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How Can We Calm the Storm?

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Lesson Plan

Storm Tracker Blueprint

Guide the student to recognize personal emotional triggers and practice tailored self-regulation strategies to maintain calm and focus during challenging moments.

Helping the student identify stressors and equip them with targeted calming techniques fosters emotional balance, reduces off-task behavior, and builds long-term self-management skills.

Audience

8th Grade Student

Time

45 minutes

Approach

Interactive mapping and guided practice.

Prep

Prepare Materials

10 minutes

Step 1

Introduction and Goal Setting

5 minutes

  • Welcome the student and briefly explain today’s goal: understanding personal “storms” (emotional triggers) and calming strategies
  • Show Slide 1–2 of the Calm the Storm Slides to illustrate the concept of emotional storms
  • Ask the student to share a recent moment they felt “stormy” (upset, angry, anxious)

Step 2

Identify and Map Triggers

10 minutes

  • Distribute the Trigger Mapping Sheet
  • Guide the student to list 3–5 situations that commonly trigger strong emotions
  • For each trigger, have them note physical sensations, thoughts, and behaviors
  • Discuss patterns and help label triggers as internal (thoughts) or external (events)

Step 3

Introduce Calming Anchors

5 minutes

  • Show Slide 3–4 of the Calm the Storm Slides
  • Define “breathing anchors” as simple, repeatable strategies to interrupt stress
  • Explain the purpose of practice in building neural pathways for calm responses

Step 4

Breathing Anchors Practice

10 minutes

  • Transition to the Breathing Anchors Practice
  • Lead the student through three techniques (e.g., box breathing, 4–7–8, belly breaths)
  • After each method, have the student rate their calmness on a 1–5 scale
  • Encourage noting which anchor felt most natural or effective

Step 5

Reflection and Action Planning

10 minutes

  • Give the student the Reflection Harbor Journal
  • Prompt them to write:
    • Which trigger is most challenging?
    • Which breathing anchor will they try first?
    • When and where they will practice it this week
  • Review their plan and set a reminder system (e.g., phone alert, sticky note)

Step 6

Wrap-Up and Next Steps

5 minutes

  • Summarize key learnings: personal triggers and chosen anchors
  • Reinforce that practice builds strength—encourage daily 2-minute sessions
  • Schedule a brief check-in next week to review progress and adjust plan
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Slide Deck

Calm the Storm

Emotions can feel like a sudden storm—powerful, overwhelming, and hard to navigate. Today, we'll learn to recognize our personal storms and discover tools to bring calm back to our day.

Welcome the student and set a calm tone. Briefly introduce the metaphor of emotions as a storm at sea. Invite curiosity.

Understanding Emotional Storms

• Storm Clouds: Thoughts & worries building tension
• Strong Winds: Physical sensations (heart racing, sweaty palms)
• Crashing Waves: Actions we take when upset (yelling, shutting down)

Recognizing these signs helps us spot a storm forming.

Explain what happens in our bodies and minds when emotions surge. Use simple analogies (e.g., dark clouds, rough waves).

Identify Your Triggers

What sparks your storm?
• Internal Triggers: Negative self-talk, worries, memories
• External Triggers: Loud noises, busy hallways, harsh words

Jot down 3–5 personal triggers on your Trigger Mapping Sheet.

Guide the student to think of real-life examples. Encourage naming at least one internal and one external trigger.

Calming Anchors

Choose a breathing anchor to steady your mind:

  1. Box Breathing: Inhale 4 sec — Hold 4 sec — Exhale 4 sec — Hold 4 sec
  2. 4-7-8 Breathing: Inhale 4 sec — Hold 7 sec — Exhale 8 sec
  3. Belly Breaths: Deep inhale filling belly — Slow exhale emptying belly

Rate calmness after each practice.

Introduce each breathing technique slowly. Demonstrate and practice with student. Show visual breathing guides if available.

Practice & Reflection

  1. Pick your favorite anchor.
  2. Practice 2 minutes daily (morning, before tests, after school).
  3. Record your practice in the Reflection Harbor Journal:
    • Which trigger was hardest?
    • How did the anchor feel?
    • When will you practice next?

Review steps to make daily practice a habit. Encourage setting simple reminders.

Next Steps & Encouragement

• Small moments of calm add up—anytime you notice the wind picking up, pause and anchor.
• We’ll check in next week to celebrate wins and adjust your plan.
Remember: You are the captain—calm is within reach.

End on a positive note. Reinforce that small, regular practices build strength over time.

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Worksheet

Trigger Mapping Sheet

Use this sheet to identify situations that spark your emotional storms and note how your body, mind, and actions respond. Complete for at least 3–5 triggers.


Trigger 1

What happened?




Type of Trigger (Internal or External):




Physical Sensations (e.g., heart racing, sweaty palms):




Thoughts (e.g., “I can’t do this,” “They’re against me”):




Behaviors (e.g., yelling, shutting down):




Trigger 2

What happened?




Type of Trigger (Internal or External):




Physical Sensations:




Thoughts:




Behaviors:




Trigger 3

What happened?




Type of Trigger (Internal or External):




Physical Sensations:




Thoughts:




Behaviors:




(Optional) Add up to two more triggers:

Trigger 4

What happened?




Type:




Physical Sensations:




Thoughts:




Behaviors:




Trigger 5

What happened?




Type:




Physical Sensations:




Thoughts:




Behaviors:



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Activity

Breathing Anchors Practice

Use this activity to try each breathing technique, rate your calmness, and reflect on what felt most effective.


1. Box Breathing

  1. Sit comfortably with feet on the floor and hands resting in your lap.
  2. Inhale slowly through your nose for 4 seconds (count “1–2–3–4”).
  3. Hold your breath for 4 seconds.
  4. Exhale gently through your mouth for 4 seconds.
  5. Hold for 4 seconds.
  6. Repeat this cycle 4 times.

After practice, rate your calmness (1 = very tense, 5 = very calm):




2. 4–7–8 Breathing

  1. Sit or lie down in a relaxed position.
  2. Inhale quietly through your nose for 4 seconds.
  3. Hold your breath for 7 seconds.
  4. Exhale forcefully through your mouth for 8 seconds, making a whooshing sound.
  5. Repeat 3–4 times.

After practice, rate your calmness (1 = very tense, 5 = very calm):




3. Belly Breaths

  1. Place one hand on your chest and the other on your belly.
  2. Inhale deeply through your nose, feeling your belly rise more than your chest.
  3. Exhale slowly through pursed lips, feeling your belly fall.
  4. Continue for 1–2 minutes at a comfortable pace.

After practice, rate your calmness (1 = very tense, 5 = very calm):




Reflection

  1. Which breathing anchor felt most natural or effective for you?






  2. When might you use this anchor this week?






  3. How will you remind yourself to practice?






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Journal

Reflection Harbor Journal

Use this journal to capture your thoughts after practicing your calming anchors. Reflect deeply and plan for continued growth.


1. Most Challenging Trigger

Which of your identified triggers felt hardest to manage, and why?






2. Impact of Your Chosen Anchor

How did using your selected breathing anchor affect your emotions and body after a “stormy” moment?











3. A Success Story

Describe a specific time this week when you noticed the anchor helping you stay calm. What happened, and what did you do?











4. Personal Insights

What have you learned about yourself, your emotional patterns, or your strengths through this practice?











5. Future Practice Plan

How will you integrate your favorite breathing anchor into your daily routine? Include when, where, and how you’ll remind yourself to practice.






6. Adapting to New Storms

If you encounter a trigger you haven’t faced before, how might you adjust your strategy or choose a different anchor?







Additional Thoughts or Questions

Use this space for any other reflections, doodles, or reminders.











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