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Lesson Plan

Social Superpowers Lesson Plan

Jacob will learn to identify and express his emotions, practice empathy, and apply coping strategies through interactive activities and role-play. By session’s end, he’ll recognize feelings and choose appropriate coping tools to navigate social situations confidently.

Building emotional awareness and coping skills empowers Jacob to manage stress and frustration, fostering positive peer interactions and boosting his social confidence.

Audience

4th Grade Individual Student

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Interactive activities, role-play, and guided reflection.

Prep

Prepare Materials

5 minutes

Step 1

Introduction and Warm-Up

5 minutes

  • Greet Jacob and explain the goal of today's session: strengthening his social and coping skills.
  • Use Emotion Cards to show images, and ask Jacob to name each emotion.
  • Discuss situations when he felt these emotions and acknowledge his responses.

Step 2

Exploring Coping Strategies

10 minutes

  • Present key coping strategies on Coping Strategy Posters.
  • Describe each strategy (e.g., deep breathing, positive self-talk) and when to use it.
  • Have Jacob practice deep breathing together for 2 minutes.

Step 3

Role-Playing Social Scenarios

10 minutes

  • Introduce social challenges using Social Scenario Cards.
  • Encourage Jacob to role-play each scenario, responding to prompts.
  • Provide feedback and model effective social responses and coping techniques.

Step 4

Reflection and Personal Plan

5 minutes

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Social Superpowers

Building Emotional Awareness and Coping Skills

Welcome Jacob! Introduce yourself and explain that today you’ll become “Social Superheroes” by learning to recognize feelings and use super coping skills. Show enthusiasm and explain how this will help him feel confident around friends.

Today's Goals

• Identify and name different emotions
• Learn and practice powerful coping strategies
• Role-play common social situations
• Create a personal plan to use at school and home

Read each objective aloud and connect it to real-life situations he’s experienced. Encourage him to think of times he’s felt nervous or excited in class or on the playground.

Identify Emotions

Use Emotion Cards to:

  1. Name each emotion
  2. Talk about times you felt it

Display the Emotion Cards and ask Jacob to pick one. “What is this feeling? When have you felt it?” Validate his answers and normalize that everyone feels these emotions.

Coping Strategies

• Deep Breathing
• Positive Self-Talk
• Counting Slowly
• Asking for Help

(See Coping Strategy Posters)

Point to each poster on the Coping Strategy Posters. Briefly describe deep breathing, positive self-talk, counting, and asking for help. Ask Jacob when he might use each one.

Practice Deep Breathing

  1. Inhale quietly through your nose (count to 4)
  2. Hold your breath (count to 2)
  3. Exhale slowly through your mouth (count to 6)

Repeat 5 times

Guide Jacob through a 2-minute breathing exercise: Inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 2, exhale for 6. Model it first, then count aloud together. Praise his focus.

Role-Playing Social Scenarios

• Draw a card from Social Scenario Cards
• Act out the situation
• Practice using a coping strategy if you feel worried

Shuffle the Social Scenario Cards and let Jacob draw one. Read it together, then role-play his response. Offer ideas: “What would you say?” Model a calm, friendly answer using coping skills.

Reflect and Plan

  1. Complete the Reflection Worksheet
  2. Rate your comfort on the Feeling Thermometer Chart
  3. Choose one strategy to use this week

Hand him the Reflection Worksheet and Feeling Thermometer Chart. Talk him through each question: what went well, what was tricky, and which strategy he’ll try next time. Record his personal plan.

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Activity

Emotion Cards

These printable cards feature facial expressions paired with emotion words. Use them to help Jacob recognize, name, and discuss different feelings.

Materials Needed:

  • Cardstock or heavy paper
  • Printer
  • Scissors or paper cutter

How to Prepare:

  1. Print the cards on cardstock.
  2. Cut along the lines to create individual cards.
  3. (Optional) Laminate for durability.

Cards (Cut one row per card):

| Card # | Emoji | Emotion | | Card # | Emoji | Emotion |
|--------|-------|------------| |--------|-------|------------|
| 1 | 😊 | Happy | | 6 | 😖 | Disgusted |
| 2 | 😢 | Sad | | 7 | 😃 | Excited |
| 3 | 😠 | Angry | | 8 | 😬 | Nervous |
| 4 | 😲 | Surprised | | 9 | 😤 | Frustrated |
| 5 | 😨 | Scared | | 10 | 😌 | Calm |

(If you’d like more practice, print a second copy to play a matching game.)

How to Use in Session:

  1. Warm-Up Identification
    • Show one card at a time.
    • Ask Jacob: “What feeling is this?”
    • Encourage him to share a time he’s felt this way.
  2. Sorting by Intensity
    • Lay cards face-up.
    • Have Jacob arrange them from calmest (😌 Calm) to most intense (😠 Angry or 😤 Frustrated).
  3. Emotion Storytelling
    • Pick any card.
    • Prompt: “Tell me a short story about when you felt this emotion.”
  4. Quick Cue for Check-Ins
    • Keep the cards handy.
    • Ask Jacob to point to the card that matches his feeling at any point during the session.

Next Steps

  • Use these cards alongside Social Scenario Cards to role-play how different emotions might come up with peers.
  • Revisit these cards when teaching coping strategies to link feelings with tools like deep breathing and positive self-talk.
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Activity

Coping Strategy Posters

These posters feature four kid-friendly coping strategies with simple visuals and steps. Hang them where Jacob can see and refer to them during sessions and at home.

Materials Needed:

  • Large poster board or chart paper (one sheet per strategy)
  • Colored markers or crayons
  • Printer (optional for icons or clip art)
  • Lamination (optional for durability)

How to Prepare:

  1. On each poster, write the strategy title in big, bold letters at the top.
  2. Draw or attach a simple icon:
    • Deep Breathing: a cartoon pair of lungs or a flower (inhale to smell, exhale to blow petals)
    • Positive Self-Talk: a smiling speech bubble
    • Counting Slowly: numbers 1–10 in ascending order
    • Asking for Help: a hand raised or two people talking
  3. Under each title, list 2–4 easy steps in a friendly font.
  4. Use bright colors and clear visuals to engage Jacob.
  5. (Optional) Laminate for reuse and durability.

Poster Content Example:

Deep Breathing

• Step 1: Breathe in through your nose for 4 seconds.
• Step 2: Hold for 2 seconds.
• Step 3: Blow out slowly through your mouth for 6 seconds.
• Tip: Pretend you’re blowing bubbles!

Positive Self-Talk

• Look in a mirror or at yourself in your mind.
• Say: “I can handle this.”
• Say: “I am brave, I am calm.”
• Tip: Use a superhero voice!

Counting Slowly

• Stop and pause.
• Count 1…2…3… up to 10 at your own pace.
• Focus on each number.
• Tip: Picture each number in your head.

Asking for Help

• Take a deep breath.
• Find an adult or friend.
• Use a calm voice: “Can you help me?”
• Tip: Point to what you need if it’s hard to talk.

How to Use in Session:

  1. Introduce Each Poster:
    • Point to the poster, read the title, and model the steps with Jacob.
  2. Practice Together:
    • When Jacob feels frustrated or nervous during role-play, guide him to the matching poster.
    • Have him read or repeat each step aloud.
  3. Role-Play Integration:
  4. Home Reminder:
    • Encourage Jacob to take a photo of the posters or use a smaller copy at home.

Next Steps

  • Link coping posters to feelings on Feeling Thermometer Chart by marking which strategy suits each level.
  • Use in future sessions to reinforce self-regulation and build independence.
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Activity

Social Scenario Cards

These printable cards feature common peer-interaction situations so Jacob can practice social responses and coping skills.

Materials Needed:

  • Cardstock or heavy paper
  • Printer
  • Scissors or paper cutter

How to Prepare:

  1. Print the scenario list on cardstock.
  2. Cut along the lines to create individual cards.
  3. (Optional) Laminate for durability.

Scenario Cards (Cut one row per card):

Card #Scenario Description
1A friend says “no” when you ask to join their game.
2Someone accidentally bumps into you at recess, but doesn’t apologize.
3You finish your turn first in a class activity, and another student teases you for taking too long.
4Two friends are talking, and you feel left out.
5You want a turn on the swing, but someone is hogging it.
6A classmate is upset and yelling; they ask you to leave them alone.
7You need help with a difficult homework problem and feel shy.
8Your group partner isn’t listening to your idea for a project.
9Someone makes a joke about your drawing, and you feel embarrassed.
10You want to share a funny story, but everyone is busy talking.

How to Use in Session:

  1. Draw a Card:
    • Have Jacob shuffle and pick one scenario card.
  2. Read and Reflect:
    • Read the card aloud together.
    • Ask: “How would you feel in this situation?”
    • Use Emotion Cards to point to the matching emotion.
  3. Choose a Strategy:
    • Identify which coping tool could help (refer to Coping Strategy Posters).
    • Example: Take three deep breaths if you feel nervous.
  4. Role-Play:
    • Act out the scenario with the teacher as the peer.
    • Encourage Jacob to use his chosen coping strategy and a calm, respectful response.
  5. Debrief:
    • After role-play, ask: “What went well?” and “What could you try next time?”
    • Record observations on the Reflection Worksheet.

Variations and Extensions:

  • Alternative Responses: Brainstorm two different ways to respond to each scenario (e.g., humor, polite request).
  • Peer Feedback: In a small group, let classmates draw cards and give feedback on each other’s role-play.
  • Feeling Thermometer Connection: Have Jacob rate how intense his feeling was on the Feeling Thermometer Chart before and after using strategies.

Next Steps

  • Continue practicing these scenarios in future sessions to build confidence.
  • Encourage Jacob to use similar steps when real-life situations arise at school or home.
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Activity

Feeling Thermometer Chart

This chart helps Jacob rate how intense his feelings are before and after activities. It’s like a thermometer for emotions—from cool and calm to boiling hot frustration.

Materials Needed:

  • Printable Feeling Thermometer Chart (see below)
  • Colored pencils or markers
  • Clip or paper clip (optional)

How to Prepare:

  1. Print the Feeling Thermometer Chart on a full sheet of paper.
  2. (Optional) Laminate for reuse.
  3. Provide Jacob with a dry-erase marker or a paper clip as a movable indicator.

Feeling Thermometer Chart:

1 (Very Calm)
2 (Calm)
3 (Slightly Calm)
4 (Neutral)
5 (A Little Upset)
6 (Upset)
7 (Quite Upset)
8 (Very Upset)
9 (Almost Boiling)
10 (Boiling/Mad)

How to Use in Session:

  1. Pre-Activity Check-In:
    • Ask Jacob, “How do you feel right now?”
    • Have him point to or circle a number.
  2. Mid-Activity Prompt:
    • During role-play or practice, check: “Is your thermometer moving up or down?”
    • Encourage him to use a coping strategy if his number is 6 or above.
  3. Post-Activity Reflection:
    • At the end, ask Jacob to rate again.
    • Compare the before and after ratings to see which strategies helped.

Reflection Questions (on back or separate sheet):

  • What number did you start at?


  • What number did you end at?


  • Which coping strategy helped you move down your thermometer?





Next Steps

  • Link each range to a recommended coping tool from Coping Strategy Posters.
  • Encourage Jacob to use this chart in real-life moments to self-monitor and choose strategies independently.
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Worksheet

Reflection Worksheet

Name: _______________________ Date: ________________

1. Emotion Identification

Using the Emotion Cards, list three feelings you named today and describe a time you felt each one.

  1. Emotion: ________________



    When I felt this: __________________________________________________________


  2. Emotion: ________________



    When I felt this: __________________________________________________________


  3. Emotion: ________________



    When I felt this: __________________________________________________________


2. Coping Strategies

Check the strategies you practiced today from the Coping Strategy Posters:

  • Deep Breathing
  • Positive Self-Talk
  • Counting Slowly
  • Asking for Help

Describe one strategy you used and how it helped you:
______________________________________________________________________________





3. Role-Play Reflection

Think about a scenario from the Social Scenario Cards you role-played.

a) What went well?
______________________________________________________________________________











b) What was challenging? How could you try a different response next time?
______________________________________________________________________________










4. Feeling Thermometer

Use the Feeling Thermometer Chart to rate your feelings.

  1. My number before role-play was: _______


  2. My number after using a coping strategy was: _______


  3. Which strategy helped lower your number?
    ______________________________________________________________________________





5. Personal Plan

Choose one coping tool to use this week.

a) Strategy I will try:
______________________________________________________________________________





b) When or where will I use it?
______________________________________________________________________________



c) Who can remind me or help me practice?
______________________________________________________________________________


Great job reflecting! Keep this sheet to remind yourself of your social superpowers.

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