Lesson Plan
Stress Less Lesson Plan
Students will identify personal stressors and practice three coping techniques—deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, and positive self-talk—to build self-awareness and reduce everyday stress.
Teaching stress management empowers students to handle academic and social pressures, boosting their mental well-being, focus, and resilience both in and out of the classroom.
Audience
8th Grade
Time
45 minutes
Approach
Interactive discussions, guided practice, and personal reflection.
Materials
- Stress Trigger Brainstorm Sheet, - Deep Breathing Technique Script, - Progressive Muscle Relaxation Guide, - Positive Self-Talk Worksheet, - Stress Management Reflection Journal, and - Timer or Stopwatch
Prep
Prep Materials and Space
10 minutes
- Print copies of Stress Trigger Brainstorm Sheet, Deep Breathing Technique Script, Progressive Muscle Relaxation Guide, Positive Self-Talk Worksheet, and Stress Management Reflection Journal
- Arrange seating in a circle or semicircle for group activities
- Ensure a visible timer or stopwatch is available for timed exercises
- Review all generated materials to familiarize yourself with each activity and script
Step 1
Introduction to Stress
5 minutes
- Define stress and discuss common 8th-grade stressors
- Distribute Stress Trigger Brainstorm Sheet
- Students individually list at least three personal stress triggers
- Invite volunteers to share one trigger with the class
Step 2
Deep Breathing Exercise
10 minutes
- Explain benefits of deep, controlled breathing
- Model the technique using the Deep Breathing Technique Script
- Lead students through 3–5 deep breathing cycles, counting seconds aloud
- Students note sensations or changes in their Reflection Journal
Step 3
Progressive Muscle Relaxation
10 minutes
- Introduce tensing and releasing muscle groups to reduce tension
- Follow steps in the Progressive Muscle Relaxation Guide
- Guide students through 5 muscle groups, cueing tension and release
- Allow a minute between groups for students to jot observations in their journal
Step 4
Positive Self-Talk Activity
10 minutes
- Discuss how thoughts influence stress levels
- Present examples of negative vs. positive self-talk
- Distribute Positive Self-Talk Worksheet
- Students convert two negative statements into positive affirmations
- Volunteers share their new affirmations
Step 5
Reflection and Wrap-Up
10 minutes
- Ask students to write in the Stress Management Reflection Journal: which technique felt most helpful and why
- In pairs, share one coping strategy they’ll use this week
- Close by setting a class goal to practice a chosen technique daily
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Slide Deck
Stress Less: Master Your Calm
A 45-minute Tier 1 Stress Management Lesson for 8th Grade
Welcome students and introduce the session. Explain that today’s goal is to learn simple, practical ways to manage stress. Link today’s activities back to improved focus and well-being.
Objective & Agenda
Objective:
• Identify personal stressors
• Practice three coping techniques
Agenda:
- Introduction to Stress (5 min)
- Deep Breathing Exercise (10 min)
- Progressive Muscle Relaxation (10 min)
- Positive Self-Talk Activity (10 min)
- Reflection & Wrap-Up (10 min)
Point out the learning objective and explain each part of the agenda so students know what to expect.
What Is Stress?
Stress is your body’s natural response to demands or pressures.
Common 8th-grade stressors:
• Tests & homework deadlines
• Peer pressure & social dynamics
• Family expectations
• Extracurricular commitments
Define stress in your own words, then invite students to suggest examples. Record common 8th-grade stressors on the board.
Stress Trigger Brainstorm
- Distribute your Stress Trigger Brainstorm Sheet.
- List at least three personal stressors.
- Volunteers share one trigger with the class.
Distribute the Stress Trigger Brainstorm Sheet. Give students 3 minutes to list at least three things that cause them stress. Then call on volunteers to share one.
Deep Breathing Exercise
Why it works:
• Activates relaxation response
• Lowers heart rate
How to do it:
- Sit comfortably, hands on belly.
- Inhale slowly for 4 seconds.
- Hold for 2 seconds.
- Exhale for 6 seconds.
Follow the full steps in the Deep Breathing Technique Script.
Explain why deep breathing calms the nervous system. Use the script to model each inhale/exhale. Guide 3–5 cycles, counting slowly.
Progressive Muscle Relaxation
What it does:
• Teaches body awareness
• Releases built-up tension
Steps (5 groups):
- Feet & calves
- Thighs & hips
- Hands & arms
- Shoulders & neck
- Face & jaw
Follow cues in the Progressive Muscle Relaxation Guide.
Introduce PMR: tensing and releasing muscles to notice and reduce tension. Guide students through 5 major muscle groups, pausing after each.
Positive Self-Talk Activity
How thoughts affect stress:
• Negative: “I’ll fail this test.”
• Positive: “I’ve prepared; I can do my best.”
Your turn:
- Complete two negative-to-positive conversions on the Positive Self-Talk Worksheet.
- Volunteers share their affirmations.
Discuss how our inner dialogue affects feelings. Share two negative statements and demonstrate turning them into positive self-talk. Then have students practice on their worksheets.
Reflection & Wrap-Up
- In your Stress Management Reflection Journal, write:
• Which technique was most helpful & why - Pair up and share one strategy you’ll use this week.
- As a class, set a daily practice goal.
Ask students to reflect quietly, then pair up and share. Encourage specific examples of how they’ll practice at home or school.
Take-Home Strategies
• Practice deep breathing before exams or presentations
• Use quick PMR breaks between classes
• Replace negative thoughts with affirmations daily
• Review your reflection journal weekly
Highlight that managing stress is a skill that improves with practice. Encourage students to use the techniques before tests, during breaks, or anytime they feel overwhelmed.
Worksheet
Stress Trigger Brainstorm
Use this sheet to identify the things that cause you stress and begin thinking about how to manage them.
1. List at least three personal stress triggers.
Trigger 1: _______________________________________
Trigger 2: _______________________________________
Trigger 3: _______________________________________
2. Categorize each trigger (academic, social, family, or other).
Trigger 1 category: _______________
Trigger 2 category: _______________
Trigger 3 category: _______________
3. Which trigger feels the most overwhelming? Explain why.
4. Choose one of your triggers and describe a coping strategy you could use. Explain how you will put this strategy into action.
Keep this brainstorm sheet handy as you practice different stress‐management techniques throughout our lesson!
Worksheet
Positive Self-Talk Worksheet
Use this worksheet to turn negative thoughts into positive, empowering statements. Practice these affirmations to help reduce stress and build confidence.
1. Identify two negative thoughts you often have when feeling stressed.
Negative Thought 1: _______________________________
Negative Thought 2: _______________________________
2. Rewrite each negative thought as a positive affirmation.
Positive Affirmation 1: ____________________________
Positive Affirmation 2: ____________________________
3. Choose one affirmation and describe when and how you will practice it this week.
I will use my affirmation by:
4. Reflect on how changing your self-talk affects your stress level or mood.
Keep this worksheet handy and repeat your affirmations daily to build a habit of positive thinking!
Reading
Deep Breathing Technique Script
Purpose
This script guides students through a simple, paced breathing exercise to activate the body’s natural relaxation response. Regular practice can lower heart rate, reduce muscle tension, and calm the mind.
Preparation
- Have students sit comfortably in chairs or on the floor with a straight back.
- Ask them to place one hand on their belly and one on their chest (optional).
- Ensure the room is quiet and free of distractions.
- Display or project a timer if available.
Teacher’s Script
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Introduction (30 seconds)
“Today we’re going to practice deep breathing—one of the simplest ways to calm our bodies and minds. As we breathe slowly and fully, we send a message to our brain that everything is okay. This helps reduce feelings of stress.” -
Getting Ready (30 seconds)
“Sit up tall, relax your shoulders, and rest your hands on your belly and chest. Close your eyes if that feels comfortable, or keep a soft gaze on the floor.” -
Explain the Count (30 seconds)
“We’ll inhale for a count of 4, hold for 2, then exhale for 6. Inhaling fills your lungs; holding lets oxygen circulate; exhaling for longer helps you release tension.” -
Guided Breathing Rounds (3–5 minutes)
We will do 3–5 rounds. I’ll count slowly, and you follow along:• Round 1–3 (Model aloud):
- “Inhale… 1… 2… 3… 4.” (Students breathe in)
- “Hold… 1… 2.”
- “Exhale… 1… 2… 3… 4… 5… 6.”
- Pause 2–3 seconds before next round.
• Rounds 4–5 (Invite students to lead):
- Ask a volunteer to count the inhale, another to hold, and another to count the exhale. Rotate if time allows.
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Body Scan & Reflection (1 minute)
“Now gently open your eyes or lift your gaze. Notice any changes in your body: Do you feel lighter in your chest? Was your mind quieter? Take a moment to jot down any sensations in your Stress Management Reflection Journal.”
Tips for Effective Teaching
- Pacing: Count slowly and clearly—students should have time to follow without rushing.
- Tone: Use a calm, reassuring voice to model relaxation.
- Environment: Dim lights or soft background music can enhance focus, but only if your classroom setup allows it.
- Encouragement: Remind students there’s no “right” or “wrong” way to feel; each breath is practice toward building calm.
Continue to integrate deep breathing at the start of tests, transitions between tasks, or whenever you notice students (or yourself) feeling overwhelmed. With consistent practice, this tool becomes an automatic way to regain focus and composure.
Reading
Progressive Muscle Relaxation Guide
Purpose
Progressive Muscle Relaxation (PMR) teaches students to notice and release tension in different muscle groups. By tensing and then relaxing muscles, students build body awareness and reduce physical stress symptoms.
Preparation
- Have students sit or lie down comfortably with arms by their sides.
- Ensure the room is quiet and distractions are minimal.
- Explain that they’ll be tensing each muscle group for a few seconds, then releasing fully.
- Remind students there’s no right or wrong way to feel—this is about noticing tension and letting it go.
Teacher’s Script
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Introduction (1 minute)
“Today we’re going to practice Progressive Muscle Relaxation. You’ll tense key muscle groups one at a time, then slowly let go. Notice the difference between tightness and release.” -
Demonstration (1 minute)
“I’ll model the first group—the feet and calves. Watch and follow along.” -
Guided Tension & Release (10 minutes)
We’ll work through five groups. For each:
a. Inhale and tense the group for about 5 seconds.
b. Exhale and release fully for about 10 seconds, noticing the looseness.
c. Pause briefly before moving on.• Group 1: Feet & Calves
- “Curl toes up toward your shins and tighten your calf muscles.”
- Count silently: “1…2…3…4…5.”
- “Now exhale and loosen everything. Feel the weight of your legs.”
- (Pause 5–10 seconds)
• Group 2: Thighs & Hips
- “Squeeze your thighs together and press your hips into the chair or floor.”
- Count: “1…2…3…4…5.”
- “Release and notice any warm, heavy sensation.”
- (Pause)
• Group 3: Hands & Arms
- “Clench your fists and tighten your forearms and biceps.”
- Count: “1…2…3…4…5.”
- “Exhale and let your hands and arms go limp.”
- (Pause)
• Group 4: Shoulders & Neck
- “Raise your shoulders up toward your ears and tense your neck.”
- Count: “1…2…3…4…5.”
- “Release and feel your shoulders drop and your neck soften.”
- (Pause)
• Group 5: Face & Jaw
- “Scrunch your face—squeeze eyes shut, clench your jaw, wrinkle your forehead.”
- Count: “1…2…3…4…5.”
- “Now relax your facial muscles completely.”
- (Pause)
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Full-Body Release & Reflection (2 minutes)
“Take one more deep breath. On your exhale, imagine tension flowing out of every part of your body. When you’re ready, slowly open your eyes or lift your gaze.”
“Notice any changes in how you feel. Jot down what you observed in your Stress Management Reflection Journal.”How did your body feel before PMR? How does it feel now?
Tips for Effective Teaching
- Pacing: Allow enough time between groups for students to feel the difference.
- Cueing: Use calm, descriptive language (“soften,” “release,” “notice”) rather than “relax” only.
- Environment: Consider dimming lights or playing soft music if appropriate.
- Encouragement: Remind students to practice PMR before tests, after PE class, or whenever they notice stiffness or stress.
Integrate PMR into daily routines—short breaks between lessons or as a transition tool. With regular use, students learn to release tension quickly and restore calm throughout the day.
Journal
Stress Management Reflection Journal
Use this journal to record your thoughts, experiences, and goals as you practice stress-management techniques. Write openly and honestly to deepen your self-awareness and build lasting coping skills.