Lesson Plan
Hello, Counselor!
Students will meet the school counselor, learn her name and role, identify basic feelings, and practice asking for help through interactive circle-time activities.
Building early trust with the counselor fosters emotional safety, encourages help-seeking behaviors, and supports social-emotional development in young learners.
Audience
Pre-K
Time
30 minutes
Approach
Circle time, song, discussion, and role-play
Prep
Prepare Materials
5 minutes
- Print and post the Counselor Intro Poster
- Queue up the Hello Counselor Song Audio
- Print and cut the Feelings Cards Printable
- Print masks from the Counselor Role-Play Masks PDF
- Review the Counselor Visual Aid Slides to familiarize yourself with images and talking points
Step 1
Welcome & Meet the Counselor
5 minutes
- Gather students in a circle on the rug
- Introduce yourself as the school counselor and share your name
- Show the Counselor Intro Poster and point out key information
- Use the Counselor Visual Aid Slides to talk about where you work and how you help students
Step 2
Sing the Hello Counselor Song
5 minutes
- Explain the song will help everyone remember your name
- Play the Hello Counselor Song Audio
- Lead students in singing along and doing simple hand motions
- Pause to let children echo the chorus
Step 3
Feelings Discussion
5 minutes
- Lay out the Feelings Cards Printable
- Show each card one at a time and ask, “What feeling is this?”
- Invite volunteers to share times they’ve felt happy, sad, or scared
- Explain that the counselor is here to help with big feelings
Step 4
Role-Play Help-Seeking
10 minutes
- Distribute masks from the Counselor Role-Play Masks PDF: counselor mask and student masks
- Model how a student can ask, “Can I talk to you?” and how the counselor listens
- Pair students to practice taking turns being counselor and student
- Circulate to support positive interactions and prompt language as needed
Step 5
Closing & Goodbye Routine
5 minutes
- Recap the counselor’s role and when to ask for help
- Invite students to share one thing they learned today
- Sing a simple goodbye song or wave together at the Counselor Intro Poster
- Thank everyone for participating and encourage them to say hi when they see you
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Slide Deck
Hello, I’m Your School Counselor!
Welcome to our class! My name is Ms. Lopez. I’m here to listen, help, and support you.
Greet students warmly. Point to the picture of yourself and introduce yourself by name. Use simple, enthusiastic language.
What Does a Counselor Do?
• Listen to you
• Help with big feelings
• Keep you safe
• Solve problems together
Explain each bullet using simple language and pointing to matching visuals (e.g., ear for listening, heart for feelings).
Follow along with the song and do the hand motions.
Play the Hello Counselor Song Audio. Teach the simple hand motions and pause after each line to let children echo.
How Are You Feeling?
Look at these faces:
• Happy 😊
• Sad 😢
• Scared 😨
Which one are you feeling?
Show each feelings card (happy, sad, scared). Ask students to name the feeling and share a time they felt it.
Practice Asking for Help
- Put on your masks
- Ask, “Can I talk to you?”
- Take turns being the counselor and student
Explain masks and model: Student asks, “Can I talk to you?” Counselor listens and nods. Encourage respectful turn-taking.
Great Job Today!
You learned about feelings and how to ask me for help. I’m proud of you!
Recap what the counselor does and when to ask for help. Praise students for participating.
See You Soon!
Remember, you can visit me any time. Say hi when you see me in the hall!
Encourage students to say hi when they see you in the hallway and remind them where to find your office.
Script
Hello, Counselor! Word-for-Word Teacher Script
1. Welcome & Meet the Counselor (5 minutes)
Teacher (smiling, inviting):
“Good morning, friends! Come on over and sit with me in our circle on the rug. (Pause as children settle.)
Today we have a special guest—you do have a counselor here at our school. My name is Ms. Lopez, and I’m your school counselor. A counselor is someone who listens to you, helps you with your feelings, and keeps you safe.
(Point to the poster.)
Look at our Counselor Intro Poster. Can you all see my picture? (Wait.)
This poster shows my name, where I work, and how I help you. When you have big feelings—happy, sad, or scared—you can always come find me.
(Lift the tablet or point to the screen.)
I also made some slides to help us remember. Let’s take a quick peek at the Counselor Visual Aid Slides.”
Teacher (clicks to slide 2):
“This slide says what I do:
• Listen to you
• Help with big feelings
• Keep you safe
• Solve problems together
When you need someone to talk to, you can ask me!”
2. Sing the Hello Counselor Song (5 minutes)
Teacher (standing, excited):
“Now we’re going to learn a fun song so you remember my name! This song is called ‘Hello, Counselor!’
Let’s stand up, get ready to sing, and do some hand motions.
(Play Hello Counselor Song Audio.)
Teacher (leading motions):
🎶 Hello, Counselor, here we are! 🎶 (wave hands)
(Children echo.)
🎶 Hello, Counselor, you’re our star! 🎶 (point thumbs to chest)
(Children echo.)
Great job! Let’s sing the chorus one more time together!”
(Repeat chorus.)
3. Feelings Discussion (5 minutes)
Teacher (sitting on rug):
“Amazing singing, everyone. Now let’s talk about feelings.”
(Spread out the Feelings Cards Printable.)
Teacher (holding first card):
“What feeling is this?”
(Children respond: “Happy!”)
Teacher: “Yes—it’s happy! Can you show me your biggest happy face?”
(Wait; children practice.)
Teacher: “Tell me—what makes you feel happy?”
(Prompt 1–2 volunteers.)
Teacher (holding second card):
“And this one—what feeling is it?”
(Children respond: “Sad!”)
Teacher: “Correct, it’s sad. When have you felt sad?”
(Prompt 1–2 volunteers.)
Teacher (holding third card):
“Now this one—what feeling?”
(Children respond: “Scared!”)
Teacher: “That’s right. Sometimes we feel scared when we hear a loud noise or see something new."
Teacher: “Remember, when you have big feelings—happy, sad, or scared—you can come talk to me. I’m here to help.”
4. Role-Play Help-Seeking (10 minutes)
Teacher (standing, holding masks):
“Time to pretend! I have two masks from our Counselor Role-Play Masks PDF: one counselor mask and one student mask.”
Teacher (puts on counselor mask):
“Watch me first. (In a kind voice) Student, can I talk to you?”
Teacher (switches to student mask):
“Yes, Ms. Lopez? I feel sad because I lost my toy.”
Teacher (back to counselor mask):
“I’m sorry you feel sad. I’m here to listen. Would you like to tell me more?”
Teacher (removing masks):
“Now it’s your turn! Find a partner. One person is the counselor, the other is the student. Practice asking, ‘Can I talk to you?’ and then listening and helping. I’ll walk around to help you.”
(Circulate and support pairs. Offer sentence starters: “I feel…,” “Can I talk to you…,” “Yes, I’m listening…”)
5. Closing & Goodbye Routine (5 minutes)
Teacher (ringing a small bell or clapping a rhythm):
“Friends, it’s time to wrap up. You all did an amazing job learning about my job and practicing asking for help.
Who can share one thing they learned today?”
(Pause for responses.)
Teacher: “Yes! You can come find me any time you need to talk, and I will listen and help you.”
“Let’s say goodbye with our special wave. Everyone stand up, look at our Counselor Intro Poster, and on the count of three we’ll wave ‘see you soon!’ Ready?”
(Lead big wave: “One, two, three—see you soon!”)
Teacher (smiling):
“Thank you for being such brave, kind friends today. I can’t wait to see you in the hallway—don’t forget to say hi!”
Lesson Plan
Meet the Counselor Lesson Plan
Students will meet the school counselor, learn her name and role, identify basic emotions, and practice asking for help through interactive circle-time activities.
Introducing the school counselor in a welcoming way builds trust, models help-seeking, and supports early social-emotional skills by making children comfortable sharing big feelings.
Audience
Pre-K
Time
30 minutes
Approach
Circle time, song, discussion, and role-play
Prep
Prepare Materials
5 minutes
- Print and post the Counselor Intro Poster
- Queue the Hello Counselor Song Audio
- Print and cut the Feelings Cards Printable
- Print masks from the Counselor Role-Play Masks PDF
- Review the Counselor Visual Aid Slides to prepare talking points
Step 1
Welcome & Meet the Counselor
5 minutes
- Gather students in a circle on the rug
- Introduce yourself as the school counselor and share your name
- Show the Counselor Intro Poster and point out key information
- Use the Counselor Visual Aid Slides to discuss your role and where you work
Step 2
Sing the Hello Counselor Song
5 minutes
- Explain the song will help everyone remember your name
- Play the Hello Counselor Song Audio
- Teach simple hand motions and lead students in singing
- Pause to let children echo the chorus
Step 3
Feelings Discussion
5 minutes
- Lay out the Feelings Cards Printable
- Show each card and ask, “What feeling is this?”
- Invite volunteers to share times they felt happy, sad, or scared
- Explain that the counselor is here to help with big feelings
Step 4
Role-Play Help-Seeking
10 minutes
- Distribute masks from the Counselor Role-Play Masks PDF
- Model how a student asks, “Can I talk to you?” and how the counselor listens
- Pair students to practice taking turns as counselor and student
- Circulate to support interactions and prompt language
Step 5
Closing & Goodbye Routine
5 minutes
- Recap the counselor’s role and when to ask for help
- Invite students to share one thing they learned
- Sing a simple goodbye song or wave together at the Counselor Intro Poster
- Encourage children to say hi when they see you in the hallway
Slide Deck
Hello, I’m Your School Counselor!
Welcome, friends! My name is Ms. Lopez. I’m here to listen, help with big feelings, and keep you safe.
Greet students warmly and introduce yourself by name. Point to the Counselor Intro Poster or your picture on the slide. Explain that you’re here to listen and help.
What Does a Counselor Do?
• Listen to you
• Help with big feelings
• Keep you safe
• Solve problems together
Use simple, enthusiastic language. Point to each bullet and match it with a visual: an ear for listening, a heart for feelings, a shield for safety, and two hands for solving problems.
Follow along with the song and do the hand motions.
Explain that the song will help everyone remember your name and what you do. Teach each hand motion and pause after each line for children to echo.
How Are You Feeling?
Look at these faces:
• Happy 😊
• Sad 😢
• Scared 😨
Which one are you feeling?
Show each feeling face one at a time. Ask, “What feeling is this?” Then invite 1–2 volunteers to share a time they felt that way.
Practice Asking for Help
- Put on your counselor mask and student mask
- Ask, “Can I talk to you?”
- Take turns being the counselor and student
Explain the mask activity and model first. Then instruct students to pair up and practice asking for help using the sentence, “Can I talk to you?” and listening kindly.
Great Job Today!
You learned about feelings and how to ask me for help. I’m proud of you!
Recap what a counselor does and praise students for participating. Invite a few to share one thing they learned.
See You Soon!
Remember, you can visit me any time. Say hi when you see me in the hall!
Encourage students to say hi when they see you in the hallway and remind them where your office is. Lead a big wave together.
Activity
Counselor Role-Play Activity
Purpose:
Help students practice asking for help and responding as a counselor in a safe, playful setting.
Time: 10 minutes
Materials:
Instructions
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Circle-Up & Explain (1 minute)
- Gather children back on the rug.
- Say: “Today you’ll pretend to be either a student who needs help or our school counselor who listens and supports.”
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Model the Script (2 minutes)
- Put on the counselor mask and a student mask yourself.
- Role-play aloud:
- Student (quiet voice): “Can I talk to you?”
- Counselor (kind voice): “Of course! I’m here to listen. How are you feeling?”
- Student: “I feel sad because I lost my toy.”
- Counselor: “I’m sorry. Tell me more about it.”
- Remove masks and praise attention.
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Distribute Masks & Sentence Frames (1 minute)
- Give each pair one counselor mask and one student mask.
- Show these simple frames on a chart or board:
- Student: “Can I talk to you?”
- Student: “I feel ___ because ___.”
- Counselor: “I’m listening. Tell me more.”
- Counselor: “Thank you for sharing. How can I help?”
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Pair Practice (4 minutes)
- Invite students to find a partner.
- In each pair, one child wears the student mask and one the counselor mask.
- Prompt them to:
a. Student asks, “Can I talk to you?”
b. Counselor responds with a listening phrase.
c. Student shares a simple feeling (e.g., happy, sad, scared).
d. Counselor thanks and offers support. - After 2 minutes, have partners swap roles.
- Circulate and offer help: gently remind children of the frames and encourage eye contact.
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Group Debrief (2 minutes)
- Gather everyone back in a circle.
- Ask a few volunteers:
- “How did it feel to ask for help?”
- “What did our counselor say to help you feel better?”
- Reinforce: “You can always use these words with me or another grown-up when you have big feelings.”
Differentiation & Extensions
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For children needing extra support:
• Pre-assign pairs so shy students have a familiar buddy.
• Provide one-on-one modeling. -
For advanced learners:
• Introduce additional feelings (frustrated, excited).
• Ask them to suggest possible solutions (“Would a hug help? A drawing?”). -
Extension at Circle Time:
• Draw or write one thing you’d say to the counselor when you need help.
• Post responses around the Counselor Intro Poster.
Worksheet
Feelings Cards Printable
Cut along the dotted lines to create three handy emotion cards. Use these during circle time to show how you’re feeling.
. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
| 😊 | 😢 | 😨 |
|---|---|---|
| Happy | Sad | Scared |
| . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
(Teacher: Print this page, then cut along the dotted lines to separate each card.)
Game
Hello Counselor Song
Sing to the tune of a simple, upbeat melody (like “Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star” or a basic 4-beat loop)
Chorus (twice):
🎶 Hello, Counselor, here we are! 👋
Hello, Counselor, you’re our star! ⭐️
When we’re happy, sad, or blue,
We can always talk to you. 😊😢😨
Hello, Counselor, yes it’s true! 🎶
Verse (once):
🎶 My name is Ms. Lopez, that’s me!
I’m here to listen carefully.
Big emotions, small or tall,
I’ll help you talk about them all. 🎶
Chorus (twice):
🎶 Hello, Counselor, here we are! 👋
Hello, Counselor, you’re our star! ⭐️
When we’re happy, sad, or blue,
We can always talk to you. 😊😢😨
Hello, Counselor, yes it’s true! 🎶
Hand Motions & Suggestions:
- Wave both hands in front of you on “Hello, Counselor” 👋
- Point thumbs at chest on “you’re our star” 👍
- Flutter hands by cheeks on “happy” 😊
- Make a frown and hug yourself on “sad” 😢🤗
- Shake a little for “scared” 😨
- Place hand on heart for “we can always talk to you” ❤️
Play the song slowly the first time; pause after each line to let children echo. Repeat the chorus to build confidence and join hand motions.
Script
Meet Your School Counselor Word-for-Word Teacher Script
1. Welcome & Meet the Counselor (5 minutes)
Teacher (smiling, inviting):
“Good morning, friends! Come on over and sit with me in our circle on the rug. (Pause as they settle.)
Today we have someone special here in our school. My name is Ms. Lopez, and I am your school counselor. A counselor is an adult who listens to you, helps you with your feelings, and keeps you safe.
(Point to the poster.)
Look at our Counselor Intro Poster. Can you see my picture? (Wait.) This poster shows my name, where my office is, and how I help you every day.
(Lift your tablet or point to the screen.)
I also brought some slides to help us remember. Let’s take a quick peek at the Counselor Visual Aid Slides.”
Teacher (advances to slide with bullets):
“This slide says what I do:
• I listen to you
• I help with big feelings
• I keep you safe
• I solve problems with you
When you feel happy, sad, or scared, you can always come talk to me.
Who can tell me one thing a counselor does? (Pause for 1–2 responses.)”
2. Sing the Hello Counselor Song (5 minutes)
Teacher (standing, excited):
“Now let’s learn a fun song so you remember my name and know I’m here to help! The song is called ‘Hello, Counselor!’
Stand up with me, and we’ll add hand motions to the song.
(Play Hello Counselor Song Audio.)
Teacher (leading motions):
🎶 Hello, Counselor, here we are! 🎶 (wave hands)
(Children echo.)
🎶 Hello, Counselor, you’re our star! 🎶 (point thumbs to chest)
(Children echo.)
🎶 When we’re happy, sad, or blue, 🎶 (flutter hands, frown/hug, shake)
(Children echo.)
🎶 We can always talk to you. 🎶 (hand on heart)
(Children echo.)
Great job! Let’s sing the chorus one more time together!”
(Repeat chorus with motions.)
3. Feelings Discussion (5 minutes)
Teacher (sitting back on rug):
“Wonderful singing, everyone. Now let’s talk more about feelings.”
(Spread out the Feelings Cards Printable.)
Teacher (holding first card):
“What feeling is this?”
(Children respond: “Happy!”)
Teacher:
“Yes—it’s happy! Show me your biggest happy face. (Pause.)
What makes you feel happy?”
(Prompt 1–2 volunteers: “I feel happy when…”)
Teacher (holding second card):
“And this one—what feeling do you see?”
(Children: “Sad!”)
Teacher:
“That’s right. Can you show your sad face? (Pause.)
When have you felt sad?”
(Prompt 1–2 volunteers.)
Teacher (holding third card):
“Now this one—what feeling?”
(Children: “Scared!”)
Teacher:
“Yes! Sometimes we feel scared when we hear a loud noise or try something new.
Remember, if you ever have big feelings—happy, sad, or scared—you can come talk to me. I’m here to help.”
4. Role-Play Help-Seeking (10 minutes)
Teacher (standing, holding masks):
“Time to pretend and practice asking for help! I have two masks: one counselor mask and one student mask from our Counselor Role-Play Masks PDF.”
Teacher (puts on counselor mask):
(In a kind voice) “Hello! Can I talk to you today?”
Teacher (switches to student mask):
(In a soft voice) “Yes, Ms. Lopez. I feel sad because I lost my toy.”
Teacher (back to counselor mask):
“I’m sorry you feel sad. I’m here to listen. Tell me more about your toy.”
Teacher (removing masks):
“Now it’s your turn! Find a partner. One of you will wear the student mask, and one will wear the counselor mask. Practice these steps:
- Student asks, “Can I talk to you?”
- Counselor answers, “I’m listening. How are you feeling?”
- Student shares with, “I feel ___ because ___.”
- Counselor says, “Thank you for sharing. How can I help you?”
I will walk around to help you. Let’s give it a try!”
(Circulate. Offer sentence frames quietly: “Can I talk to you?” “I feel…because…” “I’m listening.” “How can I help?”)
After 4–5 minutes, say:
“Great practice! Now swap masks and switch roles.”
After another 4–5 minutes, ring a small bell or clap:
“Time to come back to our circle.”
5. Closing & Goodbye Routine (5 minutes)
Teacher (ringing bell or clapping a rhythm):
“Friends, it’s time to wrap up. You all did an amazing job today!
Who can share one thing they learned?”
(Pause for a few responses.)
Teacher:
“Yes—I'm so proud of you! Remember, you can always come find me when you need to talk, and I will listen and help you.
Let’s finish with our special wave. Stand up, look at our Counselor Intro Poster, and on the count of three we’ll wave and say, ‘See you soon!’ Ready?
One… two… three… See you soon!”
Teacher (smiling):
“Thank you for being such brave, kind friends today. Don’t forget to say hi when you see me in the hallway!”
Rubric
Counselor Role-Play Rubric
Use this rubric to assess each child’s participation during the role-play help-seeking activity. Circle or highlight the level that best describes the student’s performance.
| Criteria | 4 – Excellent | 3 – Proficient | 2 – Developing | 1 – Beginning |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Help-Seeking Phrase | Clearly asks “Can I talk to you?” and states a feeling with a reason (e.g., “I feel sad because…”). | Asks “Can I talk to you?” but gives only a feeling or only a reason. | Attempts to ask for help but the phrase is unclear or incomplete. | Does not ask for help or uses unrelated language. |
| Emotional Expression | Names the correct emotion (happy, sad, scared) and shows matching facial expression. | Names the correct emotion but facial expression is inconsistent. | Attempts to name emotion but may choose the wrong one or show no expression. | Does not name or show the emotion. |
| Listening & Response (Counselor) | As counselor, looks at partner, nods, says “I’m listening,” and offers “Tell me more” or “How can I help?” | As counselor, shows some eye contact or says a listening phrase but omits support question. | Shows minimal listening gestures and gives a brief or unclear response. | Does not demonstrate listening or responds off-topic. |
| Turn-Taking & Engagement | Waits patiently, allows partner to speak, stays focused on the activity. | Takes turns with occasional prompting, mostly stays on task. | Needs reminders to take turns or to focus. | Does not take turns and is frequently off-task. |
Scoring guide:
- 16–14: Exceeds expectations (student is fully comfortable asking for and offering help)
- 13–10: Meets expectations (student can ask, listen, and respond with mild support)
- 9–6: Approaching expectations (student shows basic attempts but needs scaffolding)
- 5–4: Beginning (student is not yet able to use help-seeking language or listening skills)
Cool Down
Goodbye Wave
Time: 3 minutes
Materials:
Steps
- Invite students to stand in a half-circle facing the Counselor Intro Poster.
- Remind them: “Remember, you can always come talk to me when you have big feelings.”
- Go around the circle and ask each child to wave and share one word about how they feel or one thing they learned today.
- On the count of three, everyone waves together and says, “See you soon, Ms. Lopez!”
Teacher Note: Praise each share (“Great word!”) and reinforce that the counselor’s door is always open as students head out.