Lesson Plan
Friendship Debate Lesson Plan
Engage middle school students in a respectful debate exploring what makes a friendship meaningful, while developing critical thinking, communication, and conflict resolution skills.
This lesson helps students appreciate diverse perspectives and fosters empathy, promoting a deeper understanding of interpersonal relationships essential for real-world social interactions.
Audience
Middle School Students
Time
45-60 minutes
Approach
Structured debate with clear roles, guidelines, and reflection.
Prep
Review Materials and Setup
10 minutes
- Familiarize yourself with all digital materials, including the Friendship Debate Slide Deck and Debate Discussion Guidelines.
- Arrange the seating to facilitate group discussion and ensure audio clarity.
- Review the roles and debate structure to prepare for role assignment.
Step 1
Introduction and Topic Presentation
5 minutes
- Introduce the debate topic: What makes a friendship meaningful?
- Explain the objectives and importance of respectful communication.
- Outline the expectations for listening and valuing diverse perspectives.
Step 2
Guidelines and Role Assignment
10 minutes
- Present the Debate Discussion Guidelines outlining rules for respectful debate.
- Assign roles (e.g., speakers, moderators, timekeeper) to ensure an organized debate.
- Communicate the responsibilities associated with each role.
Step 3
Debate Session
20 minutes
- Facilitate the debate where students share personal insights and evidence for what makes a friendship meaningful.
- Monitor the discussion to ensure adherence to guidelines.
- Encourage the use of personal experiences and factual support while maintaining respect for all opinions.
Step 4
Reflection and Feedback
10 minutes
- Conduct a reflection session discussing key takeaway points from the debate.
- Use the Friendship Debate Rubric to give structured feedback.
- Encourage students to share insights on how diverse perspectives enhance understanding in friendships.

Slide Deck
Welcome to the Friendship Debate
Today, we explore: What makes a friendship meaningful?
Let's dive into understanding diverse perspectives!
Open the session by welcoming students. Introduce the concept of valuing different perspectives in friendships. Explain that today's debate will explore what makes a friendship meaningful.
Debate Guidelines
• Respect all opinions
• Listen actively
• Support your points with evidence or experiences
• Wait for your turn to speak
Present the debate guidelines to set expectations for respectful communication. Emphasize the importance of listening actively, using evidence and personal experiences to support views.
Roles Assignment
Assign roles:
- Speakers
- Moderators
- Timekeeper
Ensure every student understands their role.
Outline the roles for the debate. This slide will help students understand their responsibilities. Clarify which students will be speakers, moderators, or timekeepers.
Debate Session
Share your thoughts on what makes a friendship meaningful.
Use personal experiences and evidence. Remember: Respect is key!
Guide students through the debate session, reminding them to use personal experiences and evidence-based arguments. Encourage respectful listening and role adherence.
Reflection & Feedback
Discuss the following:
- What did you learn?
- How do different perspectives add value?
- What could be improved for next time?
Facilitate a reflection session after the debate. Use this time to ask open-ended questions, encourage dialogue, and share feedback based on the debate rubric.

Discussion
Friendship Debate Discussion Guidelines
Welcome to our Friendship Debate! To ensure a respectful, productive, and engaging debate, please follow these guidelines:
1. Respect All Opinions
- Listen carefully to your peers, even if you disagree.
- Use kind language and remember that everyone’s perspective is valuable.
2. Active Listening
- Focus on what the speaker is saying without interrupting.
- Take notes if it helps you understand their point better.
3. Speaking Turn
- Wait for your turn to speak; the moderator will manage the conversation.
- When it's your turn, express your thoughts clearly and concisely.
4. Evidence and Personal Experiences
- Support your arguments with examples, personal experiences, or factual evidence.
- Be open to sharing personal insights that contribute to the discussion.
5. Constructive Feedback
- When giving feedback, focus on the ideas, not the person.
- Ask clarifying questions if you do not understand a point before offering your opinion.
6. Participation
- Engage in the debate by asking questions and commenting on ideas.
- Ensure that every voice is heard and encourage quieter peers to contribute.
7. Conflict Resolution
- If disagreements arise, use respectful communication to resolve conflicts.
- If the discussion becomes too heated, the moderator may pause the session for a brief cooling-off period.
Remember, the goal of our debate is to learn from each other by understanding diverse perspectives and building a richer view on what makes a friendship meaningful. Happy debating!


Rubric
Friendship Debate Rubric
This rubric is designed to evaluate student performance during the Friendship Debate. Students will be assessed on how well they adhere to the discussion guidelines, communicate their ideas, and engage with diverse perspectives. Use this tool to understand strengths and areas for improvement.
Scoring Levels
- Emerging (1 point): Limited demonstration of the expected behaviors and skills. The performance may lack clarity, evidence, or respectful interaction.
- Developing (2 points): Basic demonstration of skills though inconsistencies are evident. Some evidence of clear communication and respectful interaction, but room for improvement.
- Proficient (3 points): Solid demonstration of skills. Communication is clear, supported by evidence and personal experiences, with consistent respectful interactions.
- Exemplary (4 points): Masterful demonstration of skills. Communication is persuasive, well-structured, and enriched by diverse perspectives, supported by strong evidence and consistently respectful interactions.
Criteria
1. Respectful Communication
- Emerging (1): Rarely listens to peers; interruptions are frequent; language might be dismissive or disrespectful.
- Developing (2): Sometimes listens and responds respectfully, but may require reminders to maintain decorum; may occasionally interrupt.
- Proficient (3): Actively listens, speaks respectfully, and follows debate guidelines; demonstrates sensitivity to diverse viewpoints.
- Exemplary (4): Consistently respectful and empathetic; promotes inclusive dialogue and encourages quieter peers; contributes to a positive debate environment.
2. Clarity and Organization
- Emerging (1): Ideas are unclear or disorganized; arguments lack a clear structure and are hard to follow.
- Developing (2): Ideas are somewhat clear but might lack organization; arguments are presented but could benefit from clearer structure.
- Proficient (3): Ideas are clearly expressed and well-organized; arguments are logically structured and easy to follow.
- Exemplary (4): Ideas are communicated in a compelling, well-organized manner; arguments are seamlessly structured with excellent transitions that strengthen persuasion.
3. Use of Evidence and Personal Experiences
- Emerging (1): Provides little to no evidence or personal experience; opinions are unsupported and unfocused.
- Developing (2): Uses some evidence or personal experiences, though examples may be general or loosely connected to the argument.
- Proficient (3): Effectively integrates evidence and personal experiences to support key points; examples are relevant and strengthen the argument.
- Exemplary (4): Uses compelling and varied evidence, including detailed personal experiences; examples are highly relevant and greatly enhance the overall argument.
4. Engagement and Collaboration
- Emerging (1): Minimal participation; shows little engagement with the debate; limited collaboration with peers.
- Developing (2): Participates but may be passive or inconsistent; makes minimal effort to engage with peers or extend the conversation.
- Proficient (3): Regularly participates and engages in the debate; responds to peers thoughtfully and contributes to collaborative discussion.
- Exemplary (4): Actively drives the debate; facilitates dialogue among peers, asks insightful questions, and fosters an inclusive environment for all voices to be heard.
Scoring Summary
For each criterion, assign the corresponding points (1-4) based on the student's performance. Sum the points from each category to determine the overall performance level. Use this feedback to help students understand both their strengths and areas for growth in future debates.

