing together twice, prompting actions on each verse
Step 4
Role-Play Practice
8 minutes
- Divide students into pairs and give each a prop from Friendship Role-Play Props
- Model a scenario (sharing toys) with a volunteer
- Have pairs act out scenarios: greeting a friend, sharing, helping someone up
- Rotate roles so each child practices being both helper and friend
Step 5
Reflection and Craft
2 minutes
- Give each student a paper heart and crayons
- Ask them to draw one kind thing they will do today
- Invite volunteers to show their heart and describe their kind action
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Slide Deck
Treat Me Right!
Let’s learn how to be kind and respectful friends!
Greet students warmly and introduce today’s lesson. Say: “Welcome, friends! Today we’re going to learn how to Treat Me Right by being kind and respectful to each other.”
Our Materials
- Kindness Storybook: 'The Golden Rule'
- Kindness Song Lyrics Poster
- Friendship Role-Play Props
- Paper Hearts & Crayons
Show each item as you name it. If possible, hold up the real storybook, point to the poster, and show the props.
Welcome & Introduction
• Sit in a circle
• Think about how you show you care
• Share your ideas!
Invite students to sit in a circle. Ask: “How do you show you care about your friends?” Listen and repeat keywords: sharing, listening, helping.
Story Time
We’ll read 'The Golden Rule' and talk about kindness as we go.
Hold up the storybook cover so all can see. Read with expression, pausing to ask: “What would you do?” and “How does the character feel?” Encourage brief responses.
Kindness Song
🎶 Be a friend, show you care, share a smile and show them you’re there! 🎶
Point to the lyrics on the poster. Teach one simple verse with melody. Show action cues: high-five on ‘friend,’ hug motion on ‘care.’ Sing twice together.
Role-Play Practice
Practice being a good friend with your partner:
• Greet each other
• Share a toy
• Help a friend up
Divide class into pairs and hand out a prop to each pair. Model a sharing scenario with a volunteer. Let pairs act out: greeting, sharing, helping. Rotate roles.
Reflection & Craft
Draw one kind action on your heart and share it with us!
Give each child a paper heart and crayons. Ask: “Draw one kind thing you will do today.” Invite a few volunteers to hold up and describe their heart.
Great Job!
Remember to Treat Me Right! Be kind and respectful all day.
Thank everyone for their great ideas and practice. Remind them: “You all did a wonderful job Treating each other Right. Keep being kind all day!”
Reading
The Golden Rule Story
Once Upon a Time…
Lily and Ben were best friends. They loved to play together at the playground. Lily liked to slide down the big slide, and Ben liked to build towers with colorful blocks.
A Sad Moment
One sunny morning, Ben forgot his favorite block set at home. He sat on the bench looking sad. Lily saw her friend’s frown and felt worried.
“Are you okay, Ben?” asked Lily softly.
Ben shook his head. “I really wanted to build today.”
Sharing a Kind Heart
Lily remembered how her family shared toys with her. She had extra blocks in her backpack. Lily smiled and said, “You can play with my blocks!”
Ben’s eyes grew big. “Really?” he asked. Lily nodded and handed him the bright red blocks.
Together, they built a tower taller than both of them!
Listening and Helping
At recess, Mia fell and scraped her knee. Lily and Ben heard Mia’s cry. Without thinking twice, they ran over and helped her stand up. Lily gave Mia a tissue, and Ben held her hand.
“Thank you,” said Mia with a small smile.
The Golden Rule
Lily’s teacher spoke quietly to the class. “We treat others the way we want to be treated. This is called the Golden Rule.”
Lily thought about sharing her blocks, helping Mia, and using kind words. She felt proud.
A Happy Day
At the end of the day, Lily and Ben waved goodbye to each other. They remembered: when we are kind, we make our friends feel happy and safe.
Remember: Treat others the way you want to be treated, just like Lily and Ben did!
Activity
Kindness Song Lyrics Poster
🎶 Be a Friend, Show You Care 🎶
Lyrics:
Be a friend, show you care,
Share a smile and show them you’re there!
Actions:
- “Friend”: high-five your partner ✋
- “Care”: wrap your arms in a hug motion 🤗
- “Smile”: point to your smiling face 😊
- “There”: point to your friend 👈
Let’s sing and move together!
Activity
Friendship Role-Play Props
Use these simple, familiar items to help students act out kind friend scenarios:
• Small Soft Toys (e.g., plush animals or dolls)
– Practice sharing and trading a favorite toy with a friend.
• Colorful Hats or Headbands
– Role-play greeting each other: put on a “hat” to play a character who says hello kindly.
• Toy Plates & Cups
– Pretend to share food or snacks, offering a friend a cup of “tea.”
• Tissue Packet or Small Cloth
– Act out helping a friend who is “sad” or “crying” by offering a tissue or gentle hug.
• Small Blocks or Building Bricks
– Practice taking turns building a tower together and celebrating each other’s work.
Hints for Teachers:
- Encourage students to use kind words (“Please,” “Thank you,” “You’re welcome”).
- Model each scenario first with a volunteer.
- Rotate props so every child practices being the helper and the friend.
Let’s use these props to bring kindness and sharing to life!
Warm Up
Friendship Check-In
Time: 5 minutes
Materials: Thumbs-Up & Thumbs-Down Cards
Prep (2 minutes)
- Arrange students in a circle area
- Distribute thumbs-up/thumbs-down cards to each child
Instructions
1. Morning Greeting (2 minutes)
- Students turn to the friend on their right and say, “Good morning, friend!” while giving a friendly wave.
- Encourage eye contact and big smiles.
2. Feelings Check (2 minutes)
- Ask the class: “How are you feeling today?”
- Students hold up thumbs-up if they feel happy or excited, thumbs-down if they feel sad or tired.
- Acknowledge each child quietly: “Thank you for sharing!”
3. Kindness Shout-Out (1 minute)
- Invite 2–3 volunteers to share one kind thing they did or noticed yesterday (e.g., “I helped my friend pick up blocks.”).
- After each share, the class gives a soft round of applause.
Let’s start our day by checking in with our feelings and celebrating kindness!
Cool Down
Kindness Exit Ticket
Name: _________________________
1. Draw One Kind Thing
Draw one kind thing you will do today to help a friend or show you care:
2. How Do You Feel?**
Circle the face that shows how you feel about being kind today:
🙂 😐 🙁
Materials: Exit Ticket paper & crayons
Thank you for sharing your kindness ideas!