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Convo Connect

Lesson Plan

Chat Like a Pro

Students will identify and practice three core conversation skills—active listening, open-ended questions, and empathy—and apply them in peer interactions through guided role-play.

Conversational skills build social confidence and foster positive peer relationships, empowering students to communicate effectively both in and out of school.

Audience

7th Grade

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Model skills, guide practice, then reflect.

Materials

Prep

Prepare Materials

10 minutes

Step 1

Introduction

5 minutes

  • Welcome students and introduce the lesson objective.
  • Ask: “Why are good conversation skills important?” and elicit responses.
  • Highlight the three key skills: active listening, open-ended questions, and empathy.

Step 2

Mini-Lesson

10 minutes

  • Display definitions and examples of each skill on the board.
  • Model a short dialogue demonstrating poor vs. effective conversation.
  • Discuss specific phrases that show each skill in action.

Step 3

Role-Play Practice

10 minutes

  • Pair students and distribute two Role-Play Scenario Cards per pair.
  • Instruct pairs to take turns practicing the conversation using the three target skills.
  • Circulate, observe, and provide corrective feedback and encouragement.

Step 4

Reflection & Closing

5 minutes

  • Hand out Reflection Journal Template.
  • Ask students to write one strength and one area to improve regarding their conversation skills.
  • Invite volunteers to share reflections aloud.
  • Summarize key takeaways and encourage applying these skills outside of class.
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Slide Deck

Chat Like a Pro

Building Stronger Peer Connections Through Conversation Skills

• Today’s Goal: Learn and practice key conversation skills
• Audience: 7th Grade
• Time: 30 minutes

Welcome everyone! Introduce yourself and the lesson name. Explain that today we’ll learn three key conversation skills to help us chat like pros with our peers. Encourage students to participate and share their thoughts.

Lesson Objectives

By the end of today, you will be able to:

  1. Define Active Listening, Open-Ended Questions, and Empathy
  2. Recognize examples of each skill in conversation
  3. Practice these skills with a partner

Read each objective aloud. Clarify that by the end of the lesson they will be able to identify and use active listening, open-ended questions, and empathy in real conversations.

Why Conversation Skills Matter

• Build social confidence
• Strengthen friendships and peer relationships
• Navigate new situations with ease
• Show others you care and respect them

Ask students: “Why do you think good conversation skills matter?” Invite a few responses. Then highlight the points on the slide.

Skill 1: Active Listening

Definition:
• Giving full attention to the speaker

Examples:
• Nodding and making eye contact
• Saying “I hear you” or paraphrasing
• Avoiding interruptions

Explain that active listening means fully focusing on the speaker. Share that nodding, eye contact, and summarizing what you hear are key behaviors.

Skill 2: Open-Ended Questions

Definition:
• Questions that encourage detailed responses

Examples:
• “What was the best part of your weekend?”
• “How did that make you feel?”
• “Can you tell me more about…?”

Discuss how open-ended questions invite more than a yes/no answer. Provide a quick live demo: Ask one student a closed question, then an open one.

Skill 3: Empathy

Definition:
• Understanding and sharing another’s feelings

Examples:
• “I understand that must have been hard.”
• “It sounds like you were really excited.”
• “I’m here for you if you need to talk.”

Highlight that empathy means putting yourself in someone else’s shoes. Encourage students to think of times someone showed them empathy.

Model Conversation

Poor Conversation:
• A: “Did you have fun?”
• B: “Yeah.”
• A: “Cool.”

Effective Conversation:
• A: “What did you enjoy most today?” (Open-Ended)
• B: “I loved the art project!”
• A: “That sounds fun—tell me more about it.” (Active Listening + Open-Ended)
• B: “We painted landscape scenes.”
• A: “I can imagine how proud you feel.” (Empathy)

Walk through each column. Emphasize how the effective dialogue uses all three skills. Ask students to spot which skill appears where.

Role-Play Practice

  1. Pair up and pick two Role-Play Scenario Cards
  2. Take turns in each role (speaker & listener)
  3. Use Active Listening, Open-Ended Questions, and Empathy
  4. Spend 5 minutes per scenario, then switch

Explain the Role-Play Practice steps. Distribute Role-Play Scenario Cards. Remind students to use all three skills and swap roles midway.

Reflection & Closing

• Write one strength you showed in today’s practice
• Write one skill you’d like to improve
• Share a quick takeaway with a partner or the class

Hand out the Reflection Journal Template. Guide students to write one strength and one area for growth. Invite volunteers to share.

Keep the Conversation Going

• Practice with friends and family
• Notice when others use these skills
• Be intentional—small steps lead to big improvements

Thank you and happy chatting!

Thank the students for their participation. Encourage them to apply these skills today—during lunch, recess, or at home. Offer to answer any final questions.

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Lesson Plan

Convo Connect Life Skills

Students will learn and practice three simple conversation skills—listening, asking questions, and showing care—through picture-supported activities, short role-play, and group reflection.

Strong conversation skills help students connect with peers and adults, increasing independence and confidence in daily activities.

Audience

High School Special Education Life Skills (Lower-Functioning)

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Model with pictures, guided practice, and verbal reflection.

Materials

Prep

Prepare Visual Materials

10 minutes

Step 1

Warm-Up

5 minutes

  • Show one Simple Conversation Picture Card to the class
  • Ask: “What do you see? Who is talking?”
  • Students answer aloud; partner practices listening without interrupting

Step 2

Skill Review

10 minutes

  • Display three visuals: ear (Listening), question mark (Question), heart (Care)
  • Teacher models each: “I watch and listen,” “I ask, ‘How are you?’,” “I show I care.”
  • Students repeat the words and make the matching gesture

Step 3

Practice

10 minutes

  • Pair students and give each pair one Role-Play Scenario Card
  • Student A uses picture cards to ask one question; Student B listens and shows care
  • After 5 minutes, switch roles

Step 4

Reflection

5 minutes

  • Invite students to share one question they asked or one caring phrase they used
  • Praise their effort
  • Remind them to use listening, asking, and care skills during lunch or at home
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Slide Deck

Convo Connect Life Skills

Building real-world conversational skills to support independence, confidence, and community engagement

• Audience: High School Special Education Life Skills Class
• Time: 30 minutes
• Tier: Life Skills

Welcome everyone! Introduce yourself and the lesson name. Explain that today’s goal is to build conversational skills that help in everyday life—at school, work, and in the community.

Lesson Objectives

By the end of this lesson, you will be able to:

  1. Define Active Listening, Open-Ended Questions, and Empathy
  2. Identify examples of each skill in real-world contexts
  3. Practice these skills in role-plays and daily interactions

Read each objective aloud. Emphasize that these skills will help them communicate better in various settings like classrooms, cafes, and job interviews.

Warm-Up

• Pair up and select a prompt from Conversation Warm-Up Prompts
• Respond to your partner using clear, respectful communication
• Practice Active Listening and ask one Open-Ended Question

Distribute the Conversation Warm-Up Prompts. Encourage students to take turns and practice listening closely, then ask a follow-up question that invites more detail.

Skill 1: Active Listening

Definition: Giving full attention to the speaker

Examples in real life:
• Maintaining eye contact when talking with a teacher
• Nodding and summarizing steps when learning a new task at work
• Avoiding interruptions when a friend shares a concern

Explain that Active Listening is about fully focusing. Discuss why nodding, summarizing, and patience matter in daily conversations.

Skill 2: Open-Ended Questions

Definition: Questions that invite detailed responses

Examples in real life:
• “What steps did you follow to complete the assignment?”
• “How did you feel during your first day at your job?”
• “Can you tell me more about your weekend plans?”

Discuss how open-ended questions can start deeper conversations. Show examples from school, work, and social settings.

Skill 3: Empathy

Definition: Understanding and sharing another person’s feelings

Examples in real life:
• “I can see why that was challenging for you.”
• “It sounds like you were excited about the job interview.”
• “I’m here to help if you need to talk more.”

Highlight that Empathy builds trust. Ask students to share examples of when someone was empathetic to them.

Model Conversation

Scenario: Asking a Teacher for Help

Poor Conversation:
A: “Done with the assignment?”
B: “Yeah.”
A: “Cool.”

Effective Conversation:
A: “Could you help me understand the assignment requirements?” (Open-Ended)
B: “Sure. You need to research a topic, analyze your findings, and write your opinion.”
A: “Thanks—what are the key elements I should focus on?” (Active Listening + Open-Ended)
B: “Focus on clarity, evidence, and your personal insight.”
A: “I appreciate your guidance—it really helps.” (Empathy)

Walk through both versions. Ask students to identify each skill: open-ended question, active listening, empathy. Emphasize how the effective version makes the speaker feel supported.

Role-Play Practice

• Pair up and pick two Role-Play Scenario Cards
• Take turns as speaker and listener
• Use Active Listening, Open-Ended Questions, and Empathy
• Spend 5 minutes per scenario, then switch roles

Explain the steps. Distribute Role-Play Scenario Cards. Remind students to swap roles and practice each skill.

Reflection & Next Steps

• Complete your Reflection Journal Template
– Write one strength you demonstrated
– Write one skill to improve
• Share a key takeaway with the class

Keep practicing these skills: in class, at work, and in the community!

Hand out the Reflection Journal Template. Guide students to note strength and area for growth. Invite volunteers to share and encourage them to apply skills beyond today’s lesson.

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Worksheet

Conversation Skills Worksheet

Audience: High School Special Education Life Skills Class

Part 1: Definitions (In your own words)

Write each definition as it applies to real-world situations (school, work, community).

  1. Active Listening:





  2. Open-Ended Questions:





  3. Empathy:






Part 2: Identify the Skill

For each statement below, write AL for Active Listening, OE for Open-Ended Question, or EM for Empathy.

  1. “I hear that you found the new job training challenging.” (___)
  2. “How did you decide which college fair sessions to attend?” (___)
  3. Maintaining eye contact and nodding while someone explains their weekend plans. (___)
  4. “What made you choose that café order today?” (___)
  5. “It sounds like moving to a new school felt overwhelming.” (___)

Part 3: Practice Writing

Write an open-ended question you could ask in each situation below:

  • You need extra help with a class assignment. You ask your teacher:








  • You’re ordering lunch at a café and want to learn more about the specials. You ask the barista:








  • You start a part-time job and want feedback. You ask your supervisor:









Part 4: Reflection

Think of a recent conversation where you used one of these skills. Describe:

  1. The situation (who you spoke with and where)
  2. The skill you used (AL, OE, or EM)
  3. How it improved the conversation











Part 5: Personal Action Plan

List two strategies you will use this week to strengthen your conversation skills in school or community settings.

  1. Strategy One:





  2. Strategy Two:






Use this worksheet alongside our Role-Play Scenario Cards and Reflection Journal Template to practice and record your progress.

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Activity

Role-Play Scenario Cards

Use these cards in pairs to practice Active Listening, Open-Ended Questions, and Empathy in real-life high-school contexts. Each pair selects two cards and spends 5 minutes on each scenario, swapping roles halfway through.

  1. Teacher Help Request
    Your partner wants guidance on a tough assignment. Ask what part they find challenging and how they’d like support.



  2. Part-Time Job Planning
    Your partner just started a part-time job. Ask about their training, daily tasks, and how they’re balancing work and school.



  3. Ordering at the Café
    You’re at a school café. Ask the barista about today’s specials and why they recommend them.



  4. College Fair Interests
    Your partner attended a college fair. Ask which sessions caught their attention and what steps they’ll take next.



  5. Group Project Coordination
    You need to plan a group presentation. Ask your partner for ideas on roles, research topics, and timeline.



  6. Conflict Resolution
    Your partner had a disagreement with a classmate. Ask how it happened and what they could do to resolve it positively.



  7. Budgeting for a Trip
    Your partner is saving for a school trip. Ask how they plan to budget their money and what expenses they anticipate.



  8. Community Service Reflections
    Your partner volunteered at a local event. Ask what they did, how it felt, and what impact they saw.



Instructions:

  • Partner A starts as the “Speaker” and shares while Partner B listens.
  • Partner B uses Active Listening and Empathy, then asks at least two Open-Ended Questions.
  • After 2½ minutes, switch roles and continue.
  • Repeat with a second card.
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Journal

Reflection Journal

Name: __________________________ Date: __________________________

Part 1: Self-Assessment

  1. One strength I showed in today’s conversation practice was (e.g., I asked clear questions when talking to my teacher):






  2. One area I want to improve is (e.g., listening without interrupting a classmate):







Part 2: Skill in Action

  1. Describe a time today when you used Active Listening, Open-Ended Questions, or Empathy. For example: “When my supervisor explained my tasks, I reflected back their instructions (Active Listening) and asked, ‘What should I focus on first?’ (Open-Ended).” Which skill did you use and how did it help?












Part 3: Application Goal

  1. This week, I will apply what I learned by (be specific about when, where, and with whom, e.g., asking a peer “How did you prepare for the math test?”):










Part 4: Tips for Others

  1. Write a short message to a friend giving them two tips on how to be a better conversational partner based on today’s lesson (e.g., “Tip 1: Ask open-ended questions like ‘What inspired you?’”):














Use this journal with our Conversation Skills Worksheet and Role-Play Scenario Cards to track your growth.

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Worksheet

Simple Conversation Worksheet

Audience: High School Special Education Life Skills (Lower-Functioning)

Part 1: Match Words to Pictures

Look at each picture from Simple Conversation Picture Cards. Write the right word under each picture.

Ear: _______


Question Mark: _______


Heart: _______



Part 2: Fill in the Blanks

Use your words: listen, ask, care

When my friend talks, I ____________.





I ask, “___________?”





To show I care, I say, “___________.”






Part 3: My Plan

This week, I will practice my conversation skills.

I will _________________.







Use this worksheet with our Role-Play Scenario Cards and Reflection Journal Template.

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Activity

Simple Conversation Picture Cards

Audience: High School Special Education Life Skills (Lower-Functioning)

Print and cut out each card. Each shows one simple symbol and its meaning:


Ear
📌 Picture: An ear symbol
Word: listen




Question Mark
📌 Picture: A question mark symbol
Word: ask




Heart
📌 Picture: A heart symbol
Word: care



How to use:

  • Show one card at a time to prompt the skill.
  • Learners say the word, make the gesture, and practice the corresponding action.
  • Use these cards during Warm-Up, Practice, and Reflection activities.
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