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How Do We Fix a Friend’s Smile?

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Lesson Plan

Mending Smiles Guide

Students will practice restorative conversations by identifying emotions, apologizing, and proposing solutions to repair friendships, aiming to rebuild trust and kindness.

This lesson fosters empathy, emotional literacy, and conflict resolution skills, strengthening classroom community and teaching students how to repair relationships after disagreements.

Audience

2nd Grade

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Interactive games and guided dialogue.

Prep

Teacher Preparation

5 minutes

Step 1

Warm-Up: Emotion Charades

5 minutes

  • Invite students to stand in a circle
  • Show a random Emotion Charades Game card and act out the emotion
  • Students guess the emotion and discuss times they felt it
  • Connect the emotion to how conflicts might make friends feel

Step 2

Main Activity: Circle of Repair

20 minutes

  • Seat students in a circle
  • Use Friendship Flash Slides to present a conflict scenario (e.g., accidentally breaking a classmate’s crayon)
  • Guide students through restorative questions: 1) What happened? 2) Who was affected? 3) How can we make it right?
  • Use prompts from the Circle of Repair Kit to help with sentence starters
  • Encourage students to practice apologizing and suggesting repairs

Differentiation:

  • Provide visual sentence strips for students who need language support
  • Offer additional challenge by asking advanced students to propose two repair solutions

Step 3

Cool-Down: Secret Compliment Cards

3 minutes

  • Distribute one Secret Compliment Card to each student
  • Students write or draw a kind note for a classmate quietly
  • Collect cards and place them in the Compliment Box to be shared later

Step 4

Assessment & Reflection

2 minutes

  • Observe student participation during the Circle of Repair discussion
  • Ask volunteers to share how apologizing felt and one thing they learned
  • Note students who may need further support in expressing emotions or repairs
  • Plan follow-up small-group practice for those students as needed
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Slide Deck

Friendship Flash Slides

Use these slides to explore conflict scenarios and practice restorative questions:
• What happened?
• Who was affected?
• How can we make it right?

Introduce the "Friendship Flash Slides" to the class. Explain that over the next few slides they’ll see different situations where friendships were strained. Encourage them to think about three restorative questions: What happened? Who was affected? How can we make it right?

Scenario 1: Spilling Paint

You accidentally knock over your friend’s paint cup, spilling colors on their paper.

Read the scenario aloud and display the slide. Ask students: “What happened here? Who might feel hurt? How could we fix this?” Guide volunteers to suggest apologies and repair actions.

Scenario 2: Forgotten Invitation

You forgot to invite Alex to play at recess and he looks sad.

Invite students to describe how Alex feels. Ask: “What could you say to show you’re sorry? What can you do to help?” Encourage them to propose restoring actions (e.g., offering to help repaint).

Scenario 3: Teasing Words

You teased a classmate about their drawing during art time.

Prompt discussion: “Why might teasing hurt someone’s feelings? How can you make amends?” Encourage students to craft a caring apology and one supportive follow-up action.

Scenario 4: Toy Trouble

You grabbed a toy your friend was using without asking, and they stopped playing.

Ask students: “What did taking the toy without asking cause? How can we repair trust?” Guide them to suggest returning the toy, asking permission, and offering a turn swap.

Scenario 5: Shouts and Yells

You yelled at a classmate because you were frustrated, and they seem upset.

Discuss why shouting can be hurtful. Ask: “What can you say or do to show you’re sorry? How can you calm down next time?” Collect responses like offering a calm apology or taking a deep breath.

Scenario 6: Snack Share

You didn’t share your snack with a friend who asked, and they look disappointed.

Have students think about sharing. Ask: “Why is sharing important? How can you make your friend feel better?” Encourage ideas such as offering half of the snack or planning to share next time.

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Warm Up

Emotion Charades

Objective: Students will identify and express different emotions through movement and facial expressions, strengthening emotional vocabulary and empathy.

Materials: A set of emotion cue cards (e.g., happy, sad, angry, surprised, worried).

Time: 5 minutes

Instructions:

  1. Invite students to stand or sit in a circle.
  2. Hold up one Emotion Charades Game card without saying the emotion word.
  3. Ask a volunteer to silently act out the emotion using only facial expressions and body language.
  4. Have classmates guess the emotion and then share a brief example of when they’ve felt that way.
  5. Repeat with 3–4 different emotions and volunteers.

Connection to Restorative Conversations:

  • After the charades, highlight how recognizing feelings helps us understand friends during conflicts.
  • Explain that being able to name emotions is the first step in saying sorry and fixing a friendship.
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Activity

Circle of Repair

Objective: Guide students through a structured restorative conversation to acknowledge harm, express feelings, apologize, and propose ways to make amends.

Materials:

  • A small talking piece (e.g., a soft ball or plush toy)
  • Printed Script Cards (cut into individual cards): restorative questions and sentence starters
  • Repair Action Prompts cards: ideas for making things right

Setup: Arrange students in a circle and place the talking piece in the center. Shuffle the Script Cards and Repair Action Prompts into two stacks.

Instructions:

  1. Introduce the Circle (2 minutes)
    • Explain that when someone holds the talking piece, it’s their turn to speak and everyone else listens respectfully.
    • Review circle norms: speak kindly, listen quietly, and speak from the heart.
  2. Present a Conflict Scenario (e.g., from Friendship Flash Slides) (1 minute)
    • Briefly recount what happened and who was hurt.
  3. Pass the Talking Piece & Use Script Cards (12 minutes)
    • The teacher begins by holding the piece, drawing a Script Card, and modeling a response.
    • Questions and Sentence Starters on the Script Cards:
      What happened?
      – “I noticed that…”
      – “Here’s what I saw…”
      Who was affected?
      – “I felt… when…”
      – “My friend felt… because…”
      How can we make it right?
      – “I am sorry for…”
      – “Next time I will…”
    • After modeling, pass the talking piece to a volunteer. That student draws the top Script Card, reads the question or starter, and completes the sentence. Continue around the circle until every student has had a turn or time is up.
  4. Select Repair Actions (3 minutes)
    • Shuffle and spread out the Repair Action Prompts cards.
    • Invite 2–3 students to choose one prompt (e.g., “Offer to help fix it,” “Give a kind note,” “Share a turn”) and explain how they would do it.
  5. Closing Circle (2 minutes)
    • Hold the talking piece and thank everyone for sharing.
    • Encourage students to carry out their repair action before the next recess or break.

Script Cards Examples:

  • “I noticed my friend looked sad when I…”
  • “I felt upset because…”
  • “I am sorry for…”
  • “Next time I will…”

Repair Action Prompts Examples:

  • “Draw or write a kind note”
  • “Help pick up supplies”
  • “Share a toy or game”
  • “Plan a special compliment”

Differentiation:

  • Visual icons next to each sentence starter for emerging readers
  • Pair students who need support so they can practice together before sharing

Assessment & Reflection:

  • Observe comfort level with speaking and listening roles
  • Note students who may need one-on-one coaching with “I feel…” statements
  • Follow up in small groups for additional practice as needed
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Cool Down

Secret Compliment Cards

Instructions: Write or draw a secret compliment for a classmate. Be kind and specific!

To: ______________________________
From (optional): ___________________

My compliment:












(Cut along the line and place cards in the Compliment Box.)

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