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Friends in Action

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Lesson Plan

Friendship Foundations

Students will identify key qualities of healthy friendships and practice communication and conflict-resolution skills through guided brainstorming and role-play.

Developing strong peer relationships fosters empathy, cooperation, and social-emotional wellbeing. This lesson gives 4th graders targeted practice in building and maintaining positive friendships.

Audience

4th Grade Students

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Guided discussion followed by partner role-plays.

Prep

Prepare Materials

10 minutes

Step 1

Brainstorm Friendship Qualities

8 minutes

  • Introduce the purpose of the lesson and show the Friendship Qualities Chart
  • Give each student a sticky note and ask them to write one quality of a good friend
  • Students place their notes on the chart
  • Teacher groups similar ideas, highlights common themes, and clarifies any unclear responses

Step 2

Role-Play Scenarios

15 minutes

  • Divide students into pairs and distribute one Friendship Scenario Card to each pair
  • Pairs read their scenario and plan a short role-play demonstrating a positive resolution
  • Encourage students to use feeling words from the Emotions Word Bank Poster
  • Teacher circulates, prompts effective communication strategies, and offers support

Step 3

Reflection & Assessment

7 minutes

  • Reconvene as a whole group and invite a few pairs to share their scenario and resolution
  • Ask guiding questions: “What friendship quality did you use?” “How did you handle disagreement?”
  • Conduct a quick verbal exit check: each student states one new strategy they will use to be a better friend
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Slide Deck

Friends in Action

Tier 2 Group Lesson
4th Grade | 30 minutes

Welcome everyone! Introduce today’s session called “Friends in Action.” Explain that over the next 30 minutes, we’ll explore what makes a strong friendship and practice ways to be a good friend.

Today's Objectives

  • Identify qualities of healthy friendships
  • Practice communication strategies
  • Learn conflict-resolution skills
  • Reflect on ways to be a better friend

Read each objective aloud and connect it to the warm-up: “First we’ll think about what friendship means, then we’ll act out scenarios, and finally reflect on what we learned.”

Brainstorm: Friendship Qualities

  1. Grab a sticky note.
  2. Write one quality of a good friend.
  3. Place it on the Friendship Qualities Chart.
  4. We’ll group similar ideas and discuss.

Explain Brainstorm activity:

  1. Give each student a sticky note.
  2. Ask them to write one quality of a good friend.
  3. Place notes on the chart and group similar ideas.
    Prompt for clarity and examples.

Role-Play Scenarios

  • Pair up with a friend.
  • Read your Friendship Scenario Card.
  • Plan a role-play showing a positive way to solve the problem.
  • Use your best communication skills!

Introduce Role-Play Scenarios:

  • Divide into pairs.
  • Hand out one Friendship Scenario Card per pair.
  • Plan and rehearse a short role-play demonstrating a positive resolution.

Use Your Emotions Word Bank

Remember to use feeling words like:

Point to the Emotions Word Bank Poster and review a few feeling words together. Encourage use of specific emotions in the role-plays.

Reflection & Exit Check

  • Share your role-play with the group.
  • What friendship quality did you show?
  • How did you solve the disagreement?
  • Exit check: Say one strategy you’ll use to be a better friend.

Lead the reflection:

  • Invite 2–3 pairs to share their role-play.
  • Ask guiding questions: “What quality did you use? How did it help?”
  • Exit check: each student names one new strategy.

Great Job Today!

Thank you for participating.
Keep practicing kindness, listening, and cooperation!
See you next time.

Congratulate students on their participation and remind them to practice these skills every day. Dismiss the group.

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Worksheet

Friendship Scenarios Role-Play Worksheet

Role-Play Scenarios

Below are five situations. For each scenario:

  1. Read the problem.
  2. Write a short dialogue showing how friends can solve it.
  3. Use feeling words from the Emotions Word Bank Poster.

Scenario 1: You and a friend both want the same art supplies, but there’s only one set available. How can you share or take turns?








Scenario 2: A friend accidentally breaks your pencil during recess and feels really bad. How can you help them feel better and get a replacement?








Scenario 3: Two friends want to be the team leader in a class project. They disagree on whose idea to use. How can they work together and pick an idea both like?








Scenario 4: A friend doesn’t include you when planning a game. You feel left out and sad. How will you talk to them about it?








Scenario 5: You and a friend both finish your work early. Your friend wants to chat, but you need to start the next assignment. How can you handle this kindly?








Reflection Questions

  1. Which friendship quality did you use most in your role-plays? Why is it important?











  1. How did using specific feeling words help in solving each scenario?











  1. What could you do differently next time if a conflict comes up?











  1. Write one strategy from today’s lesson you will practice this week to be a better friend.











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Activity

Emotions Word Bank Poster

Use these feeling words during our activities to help explain how you or a friend might feel.

Positive Feelings

  • happy
  • excited
  • proud
  • calm
  • content

Challenged & Frustrated

  • frustrated
  • annoyed
  • confused
  • worried
  • upset

Sad & Hurt

  • sad
  • hurt
  • disappointed
  • lonely

Surprised & Nervous

  • surprised
  • nervous
  • scared
  • shocked
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Activity

Friendship Qualities Chart

Use this chart during our Brainstorm Friendship Qualities activity.
Write one quality of a good friend on a sticky note and place it in any blank box below.
After everyone has added their notes, we’ll group similar ideas to find common themes.

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Next Steps (Teacher):

  • Group sticky notes with similar ideas.
  • Label each group with a theme (e.g., Kindness, Honesty, Listening).
  • Discuss common themes and clarify any unclear qualities.
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Discussion

Exit Reflection Discussion

Purpose: Wrap up our “Friends in Action” lesson by sharing what we learned and planning how to use these friendship skills.

Instructions for Students

  1. Choose a partner or form a small group of 3–4.
  2. Take turns answering the questions below aloud.
  3. Listen carefully to your classmates’ ideas and add one positive comment or question after they speak.
  4. Be ready to share one or two responses with the whole group.

1. Which friendship quality from today’s lesson will you practice most? Why?







Follow-Up: What small action can you take tomorrow to show that quality?


2. What communication strategy did you learn that helps solve conflicts? Describe how it works.







Follow-Up: How could you use this strategy if you disagree with a friend during recess?


3. How can you show empathy when a friend feels upset? List one thing you could say or do.







Follow-Up: Which feeling word from the Emotions Word Bank Poster might you use when showing empathy?


4. One new idea or reminder I’m taking away is:







Follow-Up: How will you practice this idea this week?


Teacher Notes & Next Steps

  • Invite 2–3 students or pairs to share standout responses.
  • Reinforce connections to the Friendship Qualities Chart and the role-play scenarios.
  • Encourage students to set a simple friendship goal (e.g., use one feeling word each day).
  • Display a few strong student comments on chart paper as reminders for the next sessions.
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