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Friendship Builders

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Rogers, Adrienne

Tier 2
For Schools

Lesson Plan

Getting to Know You

Students will introduce themselves, learn peers’ names, and share personal interests to build initial rapport and a positive group dynamic.

Establishing name recognition and comfort with peers fosters trust and engagement, laying the groundwork for future social skills practice and friendship building.

Audience

Kindergarten

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Interactive name games and sharing activities.

Materials

Name Tags, Markers, All About Me Worksheet, and Soft Toss Ball

Prep

Lesson Setup

10 minutes

  • Print enough copies of the All About Me Worksheet for each student
  • Prepare name tag templates and markers at each seat
  • Ensure the Soft Toss Ball is clean and placed in the center of the circle
  • Review session steps and key questions to facilitate sharing

Step 1

Welcome Circle

5 minutes

  • Invite students to sit in a circle and greet each child by name
  • Explain that today’s session is all about getting to know new friends
  • Model a simple introduction: “Hello, I’m Ms. Lenny. My favorite color is blue.”
  • Prompt each student to say their name and favorite color

Step 2

Name Toss Game

10 minutes

  • Explain the game: when you catch the ball, say, “My name is ___.”
  • Demonstrate by tossing the ball to a volunteer
  • Continue passing until every student has introduced themselves at least once
  • Encourage applause after each introduction

Step 3

All About Me Sharing

10 minutes

  • Distribute the All About Me Worksheet
  • Ask students to draw or write their favorite animal and snack (assist as needed)
  • Once complete, have each child hold up their sheet and name one favorite thing
  • Validate each contribution with positive comments

Step 4

Reflection & Closing

5 minutes

  • Gather back in the circle and ask: “What did you like about meeting new friends today?”
  • Highlight moments of good listening and sharing
  • Reinforce that next week will build on today’s introductions
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Slide Deck

Friendship Builders: Session 1

Getting to Know You!

Welcome everyone! Today we begin our Friendship Builders series. Use this slide to introduce yourself, share the program name, and get students excited.

Session Objectives

• Introduce yourself to new friends
• Learn and remember each other’s names
• Share something you like to build rapport

Read each objective slowly. Explain why learning each skill will help them make friends.

Our Friendship Rules

  1. Be kind and respectful
  2. Listen when others speak
  3. Wait patiently for your turn
  4. Have fun together!

Go over each rule one by one. Ask students to raise their hand if they agree to follow it.

Welcome Circle

• Sit in a circle
• When it’s your turn, say:
“Hi, I’m _______. My favorite color is _______.”

Invite students to sit in a circle. Model your own introduction first. Encourage big smiles and eye contact.

Name Toss Game

  1. Stand in the circle.
  2. Toss the ball to a friend.
  3. When you catch it, say: “My name is ____.”
  4. Toss it to someone else.

Explain the Name Toss Game step by step. Demonstrate one toss so everyone understands.

All About Me Worksheet

• Draw your favorite animal and snack
• Write or tell one of your favorite things

Worksheet: All About Me Worksheet

Show the worksheet link. Guide them through drawing and writing. Provide help where needed.

Reflection

What did you enjoy about meeting new friends today?

► Who listened well?
► What did you like sharing?

Use this time to praise participation. Note good listening and sharing skills.

See You Next Week!

Next week: Sharing and Taking Turns

Great job today, friends!

Preview next week’s focus on sharing and taking turns. Thank students for their great work.

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Warm Up

Name Popcorn Warm-Up

Objective: Help students recall and practice saying their own and classmates’ names in a fun, fast-paced activity.

Time: 5 minutes

Materials:

  • Soft Toss Ball (or beanbag)

Instructions:

  1. Have students sit or stand in a circle. Hold the ball and explain the rules: when you catch the ball, you say your name, then toss it to someone else.
  2. Model the first toss: “My name is Ms. Lenny,” then gently toss to a student.
  3. Student catches the ball, says “My name is ___,” and tosses to another peer.
  4. Continue until every student has caught the ball and introduced themselves at least once.
  5. For a second round, challenge students to say the name of the peer they caught the ball from before sharing their own name.
  6. Close with a quick cheer or clap to celebrate everyone’s great work on learning names.
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Worksheet

All About Me Worksheet

Welcome to our Friendship Builders group! Let’s get to know each other by drawing and writing about our favorite things.


1. Draw Your Favorite Animal

(Draw your favorite animal in the box below)









What is your favorite animal?





2. Draw Your Favorite Snack

(Draw your favorite snack in the box below)









What is your favorite snack?





3. My Favorite Color

Write your favorite color below.





4. Draw Yourself with a Friend

(Draw you and a friend playing or having fun)









What do you like to do with friends?










Great job! We can’t wait to share these with the group and make new friends together.

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Lesson Plan

Sharing is Caring

Students will learn and practice sharing items and taking turns with peers through guided discussions, role-play scenarios, and a hands-on sharing game to foster cooperation and empathy.

Sharing and turn-taking are essential social skills that help children build trusting friendships, learn patience, and understand fairness.

Audience

Kindergarten

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Interactive discussion, role-play, and timed sharing activities.

Materials

Small Toys or Manipulatives (e.g., blocks, toy cars), Sharing Scenarios Worksheet, Timer or Egg Timer, and Turn-Taking Dice

Prep

Lesson Setup

10 minutes

  • Print a copy of the Sharing Scenarios Worksheet for each student
  • Gather a selection of small toys or manipulatives for the sharing game
  • Have a timer or egg timer ready at the center of the circle
  • Prepare the Turn-Taking Dice (numbers 1–3 or “Share,” “Wait,” etc.)
  • Review discussion prompts and model sharing steps

Step 1

Sharing Warm-Up

5 minutes

  • Invite students to sit in a circle and explain today’s focus on sharing and taking turns
  • Pass a special “sharing stick” or plush toy around: when a student holds it, they say one thing they like about playing with friends
  • Emphasize listening respectfully while others speak

Step 2

Discussion & Modeling

5 minutes

  • Show two toy cars and model sharing: “I’ll play for two minutes, then I’ll pass it to you.”
  • Ask: “Why is it fair to share?” and record student responses on a simple chart
  • Introduce key sharing words: “my turn,” “your turn,” “please,” and “thank you”

Step 3

Sharing Game

15 minutes

  • Divide students into small pairs or triads around a circle of toys
  • Use the timer: set for 30 seconds per student turn
  • Student A shares a toy and plays while the timer runs, then rolls the Turn-Taking Dice to see how many seconds they pass to Student B
  • Continue until every child has had at least two turns sharing and receiving
  • Circulate to praise kind language and helping behaviors

Step 4

Reflection & Closing

5 minutes

  • Gather back in the circle and ask:
    • “How did you feel when you shared?”
    • “What was fun about taking turns?”
  • Reinforce that sharing helps friends play happily together
  • Preview next week’s focus on listening and empathy
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Slide Deck

Friendship Builders: Session 2

Sharing is Caring

Welcome back! Introduce today’s theme: sharing and taking turns. Get students excited to practice kindness.

Session Objectives

• Practice sharing items with peers
• Take turns fairly using timers and dice
• Use polite sharing words: please, thank you

Read each objective slowly and explain how each skill helps us play nicely with friends.

Key Sharing Words

• My turn
• Your turn
• Please
• Thank you

Go over each term. Invite students to say the words aloud and explain when to use them.

Sharing Warm-Up

• Sit in a circle
• Pass the “sharing stick” around
• When you hold it, say one thing you like about playing with friends

Explain the warm-up activity and demonstrate passing the sharing stick.

Why We Share

• Builds friendships
• Shows we care about others
• Helps everyone have fun together

Discuss why sharing is important. Record answers on chart if desired.

Sharing Game

  1. Form pairs or triads around toys
  2. Set timer for 30 seconds per turn
  3. Play with the toy while your timer runs
  4. Roll the Turn-Taking Dice to set the next turn length
  5. Switch and continue until everyone has two turns

Walk students through each step. Model using the timer and dice.

Sharing Scenarios Worksheet

• Read each scenario
• Discuss with a partner how you would share or take turns
• Use sharing words as you talk

Worksheet: Sharing Scenarios Worksheet

Introduce the worksheet. Guide students to think through sharing scenarios.

Reflection & Closing

What did you enjoy about sharing today?

• How did it feel to take turns?
• When did you use “please” and “thank you”?

Next week: Listening and Empathy

Lead reflection by asking each question. Praise thoughtful responses. Preview next week’s focus.

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Worksheet

Sharing Scenarios Worksheet

Read each scenario below. Think about how you can share or take turns kindly. Draw or write your response in the space provided.


1. Your friend is playing with the toy car you want.

What can you say to ask for a turn? Use sharing words like “please” and “thank you.”













2. You and a friend have one ball and both want to play with it.

How can you take turns so everyone gets to play? Draw or write your idea.















3. You just finished building a tower with blocks, and your friend wants to build next.

What polite words will you use when you give them a turn?










4. The blue marker you want is in use by someone else.

Describe or draw how you will wait patiently and ask for it when it’s your turn.













Great job practicing sharing and turn-taking! We’ll talk about how each of you handled these scenarios together.

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Warm Up

Sharing Stick Pass Warm-Up

Objective: Practice expressing what you like about playing with friends and build listening skills.

Time: 5 minutes

Materials:

  • Sharing Stick or plush toy

Instructions:

  1. Have students sit in a circle and explain that the Sharing Stick will help us take turns speaking and listening.
  2. Model first: hold the stick and say one thing you enjoy about playing with friends (e.g., “I like playing tag because it’s fun to run with my friends”).
  3. Pass the stick to the next student. When students receive the stick, they share one thing they like about playing with friends.
  4. Continue passing the stick until every student has had a turn to share.
  5. Encourage students to listen quietly while a peer is speaking and wait patiently for their turn.
  6. Close with a cheer or clap to celebrate everyone’s sharing and listening skills!
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Lesson Plan

Listening & Empathy

Students will practice active listening and empathy by identifying and discussing peers’ emotions through interactive flashcards, partner storytelling, and emotion charades.

Learning to listen actively and recognize others’ feelings helps children respond kindly, build trust, and strengthen friendships.

Audience

Kindergarten

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Interactive games, partner listening, and charades.

Materials

Feeling Faces Flashcards, Listening Partners Worksheet, Emotion Charades Cards, Chart Paper, and Markers

Prep

Lesson Setup

10 minutes

  • Print enough copies of the Listening Partners Worksheet for each pair of students
  • Gather and review the Feeling Faces Flashcards
  • Prepare the set of Emotion Charades Cards
  • Place chart paper and markers at the front of the group area
  • Familiarize yourself with key empathy phrases to model (e.g., “I understand you feel…”)
  • Review instructions for each activity to ensure smooth transitions

Step 1

Feeling Faces Warm-Up

5 minutes

  • Sit students in a circle and show one Feeling Faces Flashcard at a time
  • Ask: “What emotion is this? How can you tell?”
  • Invite volunteers to name the emotion and show a matching facial expression
  • Encourage applause for each correct identification to build confidence

Step 2

Partner Listening Activity

10 minutes

  • Pair students up and give each pair a copy of the Listening Partners Worksheet
  • Explain roles: Speaker shares a short story about a time they felt happy or sad; Listener must nod, make eye contact, and repeat what they heard
  • Model one round with a volunteer
  • Students switch roles after completing the worksheet prompts
  • Circulate and praise listeners who use good eye contact and paraphrasing

Step 3

Emotion Charades Game

10 minutes

  • Gather students back in a circle and introduce the Emotion Charades Cards
  • One at a time, a student draws a card and silently acts out the emotion while peers guess
  • The actor says “You did it!” once the correct emotion is named
  • Continue until every student has had a turn acting and guessing
  • Highlight how recognizing body language helps us understand feelings

Step 4

Reflection & Closing

5 minutes

  • Post chart paper labeled “What I Learned About Listening & Feelings”
  • Ask students to share one thing they learned today (e.g., “I can tell when someone is sad by their face.”)
  • Record responses on the chart paper
  • Reinforce that practicing listening and empathy makes us better friends
  • Preview next week’s focus on cooperative teamwork
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Slide Deck

Friendship Builders: Session 3

Listening & Empathy

Welcome back, friends! Introduce today’s focus: listening and empathy. Get students excited about understanding feelings and being good listeners.

Session Objectives

• Practice naming and showing emotions
• Listen actively to our peers
• Recognize feelings through body language

Read each objective clearly. Explain how these skills help us be kind friends.

Feeling Faces Warm-Up

• Look at each card from Feeling Faces Flashcards (#session3-feeling-faces-flashcards)
• Name the emotion you see
• Show that emotion with your face

Show each flashcard and invite students to guess the emotion. Encourage them to mirror the expression.

Partner Listening Activity

  1. Pair up and get a Listening Partners Worksheet (#session3-listening-partners-worksheet)
  2. Speaker shares a short happy or sad story
  3. Listener makes eye contact, nods, and repeats back what they heard
  4. Switch roles after each prompt

Explain the partner activity. Model eye contact and repeating back. Emphasize taking turns sharing and listening.

Emotion Charades Game

• Draw an emotion card from Emotion Charades Cards (#session3-emotion-charades-cards)
• Act out the emotion without words
• Class guesses the emotion
• When guessed, actor says “You did it!”

Introduce charades rules and model one example emotion first so everyone understands.

Reflection & Closing

What did you learn about listening and feelings?
• How can you tell how someone feels?
• Why is listening to friends important?

Next week: Cooperative Teamwork

Lead a group discussion. Record responses on chart paper under “What I Learned About Listening & Feelings.”

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Activity

Feeling Faces Flashcards

Use these flashcards to help students recognize and name basic emotions. Print each card, cut them apart, and show one at a time during the warm-up. After displaying each face, ask: “What emotion is this? How can you tell?”


Happy

😃


Sad

😢


Angry

😠


Surprised

😲


Scared

😨


Excited

😃


(Feel free to replace these emojis with child-friendly illustrations of each feeling.)

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Worksheet

Listening Partners Worksheet

Objective: Practice active listening by sharing feelings and repeating back what you heard.


How to Use

  1. Find a partner. Decide who is Partner A and Partner B.
  2. Partner A is the Speaker first; Partner B is the Listener.
  3. After Round 1, switch roles for Round 2.

Round 1: Partner A Speaks, Partner B Listens

Partner A (Speaker):

  • Think of a time you felt happy.
  • Share your story with your partner.
  • Write or draw your story below:










Partner B (Listener):

  • Make eye contact and nod while your partner speaks.
  • Repeat back what you heard your partner say.
  • Write or draw what you heard below:











Round 2: Partner B Speaks, Partner A Listens

Partner B (Speaker):

  • Think of a time you felt sad.
  • Share your story with your partner.
  • Write or draw your story below:










Partner A (Listener):

  • Listen quietly and show you understand with your face.
  • Repeat back what you heard your partner say.
  • Write or draw what you heard below:











Reflection

Answer together:

  • How did it feel to share your story?






  • How did it feel to listen and repeat back?






Great job practicing listening and empathy!

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Game

Emotion Charades Cards

Use these cards for the Emotion Charades game. Gather students in a circle and have each draw a card. Without speaking, the student acts out the emotion shown while peers guess. When a peer guesses correctly, the actor says “You did it!”

Print and cut these cards, then place them in a bag or hat for drawing.


Emotions to Act Out:

  • Happy 😊
  • Sad 😢
  • Angry 😠
  • Surprised 😲
  • Scared 😨
  • Excited 😃

Optional: Once students are comfortable, add cards for “Shy,” “Proud,” or “Tired” to extend the challenge.

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Lesson Plan

Cooperative Play & Teamwork

Students will collaborate to complete fun group challenges, practicing communication, listening, and positive encouragement to strengthen teamwork skills.

Working together on tasks builds trust, problem-solving abilities, and a sense of belonging—key foundations for lasting friendships.

Audience

Kindergarten

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Hands-on group challenges and reflection.

Materials

Hula Hoop, Building Blocks Set, Blindfolds, Spoons and Small Balls, Chart Paper, and Markers

Prep

Lesson Setup

10 minutes

  • Arrange space for group challenges
  • Lay out the Hula Hoop in the center of the circle
  • Organize Building Blocks and Blindfolds at a station
  • Gather Spoons and Small Balls for the relay
  • Place Chart Paper and Markers where visible
  • Review group challenge instructions

Step 1

Pass the Hoop Challenge

5 minutes

  • Have students stand in a circle holding hands
  • Place a Hula Hoop over one child’s arm
  • Without letting go of hands, work together to pass the hoop around the circle
  • Encourage clear communication and support

Step 2

Blindfold Building

10 minutes

  • Divide students into pairs
  • Give one student a Blindfold and the other a stack of Building Blocks
  • Blindfolded student builds a tower based on the partner’s verbal directions
  • After two minutes, switch roles so each practices guiding and listening
  • Praise accurate instructions and careful listening

Step 3

Team Spoon Relay

10 minutes

  • Form two small teams and give each a spoon and a small ball
  • One at a time, student balances the ball on the spoon and walks to a marker and back
  • Tag the next teammate; first team to finish wins
  • Emphasize cheering and positive encouragement

Step 4

Reflection & Closing

5 minutes

  • Gather in a circle around Chart Paper titled “Teamwork Traits”
  • Ask: “What helped us work well together today?”
  • Record responses (e.g., listening, helping, cheering)
  • Highlight teamwork skills and preview next week’s focus on conflict resolution
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Lesson Plan

Conflict Resolution

Students will learn to identify and manage conflicts by using “I” statements, active listening, and collaborative problem-solving through discussion and role-plays.

Conflicts naturally occur in peer interactions. Teaching resolution skills helps children maintain positive relationships, express feelings appropriately, and build trust.

Audience

Kindergarten

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Discussion, role-play, and guided problem-solving.

Materials

Conflict Scenarios Cards, Conflict Resolution Worksheet, Feelings Chart, and Markers

Prep

Lesson Setup

10 minutes

  • Print and cut the Conflict Scenarios Cards
  • Make a copy of the Conflict Resolution Worksheet for each student
  • Display the Feelings Chart where all can see
  • Prepare “I-Statement” poster with sentence frame: “I feel ___ when ___ because ___. Can we ___?”
  • Review each scenario and model sample I-statements

Step 1

Feelings Check Warm-Up

5 minutes

  • Gather students in a circle and point to the Feelings Chart
  • Ask: “Who has ever felt mad or upset? What did you do?”
  • Invite 2–3 volunteers to share briefly
  • Highlight that using words helps solve problems

Step 2

Teach I-Statements

5 minutes

  • Introduce the poster frame: “I feel ___ when ___ because ___. Can we ___?”
  • Model with a simple example: “I feel sad when my block tower falls because I worked hard. Can we rebuild together?”
  • Ask students to suggest feelings and situations to fill in the frame

Step 3

Scenario Role-Plays

15 minutes

  • Divide students into pairs and give each pair a Conflict Scenarios Card
  • Partner A reads the scenario aloud
  • Together, practice using an I-statement and listening to solve it
  • Encourage switching roles so each practices speaking and listening
  • Circulate to prompt use of polite words and empathy phrases

Step 4

Reflection & Closing

5 minutes

  • Distribute the Conflict Resolution Worksheet
  • Ask students to draw or write one thing they learned about solving problems
  • Invite a few to share their worksheet responses
  • Emphasize that using our words and listening helps fix conflicts
  • Preview next week’s celebration session
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Lesson Plan

Celebrating Friendships

Students will reflect on social skills learned, celebrate friendships, and reinforce positive behaviors through creative and recognition activities.

Celebration and reflection strengthen self-esteem, reinforce growth, and deepen peer connections, encouraging continued positive interactions.

Audience

Kindergarten

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Group reflection, creative mural, and recognition ceremony.

Materials

Chart Paper, Markers, Stickers or Stamps, Large Mural Paper, Crayons, Friendship Reflection Worksheet, and Friendship Certificates

Prep

Lesson Setup

10 minutes

  • Print copies of the Friendship Reflection Worksheet and Friendship Certificates
  • Lay out large mural paper, markers, crayons, and stickers at the activity table
  • Prepare a heading on mural paper: “Our Friendship Journey”
  • Review worksheet prompts and certificate template

Step 1

Warm-Up & Check-In

5 minutes

  • Gather students in a circle and ask: “What was your favorite part of our Friendship Builders sessions?”
  • Invite 3–4 volunteers to share briefly

Step 2

Reflection Worksheet

10 minutes

  • Distribute the Friendship Reflection Worksheet
  • Students draw their favorite session moment and write one thing they learned about being a friend
  • Circulate to assist with writing and praise thoughtful responses

Step 3

Group Mural Creation

10 minutes

  • On the large mural paper titled “Our Friendship Journey,” invite each student to add a drawing of a group activity they enjoyed
  • Encourage them to label their drawings or add a kind word (e.g., “sharing,” “listening”)
  • Use stickers or stamps to decorate around their artwork

Step 4

Certificate Ceremony

3 minutes

  • Call each student by name and present a Friendship Certificate
  • State one positive trait you observed (e.g., “For showing great listening skills!”)

Step 5

Closing & Cheers

2 minutes

  • Lead the class in a group
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