Lesson Plan
Session 1 Lesson Plan
Build rapport with Isabella, gather baseline information on her anxiety triggers and current coping methods, and introduce core anxiety coping strategies.
This first session focuses on relationship-building and needs assessment to collect baseline data and create a supportive environment for learning coping strategies.
Audience
12th Grade Individual Counseling
Time
30 minutes
Approach
Ice-breaker, guided conversation, reflection, strategy modeling.
Materials
- All About Me Worksheet, - Coping Strategies Overview Sheet, - Session 1 Reflection Sheet, - Comfortable Seating Area, and - Classroom Timer
Prep
Prepare Session Materials
10 minutes
- Print copies of the All About Me Worksheet, Coping Strategies Overview Sheet, and Session 1 Reflection Sheet.
- Review any existing notes on Isabella’s interests and strengths.
- Arrange a quiet, comfortable seating area for one-on-one discussion.
- Set up a timer to track each segment.
Step 1
Ice-Breaker Activity
5 minutes
- Welcome Isabella warmly and share your own ‘All About Me’ to model openness.
- Distribute the All About Me Worksheet.
- Invite Isabella to fill in her interests, strengths, and fun facts at her own pace.
Step 2
Baseline Info Gathering & Reflection
10 minutes
- Ask open-ended questions: “Tell me about a time you felt anxious recently.”
- Note the situation, her feelings, and her spontaneous coping methods.
- Distribute the Session 1 Reflection Sheet.
- Guide her to complete Part 1 (recall situations) and Part 3 (barriers reflection) to capture baseline data.
Step 3
Review Coping Strategies Overview
10 minutes
- Present the Coping Strategies Overview Sheet.
- Define and model each strategy:
• Deep Breathing: 4-count inhale, 4-count exhale
• Grounding Exercise: 5-4-3-2-1 sensory check
• Positive Self-Talk: Replace negative thoughts with affirmations - Ask if she’s tried any before and discuss her experiences.
Step 4
Wrap-Up & Goal Setting
5 minutes
- Highlight one strength from her reflection responses.
- Collaboratively choose one strategy to practice this week in a specific situation.
- Confirm she’ll note the outcome in her reflection sheet and set next session time.
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Worksheet
Session 1 Reflection Sheet
Name: ____________________________ Date: _______________
1. Recall Anxiety-Producing Situations
List two recent situations in which you felt anxiety. For each, briefly describe what happened.
Situation 1:
Situation 2:
2. Coping Strategy Rating
For each coping strategy below, rate how often you used it (0 = not at all, 5 = always) and how effective it was (0 = not effective, 5 = very effective) in those situations.
| Coping Strategy | Use (0–5) | Effectiveness (0–5) | Barriers / Notes |
|---|---|---|---|
| Deep Breathing | ____ | ____ | |
| Grounding Exercise | ____ | ____ | |
| Positive Self-Talk | ____ | ____ | |
| Other (please name) | ____ | ____ |
3. Reflection on Barriers
What challenges or barriers did you encounter when trying these strategies? How might you overcome them next time?
4. Goal Setting for Next Session
Choose one coping strategy to focus on before our next meeting. Describe when and how you will practice it.
Keep this sheet to track your progress and share it during our next session.
Script
Session 1 Word-for-Word Script
1. Ice-Breaker & “All About Me” (5 minutes)
Teacher: "Hi Isabella! I’m so happy to meet you. Everything we talk about is just between us and completely confidential. Before we dive into coping tools, I’d love to learn more about you. I’ve filled out my own ‘All About Me’ sheet to share a bit about myself—my favorite subjects, hobbies, and something I’m proud of. Now it’s your turn."
Hand Isabella the All About Me Worksheet.
Teacher: "Take a few minutes to fill in your favorites and a little about who you are. Feel free to share out loud if you’d like, or jot down your thoughts quietly—whatever feels best for you."
[Pause and offer gentle prompts if she hesitates, such as “What’s your favorite way to relax?” or “Tell me one thing you really enjoy doing.”]
2. Baseline Info Gathering & Reflection (10 minutes)
Teacher: "Thank you for sharing that, Isabella. I already feel like I know you better! Now, I’d like to understand what kinds of situations make you feel anxious right now and how you’ve been coping up to this point."
Teacher: "Can you tell me about a recent time when you noticed yourself feeling anxious—maybe in class, at lunch, or with friends? What happened and how did you feel?"
[Listen actively, nod, and note her description.]
Teacher: "Great. Let’s use this Session 1 Reflection Sheet to capture that. In Part 1, write down two situations you just described or any others you remember."
[Give Isabella time to write. Offer a reminder: “If you need another example, think about yesterday or after school.”]
Teacher: "Next, skip to Part 3 and write any challenges you experienced when trying to cope—like forgetting the steps or feeling awkward. We want to know what gets in the way so we can address it together."
[Pause, then ask: “What was the hardest part about using the strategies you tried?”]
3. Review Coping Strategies Overview (10 minutes)
Teacher: "Thank you for those honest reflections. Now let’s look at a few core strategies you can use. Here’s the Coping Strategies Overview Sheet. We’ll cover three techniques today."
- Deep Breathing
Teacher: "We inhale slowly through the nose for a count of four, then exhale through the mouth for a count of four. Watch me: Inhale… one, two, three, four… Exhale… one, two, three, four."
[Invite Isabella: “Your turn—ready?”] - Grounding Exercise
Teacher: "This is the 5-4-3-2-1 method. You name 5 things you see, 4 things you can touch, 3 things you hear, 2 things you smell, and 1 thing you taste or imagine tasting. Let’s try it: What are five things you see in this room?"
[Guide her through if needed.] - Positive Self-Talk
Teacher: "Positive self-talk is catching a negative thought—like ‘I can’t do this’—and swapping it for an encouraging phrase—like ‘I can handle this one step at a time.’ If you felt anxious right now, what’s a helpful phrase you might say to yourself?"
[Support and refine her response.]
Teacher: "Have you ever tried any of these before? What felt helpful, or what felt tricky?"
[Encourage her to share any past experiences.]
4. Wrap-Up & Goal Setting (5 minutes)
Teacher: "You did awesome work today. Looking at your reflection sheet, I noticed you mentioned [briefly name a barrier or strength]. That’s really important for us to know."
Teacher: "Now, let’s pick one strategy to practice before our next session. Which one sounds most doable—deep breathing, grounding, or positive self-talk—and when will you try it?"
[Help Isabella be specific: “Maybe you’ll use deep breathing before your next class starts.”]
Teacher: "Perfect. Keep this Reflection Sheet with you and jot one quick note about how it went when you use your chosen strategy. We’ll review it next time and build from there. Does that plan feel right?"
[Wait for confirmation.]
Teacher: "Thank you for sharing so openly today, Isabella. I’m excited to work together and support you along the way. I’ll see you next week!"
Materials to print:
Worksheet
Session 1: All About Me Sheet
Name: ________________________________ Date: __________________
1. My Favorites
- Favorite subject in school: ___________________________
- Favorite hobby or activity: ___________________________
- Favorite music / movie / book: _______________________
2. About Me
- Three words that describe me: 1. __________ 2. __________ 3. __________
- One thing I’m proud of: _______________________________
3. When I Feel Stressed or Anxious
- My body tells me (e.g., fast heartbeat, sweaty palms):
- My thoughts go to (e.g., “What if…?” or “I can’t…”):
4. My Supports & Strengths
- People I trust and can talk to at school or home:
- Something I’m good at (a skill, talent, or quality):
5. Goals for Our Sessions
- One thing I want to learn or get better at: _______________________________
- A question I have about managing stress or anxiety:
Keep this sheet to share as we get to know each other and plan your coping journey!
Lesson Plan
Session 2 Lesson Plan
Guide Isabella through mixed coping strategies—deep breathing and grounding—via engaging activities, and dedicate time to her life updates.
Combining strategies in playful exercises boosts skill retention, reduces anxiety in varied contexts, and strengthens rapport by honoring her personal experiences.
Audience
12th Grade Individual Counseling
Time
30 minutes
Approach
Interactive games and reflection
Materials
Calming Feather for Breathing Activity, Grounding Scavenger Hunt Cards, Session 2 Reflection Sheet, Classroom Timer, and Comfortable Seating Area
Prep
Prepare Session 2 Materials
10 minutes
- Print copies of the Session 2 Reflection Sheet and the Grounding Scavenger Hunt Cards.
- Gather a lightweight feather or soft object for the breathing activity and label it ‘Calming Feather.’
- Review Isabella’s IEP goal on self-regulation to ensure alignment.
- Arrange a small table or floor space for the scavenger activity.
- Set a timer for each segment.
Step 1
Life Check-In
5 minutes
- Invite Isabella to share what’s on her mind today—school, friends, or home.
- Listen actively and validate her feelings.
- Note any themes to address later or in future sessions.
Step 2
Feather Breathing Game
10 minutes
- Explain: “We’ll practice deep breathing by keeping this ‘Calming Feather’ floating in the air.”
- Demonstrate: inhale for four counts, exhale for four, keeping the feather aloft.
- Invite Isabella to try three rounds.
- Make it fun by timing each round with the Classroom Timer.
Step 3
Grounding Scavenger Hunt
10 minutes
- Spread the Grounding Scavenger Hunt Cards face down.
- Each card prompts one of the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding steps (e.g., “Find something you can touch,” “Name 3 sounds around you”).
- Isabella draws five cards and completes each step in order.
- Guide her through any challenging prompts.
Step 4
Reflection & Goal Setting
5 minutes
- Distribute the Session 2 Reflection Sheet.
- Ask Isabella to rate how she felt using each strategy (0–5) and note what felt easy or tricky.
- Collaboratively choose which strategy to practice next week and when.
- Remind her to jot brief notes on her sheet each time she practices.
Script
Session 2 Word-for-Word Script
1. Life Check-In (5 minutes)
Teacher: "Hi Isabella! It’s so good to see you again. Before we dive into today’s activities, I’d love to hear what’s on your mind. How have things been going at school, with friends, or at home this week?"
[Pause and listen actively. Nod and maintain eye contact.]
Teacher: "Thank you for sharing that. I hear that you’ve been feeling [reflect back a theme she shared]. We’ll keep that in mind as we practice today."
2. Feather Breathing Game (10 minutes)
Teacher: "Now let’s practice deep breathing in a fun way with our Calming Feather for Breathing Activity. Our goal is to keep the feather floating by breathing slowly and smoothly."
Teacher: "First, watch me. Inhale quietly through your nose for a count of four—one, two, three, four—then exhale gently through your mouth for a count of four—one, two, three, four."
[Demonstrate with the feather: inhale (lift), exhale (feather drifts).]
Teacher: "Great! Now it’s your turn. Ready? Inhale… one, two, three, four… Exhale… one, two, three, four."
[Start the Classroom Timer for 30 seconds and encourage her.]
Teacher: "Fantastic. Let’s do two more rounds. Notice how your breath feels and how the feather moves. If it drops, that’s okay—let’s try slowing our breath even more next time."
3. Grounding Scavenger Hunt (10 minutes)
Teacher: "Next up is a grounding scavenger hunt. I have our Grounding Scavenger Hunt Cards here. Each card has one step from the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique."
Teacher: "Shuffle the cards and pick five, one at a time. Read the card aloud and then complete what it asks—like naming five things you see or finding something you can touch. I’ll guide you through it. Ready?"
[Invite Isabella to draw the first card.]
Teacher: "Card one: ‘Name 5 things you see.’ Go ahead—what do you see around you?"
[Pause for her response. If stuck: “Try looking around the edges of the room for something interesting.”]
Teacher: "Great! Now card two: ‘Touch 4 different textures and name them.’ Tell me what you find."
[Continue through all five cards, offering prompts if needed.]
4. Reflection & Goal Setting (5 minutes)
Teacher: "You did amazing work today. Let’s reflect using the Session 2 Reflection Sheet."
Teacher: "On the sheet, rate from 0 to 5 how you felt using the Feather Breathing exercise and the Grounding Scavenger Hunt. Then write one note about what felt easy or what felt tricky."
[Give Isabella time to write, then ask: “What did you notice?”]
Teacher: "Now, which activity—feather breathing or grounding—would you like to practice before our next session? When might you use it? For example, you could do three feather breaths before lunch or draw a grounding card when you feel worried."
[Help her set a specific plan: “Tomorrow morning before class,” etc.]
Teacher: "Does that plan feel good to you? Perfect. Keep your reflection sheet with you and jot a quick note each time you practice so we can review it next week."
Teacher: "Thank you for sharing and for all your effort today, Isabella. I’m proud of how you tried these new strategies. I’ll see you next week!"
Materials to print:
Worksheet
Session 2 Reflection Sheet
Name: _________________________ Date: ___________________
1. Activity Ratings
Rate from 0 (didn’t help) to 5 (helped a lot) how you felt using each activity:
| Activity | Rating (0–5) |
|---|---|
| Feather Breathing Game | ____ |
| Grounding Scavenger Hunt | ____ |
2. Reflections: Easy & Tricky
For each activity, note what felt easy and what felt tricky.
Feather Breathing Game
What felt easy?
What felt tricky?
Grounding Scavenger Hunt
What felt easy?
What felt tricky?
3. Practice Plan
Which activity will you practice before our next session? When and how will you use it?
Keep this sheet to track your practice and bring it to our next session.
Lesson Plan
Session 3 Lesson Plan
Expand Isabella’s coping toolkit by introducing Progressive Muscle Relaxation and guided Visualization, enabling her to practice relaxed body awareness and mental calm.
Teaching PMR and Visualization adds body‐based and imagery‐based strategies to Isabella’s skillset, deepening her ability to self‐soothe and prevent anxiety escalation.
Audience
12th Grade Individual Counseling
Time
30 minutes
Approach
Guided practice and reflection
Materials
Progressive Muscle Relaxation Guide, Visualization Guide Sheet, Session 3 Reflection Sheet, Comfortable Seating Area, and Classroom Timer
Prep
Prepare Session 3 Materials
10 minutes
- Print copies of the Progressive Muscle Relaxation Guide, the Visualization Guide Sheet, and the Session 3 Reflection Sheet.
- Clear a quiet area or lay a mat for relaxation practice.
- Review Isabella’s previous reflection notes on breathing and grounding.
- Set the timer for each activity segment.
Step 1
Life Check-In & Review
5 minutes
- Invite Isabella to share any updates since last session (school, friends, home).
- Review her last reflection sheet briefly: “How did practicing breathing or grounding go?”
- Note themes to connect with new strategies.
Step 2
Progressive Muscle Relaxation
10 minutes
- Introduce the Progressive Muscle Relaxation Guide.
- Model tensing and releasing two muscle groups (e.g., shoulders and hands).
- Guide Isabella through a full brief cycle: feet → legs → abdomen → shoulders → face (1–2 minutes per group).
- Use the timer to keep pacing steady.
- Check in on how her body feels after the exercise.
Step 3
Guided Visualization
10 minutes
- Present the Visualization Guide Sheet.
- Ask Isabella to close her eyes and follow your narration of a calm scene (e.g., walking on a beach).
- Encourage her to notice sensory details: sights, sounds, smells, textures.
- After 5 minutes, gently bring her back and discuss what images or feelings arose.
- Validate her experience and link it to future self‐calming cues.
Step 4
Reflection & Goal Setting
5 minutes
- Distribute the Session 3 Reflection Sheet.
- Ask Isabella to rate PMR and Visualization (0–5) and note what felt easy or tricky.
- Collaboratively choose one strategy to practice this week, specifying when and where.
- Remind her to record brief notes each time she practices.
Worksheet
Session 3 Reflection Sheet
Name: _______________________ Date: _______________
1. Strategy Ratings
Rate from 0 (didn’t help) to 5 (helped a lot) how you felt using each strategy:
| Strategy | Rating (0–5) |
|---|---|
| Progressive Muscle Relaxation | ____ |
| Guided Visualization | ____ |
2. Reflections: Easy & Tricky
Progressive Muscle Relaxation
What felt easy?
What felt tricky?
Guided Visualization
What felt easy?
What felt tricky?
3. Practice Plan
Which strategy will you practice before our next session? When and how will you use it?
Keep this sheet to track your practice and bring it to our next session.
Script
Session 3 Word-for-Word Script
1. Life Check-In & Review (5 minutes)
Teacher: "Hi Isabella! I’m really glad to see you again. Before we begin our new strategies, tell me how things went this week. How did practicing deep breathing or grounding feel when you tried them?"
[Pause and listen. Nod and reflect back: “So when you took those breaths before class, you noticed…”]
Teacher: "Thank you for sharing. I hear that [summarize her key insight]—we’ll keep that in mind as we explore today’s exercises."
2. Progressive Muscle Relaxation (10 minutes)
Teacher: "Now we’ll learn a new way to relax by tensing and releasing muscle groups, called Progressive Muscle Relaxation. Here’s the Progressive Muscle Relaxation Guide."
Teacher: "Please find a comfortable seated position or lie down if that feels better. We’ll start with our feet and work upward. I’ll guide you—and you can follow along silently."
Teacher (softly, paced):
- "Feet: Curl your toes tightly… hold for 5 seconds… and release. Notice how they feel loose."
- "Calves: Tighten your calf muscles… hold… and let go."
- "Thighs: Squeeze your thighs together… hold… release."
- "Abdomen: Pull in your belly tight… hold… release and breathe out."
- "Shoulders: Raise your shoulders to your ears… hold… drop them back down."
- "Hands: Clench your fists… hold… and then open your fingers wide."
- "Face: Scrunch your forehead and jaw… hold… relax your face."
[Use the Classroom Timer to keep each hold around 5–7 seconds. Speak calmly and allow gentle pauses.]
Teacher: "How does your body feel now compared to before?"
[Invite a brief response.]
3. Guided Visualization (10 minutes)
Teacher: "Next, let’s use our imagination to help our mind relax. You have the Visualization Guide Sheet to refer to later."
Teacher: "Please sit comfortably, close your eyes if you like, and take a slow breath in…and out. I’ll describe a peaceful place. As I speak, let your mind picture it and notice any details—colors, sounds, textures."
Teacher (softly):
- "Imagine you’re walking along a quiet beach. Feel the warm sand under your feet… hear gentle waves lapping at the shore… smell the salty air…"
- "You notice a seashell and pick it up. It’s smooth and cool… You pause to watch a small bird call out…"
- "Breathe in the calm… breathe out any tension."
[Continue for about 5 minutes, then gently prompt:]
Teacher: "When you’re ready, take two deep breaths and open your eyes."
Teacher: "What images or feelings came to you?"
[Listen and validate: “That sense of calm by the water sounds soothing.”]
4. Reflection & Goal Setting (5 minutes)
Teacher: "You did a great job exploring these new strategies. Let’s fill out the Session 3 Reflection Sheet."
Teacher: "First, rate how much Progressive Muscle Relaxation and Visualization helped you today, from 0 to 5. Then jot what felt easy and what felt tricky."
[Pause briefly for Isabella to write.]
Teacher: "Now, which strategy feels most helpful for you to practice before our next session? Where and when might you use it?"
[Guide her to set a specific plan, e.g., "Guided visualization before bedtime tonight."]
Teacher: "That sounds perfect. Keep your reflection sheet and write a quick note each time you try it. We’ll review together next time."
Teacher: "Thank you for your focus today, Isabella. I’m proud of how open you’ve been. I’ll see you next week!"
Materials to print:
Worksheet
Progressive Muscle Relaxation Guide
Use Progressive Muscle Relaxation (PMR) to help your body notice and release tension. Follow the steps below in a quiet, comfortable space. Move slowly and pay attention to how each area feels before and after.
1. Get Comfortable
• Sit or lie down in a relaxed position.
• Close your eyes if you like.
• Take a slow inhale… and exhale… to settle in.
2. Tense & Release Sequence
For each muscle group below:
- Breathe in, tense the muscles tightly (hold for 5–7 seconds).
- Breathe out, quickly release the tension.
- Notice the difference as the muscles relax (pause 10–15 seconds).
- Feet and Toes
- Calves
- Thighs
- Abdomen
- Chest and Back
- Shoulders and Neck
- Hands and Arms
- Face and Jaw
3. Reflection
After completing the full sequence, answer below:
- Which muscle group felt the most tension when you tensed it?
- Which muscle group felt the most relaxed after releasing?
- How do you notice your breath or body sensations change from start to finish?
4. Practice Plan
When and where will you practice PMR this week? Describe your plan.
Keep this guide handy and use it whenever you feel muscle tension or anxiety building.
Worksheet
Visualization Guide Sheet
Use guided visualization to calm your mind and transport yourself to a peaceful place. Follow the steps below in a quiet, comfortable setting.
1. Get Comfortable
• Sit or lie down in a relaxed position.
• Close your eyes if you like.
• Take a slow inhale… and exhale… to settle in.
2. Guided Imagery Steps
- Choose a Scene: Imagine a place where you feel safe and calm (e.g., a beach, forest, garden, or cozy room).
- Engage Your Senses: In your mind, notice:
- What do you see? (colors, shapes, light)
- What do you hear? (birds, waves, wind)
- What do you smell? (salt air, flowers, pine)
- What can you feel? (soft sand, cool breeze, warm sunlight)
- What might you taste or imagine tasting? (mint, fresh air, fruit)
- What do you see? (colors, shapes, light)
- Stay in the Moment: Spend 3–5 minutes exploring this scene in your mind. If your thoughts wander, gently bring yourself back to the sensory details.
3. Reflection
- Which sensory details did you notice most vividly?
- What feelings or emotions arose during the visualization?
- How did your breathing or body sensations change from before to after?
4. Practice Plan
When and where will you use visualization this week? Describe your plan below.
Keep this guide sheet handy. Use it whenever you need a mental break or feel anxiety building.
Lesson Plan
Session 4 Lesson Plan
Integrate cognitive restructuring and embodied awareness through positive self-talk and mindful walking to reinforce coping skills in real-world movement contexts.
Combining affirmations with mindful movement promotes self-compassion and present-moment awareness, boosting Isabella’s ability to self-regulate during daily activities.
Audience
12th Grade Individual Counseling
Time
30 minutes
Approach
Experiential practice and reflection
Materials
Positive Self-Talk Affirmation Cards, Mindful Walking Path Instructions, Session 4 Reflection Sheet, Comfortable Walking Space, and Classroom Timer
Prep
Prepare Session 4 Materials
10 minutes
- Print copies of the Positive Self-Talk Affirmation Cards, the Mindful Walking Path Instructions, and the Session 4 Reflection Sheet.
- Clear a safe walking path in or outside the classroom.
- Review Isabella’s past reflection notes on self-talk and previous strategies.
- Set up the Classroom Timer for walking and pause intervals.
Step 1
Life Check-In
5 minutes
- Invite Isabella to share updates since last session (school, home, social contexts).
- Ask how practicing visualization or PMR felt and note key insights.
- Validate her experiences and connect to today’s focus on self-talk and movement.
Step 2
Affirmation Card Activity
10 minutes
- Explain that the Positive Self-Talk Affirmation Cards contain statements to challenge anxious thoughts.
- Invite Isabella to draw three cards and read each aloud.
- Have her rephrase each affirmation into a personalized “I” statement.
- Discuss how each revised statement could apply to her real-life triggers.
Step 3
Mindful Walking Practice
10 minutes
- Introduce the Mindful Walking Path Instructions.
- Walk the marked path slowly, pausing at each marker to notice breath, pace, surroundings, and self-talk.
- Encourage Isabella to use one affirmation from her cards at a pause point.
- Use the timer to guide walking and pause intervals.
Step 4
Reflection & Goal Setting
5 minutes
- Distribute the Session 4 Reflection Sheet.
- Ask Isabella to rate how helpful self-talk and mindful walking felt and note easy vs. tricky parts.
- Collaboratively choose which strategy and affirmation to practice in her next routine activity.
- Remind her to record brief notes each time she practices.
Worksheet
Positive Self-Talk Affirmation Cards
Print and cut along the dotted lines to create individual cards. Use these statements to challenge anxious thoughts and reinforce confidence.
“I can handle this one step at a time.”
“I’ve coped with hard things before and I can do it again.”
“I am capable of finding solutions.”
“My feelings are valid, and they will pass.”
“I deserve kindness—from myself and others.”
“I am stronger than my worries.”
“I choose calm over chaos.”
“I trust myself to make good decisions.”
“I am learning and growing every day.”
“I am in control of my breath and my mind.”
“I give myself permission to pause and reset.”
“My best effort is enough—right now.”
Keep these cards handy—pick one whenever you notice a negative thought and say it out loud or to yourself.
Worksheet
Session 5 Lesson Plan
Objective: Deepen cognitive restructuring by identifying unhelpful thought patterns and practicing a structured problem-solving process to manage anxiety triggers.
Why: Recognizing and challenging negative thoughts empowers Isabella to replace them with balanced, realistic thinking. Introducing a step-by-step problem-solving model gives her an active coping framework when anxiety arises.
Approach: Interactive teaching, guided examples, and role-play.
Audience: 12th Grade Individual Counseling
Time: 30 minutes
Materials:
- Thought Distortions Chart (printable)
- Problem-Solving Steps Worksheet (printable)
- Session 5 Reflection Sheet
- Comfortable Seating Area
- Classroom Timer
Prep (10 minutes):
- Print copies of the Thought Distortions Chart and the Problem-Solving Steps Worksheet.
- Review Isabella’s past reflections on triggers and strategies.
- Arrange a quiet spot for discussion and role-play.
Instructions:
- Life Check-In & Review (5 min)
- Ask Isabella what went well or was challenging since last time.
- Review her Reflection Sheet: “How often did you practice visualization or self-talk?”
- Note any themes to tie into today’s lesson.
- Introduce Thought Distortions (10 min)
- Distribute the Thought Distortions Chart.
- Define 4–5 common distortions (e.g., All-or-Nothing Thinking, Catastrophizing, Mind Reading).
- Work through one recent anxious situation together: identify any distortions in Isabella’s self-talk.
- Model “Detect–Dispute–Replace”: detect the distortion, dispute it with evidence, replace it with a balanced thought.
- Problem-Solving Steps (10 min)
- Hand out the Problem-Solving Steps Worksheet, which outlines:
- Define the problem clearly.
- Brainstorm 3–5 possible solutions.
- Evaluate pros and cons of each.
- Choose one solution and plan steps.
- Review outcome after trying it.
- Guide Isabella through a real or hypothetical scenario (e.g., test anxiety): complete each step on her worksheet.
- Encourage her to use balanced self-talk from the previous activity when evaluating options.
- Hand out the Problem-Solving Steps Worksheet, which outlines:
- Reflection & Goal Setting (5 min)
- Give Isabella the Session 5 Reflection Sheet.
- Ask her to rate how confident she feels using thought-challenging and problem-solving (0–5).
- Have her note one “easy” aspect and one “tricky” aspect for each skill.
- Collaboratively set a plan: “I will use Detect–Dispute–Replace on one anxious thought before bed each night.”
- Remind her to track her practice on the reflection sheet.
Session 5 Reflection Sheet
Name: _______________________________ Date: _______________
1. Confidence Ratings
On a scale of 0 (not confident) to 5 (very confident), how do you feel using each skill?
| Skill | Confidence (0–5) |
|---|---|
| Detecting Thought Distortions | _____ |
| Problem-Solving Steps | _____ |
2. Reflections: Easy & Tricky
Thought Distortions
What felt easy?
What felt tricky?
Problem-Solving Steps
What felt easy?
What felt tricky?
3. Practice Plan
Which skill will you practice this week? When and how will you do it?
Keep this sheet to track your practice and bring it to our next session.
Session 5 Word-for-Word Script
1. Life Check-In & Review (5 min)
Teacher: “Hi Isabella, welcome back! Tell me about your week—what went well, and what felt challenging?”
[Listen actively and reflect: “I hear you practiced visualization before bed—how did that feel?”]
2. Introduce Thought Distortions (10 min)
Teacher: “Today we’ll learn about thought distortions—patterns in our thinking that can make us feel more anxious. Here’s a Thought Distortions Chart.”
[Show Chart].
Teacher: “Let’s pick a situation when you felt worried—maybe before a test. What was the thought in your head?”
[Isabella responds].
Teacher: “Great. I notice that thought might be Catastrophizing—expecting the worst. We’ll Detect the distortion, Dispute it with evidence, and Replace it. What evidence do you have that you’ve prepared for tests before?”
[Guide her through each step].
3. Problem-Solving Steps (10 min)
Teacher: “Next, we’ll use a problem-solving model to tackle a stressor step by step. Here’s the worksheet.”
[Hand out Problem-Solving Steps Worksheet].
Teacher: “Our problem: feeling very anxious before presentations. Define it in one sentence.”
[Pause].
Teacher: “Now brainstorm at least three possible solutions—no judgment.”
[Record ideas].
Teacher: “Let’s look at pros and cons of each. Which seems most realistic?”
[Help pick one and plan details].
4. Reflection & Goal Setting (5 min)
Teacher: “You did excellent work today. Let’s fill out your Reflection Sheet.”
[Hand sheet].
Teacher: “Rate your confidence using each skill and note what felt easy or tricky. Then choose one skill and plan when you’ll use it this week.”
[Confirm plan].
Teacher: “I’m proud of your effort. Keep tracking, and we’ll review next time!”
Session 6 Lesson Plan
Objective: Strengthen self-advocacy and social support skills by mapping a trusted network and practicing help-seeking conversations.
Why: Having a clear support plan and knowing how to ask for help reduces feelings of isolation and empowers Isabella to use external resources when anxiety escalates.
Approach: Reflection mapping, guided role-play, and structured feedback.
Audience: 12th Grade Individual Counseling
Time: 30 minutes
Materials:
- Support Network Mapping Sheet (printable)
- Role-Play Prompt Cards (printable)
- Session 6 Reflection Sheet
- Comfortable Seating Area
- Classroom Timer
Prep (10 minutes):
- Print Support Network Map and Prompt Cards.
- Arrange chairs for role-play.
- Review Isabella’s past notes on people she trusts.
Instructions:
- Life Check-In & Review (5 min)
- Ask Isabella about her practice of thought-challenging and problem-solving.
- Validate successes and address any hurdles.
- Support Network Mapping (10 min)
- Distribute the Support Network Mapping Sheet.
- Invite Isabella to list people she trusts (family, friends, teachers, counselors).
- For each person, note when and how she could reach out (e.g., “Text Ms. Lee when I feel overwhelmed in class”).
- Help-Seeking Role-Play (10 min)
- Use the Role-Play Prompt Cards. Each card describes a scenario (e.g., feeling anxious before a group project).
- Isabella picks one card and practices asking her “support person” for help.
- Role-play both parts—teacher models first, then Isabella practices. Offer feedback on clarity and assertiveness.
- Reflection & Goal Setting (5 min)
- Hand out the Session 6 Reflection Sheet.
- Ask Isabella to rate comfort with mapping and role-play (0–5) and note any easy/tricky parts.
- Plan a real help-seeking action this week (e.g., “Email my counselor on Wednesday at lunchtime”).
- Remind her to record the outcome on her sheet.
Session 6 Reflection Sheet
Name: _______________________________ Date: _______________
1. Comfort Ratings
Rate from 0 (uncomfortable) to 5 (very comfortable) how you felt during:
| Activity | Comfort (0–5) |
|---|---|
| Support Network Mapping | _____ |
| Help-Seeking Role-Play | _____ |
2. Reflections: Easy & Tricky
Support Mapping
What felt easy?
What felt tricky?
Help-Seeking Role-Play
What felt easy?
What felt tricky?
3. Practice Plan
What help-seeking action will you try this week? When and how will you do it?
Keep this sheet to track your action and bring it to our next session.
Session 6 Word-for-Word Script
1. Life Check-In & Review (5 min)
Teacher: “Welcome back, Isabella! How did it go using Detect–Dispute–Replace and problem-solving this week?”
[Listen and reflect].
2. Support Network Mapping (10 min)
Teacher: “Today we’ll map your support network. Who are the people you trust?”
[Hand out Mapping Sheet].
Teacher: “Write their names and how you might reach out if you need help.”
[Guide her].
3. Help-Seeking Role-Play (10 min)
Teacher: “Now let’s practice asking for help. Here are Prompt Cards with scenarios.”
[Show cards].
Teacher: “I’ll model first: ‘Ms. Lee, I’ve been feeling really anxious about my grades—could we meet after class?’ Now it’s your turn.”
[Role-play and give feedback].
4. Reflection & Goal Setting (5 min)
Teacher: “You did great! Fill out your Reflection Sheet—rate each activity and note easy vs. tricky parts.”
[Hand sheet].
Teacher: “Plan one real action this week—when and how you’ll reach out. Let’s be specific.”
[Confirm plan].
Teacher: “I’m proud of your progress. I’ll see you next session!”
Progress Monitoring Pre-Test
Name: _______________________________ Date: _______________
- Rate how often you currently use each strategy when you feel anxious (0 = never, 5 = always):
| Strategy | Use (0–5) |
|---|---|
| Deep Breathing | ____ |
| Grounding (5-4-3-2-1) | ____ |
| Positive Self-Talk | ____ |
| Progressive Muscle Relaxation | ____ |
| Visualization | ____ |
| Mindful Walking | ____ |
| Thought Challenging | ____ |
| Problem-Solving Steps | ____ |
| Help-Seeking | ____ |
- Match each strategy to its description (draw a line or write the letter):
A. Focusing on five things you can see, four you can touch…
B. Tensing and relaxing muscle groups one by one…
C. Naming a calm, safe place in your mind…
D. Talking back to unhelpful thoughts with evidence…
E. Taking slow, counted inhales and exhales…
- ___ Deep Breathing 2. ___ Grounding 3. ___ PMR 4. ___ Visualization 5. ___ Thought Challenging
- Describe one situation that makes you feel anxious and rate your current anxiety level in it (0 = none, 5 = very high). Then list which strategy you think would help most.
Situation:
Anxiety Level (0–5): ____
Strategy to Try: ____________________
This pre-test will help us track your growth over the counseling series.
Progress Monitoring Post-Test
Name: _______________________________ Date: _______________
- Rate how often you used each strategy since our first session (0 = never, 5 = always):
| Strategy | Use (0–5) |
|---|---|
| Deep Breathing | ____ |
| Grounding (5-4-3-2-1) | ____ |
| Positive Self-Talk | ____ |
| Progressive Muscle Relaxation | ____ |
| Visualization | ____ |
| Mindful Walking | ____ |
| Thought Challenging | ____ |
| Problem-Solving Steps | ____ |
| Help-Seeking | ____ |
- Match each strategy to a real example of when you used it (briefly describe):
- Deep Breathing: ___________________________
- Grounding: _______________________________
- PMR: _____________________________________
- Visualization: ___________________________
- Positive Self-Talk: _______________________
- Thought Challenging: ______________________
- Problem-Solving: _________________________
- Help-Seeking: ____________________________
- Mindful Walking: __________________________
- How has your anxiety level changed in the situation you described on the pre-test? What felt most helpful overall?
Thank you for completing the post-test. Your progress is something to celebrate!
Worksheet
Progress Monitoring Pre-Test
Name: ________________________________ Date: ________________
1. Frequency of Strategy Use
How often do you currently use each coping strategy when you feel anxious? Circle one option (A–E).
| Strategy | A Never | B Rarely | C Sometimes | D Often | E Always |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1. Deep Breathing | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ |
| 2. Grounding (5-4-3-2-1) | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ |
| 3. Positive Self-Talk | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ |
| 4. Progressive Muscle Relaxation | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ |
| 5. Visualization | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ |
| 6. Mindful Walking | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ |
| 7. Thought Challenging | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ |
| 8. Problem-Solving Steps | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ |
| 9. Help-Seeking | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ |
2. Match Strategies to Descriptions
Write the letter (A–I) that best matches each strategy number. The descriptions below are shuffled.
- Deep Breathing: ____
- Grounding (5-4-3-2-1): ____
- Positive Self-Talk: ____
- Progressive Muscle Relaxation: ____
- Visualization: ____
- Mindful Walking: ____
- Thought Challenging: ____
- Problem-Solving Steps: ____
- Help-Seeking: ____
A. Replacing negative self-statements with encouraging phrases.
B. Listing potential solutions and creating an action plan.
C. Counting breaths while inhaling and exhaling slowly.
D. Tightening and releasing muscle tension step by step.
E. Observing five things you see, four you touch, three you hear, etc.
F. Walking mindfully, noticing each step and surroundings.
G. Identifying unhelpful thoughts and evaluating their accuracy.
H. Requesting assistance from someone you trust.
I. Imagining a calming scene and engaging your senses.
3. Strategy for a Nervous Presentation
Facing an upcoming oral presentation that makes you nervous, which strategy would be most helpful? Circle one.
• Thought Challenging
• Visualization
• Mindful Walking
• Grounding (5-4-3-2-1)
• Progressive Muscle Relaxation
• Help-Seeking
• Deep Breathing
• Positive Self-Talk
• Problem-Solving Steps
Use this pre-test to help us track your starting point. Keep it for your records.
Worksheet
Progress Monitoring Post-Test
Name: _______________________________ Date: ________________
1. Frequency of Strategy Use
How often did you use each coping strategy since our first session? Circle one option (A–E).
| Strategy | A Never | B Rarely | C Sometimes | D Often | E Always |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1. Deep Breathing | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ |
| 2. Grounding (5-4-3-2-1) | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ |
| 3. Positive Self-Talk | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ |
| 4. Progressive Muscle Relaxation | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ |
| 5. Visualization | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ |
| 6. Mindful Walking | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ |
| 7. Thought Challenging | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ |
| 8. Problem-Solving Steps | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ |
| 9. Help-Seeking | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ |
2. Match Strategies to Descriptions
Write the letter (A–I) that best matches each strategy number. The descriptions below are shuffled.
- Deep Breathing: ____
- Grounding (5-4-3-2-1): ____
- Positive Self-Talk: ____
- Progressive Muscle Relaxation: ____
- Visualization: ____
- Mindful Walking: ____
- Thought Challenging: ____
- Problem-Solving Steps: ____
- Help-Seeking: ____
A. Replacing negative self-statements with encouraging phrases.
B. Listing potential solutions and creating an action plan.
C. Counting breaths while inhaling and exhaling slowly.
D. Tightening and releasing muscle tension step by step.
E. Observing five things you see, four you touch, three you hear, etc.
F. Walking mindfully, noticing each step and surroundings.
G. Identifying unhelpful thoughts and evaluating their accuracy.
H. Requesting assistance from someone you trust.
I. Imagining a calming scene and engaging your senses.
3. Strategy for a Nervous Presentation
Facing an upcoming oral presentation that makes you nervous, which strategy would be most helpful? Circle one.
• Deep Breathing • Grounding (5-4-3-2-1) • Positive Self-Talk
• Progressive Muscle Relaxation • Visualization • Mindful Walking
• Thought Challenging • Problem-Solving Steps • Help-Seeking
Use this post-test to reflect on your strategy use and track your growth.