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How Do We See Others?

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Lesson Plan

Seeing Through New Eyes

Students will learn to recognize and understand others’ emotions by exploring real-life scenarios, practicing perspective-taking, and reflecting on diverse viewpoints.

Building social awareness and empathy supports positive relationships, reduces conflict, and fosters a caring classroom community.

Audience

4th Grade

Time

25 minutes

Approach

Interactive scenarios, role-plays, group discussion, and reflection.

Prep

Teacher Preparation

10 minutes

Step 1

Introduction & Objective

5 minutes

  • Gather students and display the first slide from Perspectives in Action Slide Deck.
  • Say: “Today we’re going to practice seeing a situation from someone else’s eyes.”
  • Guiding Questions:
    • “What does it mean to take someone else’s perspective?”
    • “Why might different people feel differently in the same situation?”

Step 2

Scenario Exploration

10 minutes

  • Present 2–3 short scenarios via slides.
  • After each scenario, ask students to turn to a partner and discuss:
    • “What might each person be feeling?”
    • “What clues helped you decide?”
  • Invite 2–3 pairs to share their thoughts with the class.
  • Guiding Questions:
    • “What surprised you about your partner’s ideas?”
    • “How did different clues change your perspective?”

Step 3

Role-Play Empathy Skits

5 minutes

  • Divide students into small groups and give each a scenario card from Role-Play Empathy Skits Activity.
  • Groups prepare a 1-minute skit showing both sides of the scenario.
  • After each performance, ask:
    • “How did stepping into each role feel?”
    • “What new perspective did you gain?”

Step 4

Circle Share-Out

3 minutes

  • Have students sit in a circle using the Circle Share-Out Discussion Guide.
  • Go around the circle, inviting each student to share one insight about perspective-taking.
  • Guiding Prompt:
    • “One thing I learned about how others feel is...”

Step 5

One-Word Reflection Cool-Down

2 minutes

  • Ask students to think of one word that describes how empathy can help our classroom.
  • Prompt them with the One-Word Reflection Prompt displayed on the board.
  • Students call out their word and briefly explain why they chose it.
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Slide Deck

Perspectives in Action

How do we see others?
Exploring perspective-taking and empathy

Welcome students and introduce the lesson title. Prompt them to settle in and get ready to explore how we see others’ feelings.

What Is Perspective-Taking?

• Seeing a situation through someone else’s eyes
• Noticing how others feel based on clues (words, tone, body language)
• Helps us be more caring and fair

Explain what perspective-taking means. Emphasize why understanding others’ viewpoints is important for friendship and teamwork.

Scenario 1: Lost at the Park

Alex and Jordan were playing by the swings when Jordan dropped their favorite toy. Alex tries to help but Jordan looks upset.

Questions:
• How does Jordan feel?
• How might Alex feel?
• What clues tell you that?

Read the scenario aloud. Ask students with a partner: “What might each person be feeling? What clues did you notice?” Invite 2–3 pairs to share.

Scenario 2: Forgotten Homework

Ms. Lee asks Maya to hand in her homework. Maya’s paper is empty, and Ms. Lee’s face shows disappointment.

Questions:
• What might Maya be feeling?
• How might Ms. Lee feel?
• What clues helped you decide?

After discussion, move on to the next scenario. Encourage students to pick up on different clues this time.

Scenario 3: Left Out in the Game

During recess, Sam watches classmates play basketball but isn’t invited to join. The players look focused on the game.

Questions:
• How might Sam feel?
• How might the players feel if they noticed Sam watching?
• What clues matter here?

Introduce the final scenario. Encourage students to notice more subtle clues like body language.

Reflection: One-Word Response

Think of one word that shows how understanding others’ perspectives can help our classroom.

• Write it on the board or call it out.
• Briefly explain why you chose that word.

Use this slide for a quick cool-down. Ask students to think of and share one word that captures what they learned about perspective-taking.

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Activity

Role-Play Empathy Skits Activity

Purpose: Students practice stepping into someone else’s shoes by acting out short, real-life scenarios and noticing emotional clues.

Materials:

  • Printed scenario cards
  • Timer (optional)

Instructions for Students

  1. Form groups of 3–4.
  2. Each group takes one scenario card.
  3. Read your scenario together and assign roles (Role A, Role B).
  4. Plan a 1-minute skit showing:
    • First, how Role A feels and why
    • Then, how Role B feels and why
  5. Perform your skit for the class.
  6. After each performance, discuss:
    • How did stepping into each role feel?
    • What clues (words, tone, body language) helped you show each emotion?

Scenario Cards

1. Lost at the Park
Context: Jordan’s favorite toy falls into the wood chips while playing by the swings. Alex tries to help.

  • Role A: Jordan (worried, upset)
  • Role B: Alex (helpful, concerned)

2. Forgotten Homework
Context: Ms. Lee asks Maya to hand in her homework. Maya’s paper is blank.

  • Role A: Maya (embarrassed, anxious)
  • Role B: Ms. Lee (disappointed, caring)

3. Left Out in the Game
Context: Sam watches classmates play basketball at recess but isn’t invited to join.

  • Role A: Sam (lonely, left out)
  • Role B: Jamie or another classmate (focused on the game, unaware)



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Discussion

Circle Share-Out Discussion Guide

Purpose

  • Give each student an opportunity to articulate their perspective-taking insights.
  • Reinforce empathy by listening to classmates’ experiences and ideas.

Setup & Materials

  • Arrange students in a circle so everyone can see each other.
  • (Optional) Use a small object (e.g., a soft ball or talking stick) to indicate whose turn it is to speak.

Guidelines

  • Listen respectfully: No interrupting or side conversations.
  • One speaker at a time: Hold the talking piece if using.
  • Be concise: Share one clear insight so everyone has time.

Discussion Flow (3 minutes)

  1. Teacher/model share (30 seconds):
    • “One thing I learned about how others feel is that we can miss subtle clues, like body language. What’s one insight you gained today?”
  2. Go around the circle (about 30 seconds per student):
    • Prompt: “One thing I learned about how others feel is…”
  3. After each share, offer a quick acknowledgement (“Thank you for sharing!”) and move to the next student.

Prompts & Follow-Up Questions

  • If a student shares a feeling (e.g., “I learned that someone might feel lonely watching a game.”) ask:
    • “What clue helped you notice that feeling?”
  • If a student gives a general idea (e.g., “I learned to be kind.”) ask:
    • “Can you give a specific example of kindness from our skits?”
  • To deepen the conversation, ask:
    • “How can we use this new understanding tomorrow at recess or in class?”

Closing

  • After the last share, summarize key themes: noticing clues, asking questions, and offering help.
  • Transition smoothly into the final cool-down activity (One-Word Reflection Prompt).
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Cool Down

One-Word Reflection Prompt

Purpose: Consolidate students’ learning about empathy and perspective-taking by summarizing in a single word.

Instructions:

  1. Display the prompt on the board: “One word to show how understanding others’ perspectives can help our classroom…”
  2. Ask each student to think of one word and either write it on the board or call it out.
  3. After each share, invite a very brief explanation: “Why did you choose that word?”

Think of one word:




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