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From Reacting to Proacting: Mastering Emotional Regulation

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Lesson Plan

Session 1 Lesson Plan

Introduce students to proactive vs. reactive behavior and equip them with strategies to regulate their emotions in real time.

Understanding the difference between reacting and proacting can help students build positive social skills and self-management, especially important for students with high ADHD needs.

Audience

7th Grade Students with ADHD

Time

50 Minutes

Approach

Interactive, movement-based, engaging activities for immediate application.

Materials

Interactive Warm-Up Guide, Behavioral Strategy Activity, Emotion Regulation Game Instructions, Discussion Prompts Handout, Visual Aids (charts on proactive vs reactive behaviors), and Timer or stopwatch

Prep

Session 1 Preparation

20 Minutes

Step 1

Warm-Up

10 Minutes

  • Begin with a brief physical activity using movements to energize students.
  • Ask students to mimic actions that represent energetic vs. calm states (link to Interactive Warm-Up Guide).

Step 2

Activity: Exploring Behaviors

15 Minutes

  • Introduce the concepts of proactive and reactive behaviors using simple definitions and examples.
  • Facilitate a hands-on activity where students sort different scenarios into 'proactive' or 'reactive' behaviors, referencing the Behavioral Strategy Activity.
  • Encourage movement by having students physically move to separate sides of the room based on their choices.

Step 3

Game: Emotion Regulation Challenge

10 Minutes

  • Organize a game where students role-play scenarios to demonstrate effective emotion regulation.
  • Use the Emotion Regulation Game Instructions to guide the game rules and structure.
  • Provide immediate feedback on how proactive responses could alter outcomes.

Step 4

Discussion and Reflection

10 Minutes

  • Lead a guided discussion using the questions in the Discussion Prompts Handout.
  • Ask students to share personal experiences where shifting from reactive to proactive behavior could have changed outcomes.
  • Summarize key learning points and answer questions.

Step 5

Cool Down

5 Minutes

  • End with a quiet cool-down activity, such as deep breathing exercises, to help consolidate learning and calm down after the energetic activities.
  • Briefly recap the difference between proactive and reactive behaviors.
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Lesson Plan

Session 2 Lesson Plan

Reinforce proactive behaviors by applying strategies to real-life scenarios, deepening students' understanding and use of emotion regulation skills.

Building on initial concepts helps students internalize proactive strategies and practice them in realistic situations, critical for developing self-regulation, especially for ADHD students.

Audience

7th Grade Students with ADHD

Time

50 Minutes

Approach

Interactive, scenario-based activities with movement, role-play, and reflection.

Prep

Session 2 Preparation

20 Minutes

Step 1

Warm-Up

10 Minutes

  • Start with dynamic movement exercises using Targeted Warm-Up Guide.
  • Encourage students to share one proactive strategy they recall from Session 1.

Step 2

Activity: Real-Life Scenario Practice

15 Minutes

  • Present various real-life scenarios using visual scenario cards.
  • In small groups or individually, have students discuss and outline proactive behavioral responses.
  • Use the Real-Life Scenario Activity for detailed instructions.

Step 3

Game: Proactive Role-Play Challenge

10 Minutes

  • Facilitate a role-play game where students act out proactive responses based on given scenarios.
  • Follow the guidelines in the Proactive Role-Play Game Guide.
  • Provide immediate feedback and encourage peer input.

Step 4

Discussion and Reflection

10 Minutes

  • Lead a discussion using questions from the Progress Reflection Discussion Prompts handout.
  • Ask students to reflect on changes they’ve noticed in their responses and identify areas for improvement.

Step 5

Cool Down

5 Minutes

  • Conclude with calming activities, such as guided deep breathing exercises.
  • Briefly summarize key proactive strategies and their benefits, reinforcing what was practiced during the session.
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Warm Up

Interactive Warm-Up Guide Session 1

This warm-up activity is designed to energize students through a series of fun physical movements that represent different emotional states. It not only prepares students for the lesson but also helps them connect physical energy with their emotional levels.

Warm-Up Objectives

  • Energize and engage students


  • Foster awareness of different emotional states through physical movement


  • Create an environment that bridges physical energy and emotional regulation

Activity Instructions

  1. Introduction (2 minutes):

    • Explain to the students that they will be doing a series of movements that represent various energy states (e.g., energetic, calm).
    • Ask them to think about how their body feels when they are excited versus when they are calm.
  2. Movement Mimicry (5 minutes):

    • Call out different emotional states one at a time. For example, say "energetic" and have students bounce around, or say "calm" and have them slowly stretch with big, flowing movements.
    • Encourage them to exaggerate their movements, making it fun and expressive.
  3. Freeze Frame (3 minutes):

    • After a few rounds of movement mimicry, play a quick game of 'freeze-frame'. When you pause the music (or say "Freeze!"), students must hold their current pose.
    • Once they freeze, quickly ask a few students to share which emotion they were representing and how it felt in their body.

Reflection

  • Ask the students to reflect for about a minute on how it felt to move in these different ways. Which expression did they like best and why?





This activity sets the stage for learning about regulating these 'movement-based' emotional states by giving the students a direct, physical experience of energy modulation.

Feel free to adapt variations of this warm-up to match the energy and needs of the group during the session.

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Activity

Behavioral Strategy Activity Session 1

This activity is designed to help students distinguish between proactive and reactive behaviors using a fun, movement-based sorting task. It allows them to engage physically with the concepts discussed, reinforcing what they learn through action and discussion.

Activity Objectives

  • Identify and differentiate proactive versus reactive responses.


  • Engage in physical movement to link behavior to real-world actions.


  • Promote active learning via hands-on sorting and discussion.

Materials Needed

  • Scenario cards or statements describing various behaviors
  • Markers or sticky notes (optional)
  • Visual aids (charts on proactive vs reactive behaviors)
  • Open space in the classroom

Activity Instructions

  1. Introduction (3 minutes):

    • Briefly explain the difference between proactive behaviors (anticipating situations and taking positive steps before a reaction) and reactive behaviors (responding impulsively after a situation unfolds).
    • Share a few simple, relatable examples of each.
  2. Sorting Task (10 minutes):

    • Divide the class area into two distinct zones: one labeled "Proactive" and another labeled "Reactive."
    • Present various scenario cards, one at a time, that describe everyday situations. For example:
      • A student feels frustrated when a classmate takes their seat.
      • A student plans ahead for a challenging group project.
    • Ask the students to decide which zone the scenario fits best by physically moving to the area that represents their choice. For a small group, you can have students raise their hands or use markers on a board.
  3. Discussion (5 minutes):

    • After each scenario, briefly discuss why the chosen response falls under the selected category.
    • Encourage the students to share personal experiences or suggest alternate behaviors.
  4. Reflection (2 minutes):

    • Ask students to think of one behavior they often use and whether it is proactive or reactive.
    • Have them consider one change they might make to be more proactive in similar situations.

Extension and Adaptation

  • For students needing more movement, ask them to perform a quick physical action (like a step forward or clapping) when they share their reasoning.
  • Consider using different scenarios tailored to real-life school or social situations for greater relevance.

This hands-on activity not only reinforces the lesson content but also gives students a memorable, physical way to understand and distinguish proactive from reactive behaviors.










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Game

Emotion Regulation Game Session 1

This game is designed to help students practice emotion regulation skills in a dynamic and supportive role-playing setting. Through acting out scenarios, students can apply proactive strategies in real time and receive immediate feedback. The activity is energetic and engaging, perfect for a small group with high needs for movement.

Game Objectives

  • Practice applying proactive strategies in emotionally challenging situations.


  • Encourage teamwork and supportive feedback among peers.


  • Reinforce the importance of emotion regulation in everyday interactions.

Materials Needed

  • A set of role-play scenario cards (each describing a situation requiring emotion regulation)
  • Timer or stopwatch
  • A bell or buzzer to signal turns
  • Optional: A whiteboard for listing key strategies

Game Instructions

  1. Introduction (2 minutes):

    • Briefly review what proactive emotion regulation means and why it’s important.
    • Explain that the game involves role-playing different scenarios where students must use proactive strategies to manage their feelings.
  2. Scenario Selection (3 minutes):

    • Shuffle the scenario cards and have one card drawn per round.
    • Read the scenario aloud so all participants understand the context.
  3. Role-Play (4 minutes per scenario):

    • Assign roles to the students. One student will take the lead to act out the response while the others observe or play supporting roles.
    • The acting student must demonstrate a proactive strategy in response to the scenario. For example, if the scenario involves a conflict with a peer, the student might role-play calmly addressing the issue or expressing how they feel without escalating the situation.
    • Encourage movement and expressive physical actions to keep energy levels high.
  4. Feedback and Discussion (3 minutes):

    • After the role-play, invite the observing students to share feedback on what proactive strategies were used and suggest any other approaches.
    • Use a whiteboard or chart to jot down effective strategies mentioned by students.
  5. Rotation (Repeat until time is up):

    • Continue with new scenarios, allowing each student the opportunity to lead a role-play.
    • Use a timer to keep each round focused and energetic.

Reflection

  • After several rounds, ask students to reflect on the strategies they used. What worked well? What could be improved?
  • Encourage them to think about how these strategies might apply to real-life situations they encounter at school or in their personal lives.


This game offers a practical, engaging way for students to practice emotion regulation. By acting out scenarios and discussing responses, they build confidence in using proactive strategies in their daily interactions.

Have fun, and remember, the key is to stay calm, think ahead, and respond positively!

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Discussion

Discussion Prompts Handout Session 1

This handout is designed to guide you through a group discussion about proactive and reactive behaviors. Read each question carefully and think about your personal experiences. Write or share your thoughts with the group. Use the spaces provided to jot down your ideas.


Guiding Questions

  1. What Do Proactive and Reactive Behaviors Mean?

    • In your own words, explain what it means to be proactive.
    • How would you describe a reactive response?





  2. Everyday Examples

    • Think of a time at school or home when you noticed someone reacting to a situation. What happened?
    • How could that situation have been handled more proactively?





  3. Personal Reflection

    • Can you identify a time when you reacted without thinking? What was the outcome?
    • How might the outcome have been different if you had used a proactive strategy?





  4. Brainstorming Strategies

    • What are some simple strategies you can use when you feel a strong emotion coming on?
    • How can taking a moment to plan your response change the way you interact with others?





  5. Looking Forward

    • How can practicing proactive behavior help you in challenging situations at school?
    • What is one proactive response you would like to try next time you face a difficult situation?





Instructions for Discussion

  • Listen Actively: Each person will have a chance to share without interruptions.
  • Share Respectfully: If you disagree, explain why using kind words.
  • Encourage Others: Ask follow-up questions and show interest in your classmates’ experiences.
  • Reflect: Use this time to think about ways you can apply proactive strategies in your daily life.


Write down your responses in the spaces provided or share them with the group during our discussion. Your thoughts and insights are important and help everyone learn together.

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Warm Up

Targeted Warm-Up Guide Session 2

This warm-up is designed to re-engage students in a movement-based exercise that reinforces proactive strategies learned in Session 1. It will encourage them to recall and share these strategies while using physical movement to set a positive and energized tone for the lesson.


Warm-Up Objectives

  • Re-engage students through dynamic movement


  • Reinforce proactive strategies from the previous session


  • Create an atmosphere of active recall and positive energy for the lesson

Activity Instructions

  1. Recollection Movement (3 minutes):

    • Ask students to think back on one proactive strategy they learned in Session 1.
    • Instruct them to demonstrate that strategy through a short and creative movement (e.g., mimicking a calm breathing technique or a confident step forward).


  2. Strategy Sharing (4 minutes):

    • Have students take turns sharing their strategy while performing the associated movement.
    • Encourage supportive and enthusiastic feedback from peers.


  3. Energizing Dance (3 minutes):

    • Lead the class in an energizing dance or series of simple coordinated steps that incorporate elements of the shared proactive strategies.
    • This reinforces teamwork and the idea of moving positively together, setting the stage for the lesson.


Reflection

  • Conclude the warm-up by asking students to briefly reflect on how these movements make them feel and how they can use these strategies when facing real-life challenges.





This targeted warm-up not only revives the energy from the previous session but also cements the proactive strategies in a fun and memorable way.

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Activity

Real-Life Scenario Activity Session 2

This activity is designed to help students apply proactive strategies to real-life scenarios. Students will engage in hands-on, interactive practice to simulate everyday challenges and explore proactive ways to navigate them.

Activity Objectives

  • Apply proactive emotion regulation strategies to real-life situations.


  • Enhance critical thinking and decision-making through scenario analysis.


  • Encourage physical movement and teamwork while discussing and acting out responses.

Materials Needed

  • Visual scenario cards with descriptions of everyday situations
  • Space for group movement and role-playing
  • Markers and paper (optional for brainstorming responses)

Activity Instructions

  1. Scenario Introduction (5 minutes):

    • Present a set of visual scenario cards one at a time. Each card describes a realistic situation that might require proactive behavior (e.g., a disagreement with a friend or a stressful school assignment).
    • Read the scenario aloud and ensure the students understand the situation.
  2. Group Discussion (5 minutes):

    • In small groups or as individuals (depending on the scenario), have students discuss what the best proactive response could be.
    • Encourage students to think about why a proactive approach might change the outcome compared to a reactive one.
    • Ask them to list simple strategies they can use in the situation, such as taking a deep breath, planning their words, or stepping away to cool down.
  3. Role-Play (5 minutes per scenario):

    • Select one or more students to act out the scenario using their proposed proactive response. Others in the group can play supporting roles or serve as the audience.
    • After each role-play, ask the group for feedback on the effectiveness of the proactive strategy used and suggest any improvements or alternative approaches.
  4. Rotation (Repeat until 15 minutes are up):

    • Repeat the process with different scenario cards, ensuring every student gets an opportunity to either direct discussion or participate in role-play.

Reflection

  • After all scenarios have been discussed and acted out, lead a brief discussion on what worked well and what could be improved.
  • Ask students to reflect on a personal situation where they could have applied a proactive strategy and discuss what might have changed.





This activity helps translate proactive strategies from theory into real-world applications. By engaging in discussion and role-play, students build confidence in using these strategies during everyday challenges.

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Game

Proactive Role-Play Game Session 2

This game is designed to reinforce proactive strategies by having students actively engage in role-playing various scenarios. It provides a fun, interactive environment where students can practice applying proactive responses in real-life situations while receiving immediate feedback from peers and the facilitator.

Game Objectives

  • Practice applying proactive strategies in realistic scenarios.


  • Enhance decision-making through role-play and discussion.


  • Build confidence in managing emotions and interactions using proactive behaviors.

Materials Needed

  • A set of scenario cards (each card contains a situation that challenges emotional regulation)
  • Timer or stopwatch
  • A bell or signal device to manage turn rotations
  • Optional: Whiteboard and markers for listing effective strategies

Game Instructions

  1. Introduction (2 minutes):

    • Recap the definition and benefits of proactive strategies discussed in previous sessions.
    • Explain the game rules, emphasizing the importance of respectful, supportive feedback during the role-plays.
  2. Scenario Selection (3 minutes):

    • Shuffle the scenario cards and have one card drawn per round. Each card should describe a common situation that might require a proactive response (e.g., handling a disagreement, managing stress before a test, etc.).
    • Read the scenario aloud to ensure everyone understands the context.
  3. Role-Play (4 minutes per scenario):

    • Assign roles to the students. One student will volunteer to act out a proactive response to the scenario while the other students act as observers or other characters involved in the situation.
    • The acting student should demonstrate a proactive response, articulating their thought process and the steps they take to manage the situation.
    • Encourage physical movement and expressive gestures to mirror authentic responses.
  4. Feedback and Reflection (3 minutes):

    • After the role-play, invite feedback from the observing students. Ask them to highlight which proactive strategies were effective and offer suggestions for improvement.
    • Optionally, note down key strategies on the whiteboard for reference.
  5. Rotation (Repeat until time is up):

    • Continue with new scenarios and rotate roles, giving each student an opportunity to act and observe.
    • Use a timer to ensure each round is kept short and engaging.

Final Reflection

  • After several rounds, lead a group discussion about the role-playing experience. Prompt students to share what strategies they found most helpful and how they might apply these strategies in real-life situations.


  • Summarize the key proactive techniques and emphasize the importance of preparation and thoughtful response in managing emotions.

This game reinforces the practical application of proactive strategies, promoting both individual growth and a supportive team environment. Enjoy the game and remember: proactive steps lead to positive outcomes!

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