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Emotion Prep for School

Lesson Plan

Emotion Prep for School

Equip parents with practical strategies and tools to support their children’s emotional readiness for school, fostering confidence, resilience, and positive experiences.

Emotional preparedness is crucial for a smooth transition to school. When caregivers understand and support emotional development, children enter the classroom with confidence, adaptability, and readiness to learn.

Audience

Parents

Time

90 minutes

Approach

Interactive workshop with activities, discussions, and take-home resources.

Prep

Workshop Preparation

25 minutes

Step 1

Introduction and Goal Setting

10 minutes

  • Welcome parents and introduce facilitators.
  • Present workshop objectives and outline the agenda.
  • Set expectations for active participation and collaboration.

Step 2

Understanding Emotional Readiness

20 minutes

  • Discuss why emotional readiness matters for school success.
  • Share key strategies:
    • Building self-esteem through positive reinforcement.
    • Establishing consistent routines at home.
  • Use the School Success Roadmap to illustrate stages of emotional growth.

Step 3

Emotion Identification Activity

25 minutes

  • Distribute Emotion Cards for Kids to small groups.
  • Facilitate role-play scenarios depicting various emotions.
  • Guide parents to practice:
    • Validating children’s feelings.
    • Calming and refocusing techniques.

Step 4

Reflection and Sharing

15 minutes

  • Provide each parent with the Parent Reflection Worksheet.
  • Invite parents to record challenges and successful strategies at home.
  • Facilitate group sharing, encouraging peer advice and support.

Step 5

Action Planning and Wrap-Up

20 minutes

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Emotion Prep for School

A 90-minute Tier 1 workshop for parents on supporting children’s emotional readiness for school.

Welcome participants, introduce facilitators, and set a warm tone. Explain that today’s session will provide practical tools to help children feel confident and ready for school.

Workshop Objectives & Agenda

Objectives:

  • Understand why emotional readiness matters
  • Learn strategies for boosting self-esteem, routines, validation, and calming
  • Practice activities and plan next steps

Agenda:

  1. Introduction & Goals (10 min)
  2. Emotional Readiness Overview (20 min)
  3. Role-Play Activity (25 min)
  4. Reflection & Sharing (15 min)
  5. Action Planning & Wrap-Up (20 min)

Walk through the objectives and agenda so parents know what to expect. Emphasize active participation.

Why Emotional Readiness Matters

  • Children with strong emotional skills adapt more easily
  • Confidence and resilience lead to positive school experiences
  • Early support reduces anxiety and behavior challenges

Share research and anecdotes about how emotions impact learning, transitions, and social interactions.

Key Emotional Skills for School Success

  • Self-Awareness: Recognizing own feelings
  • Self-Regulation: Managing emotions and impulses
  • Resilience: Bouncing back from setbacks
  • Empathy: Understanding others’ feelings

Define core emotional skills and explain how they set the foundation for academic and social success.

Building Self-Esteem

  • Offer specific, sincere praise (e.g., “You did a great job sharing your toy!”)
  • Highlight strengths and small achievements
  • Encourage a growth mindset by celebrating effort

Discuss praising effort and specific behaviors rather than general praise. Provide examples.

Establishing Consistent Routines

  • Morning Routines: Wake-up time, breakfast, backpack check
  • Bedtime Routines: Wind-down activities, reading, consistent sleep schedule
  • Visual schedules to reinforce predictability

Explain the importance of routines in creating predictability and security.

Validating Emotions

  • Listen without judgment and reflect back (“I hear you’re upset about…”)
  • Name the feeling: “It seems like you feel frustrated.”
  • Show empathy: “I understand; that can be hard.”

Model active listening and reflection. Share sample phrases.

Calming Techniques

  • Deep Breathing: “Smell the flower, blow out the candle”
  • Mindfulness: Simple body scans or sensory focus
  • Sensory Tools: Stress balls, fidget toys, calming jars

Guide parents through a short breathing exercise; encourage them to use it with their child.

Refocusing Techniques

  • Offer simple choices (“Do you want to read or draw?”)
  • Redirect to alternative activities when emotions escalate
  • Use humor or a brief break to reset

Discuss gentle redirection and offering choices to refocus attention.

Activity: Emotion Identification Role-Play

  • Distribute Emotion Cards for Kids
  • In groups of 3–4, take turns playing child vs. caregiver
  • Practice naming and validating the emotion depicted

Introduce the group role-play using Emotion Cards for Kids. Clarify objectives: emotion identification and validation practice.

Activity Setup & Guidelines

  • Group size: 3–4 parents per table
  • Time: 3 min per role-play, rotate roles
  • Focus: Practicing phrases and calm responses
  • Observe and note successful strategies

Provide clear instructions and time allocations. Circulate to support each group.

Reflection & Sharing

Guide parents through the Parent Reflection Worksheet. Encourage honest self-assessment.

Action Planning

  • Review the Emotion Readiness Checklist
  • Identify 2–3 areas to focus on at home
  • Set SMART goals: Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound

Explain how to set realistic goals using the Emotion Readiness Checklist.

Take-Home Tips

  • Overview of the Take-Home Tips Handout:
    • Daily emotion check-ins
    • Routine reinforcement ideas
    • Quick calming strategies

Highlight the key tips included in the handout and encourage parents to refer to it regularly.

Summary of Key Takeaways

  • Emotional readiness supports learning and social growth
  • Use praise, routines, validation, and calming/refocusing daily
  • Practice skills through role-play and reflection
  • Set clear action plans for home

Review the main points from each section and reinforce the importance of consistent practice.

Questions & Next Steps

  • Open floor for questions
  • Share contact info and further resources
  • Encourage ongoing practice and peer support

Invite questions and share additional resources or follow-up opportunities. Thank participants for their engagement.

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Worksheet

Emotion Cards for Kids

Print this page on cardstock or heavy paper. Cut along the lines to create individual emotion cards. Use these cards in role-play, matching games, or discussions to help children recognize and name their feelings.

|--------------------------------------|--------------------------------------|--------------------------------------|
| Happy | Sad | Angry |

Scenario: A child sharing a toy with a friend, smiling.Scenario: A child sitting alone with tears in their eyes.Scenario: A child stomping feet with clenched fists.
ScaredSurprisedDisgusted
Scenario: A child hiding behind a door with wide eyes.Scenario: A child gasping with hands to mouth.Scenario: A child grimacing and pushing away a plate of food.
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CalmFrustratedEmbarrassed
Scenario: A child sitting quietly, taking deep breaths.Scenario: A child crumpling a drawing in frustration.Scenario: A child covering their face while classmates giggle.
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Worksheet

Parent Reflection Worksheet

Use this worksheet to reflect on your child’s emotional strengths, challenges, and your current practices. Your responses will help you identify goals and action steps for supporting your child’s emotional readiness for school.

1. Child’s Emotional Strengths

List three emotional strengths your child currently shows:



















2. Common Triggers

Describe situations or events that tend to trigger emotional upset or stress for your child:











3. Current Strategies

What strategies have you tried to support your child’s emotions? Which worked well, and which did not? Be specific.











4. Focus Areas and Goals

Identify 2–3 emotional skills you want to help your child develop (e.g., self-regulation, expressing feelings, coping with frustration):

  • Skill 1:





  • Skill 2:





  • (Optional) Skill 3:





5. Action Plan

For each skill above, outline one or two specific steps you will take at home, including when and how often you will practice them:

  • Step for Skill 1:










  • Step for Skill 2:










6. Support and Resources

Who can you turn to for support (e.g., family members, friends, educators)? What resources or tools will you use?











7. Workshop Insights

What was the most valuable insight or tip you gained today? How will it influence your approach at home?











After completing this reflection, review the Emotion Readiness Checklist to turn your insights into SMART goals and track progress at home.

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Worksheet

Emotion Readiness Checklist

Use this checklist to assess your child’s current emotional skills, set SMART goals, and track progress at home.

Part 1: Assess Current Skills

Circle the number that best describes how often your child demonstrates each skill:

  1. Self-Awareness (recognizing their own feelings): 1 Rarely 2 Sometimes 3 Often

  2. Self-Regulation (managing emotions and impulses): 1 Rarely 2 Sometimes 3 Often

  3. Resilience (bouncing back after disappointment): 1 Rarely 2 Sometimes 3 Often

  4. Empathy (understanding others’ feelings): 1 Rarely 2 Sometimes 3 Often

Comments on strengths or challenges:






Part 2: Set SMART Goals

Choose 1–3 skills to focus on. For each, fill in the SMART goal template below.

Goal 1

Skill: ____________________________

Specific: What exactly will you and your child do?





Measurable: How will you know it’s working?





Achievable: What small steps make this realistic?





Relevant: Why is this important for your child?





Time-bound: When will you review progress?




Goal 2

Skill: ____________________________

Specific:





Measurable:





Achievable:





Relevant:





Time-bound:




(Optional) Goal 3

Skill: ____________________________

Specific:





Measurable:





Achievable:





Relevant:





Time-bound:




Part 3: Track Progress

Over the next four weeks, record observations for each goal. Note successes, challenges, and any adjustments needed.

Week 1 (Date: ______):






Week 2 (Date: ______):






Week 3 (Date: ______):






Week 4 (Date: ______):






When you’ve completed this tracking log, revisit the Parent Reflection Worksheet to reflect on your child’s progress and plan next steps.

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Worksheet

School Success Roadmap

Use this roadmap to track and support your child’s emotional development as they prepare for and transition into school. Review each stage, note milestones, and plan strategies to foster growth.

StageAge/GradeEmotional FocusCaregiver Strategies
Early Toddler1–2 yearsBasic Feeling Recognition (happy, sad, angry)- Name feelings aloud (“You look happy!”)
- Model simple emotion words
Preschool3–4 yearsSelf-Regulation & Routine Building- Establish consistent daily routines
- Offer simple choices to build autonomy
Pre-K4–5 yearsEmpathy & Frustration Management- Practice sharing and turn-taking
- Role-play problem-solving scenarios
Kindergarten Transition5–6 yearsIndependent Emotional Management & Social Skills- Daily emotion check-ins
- Teach calming techniques and use visual cues
Early Elementary (Grade 1–2)6–8 yearsResilience & Peer Relationships- Encourage reflection on setbacks
- Celebrate effort and growth mindset

How to Use This Roadmap

  1. Review the Emotional Focus for your child’s current stage.
  2. Implement the Caregiver Strategies suggested.
  3. Check off milestones as your child demonstrates each skill.
  4. Refer back to the Emotion Readiness Checklist to set goals aligned with each stage.

Keeping this roadmap visible (on the fridge or in your child’s room) helps you and your child recognize progress and plan next steps.

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Worksheet

Take-Home Tips Handout

Keep this handout handy for quick reminders to support your child’s emotional readiness for school.

1. Daily Emotion Check-Ins

  • Spend 2–3 minutes each morning asking, “How are you feeling today?”
  • Use a simple scale (thumbs up/neutral/down) or an emotions chart.
  • Validate responses: “I hear you feel excited/nervous—tell me more.”

2. Reinforce Consistent Routines

  • Maintain predictable morning and bedtime sequences.
  • Display a visual schedule (pictures or checklist) in a common area.
  • Celebrate routine wins with praise or a sticker chart.

3. Quick Calming Strategies

  • Practice “smell the flower, blow out the candle” deep breaths.
  • Keep a small calm-down kit (stress ball, fidget toy, calming jar).
  • Offer a brief sensory break (quiet corner, soft music, drawing).

4. Validate & Praise

  • Acknowledge feelings: “It seems you’re frustrated—totally understandable.”
  • Use specific praise: “You shared your toy so kindly today.”
  • Model positive self-talk: “Let’s try again—I know you can do it.”

5. Weekly Action Planning

6. Additional Support & Resources

  • Connect with other parents for tips and encouragement.
  • Refer to the School Success Roadmap for stage-by-stage guidance.
  • Reach out to your child’s teacher or counselor for extra strategies.

Consistent practice and positive reinforcement build confidence and resilience over time. You’ve got this!

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