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Lesson Plan

Friendship Builders Lesson Plan

Students will practice and demonstrate three key friendship skills—greetings, sharing, and turn-taking—through guided role-play and interactive games to build confidence in social interactions.

Developing foundational social skills helps kindergarteners navigate group play, form positive relationships, and fosters emotional confidence and classroom harmony.

Audience

Kindergarten

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Hands-on role-play and games reinforce key social routines.

Prep

Prepare Materials

5 minutes

Step 1

Welcome & Greetings

5 minutes

  • Have students sit in a circle facing you.
  • Use two Greeting Puppets to model “Hello, ___! How are you?”
  • Pass puppets so each child practices saying a greeting to a peer.
  • Emphasize waiting quietly for their turn.

Step 2

Sharing Scenarios

10 minutes

  • Show a Sharing Scenario Card and read it aloud.
  • Ask: “What could we say or do?”
  • Invite one student to role-play sharing with a classmate.
  • Reinforce language: “You can play with me!” or “Let’s take turns.”
  • Repeat with 3–4 cards.

Step 3

Turn-Taking Spinner Game

10 minutes

  • Place the Turn-Taking Spinner where all can see.
  • Label spinner wedges: “Speaker” and “Listener.”
  • Student A spins; if “Speaker,” they share about a favorite toy; if “Listener,” they listen quietly.
  • After each share, rotate so every child gets both roles.

Step 4

Reflection & Closing

5 minutes

  • Gather students back in a circle.
  • Show Friendship Flashcards and name each skill: greeting, sharing, turn-taking.
  • Ask volunteers to share which skill they’ll use at playtime.
  • Use the Visual Timer to celebrate the last minute of the lesson.
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Friendship Builders

Building Social Skills Together

• Greetings
• Sharing
• Turn-Taking

Welcome everyone! Introduce yourself and explain that today we’re practicing three friendship skills: greetings, sharing, and turn-taking. Briefly review the agenda so students know what to expect.

Today’s Objective & Agenda

Objective:
Students will practice and demonstrate three key friendship skills—greetings, sharing, and turn-taking—to build confidence in social interactions.

Agenda:

  1. Welcome & Greetings (5 min)
  2. Sharing Scenarios (10 min)
  3. Turn-Taking Spinner Game (10 min)
  4. Reflection & Closing (5 min)

Read the objective aloud and point to each agenda item. Emphasize why these skills help everyone have fun at playtime and in group activities.

Welcome & Greetings

• Sit in a circle
• Use two Greeting Puppets to model:
– “Hello, ___! How are you?”
• Pass puppets around
• Practice greeting a classmate

Model with the Greeting Puppets: “Hello, Emma! How are you?” Then pass the puppets and guide each child: “Say hello and wait quietly for your turn.”

Sharing Scenarios

• Display a Sharing Scenario Card
• Read the situation aloud
• Ask: “What could we say or do?”
• Role-play sharing with a peer
• Practice 3–4 different cards

Show each Sharing Scenario Card. After reading, ask “What could we say or do?” Invite one child to role-play sharing language such as “You can play with me!”

Turn-Taking Spinner Game

• Label spinner wedges: Speaker, Listener
• Student spins:
– If Speaker: share about a favorite toy
– If Listener: listen quietly
• Rotate until everyone has spun
• Highlight the importance of taking turns

Place the Turn-Taking Spinner in view. Explain Speaker vs. Listener. Demonstrate spinning. Encourage quiet listening when on “Listener.” Ensure each child gets both roles.

Reflection & Closing

• Review skills with Friendship Flashcards:
– Greeting
– Sharing
– Turn-Taking
• Ask: “Which skill will you try today?”
• Use the Visual Timer for a final countdown

Gather back in a circle. Show the Friendship Flashcards for each skill. Ask volunteers: “Which skill will you use at playtime?” End with praise and a one-minute timer celebration.

Keep Building Friendships

• Practice your skills at recess and in class
• Notice when friends use these skills
• Celebrate kindness and teamwork!

Encourage students to notice and use these skills throughout the day. Remind them that practicing makes it easier to make friends!

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Activity

Greeting Puppets Activity

Description: Students will use simple puppets to practice saying friendly greetings and build confidence speaking to a peer.

Objective:

  • Students will use polite greeting phrases (“Hello, ___. How are you?”) with a puppet and then with a classmate.

Materials:

  • Two simple puppets (sock or finger puppets)
  • Optional: Name cards or student pictures to place on puppets
  • Circle seating area

Instructions:

  1. Teacher Modeling (2 minutes)
    • Hold up Puppet A and Puppet B.
    • Use Puppet A to say: “Hello, Puppet B! How are you today?”
    • Use Puppet B to reply: “I’m good, thank you! How are you?”
    • Emphasize eye contact and clear voice.
  2. Puppet Practice (5 minutes)
    • Invite Volunteer 1 to pick up Puppet A and Puppet B.
    • Student uses Puppet A to greet Puppet B and Puppet B to respond.
    • Prompt them: “Remember to say their name.”
    • Coach students if they need help with phrasing.
  3. Peer Greeting (8 minutes)
    • Place puppets aside.
    • Pair students up in the circle.
    • Student 1 says: “Hello, [peer name]! How are you?”
    • Student 2 replies: “I’m fine, thank you! How are you?”
    • Rotate pairs so each child gets a turn in both roles.
  4. Group Reflection (5 minutes)
    • Gather students back in a circle.
    • Ask: “How did it feel to say hello?”
    • Show Friendship Flashcards for “Greeting.”
    • Encourage students to try this greeting at recess or centers.

Follow-Up Points:

  • Praise clear voices and use of names.
  • Remind students to wait quietly for their turn.
  • Display a visual reminder chart with steps for greeting.
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Activity

Sharing Scenario Cards Activity

Description:
Students will explore common playtime situations where sharing is needed. They will discuss appropriate words and actions, then role-play each scenario to practice sharing skills.

Objective:

  • Students will identify sharing opportunities and use polite phrases (e.g., “Can I have a turn?” “You can play with it after me.”) to share materials with peers.

Materials:

  • A deck of Sharing Scenario Cards (printed and cut apart)
  • Circle seating area or small group table

Instructions:

  1. Introduce the Activity (2 minutes)
    • Gather students in a circle and hold up the deck of cards.
    • Explain: “Each card shows a situation where someone might need to share.”
  2. Read & Discuss (5 minutes)
    • Show the top card. Read the scenario aloud (e.g., “You and a friend both want the same truck.”).
    • Ask: “What could we say or do to share?”
    • Elicit responses: “Can I have a turn?” “Let’s take turns.”
  3. Model & Role-Play (8 minutes)
    • Invite two volunteers.
    • Assign one child as Person A and the other as Person B.
    • Model the interaction: A asks to share, B responds kindly, then A shares.
    • Repeat with 3–4 different cards so multiple students participate.
  4. Group Reflection (5 minutes)
    • Return to the full group.
    • Ask: “Which sharing phrase did you like best?”
    • Show Friendship Flashcards for “Sharing.”
    • Encourage students to look for chances to share at centers.

Follow-Up Points:

  • Display key phrases on a chart:
    • “Can I have a turn?”
    • “Let’s take turns.”
    • “Thank you for sharing!”
  • Praise students when you hear sharing language during play.
  • Remind learners that sharing helps everyone have fun together.
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Activity

Turn-Taking Spinner Activity

Description:
Students will practice the social skill of taking turns speaking and listening by using a simple spinner that designates “Speaker” or “Listener.” This helps them understand waiting their turn and giving full attention to classmates.

Objective:

  • Students will demonstrate respectful turn-taking by speaking clearly when on “Speaker” and listening attentively when on “Listener.”

Materials:

  • Turn-Taking Spinner (spinner divided into two wedges: Speaker, Listener)
  • A small stack of simple topic prompt cards (e.g., favorite color, favorite toy, favorite animal)
  • Circle seating area or small-group table

Instructions:

  1. Setup & Introduce (2 minutes)
    • Show the spinner and point out the two wedges: “Speaker” and “Listener.”
    • Explain: “When you land on Speaker, you get to share. When you land on Listener, you listen quietly and look at the speaker.”
  2. Teacher Demonstration (3 minutes)
    • Invite one volunteer to spin.
    • If the spinner lands on Speaker, model: “I’m the speaker. My favorite toy is a teddy bear.”
    • Turn the spinner for Listener: model attentive listening (look at speaker, quiet body).
    • Emphasize both roles are important.
  3. Student Turn-Taking (15 minutes)
    • Have students sit in a circle.
    • Place prompt cards face-down in the center.
    • Student A spins the spinner:
      • If Speaker: pick a prompt card and share (e.g., “My favorite color is blue.”).
      • If Listener: listen quietly and use “listening face” (eyes on speaker, quiet body).
    • After each spin and share, pass spinner to the next student.
    • Continue until each child has spun at least twice.
  4. Group Reflection (5 minutes)
    • Gather students back in a circle.
    • Ask: “How did it feel to wait and listen?” and “What was your favorite thing to share?”
    • Show Friendship Flashcards for Turn-Taking.
    • Encourage students to notice times they take turns in class and at recess.

Follow-Up Points:

  • Give praise for clear “speaker voice” and attentive “listener face.”
  • Remind students that good friends take turns talking and listening.
  • Post a visual reminder of the Speaker/Listener roles near the group area for ongoing support.
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Activity

Friendship Flashcards Activity

Description:
Flashcards illustrating the three friendship skills—Greeting, Sharing, and Turn-Taking—to reinforce learning and support reflection.

Objective:

  • Students will recognize and name each friendship skill.
  • Students will describe when and how to use each skill during playtime and class.

Materials:

  • A set of three large flashcards:
    • Greeting (picture of children saying hello)
    • Sharing (picture of children sharing a toy)
    • Turn-Taking (picture of children taking turns talking and listening)
  • Display area (board or chart stand)

Instructions:

  1. Introduce Each Skill (6 minutes)
    • Hold up the Greeting card. Ask: “What is this?” and “What do we say when we greet someone?”
    • Repeat with the Sharing and Turn-Taking cards. Emphasize the key phrase printed on each card.
  2. Student Examples (6 minutes)
    • Invite volunteers to pick a card and share: “Tell us about a time you used this skill.”
    • Encourage clear voices for greetings, polite words for sharing, and listening eyes for turn-taking.
  3. Skill Selection (4 minutes)
    • Lay all three cards face-up. Ask: “Which skill will you practice first at recess?”
    • Students point to or name the card they choose.
  4. Display & Reinforce (4 minutes)
    • Place the cards on the display area for the rest of the day.
    • Remind students: “Look at these cards whenever you need a friendship reminder.”

Follow-Up Points:

  • Refer to the flashcards during future lessons or transitions.
  • Praise students when you see them using these skills.
  • Rotate student helpers each day to display and retrieve the cards.
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Cool Down

Friendship Exit Ticket

Name: _______________________ Date: _______________

1. Which friendship skill will you use today?

Circle one:

GreetingSharingTurn-Taking

2. Draw a picture of you using that skill:







3. Label your picture:

I will _________________________________.




Great job! Bring this exit ticket to me when you’re finished.

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