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Coping Toolbox

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Jennifer Brown

Tier 2

Lesson Plan

Toolbox Workshop Plan

Students will create a personalized coping toolbox by identifying, crafting, and sharing 3–5 effective strategies for managing stress and big emotions, reinforcing emotional resilience and peer support.

Building a tangible ‘toolbox’ helps students internalize and practice coping skills, boost self‐awareness, and foster a supportive group climate for mental wellness.

Audience

5th Grade Small Group

Time

40 minutes

Approach

Hands-on crafts combined with guided discussion and reflection.

Materials

  • Small Toolbox Containers (e.g., mini boxes or pencil cases), - Art Supplies: Colored Paper, Markers, Stickers, Glue Sticks, - Index Cards for Strategy Labels, - Coping Strategies Overview Slide Deck, - Craft Your Toolbox Activity Pack, and - My Coping Strategy List Worksheet

Prep

Prepare Materials & Review Resources

10 minutes

  • Print one copy per student of My Coping Strategy List Worksheet
  • Queue up Coping Strategies Overview Slide Deck on your device
  • Gather small containers, art supplies, and index cards at each student’s station
  • Preview Craft Your Toolbox Activity Pack and note key talking points
  • Arrange seating in a circle to encourage sharing and peer support

Step 1

Welcome & Warm-Up

5 minutes

  • Greet students and invite them to share one thing that made them feel calm this week
  • Establish group norms: respectful listening, positive feedback, confidentiality
  • Explain today’s goal: building a personalized toolbox of strategies to use when they feel stressed or overwhelmed
  • Differentiate by offering sentence starters or visuals for students who need support

Step 2

Coping Strategies Overview

7 minutes

  • Present Coping Strategies Overview Slide Deck
  • Highlight 5 categories: breathing, movement, creativity, self-talk, help-seeking
  • Ask students to give real examples of times they’ve used these strategies
  • Use think-pair-share to ensure all voices are heard

Step 3

Craft Your Toolbox

15 minutes

  • Distribute small containers and art supplies
  • Invite students to decorate their toolbox to reflect their personality
  • Hand out index cards and have students write 3–5 chosen strategies, one per card
  • Encourage creativity: draw icons or use stickers to represent each strategy
  • Circulate to prompt students who are stuck: suggest strategy examples from the overview

Step 4

Show & Tell Toolbox Items

8 minutes

  • In a circle, each student briefly presents one strategy card and explains why they chose it
  • Peers offer affirmations or additional suggestions
  • Teacher notes any misunderstandings and reinforces accurate strategy use

Step 5

Reflection & Strategy List Completion

5 minutes

  • Distribute My Coping Strategy List Worksheet
  • Students transfer their chosen strategies into the worksheet and add personal tips
  • Teacher collects worksheets to review understanding and plan follow-up support
  • Close with a group deep-breathing exercise, inviting students to use their toolboxes next time they need calm
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Slide Deck

Coping Strategies Overview

Today we will explore five categories of coping strategies to help when you feel stressed or overwhelmed.

We will:

  1. Define each category
  2. See examples
  3. Think–Pair–Share your own experiences

Introduce the slide deck. Welcome students and explain that today they will learn five categories of coping strategies. Prompt them to listen and think of examples they have used.

Breathing Strategies

• Deep Belly Breathing: Inhale for 4 counts, exhale for 4 counts
• Balloon Breath: Imagine inflating and deflating a balloon in your stomach
• Counted Breath: Breathe in on a count of 3, out on a count of 3

Explain what breathing strategies are and model a deep-breath exercise. Show a simple breathing visual if available.

Movement Strategies

• Stretching or Light Yoga
• Taking a Walk or Jogging in Place
• Dance or Music Break
• Quick Exercise: Jumping Jacks or Star Jumps

Invite a volunteer to stand and do a simple stretch. Emphasize that movement can change how we feel instantly.

Creativity Strategies

• Drawing or Coloring
• Writing in a Journal or Poem
• Playing a Musical Instrument or Singing
• Crafting: Clay, Origami, or DIY Projects

Show examples of art or writing tools. Encourage students that creativity lets them express emotions safely.

Self-Talk Strategies

• Positive Affirmations: “I can handle this”
• Mood Meter Check-In: Name how you feel
• Guided Imagery: Picture a calm place
• Encouraging Self-Statements: “I’ve got this”

Discuss how our inner voice affects our mood. Provide sample affirmations on the board.

Help-Seeking Strategies

• Talk with a Friend, Family Member, or Teacher
• Use a Help Card or Write a Note
• Visit the Counselor or School Support Staff
• Join a Small-Group Activity for Support

Explain that asking for help is a strong strategy, not a sign of weakness. Role-play a brief help-seeking scenario.

Think–Pair–Share

  1. Think: Choose one strategy you already use.
  2. Pair: Tell your partner how you use it.
  3. Share: Each pair shares one new idea with the group.

Guide students through a Think–Pair–Share. Monitor pairs and invite volunteers to share out.

Reflection

Which new strategy will you add to your toolbox?

Write it down and explain why it could help you next time you feel stressed.

Wrap up the overview. Ask students to identify one new coping strategy to add to their toolbox.

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Activity

Craft Your Toolbox Activity Pack

Purpose: Hands-on crafting to personalize coping strategies and reinforce strategy recall.

Time: 15 minutes

Materials:

  • Small toolbox containers (mini boxes, pencil cases)
  • Art supplies: colored paper, markers, stickers, glue sticks
  • Index cards (3–5 per student)
  • My Coping Strategy List Worksheet for later

Instructions:

  1. Set Up & Focus (2 minutes)

    • Remind students they’ll create a personal toolbox to hold strategies.
    • Confirm each station has container, art supplies, and index cards.
  2. Decorate Your Toolbox (5 minutes)

    • Invite students to choose colors, stickers, or drawings that feel calm or empowering.
    • Encourage thinking about images or symbols that represent support (e.g., sun for hope).
    • Prompt: “What colors or pictures make you feel safe or strong?”
  3. Write & Illustrate Strategy Cards (6 minutes)

    • Have students write 3–5 coping strategies on separate index cards (one per card).
    • Strategy starters: “When I feel ____, I will ____.”
    • Encourage a simple drawing or sticker on each card to cue memory.
  4. Organize & Tidy (2 minutes)

    • Students place their finished cards into their toolbox.
    • Invite quick pair-share: “Show one card to your neighbor and explain why you chose it.”

Differentiation Supports:

  • Creative Support:
    • Offer pre-cut shapes or printed icons for students with fine-motor needs.
    • Allow use of magazine cutouts or textured materials.
  • Language Support:
    • Provide a word bank of common coping strategies.
    • Offer sentence starters or have an adult scribe for those who prefer to draw.
  • Guided Reflection Prompts:
    • “Why is this strategy helpful to you?”
    • “What image could remind you of this strategy when you need it?”





Next: Move on to [Show & Tell Toolbox Items] for sharing and feedback.

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Discussion

Show & Tell Toolbox Items

Purpose:

  • Strengthen students’ ownership of their coping strategies
  • Practice public speaking, active listening, and giving supportive feedback
  • Build a sense of community and shared resilience

Materials Needed:

  • Student ‘toolboxes’ and strategy cards from Craft Your Toolbox Activity Pack
  • A talking piece (e.g., a soft ball or small token) to establish speaking turns

1. Review Discussion Norms (1 minute)

  • Respectful Listening: Eyes on the speaker, quiet hands, positive body language
  • One Speaker at a Time: Hold the talking piece when sharing
  • Supportive Feedback: Offer affirmations and kind suggestions only
  • Confidentiality Reminder: What’s shared in the group stays in the group




2. Structured Sharing (6 minutes)

  1. Arrange students in a circle.
  2. Choose a volunteer or use a talking piece to select the first speaker.
  3. Each student holds up one strategy card and follows this framework:
    • Name the Strategy: “This is my…(e.g., Balloon Breath)…”
    • Why I Chose It: “I chose it because…”
    • When I’ll Use It: “I’ll use this when I feel…”

Sentence Starter Example:
• “I picked __________ because it helps me feel __________ when I’m __________.”




3. Peer Affirmations & Suggestions (5 minutes)

  • After each student shares, neighbors can respond with:
    1. Affirmation: “I like how you chose that because…”
    2. Additional Idea (optional): “Another time that might help is when you are ___; you could also try ___.”

Verbally model one example:
“I like how you chose journaling because it helps you understand your feelings. Another time you might use it is after gym class when you need quiet time.”







4. Group Reflection (4 minutes)

  • Whole-Group Question: “Which new strategy did you hear today that you’d like to try?”
    • Students answer with thumbs up or share briefly.
  • Compare & Connect: “Did anyone choose the same strategy as someone else? How might you help each other remember to use it?”







5. Transition to Worksheet Completion (Remaining Time)

  • Distribute My Coping Strategy List Worksheet.
  • Instruct students to transfer their strategies, add notes from peer feedback, and write one action step: “This week, I will try my new strategy when…”
  • Collect worksheets for review and plan follow-up supports.







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Worksheet

My Coping Strategy List

Instructions

Fill in the details for each coping strategy you chose. Use the space below to write, draw, and plan.


Strategy 1

Name of Strategy:




Draw a reminder symbol or picture:







Why it's helpful to me:







When I will use it:







Strategy 2

Name of Strategy:




Draw a reminder symbol or picture:







Why it's helpful to me:







When I will use it:







Strategy 3

Name of Strategy:




Draw a reminder symbol or picture:







Why it's helpful to me:







When I will use it:







(Optional: If you created more than three cards, add additional strategies here.)


Action Plan

This week, I will try my new strategy when:






Where I will keep my toolbox so I remember to use it:






My confidence level (1 = not sure, 5 = very sure): _______

Turn in this worksheet to your teacher when you are finished.

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Warm Up

Coping Toolbox Warm-Up

Time: 5 minutes

1. Greeting & Set the Tone (2 minutes)

  • Welcome each student by name as they arrive.
  • Quickly review group norms: respectful listening, positive feedback, confidentiality.

2. Calming Activity Share (3 minutes)

  • Prompt: “Share one thing you did this week that helped you feel calm or relaxed.”
  • Use this sentence frame:
    “When I felt (feeling), I (activity) to help me calm down.”



  • Options for sharing:
    • Pop-corn style: volunteers share one at a time
    • Think–Pair–Share: discuss with a partner then one partner shares out

3. Transition to Lesson

“Thank you for sharing! Today we’ll learn more coping strategies and build them into our very own Coping Toolbox.”

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Cool Down

Toolbox Exit Reflection

Purpose: Wrap up the session by reviewing key takeaways, reinforcing confidence, and setting a plan for using your Coping Toolbox.

Time: 5 minutes


1. Strategy Snapshot (1 minute)

  • Prompt: “One new strategy I’ll definitely use is…”



2. Confidence Check (1 minute)

  • Circle your confidence level for using your toolbox:
    • 1️⃣ Not Sure 2️⃣ A Little Sure 3️⃣ Somewhat Sure 4️⃣ Pretty Sure 5️⃣ Very Sure



3. Action Commitment (2 minutes)

  • Write your plan: “This week, when I feel ___, I will use ___ from my toolbox.”






4. Closing Calm-Down (1 minute)

  • Lead the group in one final deep breath together:
    • Inhale for 4 counts (smell the flowers)
    • Exhale for 4 counts (blow out the candle)

“Great work today! Remember, your Coping Toolbox is there whenever you need it.”

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