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Cool Down Toolkit

Yvonne Brown

Tier 3

Worksheet

Positive Self-Talk Visual Guide

Our thoughts have power! Positive self-talk means talking to yourself in a kind and encouraging way. It helps you feel more confident and can change how you react to challenges.

Why is Positive Self-Talk Important?

  • Boosts Confidence: Helps you believe in yourself.
  • Reduces Stress: Calms anxious feelings.
  • Improves Problem-Solving: Helps you think clearly when things are tough.
  • Increases Resilience: Helps you bounce back from setbacks.

How to Turn Negative Thoughts into Positive "I Am" Statements

When you catch yourself thinking something negative, pause and try to reframe it into a positive "I Am" statement.

Negative ThoughtPositive "I Am" Statement
I can't do this.I am capable and I will try my best.
This is too hard.I am strong and I can learn new things.
I made a mistake.I am learning and growing from my mistakes.
No one understands me.I am important and my feelings matter.
I'm going to fail.I am prepared and I can succeed.

Practice Your Own Positive Statements

Think about a time you felt frustrated or worried. What was a negative thought you had? How can you turn it into a positive "I Am" statement?

Negative thought: __________________________________________




Positive "I Am" statement: __________________________________



Remember: Your thoughts are powerful. Choose positive ones to help you feel your best!

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Lesson Plan

Session 1 Lesson Plan

Provide clear, clickable file links to both the deep breathing guide and worksheet so the teacher and Julian can download and use them immediately.

Quick-access links ensure no time is lost hunting for resources during the 30-minute session, maximizing practice time.

Audience

6th Grade Student

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Direct file links

Materials

  • Deep Breathing Visual Guide (PDF), - Deep Breathing Practice Worksheet (PDF), - Rolled Sock (tactile breathing cue alternative), and - Visual Timer

Prep

Review and Prep Materials

5 minutes

  • Download and print:
    • Deep Breathing Visual Guide (PDF)
    • Deep Breathing Practice Worksheet (PDF)
  • Prepare a rolled sock or plan to use a hand-on-belly cue during practice
  • Set up visual timer so it’s visible to Julian
  • Review session goals and anticipate potential distractions

Step 1

Warm-Up Check-In

5 minutes

  • Greet Julian and ask how he’s feeling today
  • Use a feelings chart to label any emotions
  • Discuss: “When do you feel overwhelmed or upset?”

Step 2

Introduce Deep Breathing

5 minutes

  • Present the Deep Breathing Visual Guide (PDF)
  • Explain belly (diaphragmatic) vs chest breathing
  • Model a 4-4-6 breath: inhale for 4, hold for 4, exhale for 6
  • Invite Julian to try one round while watching the guide

Step 3

Multisensory Practice

10 minutes

  • Offer a rolled sock or instruct Julian to place one hand on his belly:
    • Squeeze the sock on inhale, release on exhale
    • Or feel the belly rise and fall with the hand
  • Guide him through 3–5 breaths using this cue
  • Have him trace breath paths on the Deep Breathing Practice Worksheet (PDF)
  • Use the visual timer to pace each cycle

Step 4

Role-Play Scenarios

5 minutes

  • Present two scenarios (e.g., frustrated with homework; upset after a disagreement)
  • Ask Julian to take 2 deep breaths before responding
  • Coach him to say, “I need a moment to breathe” or “I’m feeling upset, I need help”
  • Provide positive feedback and gentle corrections

Step 5

Cool-Down Reflection

5 minutes

  • Ask Julian how deep breathing made him feel
  • Have him draw or color one feeling on his worksheet
  • Set a goal: Identify 3 times today to use deep breathing
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Slide Deck

Session 1: Deep Breathing

Let’s learn a simple breathing technique to help calm our mind and body.

Welcome Julian! Today we’re starting Session 1 on deep breathing. Explain that this is an introduction to a tool he can use anytime he feels overwhelmed.

Warm-Up Check-In

• How are you feeling today?
• Point to your emotion on the feelings chart.
• When do you feel overwhelmed or upset?

Use a feelings chart to check in. Ask Julian to point or name how he feels and share a time he’s felt that way. Keep the tone warm and supportive.

What Is Deep Breathing?

Deep breathing (belly breathing) helps reduce stress by filling your lungs from the bottom.
Watch the visual guide and try one round with me:
Deep Breathing Visual Guide

Introduce belly (diaphragmatic) breathing vs chest breathing. Model a 4-4-6 cycle: inhale for 4, hold for 4, exhale for 6. Encourage Julian to follow your lead.

Multisensory Practice

• Squeeze the stress ball as you inhale, release as you exhale.
• Let’s do 3–5 rounds together (use the visual timer).
• Then, trace breath paths here:
Deep Breathing Practice Worksheet

Hand him the stress ball and guide each inhale/exhale with a slow count. Use the timer to keep a steady pace. After practice, give him the worksheet to trace breath paths.

Role-Play Scenarios

Scenario 1: You’re frustrated with homework.
Scenario 2: You’re upset after a disagreement.
Practice:

  1. Take 2 deep breaths.
  2. Say “I need a moment to breathe” or “I need help.”

Read each scenario aloud and pause. Prompt Julian: “Take two deep breaths, then respond.” Praise attempts and offer gentle corrections.

Reflection & Goal Setting

How did deep breathing make you feel?
Draw or color one feeling on your worksheet.
Set a goal: Identify 3 times today you will use deep breathing.

Ask Julian to reflect in words or drawings. Guide him to choose three moments today to use deep breathing. Reinforce follow-up for next session.

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Lesson Plan

Session 2 Lesson Plan

Introduce Julian to positive self-talk and “I am” statements by modeling, practicing, and applying affirming phrases in role-play to help him reframe negative thoughts and communicate confidence in 4 out of 5 guided scenarios.

Positive self-talk boosts self-esteem, reduces anxious thoughts, and gives students with ADHD a tool to counter distractions or frustration. Building this skill helps Julian maintain focus and confidence when challenges arise.

Audience

6th Grade Student

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Visual modeling, worksheet practice, and role-play

Materials

  • Positive Self-Talk Visual Guide, - Positive Self-Talk Practice Worksheet, - “I Am” Statement Cards, - Highlighters, and - Visual Timer

Prep

Prepare Materials

5 minutes

  • Print or assemble:
    • Positive Self-Talk Visual Guide
    • Positive Self-Talk Practice Worksheet
    • “I Am” Statement Cards
  • Gather highlighters and set up visual timer so it’s visible to Julian
  • Review last session’s deep breathing goal and note any observations
  • Arrange space for role-play practice, minimizing distractions

Step 1

Warm-Up Check-In

5 minutes

  • Greet Julian and ask how he practiced deep breathing since last session
  • Use a quick feelings check: “On a scale of 1–5, how confident do you feel right now?”
  • Briefly discuss any successes or challenges he faced

Step 2

Introduce Positive Self-Talk

5 minutes

  • Present the Positive Self-Talk Visual Guide
  • Explain that our thoughts can help or hurt us; show examples of negative vs. positive statements
  • Model an “I am” statement: e.g., “I am capable of solving this problem”
  • Invite Julian to create one simple “I am” statement aloud

Step 3

Worksheet Practice

10 minutes

  • Give Julian the Positive Self-Talk Practice Worksheet
  • Ask him to highlight negative thoughts in one column and rewrite them positively in the other
  • Provide “I Am” Statement Cards for inspiration
  • Support him verbally and visually as he completes at least 3 rewritten statements
  • Use the visual timer to pace the activity

Step 4

Role-Play Scenarios

5 minutes

  • Present two scenarios (e.g., feeling stuck on a test; worried about presenting to classmates)
  • Ask Julian to read the scenario, name a negative thought, then take 2 deep breaths
  • Have him respond using an “I am” statement (e.g., “I am prepared,” “I can do this”)
  • Provide encouraging feedback and model corrections as needed

Step 5

Reflection & Goal Setting

5 minutes

  • Ask Julian which “I am” statement felt most helpful and why
  • Encourage him to draw or write one feeling word on the worksheet
  • Set a goal: choose one moment today to use positive self-talk aloud
  • Remind him you’ll review this goal next session
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Worksheet

Positive Self-Talk Practice Worksheet

It's time to practice turning those tricky negative thoughts into powerful positive "I Am" statements! This worksheet will help you get good at it.

Part 1: Catch & Flip Your Thoughts

Think about times you've felt frustrated, worried, or unsure. What negative thoughts did you have? Write them down, then challenge yourself to change them into positive "I Am" statements!

Negative Thought I HadPositive "I Am" Statement (How I'll reframe it!)
1. ______________________________________1. I am __________________________________________






2. ______________________________________2. I am __________________________________________






3. ______________________________________3. I am __________________________________________






4. ______________________________________4. I am __________________________________________






Part 2: My Favorite "I Am" Statements

Which positive "I Am" statements make you feel the strongest or most confident? Write down your top three below.

  1. I am ____________________________________________________



  2. I am ____________________________________________________



  3. I am ____________________________________________________



Part 3: When Will I Use My Power?

Think about today or tomorrow. When is a good time you can use one of your positive "I Am" statements? Describe the situation and what you'll say.

Situation: __________________________________________________________________




What I'll say: ______________________________________________________________



Remember: You are amazing, and your thoughts can help you shine!

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Activity

“I Am” Statement Cards

Cut out these cards and keep them where you can see them! Use them to remind yourself how strong, capable, and amazing you are.


Card 1

I am capable.

I can learn and grow from challenges.


Card 2

I am focused.

I can pay attention and complete my tasks.


Card 3

I am calm.

I can take deep breaths and relax.


Card 4

I am strong.

I can handle difficult feelings.


Card 5

I am smart.

I can understand new things and solve problems.


Card 6

I am patient.

I can wait and think before I act.


Card 7

I am enough.

I am valued for who I am.


Card 8

I am a good friend.

I listen and care about others.


My Own “I Am” Card

Draw or write your own powerful statement!

I am __________________________________








Remember, Julian, these words are your superpower!

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Slide Deck

Session 2: Positive Self-Talk

Today we’ll learn how to catch negative thoughts and turn them into positive “I am” statements to boost our confidence.

Welcome Julian! Today is Session 2 on Positive Self-Talk. Explain that we’ll learn how to use “I am” statements to feel more confident when things get tough.

Warm-Up Check-In

• How many times did you use deep breathing since last session?
• On a scale of 1–5, how confident do you feel right now?
• Share one success or challenge you had.

Check in on last session’s goal. Ask Julian how often he used deep breathing and how confident he feels now.

What Is Positive Self-Talk?

• Our thoughts can help or hurt us.
• Negative vs. positive:
– “I can’t do this” → “I am learning and growing”
• Watch the guide and create an “I am” statement with me:
“I am capable of solving this problem.”
Positive Self-Talk Visual Guide

Introduce the concept of self-talk. Show examples on the visual guide and model changing a negative thought to a positive one.

Worksheet Practice

• Open the Positive Self-Talk Practice Worksheet.
• Highlight one negative thought in the left column.
• Rewrite it as a positive “I am” statement in the right column.
• Use the “I Am” Statement Cards for ideas.
• Complete at least 3 statements (use the visual timer).

Hand Julian the worksheet and statement cards. Guide him to highlight and rewrite; support pacing with the timer.

Role-Play Scenarios

Scenario 1: You’re stuck on a test question.
Scenario 2: You feel nervous about speaking up in class.
Practice steps:

  1. Name the negative thought.
  2. Take 2 deep breaths.
  3. Respond with an “I am” statement (e.g., “I am prepared,” “I can try my best”).

Read each scenario clearly. Prompt Julian to name the negative thought, take 2 deep breaths, then respond with an “I am” statement.

Reflection & Goal Setting

• Which “I am” statement felt most helpful and why?
• Draw or write one word to describe how it made you feel.
• Goal: Choose one moment today to use positive self-talk aloud.
• Reminder: We’ll review your goal next session.

Encourage reflection on which statement felt strongest. Help him set a small, specific goal for the day.

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Lesson Plan

Session 3 Lesson Plan

Teach Julian the Stop-and-Think problem-solving method by modeling each step, practicing with scenario cards and tokens, and applying it on a worksheet to manage overwhelming situations in 4 out of 5 practice scenarios.

Stop-and-Think helps students with ADHD pause before reacting, organize their thoughts, and choose positive actions. Building this structured strategy supports Julian’s self-regulation, problem-solving, and effective communication of needs.

Audience

6th Grade Student

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Visual modeling, guided practice, worksheet application

Materials

  • Stop-and-Think Step Chart, - Problem-Solving Worksheet, - Stop-and-Think Scenario Cards, - Token or Counting Cubes, and - Visual Timer

Prep

Prepare Materials

5 minutes

  • Print or assemble:
    • Stop-and-Think Step Chart
    • Problem-Solving Worksheet
    • Stop-and-Think Scenario Cards
  • Gather tokens or counting cubes for tracking steps
  • Set up visual timer so it’s visible to Julian
  • Review last session’s positive self-talk goal and note observations
  • Arrange quiet space with minimal distractions

Step 1

Warm-Up Check-In

5 minutes

  • Greet Julian and ask how often he used positive self-talk since last session
  • Use a quick feelings check: “On a scale of 1–5, how calm do you feel right now?”
  • Briefly discuss any successes or challenges with self-talk

Step 2

Introduce Stop-and-Think

5 minutes

  • Present the Stop-and-Think Step Chart
  • Explain the five steps:
    1. Stop
    2. Breathe
    3. Identify Feeling
    4. Think of Solutions
    5. Act
  • Model each step with a simple example (e.g., feeling frustrated when a pencil breaks)

Step 3

Guided Practice with Tokens

10 minutes

  • Give Julian a token or cube and the Stop-and-Think Scenario Cards
  • Read Scenario 1 aloud (e.g., “You’re annoyed when your friend interrupts you.”)
  • Ask him to place the token on Step 1 (Stop), then verbally guide him through Steps 2–5
  • Repeat with Scenario 2, prompting him to move the token and speak each step
  • Use the visual timer to keep each scenario under 3 minutes

Step 4

Worksheet Application

5 minutes

  • Hand Julian the Problem-Solving Worksheet
  • Guide him to complete one scenario by filling columns for Feeling, Solutions, and Chosen Action
  • Offer visual cues and verbal prompts as needed
  • Use the timer to pace worksheet completion

Step 5

Reflection & Goal Setting

5 minutes

  • Ask Julian how using Stop-and-Think felt compared to reacting immediately
  • Encourage him to draw or write one word describing his experience
  • Set a goal: identify one time today to use Stop-and-Think before reacting
  • Remind him you’ll review this goal next session
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Slide Deck

Session 3: Stop-and-Think Problem-Solving

Today we will learn a five-step method to pause, calm down, and solve problems when we feel upset or distracted.

Welcome Julian! Today we’re diving into Session 3 to learn the Stop-and-Think problem-solving method. Explain that this tool helps us pause and choose positive actions when we feel overwhelmed.

Warm-Up Check-In

• How many times did you use positive self-talk since last session?
• On a scale of 1–5, how calm do you feel right now?
• Share one success or challenge with using self-talk.

Connect to last session: self-talk. Ask Julian how often he used positive self-talk and how calm he feels now to bridge into today’s strategy.

What Is Stop-and-Think?

The Stop-and-Think method helps you pause and choose a good action.

  1. Stop
  2. Breathe
  3. Identify Feeling
  4. Think of Solutions
  5. Act
    Stop-and-Think Step Chart

Introduce each step on the chart. Point to each number and briefly explain what it means. Use a simple example (e.g., pencil breaks).

Guided Practice with Tokens

• Read a scenario from the cards.
• Place a token on each step as we move through:

  1. Stop
  2. Breathe
  3. Identify Feeling
  4. Think of Solutions
  5. Act
    • Practice with these cards:
    Stop-and-Think Scenario Cards

Hand Julian a token and the scenario cards. Model one scenario fully, then let him guide the steps by moving the token.

Worksheet Application

• Open the Problem-Solving Worksheet.
• Complete one scenario:
– Write your Feeling
– List possible Solutions
– Choose one Action
• Use the timer to keep on track.

Guide Julian through filling out the worksheet columns. Encourage neat writing and offer prompts when needed.

Reflection & Goal Setting

• How did using Stop-and-Think feel compared to reacting right away?
• Draw or write one word to describe your experience.
• Goal: Find one moment today to use Stop-and-Think before reacting.

Ask Julian to reflect on the process and set a real-world goal. Emphasize using Stop-and-Think today.

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Lesson Plan

Session 4 Lesson Plan

Teach Julian the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique to help him focus on sensory input when feeling overwhelmed, and have him practice it through a multisensory scavenger hunt and reflection.

Grounding exercises reduce anxiety by shifting attention to the present moment. For students with ADHD, using all five senses can quickly refocus the mind and calm overwhelming feelings.

Audience

6th Grade Student

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Sensory exploration and structured reflection

Materials

  • Grounding Visual Guide, - Grounding Scavenger Hunt Worksheet, - Assorted tactile items (e.g., fabric swatches, stress ball), - Scented materials (e.g., lavender sachet), and - Visual Timer

Prep

Prepare Materials

5 minutes

  • Print or assemble:
    • Grounding Visual Guide
    • Grounding Scavenger Hunt Worksheet
  • Gather tactile items (fabric swatches, stress ball)
  • Prepare scented materials (lavender sachet, citrus peel)
  • Place items in a small basket or bag for easy access
  • Set up visual timer so it’s visible to Julian
  • Review last session’s Stop-and-Think goal and note observations
  • Arrange a quiet space for the scavenger hunt

Step 1

Warm-Up Check-In

5 minutes

  • Greet Julian and ask if he used Stop-and-Think since last session
  • Quick feelings check: “On a scale of 1–5, how grounded do you feel right now?”
  • Briefly discuss any successes or challenges he faced

Step 2

Introduce Grounding Technique

5 minutes

  • Present the Grounding Visual Guide
  • Explain the 5-4-3-2-1 method:
    • 5 things you see
    • 4 things you can touch
    • 3 things you hear
    • 2 things you smell
    • 1 thing you taste
  • Model each step with items in the room

Step 3

Multisensory Scavenger Hunt

10 minutes

  • Give Julian the basket of tactile and scented items and the Grounding Scavenger Hunt Worksheet
  • Instruct him to:
    • List 5 visual items around the area
    • Identify and note 4 textures by touch
    • Record 3 sounds he hears
    • Describe 2 scents and their sources
    • Taste 1 safe item (e.g., mint) and note its flavor
  • Use the visual timer to pace each section (~2 minutes each)

Step 4

Practice Grounding

5 minutes

  • Guide Julian through naming each of his findings aloud in order (5-4-3-2-1)
  • Encourage him to take a deep breath between each sense
  • Provide positive feedback and gentle redirection as needed

Step 5

Reflection & Goal Setting

5 minutes

  • Ask Julian how the grounding exercise made him feel
  • Encourage him to draw or write one feeling on his worksheet
  • Set a goal: identify one moment today to use the grounding technique
  • Remind him you’ll review this goal next session
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Slide Deck

Session 4: 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding

Today we’ll learn a quick way to use our five senses to calm our mind and body when we feel upset or distracted.

Welcome Julian! Today is Session 4 on grounding techniques. Explain that we’ll use our five senses to help us feel calm and focused when we’re overwhelmed.

Warm-Up Check-In

• Did you use Stop-and-Think since last session?
• On a scale of 1–5, how grounded do you feel right now?
• Share one success or challenge you had.

Connect to last session’s goal. Ask Julian if he used Stop-and-Think and how grounded he feels now to transition into today’s technique.

What Is Grounding?

We’ll use the 5-4-3-2-1 method to focus on what’s around us:
• 5 things you see
• 4 things you can touch
• 3 things you hear
• 2 things you smell
• 1 thing you taste
Grounding Visual Guide

Introduce each sense step with the visual guide. Point to the chart and model an example for each sense.

Multisensory Scavenger Hunt

• Grab the basket of items and your Scavenger Hunt Worksheet.
• List 5 things you see.
• Identify 4 textures by touch.
• Record 3 sounds you hear.
• Describe 2 scents.
• Taste 1 safe item (e.g., mint) and note its flavor.
(Use the timer: ~2 minutes per sense.)

Explain the scavenger hunt step by step. Hand him the basket and worksheet, then guide him through timing each section.

Practice Grounding

Let’s go through your findings:

  1. Name 5 things you saw.
  2. Name 4 things you touched.
  3. Name 3 things you heard.
  4. Name 2 scents you noticed.
  5. Name 1 thing you tasted.
    Take a deep breath between each step.

After he completes the hunt, guide him to name each finding aloud in order. Encourage deep breaths between each sense.

Reflection & Goal Setting

• How did the grounding exercise make you feel?
• Draw or write one feeling on your worksheet.
• Goal: Find one time today to use 5-4-3-2-1 grounding when you feel overwhelmed.

Encourage him to reflect on how he feels after grounding. Help him set a goal for using the technique today.

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Lesson Plan

Session 5 Lesson Plan

Teach Julian to recognize when he needs a break, select a calming activity using Break Cards, and plan and log a brief break with a structured checklist to support calm returns in 4 out of 5 guided scenarios.

Planned breaks help students with ADHD pause before frustration escalates and refocus. A clear break-taking strategy empowers Julian to self-manage overwhelm and re-enter tasks calmly.

Audience

6th Grade Student

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Modeling, hands-on practice, and planning

Materials

  • Break Strategy Visual Guide, - Break Cards, - Break Checklist Worksheet, - Visual Timer, and - Colored Markers

Prep

Prepare Materials

5 minutes

  • Print or assemble:
    • Break Strategy Visual Guide
    • Break Cards
    • Break Checklist Worksheet
  • Gather a visual timer and colored markers
  • Review last session’s grounding goal and note observations
  • Designate a quiet break spot or area in the room

Step 1

Warm-Up Check-In

5 minutes

  • Greet Julian and ask if he used the grounding technique since last session
  • Use a quick scale: “On a scale of 1–5, how refreshed or focused do you feel right now?”
  • Briefly discuss any successes or challenges he experienced

Step 2

Introduce Taking a Break

5 minutes

  • Present the Break Strategy Visual Guide
  • Explain why breaks help: pause, reset, refocus
  • Model the four-step process:
    1. Notice stress or overwhelm
    2. Choose a Break Card
    3. Take the break for a set time
    4. Use a return phrase (e.g., “Break’s over, I’m ready”)
  • Invite Julian to repeat each step aloud

Step 3

Practice Break Activity

10 minutes

  • Hand Julian the Break Cards
  • Ask him to pick one card and name the activity (e.g., stretch, draw, walk)
  • Set the visual timer for 2–3 minutes and have him do the activity
  • After the timer, prompt him to use a return phrase
  • Repeat with a second card if time allows, offering positive feedback

Step 4

Plan Your Break

5 minutes

  • Give Julian the Break Checklist Worksheet
  • Guide him to fill in:
    • Triggers that signal a break is needed
    • Chosen break activity
    • Break duration
    • Return-to-task phrase
  • Use colored markers for clarity and personalization

Step 5

Reflection & Goal Setting

5 minutes

  • Ask Julian how taking a planned break made him feel
  • Encourage him to draw or write one feeling word on the worksheet
  • Set a goal: identify one moment today to use his break plan
  • Remind him you’ll review this goal in the next session
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Slide Deck

Session 5: Taking a Break

Today we’ll learn how to notice when we need a break, pick a calming activity, and return to work feeling refreshed.

Welcome Julian! Today is Session 5 on taking a break. Explain that we’ll learn how to notice overwhelm, choose a calming activity, and come back ready to focus.

Warm-Up Check-In

• Did you use the grounding technique since last session?
• On a scale of 1–5, how refreshed or focused do you feel right now?
• Share one success or challenge you experienced.

Connect to last session’s grounding goal. Ask Julian to share if he used grounding and how he feels today as a warm-up.

What Is Taking a Break?

Taking a planned break can help you pause, reset, and refocus. Follow these steps:

  1. Notice stress or overwhelm
  2. Choose a Break Card
  3. Take the break for a set time
  4. Use a return phrase (e.g., “Break’s over, I’m ready”)
    Break Strategy Visual Guide

Introduce the four-step break process using the visual guide. Model each step and have Julian repeat it aloud.

Practice Break Activity

• Pick a card from the Break Cards.
• Name your chosen activity (e.g., stretch, draw, walk).
• Set the visual timer for 2–3 minutes and do the activity.
• When time’s up, say your return phrase.
• If time allows, try a second card.

Guide Julian to pick cards and practice short breaks. Use the timer and prompt him to say his return phrase when time is up.

Plan Your Break

• Open the Break Checklist Worksheet.
• Write down:
• Triggers that signal you need a break
• Chosen break activity
• Break duration
• Return-to-task phrase
• Use colored markers to personalize your plan.

Show how to plan a break using the checklist. Encourage Julian to personalize it with color and his own triggers.

Reflection & Goal Setting

• How did taking a planned break make you feel?
• Draw or write one feeling word on your worksheet.
• Goal: Find one moment today to use your break plan.

Encourage Julian to reflect and set a real-world goal for using his break plan today.

lenny

Lesson Plan

Session 6 Lesson Plan

Consolidate Julian’s learned coping strategies into a personalized visual toolkit poster; practice selecting and applying the right strategy for new scenarios; and set future goals for independent use.

Reviewing and organizing skills reinforces memory and builds confidence. A visual coping toolkit supports quick recall for a student with ADHD. Scenario practice and goal setting encourage real-world application and self-advocacy.

Audience

6th Grade Student

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Collaborative poster creation and scenario practice

Materials

  • Coping Toolkit Poster Template, - Strategy Selection Scenario Cards, - Future Goals Worksheet, - Chart Paper, - Colored Markers, - Tape, and - Visual Timer

Prep

Prepare Materials

5 minutes

  • Print or assemble:
    • Coping Toolkit Poster Template
    • Strategy Selection Scenario Cards
    • Future Goals Worksheet
  • Gather chart paper, colored markers, and tape
  • Set up visual timer where Julian can see it
  • Review notes from prior sessions on deep breathing, self-talk, Stop-and-Think, grounding, and breaks
  • Arrange a clear workspace for poster creation

Step 1

Warm-Up Review

5 minutes

  • Greet Julian and ask how often he used any coping strategy since the last session
  • Use a quick “confidence scale” (1–5) to measure how ready he feels to review
  • Briefly share one success story or challenge with using skills

Step 2

Strategy Review

5 minutes

  • Display the Coping Toolkit Poster Template
  • Invite Julian to name all strategies he’s learned (deep breathing, positive self-talk, Stop-and-Think, grounding, taking breaks)
  • As he names each, place a checkmark or small drawing in its section of the poster

Step 3

Create Your Toolkit

10 minutes

  • Give Julian the poster template, chart paper, markers, and tape
  • Guide him to:
    • Write or draw each strategy in its section
    • Add a simple icon or color to personalize (e.g., a balloon for breathing)
    • Decorate and label each part clearly
  • Use the visual timer to pace the activity (~8 minutes for filling, 2 minutes for decoration)

Step 4

Practice Strategy Selection

5 minutes

  • Hand Julian the Strategy Selection Scenario Cards
  • Read one card aloud (e.g., “You feel stuck on homework and upset.”)
  • Ask Julian to point on his poster to the strategy he’d use and explain why
  • Repeat with a second card, offering positive feedback and prompting as needed

Step 5

Reflection & Future Planning

5 minutes

  • Give Julian the Future Goals Worksheet
  • Guide him to:
    • Pick 2 strategies he will practice this week
    • Identify when and where he’ll use them (e.g., “At math time, I will take three deep breaths.”)
    • Write a reminder phrase for each
  • Encourage him to keep his poster visible and remind him you’ll celebrate progress in the future
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Slide Deck

Session 6: Your Coping Toolkit

Let’s gather all the skills—deep breathing, self-talk, Stop-and-Think, grounding, and breaks—into one visual toolkit.

Welcome Julian! Today is Session 6, where we’ll review all the strategies you’ve learned and create your personalized Coping Toolkit poster.

Warm-Up Review

• Which strategies did you use this week?
• On a scale of 1–5, how confident do you feel using them?
• Share one success or challenge you experienced.

Check in on Julian’s use of any coping strategies since the last session. Use a quick confidence scale to guide discussion.

Strategy Review

• Open the Coping Toolkit Poster Template.
• Name each strategy you’ve learned:
– Deep Breathing
– Positive Self-Talk
– Stop-and-Think
– Grounding Technique
– Taking Breaks

Display the poster template and invite Julian to name each strategy he’s learned. Mark each section as he recalls it.

Create Your Toolkit

  1. Write or draw each strategy in its section.
  2. Add a simple icon or color to personalize (e.g., a balloon for breathing).
  3. Decorate and label clearly.
  4. Use tape to place your poster where you’ll see it.

Guide Julian step-by-step as he fills in and decorates his toolkit poster with icons, colors, and labels.

Practice Strategy Selection

• Read a card from the Strategy Selection Scenario Cards.
• Point to the strategy you’d use and tell me why.
• Repeat with a second card.

Use scenario cards to practice selecting strategies. Ask Julian to point to the best strategy on his poster and explain why.

Reflection & Future Planning

• Open the Future Goals Worksheet.
• Pick 2 strategies to practice this week.
• Write when and where you’ll use each (e.g., “At math, I’ll take three deep breaths”).
• Add a reminder phrase for each.

Help Julian set concrete goals for independent use. Encourage him to keep the poster visible and refer to the worksheet.

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Worksheet

Deep Breathing Visual Guide

Follow these steps to practice belly (diaphragmatic) breathing. Use the pictures as a model and trace your own breath path below.

  1. Get Ready
    • Sit comfortably with your back straight.
    • Place one hand on your chest and one hand on your belly.

  2. Notice Chest vs. Belly
    • Take a normal breath in and out.
    • Observe which hand rises more: chest breaths lift the chest hand; belly breaths lift the belly hand.

  3. Inhale (4 Counts)
    • Breathe in slowly through your nose for a count of 4.
    • Feel only your belly hand rise like a balloon inflating.
    [→ 1…2…3…4]

  4. Hold (4 Counts)
    • Keep air in your lungs as you count slowly to 4.
    [→ 1…2…3…4]

  5. Exhale (6 Counts)
    • Let the air out slowly through your mouth for a count of 6.
    • Feel your belly hand fall as the balloon deflates.
    [→ 1…2…3…4…5…6]

  6. Repeat
    • Complete 3–5 total breaths, keeping your focus on the belly rise and fall.


Practice Your Breath Path

Draw or trace the path of each breath cycle below.

Inhale ↑↑↑↑ Hold □□□□ Exhale ↓↓↓↓↓↓ (3–5 times)









2. ________________________________________________________







3. ________________________________________________________






Tip: Squeeze a rolled sock or stress ball on the inhale and release on the exhale to help you feel each breath.

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Worksheet

Deep Breathing Practice Worksheet

Use this worksheet to practice belly breathing and notice how it helps you calm down.

1. Practice Your Breaths

Follow the 4-4-6 pattern:
• Inhale for 4 counts
• Hold for 4 counts
• Exhale for 6 counts

Cycle 1: Inhale…Hold…Exhale…









Cycle 2: Inhale…Hold…Exhale…









Cycle 3: Inhale…Hold…Exhale…








2. Notice What You Feel

Answer the questions below:

  1. Before I started breathing, I felt:






2. While breathing, I noticed my belly (circle one):
– Rising – Falling – Both rising and falling

  1. After completing 3 breaths, I felt:





3. When Will You Use Deep Breathing?

List three times today when you can use belly breathing to help you feel calm:





2. _____________________________________________________



3. _____________________________________________________


4. Quick Reflection

Draw or write one word that describes how you feel now:








Keep this worksheet handy. Use it whenever you need a moment to breathe and reset!

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