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Respect: Give & Get It

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bsweeney

Tier 1
For Schools

Lesson Plan

Respect: Give & Get It

Students will define respect, identify key components of self-respect and respect for others, and apply practical strategies to demonstrate respect in various daily interactions and relationships.

Understanding and practicing respect is crucial for fostering healthy relationships, promoting personal well-being, and building a positive, inclusive community. This lesson equips students with the tools to navigate social dynamics with empathy and integrity.

Audience

12th Grade Students

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Interactive discussion, scenario analysis, and personal reflection.

Materials

Respect: Give & Get It Slide Deck, and Respectful Scenario Cards

Prep

Teacher Preparation

15 minutes

  • Review the Respect: Give & Get It Slide Deck to familiarize yourself with the content and flow.
    - Print and cut out the Respectful Scenario Cards.
    - Arrange classroom for small group discussions (optional, but recommended).
    - Review all generated materials as needed.

Step 1

Introduction & Warm-Up

5 minutes

  • Begin with the question: “What does respect truly mean to you?” Facilitate a brief whole-class discussion, allowing students to share initial thoughts.
    - Introduce the lesson objectives using the Respect: Give & Get It Slide Deck (Slide 1-2).

Step 2

Exploring Self-Respect & Respect for Others

10 minutes

  • Use the Respect: Give & Get It Slide Deck (Slides 3-5) to guide a discussion on defining self-respect and respect for others.
    - Ask students for examples of what each looks like in action. Encourage them to think about different environments (school, home, online).

Step 3

Scenario Analysis Activity

10 minutes

  • Divide students into small groups (3-4 students per group).
    - Distribute one or two Respectful Scenario Cards to each group.
    - Instruct groups to discuss the scenario(s) and come up with respectful responses or actions, considering both self-respect and respect for others involved.
    - After a few minutes, bring the class back together. Have each group briefly share their scenario and their proposed solutions/actions.

Step 4

Wrap-Up & Reflection

5 minutes

  • Use the Respect: Give & Get It Slide Deck (Slide 6) for a quick summary.
    - Ask students to share one new idea or strategy they learned about demonstrating respect.
    - Encourage students to reflect on how they can apply these concepts in their own lives.
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Slide Deck

Respect: Give & Get It

What does respect truly mean to you?

Welcome students and introduce the topic. Start with an open-ended question to engage them and activate prior knowledge. Encourage a few students to share their initial thoughts.

Our Objectives Today

  • Define respect in different contexts.
  • Identify components of self-respect and respect for others.
  • Practice demonstrating respect through scenario analysis.

Go over the lesson objectives clearly. Explain what students will be able to do by the end of the lesson.

What is Self-Respect?

  • Valuing yourself and your worth.
  • Setting boundaries.
  • Taking care of your physical and mental health.
  • Believing in your own abilities.
  • Standing up for what you believe in.

Lead a discussion on self-respect. Ask students for examples of what self-respect looks like (e.g., setting boundaries, taking care of one's body, speaking up for oneself).

What is Respect for Others?

  • Acknowledging and appreciating differences.
  • Listening actively and empathetically.
  • Treating others with kindness and courtesy.
  • Valuing other people's opinions and feelings.
  • Understanding and following rules and norms.

Transition to respect for others. Ask students for examples of what this looks like (e.g., active listening, empathy, acknowledging differences, fair play).

Why is Respect Important?

  • Builds strong, healthy relationships.
  • Creates a positive and inclusive environment.
  • Fosters trust and understanding.
  • Promotes personal growth and well-being.
  • Helps resolve conflicts peacefully.

Briefly summarize why respect is important for both individual well-being and community harmony. Connect it to their real-life experiences.

Bringing It All Together

How will you 'Give & Get' respect this week?

"Treat others how you wish to be treated."

Conclude the lesson by asking students to reflect on one key takeaway. Encourage them to commit to practicing respect in their daily lives.

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Activity

Respectful Scenario Cards

Instructions: Read each scenario with your group. Discuss how both self-respect and respect for others can be demonstrated in the situation. What actions or words would you use?

Scenario 1: Group Project Dilemma

You are working on a major group project for history class. One group member consistently misses meetings, doesn't contribute their share of the work, and makes excuses when confronted. The deadline is approaching, and your grade is at stake. How do you handle this situation respectfully?












Scenario 2: Online Disagreement

During an online discussion, a classmate posts a comment that you find offensive and disrespectful to a particular group of people. You feel strongly that it's wrong, but you don't want to start a huge argument. How do you respond respectfully online?












Scenario 3: Unwanted Advice

You've been struggling with a personal issue, and a well-meaning friend keeps offering unsolicited advice, even after you've politely told them you just need a listener, not solutions. They genuinely think they're helping, but their constant suggestions are making you feel worse. How do you respectfully set a boundary?












Scenario 4: Borrowed Item, Broken Promise

You lent a valuable book to a friend, and they promised to return it by a certain date. The date has passed, and they haven't mentioned it. You see them reading it in class. How do you respectfully address this situation and get your book back?












Scenario 5: Different Opinions in Class

During a class debate, a classmate expresses an opinion that is completely opposite to yours and challenges your perspective directly. While you disagree, you want to maintain a respectful classroom environment. How do you engage in this disagreement respectfully?












Scenario 6: Personal Space Ignored

You are working quietly in the library, and someone sits down next to you, spreads their belongings onto your side of the table, and starts talking loudly on their phone. You need to concentrate. How do you respectfully address their behavior without being rude?












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Warm Up

Respect Warm-Up: Word Association

Instructions: When you hear the word "respect," what are the first three words or phrases that come to mind? Write them down quickly.




Bonus: Why do you think these words come to mind when you think of respect?




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Cool Down

Respect Cool-Down: One Takeaway

Instructions: In one or two sentences, write down the most important thing you learned or were reminded of today about respect (for yourself or others). How will you apply this in your life this week?







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