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Shining Light Together

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Lesson Plan

Shining Light Together

Students will learn to recognize signs of emotional distress, practice empathetic listening, and identify strategies to support peers during Suicide Prevention Week.

Early recognition and peer support reduce stigma, encourage help-seeking, and foster a caring classroom community equipped for emotional resilience.

Audience

9th Grade

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Interactive, empathetic activities and group discussions.

Prep

Materials Preparation

15 minutes

Step 1

Welcome and Norm Setting

5 minutes

  • Introduce Suicide Prevention Week and lesson goals
  • Establish ground rules: respect, confidentiality, and active listening
  • Emphasize a safe space for sharing and learning

Step 2

Identifying Signs of Distress

7 minutes

  • Divide students into small groups of 3–4
  • Give each group a set of Printed Emotion Cards
  • Ask groups to match emotions on cards with possible distress signals
  • Facilitate a brief group share on common distress signs

Step 3

Empathy Role-Play

8 minutes

  • Form new pairs and distribute Scenario Role-Play Scripts
  • One student plays a peer showing distress, the other practices empathetic listening
  • Encourage use of “I feel” statements and open-ended questions
  • After 4 minutes, switch roles

Step 4

Developing Support Strategies

6 minutes

  • Provide each group with a copy of Peer Support Resource Handout
  • Ask students to brainstorm 3–5 ways to support someone in distress using the handout
  • Record ideas on poster paper at each station
  • Rotate posters to add insights from other groups

Step 5

Reflection and Closing

4 minutes

  • Invite volunteers to share one key takeaway or strategy they learned
  • Reinforce the importance of reaching out and connecting with trusted adults
  • Remind students of school resources and encourage help-seeking behavior
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Slide Deck

Shining Light Together

Suicide Prevention Week
9th Grade Classroom Session
30 Minutes

Welcome students and introduce Suicide Prevention Week. Explain the purpose of today’s lesson: to recognize signs of distress, practice empathy, and learn how to support peers. Emphasize this is a safe, respectful space.

Objectives

• Recognize signs of emotional distress
• Practice empathetic listening skills
• Develop strategies to support peers

Briefly walk through each objective to set expectations. Remind students that learning these skills helps build a caring community.

If You Need Help

• School Counselor: Room 210 or visit the counseling office
• National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: Call or text 988
• Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741

Ensure every student knows they can approach you or another trusted adult at any time. Highlight crisis resources and confidentiality.

Ground Rules

• Respect and confidentiality
• Active listening (one speaker at a time)
• Speak from your own experience
• Support and encourage one another

Explain each ground rule, inviting students to agree or suggest additions. Emphasize confidentiality: what’s shared here stays here.

Identifying Signs of Distress

  1. In groups, use Printed Emotion Cards
  2. Match each emotion with possible distress signals
  3. Share top 3 common signs with the class

Divide students into groups of 3–4. Distribute emotion cards. Circulate to guide students matching emotions (e.g., sadness, anxiety) with behaviors (e.g., isolating, changes in sleep).

Empathy Role-Play

• Use Scenario Role-Play Scripts
• Practice empathetic listening:
– “I feel…” statements
– Open-ended questions
• Switch roles after 4 minutes

Reform pairs. Give each pair a scenario script. Encourage one student to role-play a distressed peer, the other to respond using open-ended questions and “I feel…” statements.

Developing Support Strategies

  1. Review Peer Support Resource Handout
  2. Brainstorm 3–5 ways to support someone in distress
  3. Write ideas on poster paper
  4. Rotate posters and add additional insights

Set up stations with poster paper and markers. Provide each group a handout and encourage creative brainstorming. Remind students to record clear, actionable ideas.

Reflection & Closing

• Share one key takeaway or strategy
• Remember: reach out to trusted adults
• Encourage help-seeking and use of school resources

Invite volunteers to share one key takeaway. Reinforce that reaching out matters and no one has to face distress alone. Remind students of all available resources.

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Worksheet

Printed Emotion Cards Worksheet

Use these cards in small groups to match emotions with possible distress signals. Cut out each card individually.

Emotion Cards

  • Sadness


  • Anxiety


  • Anger


  • Hopelessness


  • Loneliness


  • Overwhelm


  • Guilt


  • Fear


Behavior Cards (Possible Distress Signals)

  • Withdrawing from friends and activities


  • Restlessness or constant worrying


  • Aggression or increased irritability


  • Expressing a lack of hope about the future


  • Feeling disconnected or isolated


  • Difficulty concentrating or making decisions


  • Excessive self-blame or apologizing


  • Avoiding previously enjoyed hobbies


Instructions for use:

  1. Distribute one set of cut-out cards (emotions + behaviors) to each group of 3–4 students.
  2. Groups match each emotion card with a behavior card that could signal distress.
  3. Discuss why they paired each emotion and behavior and share top matches with the class.

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Worksheet

Scenario Role-Play Scripts Worksheet

Use these scenarios in pairs to practice empathetic listening. One student plays the peer in distress (reading the script), and the other practices responding with “I feel” statements and open-ended questions. Record your responses in the spaces provided. After 4 minutes, switch roles.

Instructions

  1. Form pairs and choose roles: Distressed Peer and Listener.
  2. The Distressed Peer reads the scenario aloud.
  3. The Listener responds using empathetic listening techniques and writes down their responses.
  4. After 4 minutes, switch roles and try a new scenario.

Scenario 1: Social Isolation

Peer: “Lately I just don’t feel like talking to anyone. I’ve been hanging back at lunch alone, and it doesn’t bother me, but I just… I don’t know, it’s fine.”

Listener’s Response:






Scenario 2: Academic Pressure

Peer: “I missed the last two math tests, and my grade is tanking. I keep telling myself I’m going to study, but when I sit down, I just get so overwhelmed. Maybe I’m just not smart enough.”

Listener’s Response:






Scenario 3: Family Stress

Peer: “Home has been awful. My parents fight every night, and I’m stuck listening to it. I can’t sleep, and when I do, I dream about them yelling. I’m so tired of it.”

Listener’s Response:






Scenario 4: Feelings of Hopelessness

Peer: “It just feels like nothing I do matters. I don’t see how things will get better. It’s like I’m stuck in this loop of bad days that never end.”

Listener’s Response:





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Worksheet

Peer Support Resource Handout

Use this handout to guide your thinking about how to support peers who may be experiencing distress. Keep it handy during brainstorming and station activities.


1. Recognizing a Peer in Need

• Notice changes in mood, behavior, or appearance.
• Listen for hints of hopelessness, isolation, or overwhelm.
• Pay attention to nonverbal cues (body language, tone).

Question: List three things you might say to show you care when someone seems upset:

  1. _________________





  2. _________________





  3. _________________






2. Empathetic Listening Strategies

• Use “I feel…” statements: “I feel concerned when…”
• Ask open-ended questions: “Can you tell me more about how you’re feeling?”
• Reflect and validate: “It sounds like you’ve been under a lot of pressure.”
• Maintain eye contact and nod to show you’re listening.

Activity: In the space below, write two additional empathetic prompts you could use:

  • Prompt 1: _________________





  • Prompt 2: _________________






3. Identifying Safe Adults & Resources

School-Based Resources:
• School Counselor – Room 210
• Trusted Teacher or Coach
• School Nurse

External Resources:
• National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: Call or text 988
• Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741

Exercise: List three adults or community resources you feel comfortable approaching:

  1. _________________





  2. _________________





  3. _________________






4. Peer Support Action Plan

Imagine a peer approaches you and expresses distress. Fill in the steps below to outline how you would respond.

  1. Initial Response (What you’ll say first):
    _______________





  2. Listening Strategy (Which empathetic prompt or statement you’ll use):
    _______________





  3. Offer Help (How you’ll offer support or assistance):
    _______________





  4. Safety Check (When you’ll involve a trusted adult):
    _______________





  5. Follow-Up (How and when you’ll check back in):
    _______________






5. Reflection

Prompt: What is one new strategy or resource from this handout that you think will be most helpful? Why?













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Warm Up

Feelings Check-In

Time: 3 minutes
Purpose: A quick mood-meter activity to help everyone tune into how they’re feeling before we begin.

Instructions

  1. Choose the color that best represents your current mood:
    • Blue: Sad
    • Green: Calm
    • Yellow: Happy
    • Red: Angry
    • Purple: Anxious
  2. In the space below, write one word that describes how you feel right now:


  3. Pair-share (1 minute):
    • Turn to a neighbor and share your word and why you chose that color.
  4. Whole-class debrief (1 minute):
    • Volunteers share any common themes or surprising feelings.

Let’s take a moment to check in so we can support one another and learn better together.

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Cool Down

Light A Candle

Time: 3–5 minutes
Purpose: A quiet, reflective exit ticket to solidify learning, honor hope, and commit to supporting yourself or others.


Instructions

  1. Imagine you are lighting a candle in honor of hope and connection.
  2. On the lines below, write your personal reflections:a. A word or phrase that represents hope for me is:


    b. One action I will take this week to support a friend (or myself) is:





    c. A school or community resource I’ll remember to use or share is:


  3. When you’re finished, quietly place your reflection card in the collection box (or hold onto it as a reminder).

Let’s carry this light forward—no one has to face challenges alone.

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