Lesson Plan
Respect Roadmap
Students will collaboratively define and draft a classroom respect contract by brainstorming respectful behaviors, discussing real-life scenarios, and formalizing shared norms.
When students co-create the rules that govern their space, they feel ownership, build a positive climate, and hold each other accountable for respectful actions.
Audience
5th Grade Class
Time
45 minutes
Approach
Guided brainstorming and group discussion to draft a shared contract.
Materials
Prep
Prepare Materials and Space
10 minutes
- Upload or queue the Respect Rally Slides on your classroom display
- Print enough Classroom Contract Co-Creation templates for each student
- Provide sticky notes for the Respect Brainstorm Blitz
- Gather index cards for the One Word Reflection Prompt
- Arrange seating to support whole-class discussion and small-group work
- Review all materials and flow to ensure smooth transitions
Step 1
Warm-Up: Respect Brainstorm Blitz
5 minutes
- Hand out sticky notes—one per student
- Prompt: “Write as many words or phrases as you associate with ‘respect’—one idea per note.”
- Students stick notes on chart paper; cluster similar ideas quickly
- Refer to Respect Brainstorm Blitz for additional prompts
Step 2
Discussion: Respect Rally Slides
10 minutes
- Display Respect Rally Slides and guide students through slides on:
- Classroom respect examples
- Why respect matters here
- Invite volunteers to share personal examples; record key points where all can see
- Highlight common themes from the brainstorm clusters
Step 3
Co-Creation: Classroom Contract
20 minutes
- Give each student a Classroom Contract Co-Creation sheet
- Split class into 4–5 groups; assign each group one theme (e.g., listening, kindness, personal space)
- Groups draft 2–3 clear, student-friendly norms for their theme using brainstorm clusters
- Regroup and have each share drafts; facilitate discussion to refine into 5–7 final contract statements
Step 4
Reflection: One Word Reflection
5 minutes
- Distribute index cards for the One Word Reflection Prompt
- Ask: “What one word best describes how you feel about our new respect contract?”
- Students write and hand in cards for teacher to review
Step 5
Closure: Share and Display
5 minutes
- Read aloud a few reflection words (volunteers)
- Post the finalized classroom contract in a prominent spot
- Remind students this contract guides everyone’s behavior and will be revisited regularly
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Slide Deck
Let’s Rally for Respect!
How can we show respect in our classroom?
Today we'll define respect, see examples, and then work together to build our own Respect Contract.
Welcome everyone! Introduce today’s goal: co-create our classroom respect contract. Explain that first we’ll explore what respect means and why it matters.
What Is Respect?
• Treating others the way you want to be treated
• Listening when someone speaks
• Using polite words and actions
Define respect in student-friendly language. Emphasize that respect helps everyone feel safe and valued.
Why Respect Matters
• Creates a safe learning space
• Builds trust and friendships
• Helps us solve problems together
Connect respect to our classroom community. Ask students to share quick examples as you go through the bullet points.
Your Brainstorm Clusters
(Display chart or word cloud of ideas such as:)
• Kindness
• Listening
• Fairness
• Helping Others
• Using Gentle Words
Show sticky-note clusters from the Warm-Up. Point out themes (kindness, listening, fairness). Use this slide to recap students’ ideas.
Respect in Real Life
- A friend is talking while you play a game.
- You finish early and others are still working.
- Someone makes a mistake reading aloud.
Read each scenario aloud. After each, pause and ask: “What would respect look like here?” Encourage 2–3 student responses.
Next Up: Co-Create Our Contract
In small groups, you'll draft 2–3 statements about respect for themes like:
• Listening
• Kindness
• Personal Space
Transition to the co-creation activity. Explain group process and themes. Prepare students to draft norms.
Warm Up
Warm-Up: Respect Brainstorm Blitz
Objective: Quickly surface student ideas about what respect looks and sounds like in our classroom.
Materials:
- Sticky notes (1 per student)
- Chart paper or whiteboard space
Instructions:
- Distribute one sticky note to each student.
- Prompt students: “Write one word or short phrase that comes to mind when you think of respect in our classroom.”
- After 60 seconds, have students post their notes on a designated chart paper or board.
- As a class, cluster similar ideas (e.g., listening, kindness, fairness).
- Briefly highlight clusters to set the stage for our discussion.
Space for student work:
Discussion
Classroom Contract Co-Creation
Objective: Collaboratively draft clear, positive norms around respect in small groups, then refine as a whole class.
Materials:
- Brainstorm clusters from Respect Brainstorm Blitz
- Chart paper or large poster sheets
- Markers or pens
- This discussion guide
1. Group Setup (2 minutes)
- Divide into 4–5 groups of 3–4 students.
- Assign each group one theme from the brainstorm clusters (e.g., Listening, Kindness, Personal Space, Fairness, Helping Others).
- Give each group a poster and markers.
2. Discuss & Explore (5–7 minutes)
Prompt each group to:
• Review your theme and vocabulary from the brainstorm.
• Talk about these questions:
- What specific actions show [your theme] in our classroom?
- When might someone NOT demonstrate this? How could we help them?
- How does this behavior make everyone feel?
Teachers can circulate, ask follow-ups:
- “Can you give an example from our class?”
- “What could a teacher or student say if this norm isn’t followed?”
3. Draft Norm Statements (8–10 minutes)
Each group writes 2–3 “We will…” statements.
Guidelines for strong norms:
- Start with We will…
- Use positive, action-based language
- Be specific and observable
- Keep it short and easy to remember
Example: “We will look at the speaker and wait our turn to talk.”
Space for your statements:
- We will …
- We will …
- We will …
4. Gallery Share & Refine (8 minutes)
- Post each group’s poster around the room.
- Gallery Walk: Students rotate, read others’ drafts, and place a dot next to 1–2 statements they like best.
- Return to your group and note patterns: Which statements got the most dots?
- As a class, discuss:
- Which statements are the clearest?
- Are any too long or vague? How can we tweak them?
- Do we need to combine similar statements?
- Select the final 5–7 statements for our classroom contract.
5. Finalize & Display (3 minutes)
- Teacher or student volunteers write the selected norms on poster board or slide.
- Post the finished contract in a prominent spot.
- Remind everyone: We created these together—let’s hold each other to them!
Potential Follow-Up Questions:
- How do our norms help us feel respected and safe?
- What should we do if someone forgets a norm?
- How can we remind each other kindly?
Feel free to revisit and adjust these norms as our class grows and changes.
Cool Down
Cool-Down: One Word Reflection Prompt
Objective: Encourage students to reflect on their feelings about our new respect contract using just one word.
Materials:
- Index cards or small slips of paper
- Pencils or pens
Instructions:
- Distribute one index card to each student.
- Ask: “What one word best describes how you feel about our new respect contract?”
- Have students write their word on the card.
- Collect the cards to review and gauge the class’s feelings.
Space for student work:
One Word: ____________