Lesson Plan
Feelings Friends Lesson Plan
Students will identify and express four basic emotions—happy, sad, angry, and calm—and practice a simple breathing strategy to support self-regulation.
Building emotional awareness and self-regulation skills in Pre-K learners—including those with Down syndrome and autism—fosters social engagement, reduces frustration, and supports positive classroom behavior.
Audience
Pre-K
Time
30 minutes
Approach
Multisensory activities with visuals, stories, and breathing exercises.
Materials
Feelings Friends Storybook, Emotion Expression Cards, Calm Breathing Star Poster, Feelings Wheel Visual, Happy and Sad Puppet Pair, and Soft mat or cozy seating area
Prep
Prepare SEL Materials
10 minutes
- Print and laminate the Emotion Expression Cards and the Feelings Wheel Visual
- Display the Calm Breathing Star Poster at student eye level
- Gather the Happy and Sad Puppet Pair and place near reading area
- Review the Feelings Friends Storybook to cue expressive reading prompts
- Arrange seating on a soft mat or create a cozy circle time area
Step 1
Welcome & Breathing Warm-Up
5 minutes
- Gather students in a circle on the mat
- Introduce the Calm Breathing Star Poster: point to each star tip and model a slow breath in/out
- Invite children to place a finger on the poster and follow along 3 times
Step 2
Interactive Read-Aloud
7 minutes
- Show the cover of Feelings Friends Storybook and ask: “How do you think our friends feel today?”
- Read pages slowly, pausing at each character’s emotion
- Invite volunteers to name the emotion and mimic the facial expression
Step 3
Emotion Card Matching Game
8 minutes
- Spread the Emotion Expression Cards face up on the floor
- Hold up a card and ask students to name the emotion
- Have each child pick a matching card and show it to the group
- Praise correct matches and gently guide misidentifications
Step 4
Feelings Wheel Exploration
5 minutes
- Bring out the Feelings Wheel Visual
- Spin or point to one emotion section
- Ask: “When do you feel this way?” and allow 2–3 students to share briefly
- Reinforce naming the emotion aloud
Step 5
Coping Strategy Review & Puppet Role-Play
5 minutes
- Revisit the Calm Breathing Star Poster for 2 breaths together
- Use the Happy and Sad Puppet Pair to model “I feel sad/angry” and then calm breathing
- Invite a volunteer to use the puppet to practice stating an emotion and taking a deep breath
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Slide Deck
Feelings Friends SEL Lesson
Objective: Identify and express four feelings and practice a breathing strategy to stay calm.
Welcome everyone! Introduce today’s SEL lesson: Feelings Friends. Say: “We will learn about four feelings—happy, sad, angry, and calm—and practice breathing to help us feel better.”
Warm-Up: Calm Breathing
● Place your finger on each star point
● Breathe in deeply
● Breathe out slowly
Repeat 3 times.
Gather students on the mat. Point to each tip of the Calm Breathing Star and model taking a slow breath in on one tip and out on the next. Invite children to place a finger on the poster and follow along three times.
Interactive Read-Aloud
[Image: Feelings Friends Storybook cover]
- Predict characters’ feelings
- Read slowly, pause at each emotion
- Children name and mimic
Show the cover of the Feelings Friends Storybook. Ask: “How do you think our friends feel today?” Read slowly, pausing at each emotion. Invite volunteers to name and mimic the facial expression.
Emotion Card Matching Game
● Look at the cards on the floor
● Name the emotion I show
● Find and hold up the matching card
Spread the Emotion Expression Cards face up. Hold up one card and ask students to name the emotion. Invite each child to find and show a matching card. Praise correct matches and gently guide mistakes.
Feelings Wheel Exploration
[Image: Feelings Wheel Visual]
- Spin or point to a feeling
- Name the feeling aloud
- Share a time you felt it
Display the Feelings Wheel. Spin the arrow or point to a feeling. Ask: “When do you feel this way?” Encourage 2–3 students to share briefly. Reinforce saying the emotion out loud.
Puppet Role-Play & Breathing
- Model “I feel ___” with puppet
- Take a deep breath together
- Invite a student to practice
Revisit the Calm Breathing Star for two breaths together. Use the Happy and Sad puppet pair to model: “I feel sad. Let’s take a deep breath.” Invite a volunteer to try with the puppet.
Great Job!
Remember:
• Name how you feel
• Take slow breaths to calm down
Congratulate the class on learning to name feelings and calm down with breathing. Encourage them to use these tools whenever they need to feel better.
Worksheet
Emotion Matching Worksheet
Instructions:
Use the Emotion Expression Cards to match each word. Cut out the cards and glue the correct face under each word.
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HAPPY
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SAD
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ANGRY
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CALM
Draw Your Feeling
Draw a face showing how you feel today and label it.
Activity
Emotion Charades
Objective:
Students will practice recognizing and expressing four basic emotions—happy, sad, angry, and calm—through movement and facial expressions, strengthening nonverbal communication and emotional awareness.
Materials:
- Emotion Expression Cards (happy, sad, angry, calm)
- Soft mat or open floor space
- (Optional) Feelings Wheel Visual for reference
Prep (5 minutes):
- Spread out the soft mat or clear an open area for children to move safely.
- Shuffle the Emotion Expression Cards and place them face down in a pile or basket.
- Remind assistants or paraprofessionals of roles: encouraging peers, gently guiding if a student seems uncertain.
Instructions (15 minutes)
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Introduce the Game (2 minutes)
- Gather students in a semicircle on the mat. Say: “Today we’re playing Emotion Charades! We will each take turns acting out a feeling, and our friends will guess which feeling we are showing.”
- Show one Emotion Expression Card as an example (e.g., the happy face). Model a big smile, open arms, and calm breathing.
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Demonstration (2 minutes)
- Invite one volunteer to come forward. Whisper or quietly show them a card (e.g., “sad”).
- Prompt the volunteer: “Show us how you look and move when you feel sad.”
- After they act, ask the group: “Which emotion did we see?” Praise: “Yes––sad!”
- Reinforce the name and point to the expression on your face: “Sad!”
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Student Turns (8 minutes)
- One at a time, invite a student to pick a card from the pile (face down).
- In a low voice, help the student name the card if needed: “This card says ‘angry.’”
- Encourage them to step into the center, show the emotion with their face and body.
- After 5–7 seconds of acting, invite classmates to guess by naming the emotion out loud.
- Celebrate correct guesses with claps and a positive statement: “Great job! You showed angry with a scrunched face.”
- If classmates struggle, guide them by asking: “Did you see big eyes? Frown? What feeling has a frown?”
- Continue until each child who wishes to participate has had a turn or until time is up.
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Group Reflection (3 minutes)
- Bring everyone back to the circle. Use the Feelings Wheel Visual or quick verbal prompts:
- “Which emotion was your favorite to guess?”
- “How did your face or body feel when you acted that feeling?”
- Reinforce that all feelings are okay and naming them helps us understand ourselves and our friends.
- Bring everyone back to the circle. Use the Feelings Wheel Visual or quick verbal prompts:
Follow-Up & Extensions
• Pair Share: In pairs, have children whisper to each other one situation that makes them feel each emotion (e.g., “I feel happy when I play with blocks”). Encourage using one of our target words.
• Breathing Check-In: After a few rounds, pause to revisit the Calm Breathing Star Poster—take two slow breaths together. Invite students to notice how calm breathing changes how their bodies feel.
• Visual Supports: If a student needs extra support, place the matching Emotion Expression Card on the floor where they can glance at its face while acting.
• Celebrate Progress: Close by praising each child: “You all did a wonderful job showing and naming feelings! Remember, we can use our words or faces to tell others how we feel.”
Time Check: Total activity ~15 minutes; leave extra time for pairing or breathing if you reach 30 minutes.
This movement-based charades game reinforces emotional vocabulary, nonverbal cues, and self-regulation strategies for all learners, including those with Down syndrome and autism.
Reading
Feelings Friends Storybook
Page 1: Meet the Feelings Friends
In a cozy meadow, four animal friends gather under a big, bright tree.
- Happy Hippo with a wide grin
- Sad Seal with gentle teardrops
- Angry Alligator with scrunched eyes
- Calm Cat with soft, steady breaths
They are the Feelings Friends! Let’s learn about each one and how they feel.
Page 2: Happy Hippo
Happy Hippo sees a colorful rainbow in the sky. She bounces up and down and giggles.
“I feel happy when I see a rainbow and hear my friends laugh,” she says.
Her eyes sparkle and her smile shines bright.
Page 3: Sad Seal
Sad Seal finds his favorite shell has a tiny crack. He sits quietly by the pond and lets a tear roll down his cheek.
“I feel sad when something I love gets broken,” he whispers.
His flippers hug his body as he thinks of someone to help.
Page 4: Angry Alligator
Angry Alligator tries to open a jar of pickles but the lid is stuck tight. He stomps his foot and his face turns red.
“I feel angry when nothing goes my way,” he growls softly.
He takes a big breath, even though it’s hard.
Page 5: Calm Cat
Calm Cat sits on a soft cushion and closes her eyes. She breathes in slowly and breathes out with a gentle purr.
“I feel calm when I use my star-breathing,” she purrs, pointing to the Calm Breathing Star Poster.
Her whiskers wobble as she practices deep breaths.
Page 6: Your Turn!
Can you show me how each friend feels?
- Make a big smile like Happy Hippo.
- Show a little frown like Sad Seal.
- Scrunch your face like Angry Alligator.
- Take one slow, gentle breath like Calm Cat.
When you need help, you can look at the Emotion Expression Cards or take a breath with the star poster.
Remember, all feelings are okay—they help us understand ourselves and our friends!
Activity
Calm Breathing Star Practice
Objective:
Children will use the Calm Breathing Star Poster to practice deep breathing for self-regulation.
Materials:
Prep (5 minutes):
- Hang the Calm Breathing Star Poster at children’s eye level in a quiet, open space.
- Clear a small area where each child can stand or sit comfortably.
Instructions (10 minutes)
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Gather & Introduce (2 minutes)
- Invite children to form a circle around the poster.
- Say: “Today we will use this star to help our bodies feel calm.”
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Explain the Star (1 minute)
- Point to one star point and say: “We will breathe in here.”
- Trace your finger to the next point and say: “Then breathe out here.”
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Model One Round (2 minutes)
- Place your finger at the starting point.
- Breathe in slowly as you trace to the next point.
- Breathe out slowly as you trace to the next one.
- Continue tracing around all five points with slow breaths.
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Practice Together (3 minutes)
- Invite children to place a finger on the poster.
- Lead three full star-tracing breaths, counting quietly: 1–2–3–4–5 as they breathe.
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Child-Led Round (2 minutes)
- Choose one volunteer to lead the group by tracing the star and counting breaths.
- Offer gentle support and praise: “Great job leading our calm breaths!”
Extensions & Follow-Up
• Belly Breaths: Place hands on your tummy and feel it rise and fall.
• Affirmation: After each round, say together: “I am calm.”
• Use on Demand: Invite children to use the star anytime they feel upset, excited, or tired.
Time Check: ~10 minutes within the 30-minute lesson.
This guided practice empowers all learners—including children with Down syndrome and autism—to use a consistent breathing strategy for emotional regulation.
Cool Down
Feelings Share
Objective:
Students reflect on and share one emotion they experienced during today’s lesson, practice self‐expression, and identify a calming strategy.
Instructions:
- Think back to our activities and choose one feeling you had today.
- Draw or write that feeling below.
- Tell a friend or share with the class: “I felt _____ because _____.”
- Choose a way to help you feel calm next time (you can use the Calm Breathing Star Poster).
My Feeling Today:
Why I felt this way:
How I will calm my body next time:
Great job sharing your feelings! Remember, all emotions are okay and you have tools to feel calm.
Reading
Emotion Expression Cards
Instructions: Print this page and cut out each card along the dashed lines. Use these cards to play matching games, charades, or to help students name and show feelings.
HAPPY
[Happy face illustration]
SAD
[Sad face illustration]
ANGRY
[Angry face illustration]
CALM
[Calm face illustration]
Reading
Feelings Wheel Visual
Description:
A colorful wheel divided into four equal sections—each with a simple face icon and color cue:
- Happy (yellow section with a big smiling face)
- Sad (blue section with a teardrop and frown)
- Angry (red section with scrunched eyes and furrowed brow)
- Calm (green section with relaxed eyes and a gentle smile)
You can print this wheel, laminate it, and attach a spinner or arrow in the center for interactive use.
How to Use in Class:
- Place the wheel where all students can see it.
- Spin or point to one section.
- Ask: “Which feeling is this?” and have students name it.
- Invite 1–2 children to share when they feel that way or to make the matching face.
This visual tool supports emotional vocabulary, helps students connect feelings to colors and expressions, and encourages group sharing.
Script
Feelings Friends Teacher Script
Welcome & Breathing Warm-Up (5 minutes)
Teacher: “Good morning, friends! Please come sit in our cozy circle on the mat. I’m so happy to see each of you today.
Point to Calm Breathing Star Poster
Teacher: “This is our Calm Breathing Star. We’re going to use it to help our bodies feel calm. First, place one finger on a star point.
Let’s all breathe in slowly as we trace to the next point… [model with your finger] 1…2…
Then breathe out slowly as you trace to the next one… 3…4…
We’ll go all the way around the star three times. Ready?
1—breathe in… 2—breathe out…
3—breathe in… 4—breathe out…
5—breathe in… 6—breathe out…
(Repeat two more times with gentle prompts: “Great job!” “You’re doing wonderful breathing.”)
“Awesome calming breaths, friends!”
Interactive Read-Aloud (7 minutes)
Teacher: “Now we will read our story. Look at the cover of Feelings Friends Storybook.
Question: “How do you think our friends feel today? Show me your guess!”
(Invite 2–3 volunteers to point or share.)
Read Page 2:
“Happy Hippo sees a rainbow in the sky. She bounces up and down and giggles. She says, ‘I feel happy when I see a rainbow and hear my friends laugh.’”
Prompt: “Who can say the word ‘happy’? Show me your big smile like Happy Hippo!”
(Encourage everyone to grin.)
Read Page 3:
“Sad Seal finds his favorite shell has a tiny crack. He sits quietly and lets a tear roll down his cheek. He whispers, ‘I feel sad when something I love gets broken.’”
Prompt: “What word did Sad Seal say? That’s right—‘sad.’ Show me your sad face.”
(Allow 2–3 children to mimic.)
Read Page 4:
“Angry Alligator tries to open a jar of pickles but the lid is stuck. He stomps his foot and his face turns red. He growls, ‘I feel angry when nothing goes my way.’”
Prompt: “Can anyone say ‘angry’? Make your scrunched-up face like Angry Alligator!”
(Notice children who need extra help and model again.)
Read Page 5:
“Calm Cat sits on a soft cushion, closes her eyes, and breathes in slowly, then out with a gentle purr. She says, ‘I feel calm when I use my star-breathing.’”
Prompt: “Let’s all take one gentle star breath like Calm Cat. Breathe in… breathe out… purr.”
Read Page 6:
“Your Turn! Can you show me how each friend feels? Make a happy smile, a sad frown, a scrunched angry face, and one slow, gentle breath like Calm Cat.”
(Encourage children to perform each expression or breath.)
Emotion Card Matching Game (8 minutes)
Teacher: “Great job! Now let’s play with our Emotion Expression Cards. We’ll spread them on the floor, and I will hold up one card.”
- Spread all four cards face up on the mat.
- Teacher holds up one card and asks:
Teacher: “Who can tell me which feeling this is?” (Pause for response.)
Teacher: “That’s right—this is ‘happy’! Now, Friends, find the matching ‘happy’ card on the floor and show it to me.” - Invite each child to stand, pick the matching card, and hold it up.
- Praise correct matches: “Wonderful! You found happy.” Gently guide any mix-ups: “Hmm—this one is calm. Can you look again for happy?”
(Repeat for SAD, ANGRY, and CALM cards.)
Extension Prompt: “What makes you feel angry? Sad? Calm? Let’s share one idea after we match all four.”
(Allow brief shares.)
Feelings Wheel Exploration (5 minutes)
Teacher: “Let’s use our Feelings Wheel Visual now. I will spin (or point) to one feeling.”
(Spin or point to a section.)
Teacher: “This feeling is…?”
(Children name the feeling.)
Teacher: “Nice work! Who can tell me a time you felt [that feeling]? You can say one word or show me with your face.”
(Invite 2–3 children to share briefly.)
(Repeat spinning or pointing two more times.)
Coping Strategy Review & Puppet Role-Play (5 minutes)
Teacher: “Let’s calm our bodies with two star breaths again.”
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Place a finger on the star. “Breathe in… breathe out…” (Repeat twice.)
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Introduce puppets: “Here are our puppet friends—the Happy and Sad Puppet Pair. I will use the puppet to show you.”
Model:
- Hold Sad Puppet and say: “Sad Puppet says, ‘I feel sad.’”
- Then take one slow star breath: “Breathe in… breathe out.”
Invite: “Who wants to try with the puppet? You can say, ‘I feel ____,’ then we’ll all take a breathe together.”
(Help volunteer pick a puppet, name the emotion, and lead a breath.)
Praise: “Wonderful job taking a calm breath!”
Wrap-Up & Goodbye (1 minute)
Teacher: “Friends, you did an amazing job learning our four feelings—happy, sad, angry, and calm—and practicing our star breathing. Remember, when you feel big feelings, you can name them and take slow breaths to help your body feel better.
Thank you for sharing and breathing with me today. I can’t wait to see you next time!”
(End with a cheerful song or clap circle if time allows.)