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React or Respond?

Lesson Plan

Reaction vs. Response Lesson Plan

Students will learn to differentiate between impulsive reactions and thoughtful responses, enabling them to develop controlled and reflective emotional responses.

Understanding the difference between reaction and response boosts emotional regulation skills necessary for effective personal and academic growth.

Audience

9th Grade Student

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Blend discussion, digital slides, and practice activity.

Prep

Preparation Steps

5 minutes

Step 1

Introduction and Discussion

10 minutes

  • Welcome students and introduce the concept of reacting vs. responding.
  • Use discussion prompts and examples to highlight the impacts of impulsivity vs. thoughtful responses.
  • Encourage student sharing of past experiences relating to emotional responses.

Step 2

Interactive Slide Presentation

10 minutes

  • Present the Thoughtful Responses Slides to illustrate key emotional regulation strategies.
  • Ask comprehension questions to ensure understanding of the material.

Step 3

Practice Activity and Reflection

5 minutes

  • Engage students in the Response Practice Activity to apply concepts in realistic scenarios.
  • Conclude with a reflection discussion about the differences between reacting and responding.
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Slide Deck

React or Respond?

Welcome! Today we explore the difference between impulsive reactions and thoughtful responses.

Introduce the session with the title 'React or Respond?'. Emphasize that today's focus is on understanding the differences between impulsive reaction and a thoughtful response. Remind the students that this is a personal and academic skill that everyone can improve.

What is a Reaction?

An immediate, often emotional, impulse that occurs without much thought.

Explain the concepts clearly. Define 'Reaction' as an immediate, often emotional response, and 'Response' as a more considered action taken after reflection. Use examples if necessary.

What is a Response?

A deliberate, considered action following a careful assessment of the situation.

Introduce the concept of a thoughtful response. Highlight that responding allows us to consider the situation fully and choose our behavior deliberately.

Reactions vs. Responses

Scenario 1: Yelling during a disagreement.

Scenario 2: Taking a moment to calm down and express feelings.

Which is a reaction? Which is a response?

Present real-life contrasting scenarios to the students. Ask them to differentiate which approach would be considered a reaction and which a response. Engage them in a brief discussion.

Strategies for Thoughtful Responses

• Pause and Breathe
• Reflect on the Situation
• Consider Consequences
• Choose Your Actions

Summarize strategies for managing emotions. This slide outlines techniques to help students pause and choose a thoughtful response even in emotional situations.

Key Takeaways

Pause, Reflect, and Respond Thoughtfully - Cultivate emotional regulation for better personal and academic success.

Conclude the presentation by reinforcing the take-home message. Encourage students to practice these strategies in their day-to-day life and reflect on how they can apply them in challenging situations.

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Activity

Response Practice Activity

This activity is designed to help you practice distinguishing between impulsively reacting and thoughtfully responding. You will be presented with several scenarios. For each scenario, read carefully and then decide whether the approach in the scenario was a reaction (an impulsive response) or a response (a thoughtful, deliberate action). Use the space provided to explain your reasoning.


Scenario 1: The Unexpected Criticism

Imagine you are working on a group project, and a classmate suddenly criticizes your contribution in front of the whole class.

Task:

  • Write down if the immediate emotional expression in this situation is more of a reaction or a response. Explain your choice.






Scenario 2: The Frustration on the Bus

You are riding the bus and someone accidentally bumps into you, which causes you to feel frustrated. Instead of shouting, you take a deep breath and decide not to escalate the situation.

Task:

  • Identify whether this example demonstrates a reaction or a response. Provide an explanation for your answer.






Scenario 3: The Social Media Comment

While scrolling through social media, you come across a comment that offends you. Instead of immediately posting a heated reply, you decide to take a moment to reflect on whether your comment will contribute constructively.

Task:

  • Decide if this is an action of reacting or responding. Explain your reasoning.






Reflection

Now that you have completed all the scenarios, reflect on how practicing this skill can help in real-life situations. Answer the following question:

Reflection Question: How do you think practicing the choice between a reaction and a response can improve your emotional regulation in everyday situations?






Remember, the aim of this practice is to help you recognize impulsive reactions and give you the opportunity to consider a more thoughtful response in challenging situations.

Feel free to write as much as you need in the space provided for each question.

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