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How Can We Feel Safe?

Lesson Plan

Circle of Trust Blueprint

Students will critically examine factors that contribute to a supportive learning environment and collaboratively draft comprehensive safety agreements that reflect shared values and respect.

High schoolers gain agency by voicing their needs, practicing empathy, and engaging in structured collaboration—building trust and accountability in the classroom.

Audience

High School Students

Time

45 minutes

Approach

Structured reflection, guided discussion, and peer-led group work.

Materials

Prep

Prepare Materials and Technology

10 minutes

  • Ensure laptops/tablets are charged and connected
  • Share a digital collaborative document (e.g., Google Doc) for drafting agreements
  • Print or cue up the Safety Agreement Workshop handouts
  • Arrange desks into small pods for group work
  • Review reflective prompts in What Makes You Feel Safe?

Step 1

Welcome & Framing

5 minutes

  • Greet students and set a tone of respect and confidentiality
  • Explain the goal: co-develop a set of safety agreements that support everyone’s learning and well-being
  • Outline the agenda: reflection, discussion, slide review, group drafting, and consolidation
  • Transition: “Let’s start by reflecting on what ‘feeling safe’ truly means to each of us.”

Step 2

Reflective Discussion: What Makes You Feel Safe?

10 minutes

  • Project the What Makes You Feel Safe? prompt
  • Individually journal for 2 minutes: recall a moment when you felt safe at school—what conditions and actions created that safety?
  • In pairs (3 minutes), share your reflections and ask: “Which classroom value underpinned your safe moment?”
  • Use sticky notes to capture keywords, then post under “What Keeps Us Safe?” on the board
  • Debrief common themes and ask: “Which values (e.g., respect, trust, support) emerged?”

Step 3

Slide Deck: Building Our Safe Space

10 minutes

  • Launch the Building Our Safe Space slide deck
  • Slide 1: Recap themes from our journal and board
  • Slide 2: Discuss example agreements—ask: “How could we deepen or adapt these for a high school setting?”
  • Slide 3: Highlight the upcoming group activity and criteria: clarity, inclusivity, and actionable language
  • Pause for clarifying questions
  • Transition: “Now, let’s draft our own agreements in teams.”

Step 4

Activity: Advanced Safety Agreement Workshop

15 minutes

  • Form groups of 4–5 students and assign roles:
    • Facilitator: guides discussion and keeps time
    • Recorder: captures draft statements in the shared doc
    • Researcher: checks examples or evidence to support wording
    • Negotiator: ensures all voices are heard and mediates disagreements
    • Presenter: summarizes your draft for the class
  • Distribute chart paper, markers, and open the Safety Agreement Workshop
  • Steps:
    1. Brainstorm 5–7 potential agreements based on themes
    2. Select top 4–6 and refine into concise, positive statements
    3. Illustrate or annotate each statement with real-world examples
    4. Enter final drafts into the shared digital document
  • Teacher circulates to prompt deeper thinking and resolve conflicts

Step 5

Share & Consolidate Agreements

5 minutes

  • Each Presenter shares their group’s key agreements (1–2 minutes per group)
  • Identify overlapping items and merge into a master list in the digital doc
  • Invite final edits: check clarity, tone, and inclusivity
  • Read out the finalized agreements; ask students to sign or digitally acknowledge
  • Close by affirming these agreements guide our classroom culture
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Slide Deck

Building Our Safe Space

Today we’ll review what keeps us safe and work together to write clear, meaningful classroom agreements.

Welcome back! We’re going to build on our earlier discussion about safety and begin crafting specific agreements. Explain that these slides deepen our themes and provide examples before we draft our own.

Core Themes to Guide Us

• Respect and Empathy
• Active Listening
• Trust and Accountability
• Open Communication
• Support and Inclusion

Point out each theme and invite students to share how these showed up in their journal reflections. Ask: “Which of these themes resonated most with you and why?”

Reflective Prompts

• How does our language impact someone’s sense of safety?
• What actions show others they can trust us?
• How do power dynamics influence our comfort in speaking up?
• In what ways can we ensure everyone feels included?

Use these questions to spark deeper reflection. Invite volunteers to respond, then discuss in pairs.

Examples of Strong Agreements

  1. Use “I” statements to share your perspective
  2. Listen actively without interrupting
  3. Respect physical and emotional boundaries
  4. Offer feedback with kindness and clarity
  5. Hold each other accountable respectfully

Explain that these examples model concise, actionable agreements. Ask students: “How could we adapt or expand these for our own classroom?”

Your Turn: Draft Our Agreements

• Form groups of 4–5 students
• Brainstorm 6–8 potential agreements
• Refine into 4–6 concise, actionable statements
• Enter drafts in our shared document and prepare to present

Describe the upcoming group activity: students will co-create 4–6 agreements using our themes and examples. Emphasize criteria: clear language, inclusivity, and real-world relevance.

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Activity

Safety Agreement Workshop (High School)

Purpose:
Collaboratively draft, refine, and commit to a set of 4–6 classroom safety agreements using both digital and in-person tools. Students will practice negotiation, research, and design skills while deepening their understanding of psychological safety.

Materials:

  • Laptops or tablets with access to our shared document
  • Chart paper or whiteboard (optional)
  • Markers
  • What Makes You Feel Safe? themes from earlier discussion

Group Roles (assign one each):
• Facilitator – Keeps the group on task and reads prompts aloud.
• Recorder – Captures draft statements in the shared doc.
• Researcher – Looks up best practices or examples to support wording.
• Mediator – Ensures all voices are heard and resolves disagreements.
• Designer – Formats and decorates the final document or chart for clarity.
• Presenter – Will share your group’s final agreements with the class.


Steps

  1. Digital Brainstorm & Research (5 minutes)
    • Open the shared digital document.
    • Individually list 6–8 safety agreement ideas inspired by our “What Makes You Feel Safe?” themes.
    • Research (Researcher) any wording examples or evidence that could strengthen each statement.

  2. Select & Draft Statements (7 minutes)
    • As a group, discuss and pick your top 4–6 ideas.
    • Turn each idea into a concise, actionable, positive statement (e.g., “Speak up if you notice someone being excluded”).
    • Recorder enters each draft into the digital doc; Designer adds formatting (bullets, icons).

  3. Illustrate & Annotate (3 minutes)
    • Use digital icons or quick sketches on chart paper to show real scenarios.
    • Add brief annotations or examples below each statement to clarify how it looks in our room.

  4. Feedback & Conflict Check (3 minutes)
    • Exchange your draft file or chart with another group.
    • Use “I like… I wonder…” feedback protocol:
    – I like one aspect that works well.
    – I wonder about one area to improve.
    • Mediator leads a 1-minute discussion to address concerns.

  5. Finalize & Prepare to Share (2 minutes)
    • Make final edits in the shared doc.
    • Designer cleans up formatting; Presenter rehearses a 1-minute summary.


Reflection (if time allows)

  • Which agreement do you think will have the biggest impact on our classroom culture? Why?
  • What challenges might we face in upholding these agreements, and how can we address them?
  • How can we hold each other accountable while maintaining respect and empathy?

Write one sentence below or discuss briefly:





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Discussion

What Makes You Feel Safe?

Objective:
Students will reflect deeply on moments of psychological, emotional, or physical safety, identify key factors, and connect these insights to our classroom culture.

Materials:

  • Student journals or notebooks
  • Pens or pencils
  • Sticky notes (optional)
  • Chart paper or whiteboard

Time: 10 minutes


Steps

  1. Journal Reflection (3 minutes)
    • Prompt students to write in their journals:
    – Think of a time—inside or outside of school—when you felt completely safe and supported.
    – Describe what was happening, who was there, and how you knew you were safe.
    – Identify two or three feelings or values (e.g., trust, respect, empathy) that were present.




  2. Pair & Share (3 minutes)
    • Find a partner and take turns sharing your reflections.
    • As you listen, ask: “Which specific action from someone else made the biggest difference to your feeling of safety?”

  3. Whole-Class Share (3 minutes)
    • Invite volunteers to place a sticky note (or call out) their key feeling/value or action.
    • Write these words on chart paper under the heading “Keys to Our Safety”.

  4. Highlight & Connect (1 minute)
    • Review the chart: look for patterns or surprises.
    • Ask the class: “How can we bring these same actions or values into our own classroom every day?”


Teacher-Facilitator Notes

• Encourage depth: when a student shares a word like “respect,” ask “What does respect look like here?”
• Normalize vulnerabilities: remind students that sharing is voluntary, and all reflections are confidential.
• Use positive reinforcement: “Thank you for that insight—this helps us all.”
• Journaling starters for follow-up or extension:

  • “What might make someone feel unsafe, and how could we prevent that?”
  • “How do these safety factors influence our ability to learn and participate?”

These insights will guide our drafting of classroom safety agreements in the next activity.

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