Build rapport and establish clear group norms, introduce each student’s IEP counseling goals, and set shared expectations to create a safe, structured environment for ongoing Tier 3 counseling.
Setting group norms and sharing IEP goals helps students with learning and emotional disabilities feel understood, supported, and accountable. This foundation promotes trust and paves the way for meaningful progress.
Audience
6th Grade Students
Time
30 minutes
Approach
Interactive discussion, modeling, and visual aids.
Ask each student to name one goal they’re most excited about working on.
Step 4
Set Expectations and Closing
7 minutes
Explain how tokens/stickers will be earned for following norms and effort toward IEP goals using the Token Reward Chart.
Summarize key points: norms, goals, rewards.
Ask students to each state one thing they will do to keep the group safe.
Collect materials and remind students of next session.
Slide Deck
Group Launch Pad
Building trust and setting our group's foundation.
Welcome students by name, introduce yourself, and explain that today we’ll set the foundation for our counseling group. Emphasize that this is a safe space where everyone’s voice matters.
Welcome & Icebreaker
What makes you feel safe in a new group?
Prompt each student to answer the icebreaker question. Encourage respectful listening and validate each response.
Group Norms
Respect
Listen
Be Honest
Confidentiality
(Your ideas here!)
Display the Group Norms Chart. Read the norms aloud, then invite students to suggest 1–2 more. Have them place a check next to each norm they agree with.
IEP Counseling Goals
Academic Coping Strategies
Emotional Regulation Skills
Which goal are you most excited to work on?
Hand out the IEP Goals Summary Sheet. Briefly review each student’s individual goals. Ask each student: “Which goal are you most excited to work on?”
Token Reward System
Earn tokens or stickers by:
Following our norms
Working toward your IEP goals
Collect tokens to earn rewards!
Explain how tokens or stickers will be earned for following norms and making progress on IEP goals. Show the Token Reward Chart and examples of rewards.
Expectations & Closing
Remember our norms, goals, and rewards
Share one thing you’ll do to keep the group safe
See you next session!
Summarize today’s norms, goals, and rewards. Go around and ask each student to state one thing they will do to keep the group safe. Remind them of the next session.
Worksheet
Group Norms Chart
Below are our group norms. Put a check (✔) next to each norm you agree to follow in our counseling sessions.
Respect everyone’s thoughts and feelings.
Listen without interrupting.
Be honest and share your true thoughts.
Keep what’s said in the group confidential.
My Additional Norms
Help us build a safe space by adding two more norms you think are important:
In our counseling sessions, we’ll work on strengthening two important areas from your IEP. Read each goal below and answer the questions to help you focus on what you want to accomplish.
1. Academic Coping Strategies
Goal: Learn and use techniques to stay organized, manage time, and handle challenging schoolwork.
What does this goal mean to you?
______________________________________________________________
One strategy I would like to try (e.g., breaking tasks into steps, using a planner) is:
______________________________________________________________
A way I will know I’m doing well (how I’ll measure success) is:
______________________________________________________________
2. Emotional Regulation Skills
Goal: Recognize and manage strong feelings (like anger or anxiety) in positive ways.
What does this goal mean to you?
______________________________________________________________
One strategy I would like to practice (e.g., deep breathing, counting to ten) is:
______________________________________________________________
A way I will know I’m making progress is:
______________________________________________________________
Reflection & Commitment
Which goal are you most excited to work on? Why?
______________________________________________________________
On a scale of 1 (not confident) to 5 (very confident), circle how ready you feel to work on these goals today:1 2 3 4 5
I promise to do my best to follow these goals and share my progress each session.