Lesson Plan
Icebreaker Bash Plan
Students will engage in fun icebreaker activities to learn classmates’ names and interests, practice active listening, and discover commonalities. Goals: share personal details, build initial connections, and set a positive classroom tone.
Building positive relationships on day one fosters a sense of belonging, encourages empathy, and lays the groundwork for a supportive classroom community throughout the year.
Audience
3rd Grade
Time
30 minutes
Approach
Interactive name games and partner sharing
Materials
- Name Tags, - Icebreaker Question Cards, - All About Me Worksheet, - Chart Paper, - Markers, and - Timer
Prep
Prepare Materials
10 minutes
- Print and cut out enough Icebreaker Question Cards for each pair of students
- Prepare Name Tags and markers at each desk
- Print copies of the All About Me Worksheet for each student
- Set up Chart Paper and markers at the front of the room
Step 1
Welcome & Warm-Up
5 minutes
- Greet students at the door with a smile and help them find their name tag
- Invite them to introduce themselves with a handshake or wave to a neighbor
- Explain that today’s focus is on getting to know one another
Step 2
Name Tag Introductions
5 minutes
- Ask students to write their name and one favorite hobby on their Name Tag
- Once complete, have students stand and find three classmates whose hobbies they share or find interesting
- Encourage: “Tell them why you picked your hobby” to prompt conversation
Step 3
Icebreaker Question Pairs
10 minutes
- Distribute Icebreaker Question Cards (e.g., “What’s your favorite book?” “If you could have any pet, what would it be?”)
- Students pair up and ask each other two questions, then switch partners after 2–3 minutes
- Encourage active listening and follow-up questions
Step 4
All About Me Worksheet
7 minutes
- Hand out the All About Me Worksheet
- Students fill in sections: Name, Favorite Color, Favorite Animal, Draw a Self-Portrait
- Circulate to offer support and encourage creativity
Step 5
Group Share & Reflection
3 minutes
- Invite 3–4 volunteers to share one interesting fact they learned about a classmate
- Ask: “How did it feel to learn something new about someone?”
- Reinforce: “We’re building a community where everyone’s unique story matters.”
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Slide Deck
Session 1: Icebreaker Bash
Welcome to Connection Quest!
Today our focus is on building positive relationships and getting to know one another.
Welcome everyone! Smile and greet each student as they enter. Introduce yourself and explain that today’s focus is on building positive relationships. Encourage excitement and participation.
Learning Objectives
- Learn each other’s names and interests
- Practice active listening
- Discover commonalities
- Foster a sense of belonging
Read through each objective aloud. Emphasize that these skills will help us work together and support one another all year long.
Name Tag Introductions
- Write your name and favorite hobby on your name tag.
- Stand up and find three classmates who share or are curious about your hobby.
- Share why you chose your hobby.
Distribute name tags and markers. Model writing your name and a hobby. Circulate to prompt students who finish quickly.
Icebreaker Question Pairs
- Partner up and pick an Icebreaker Question Card.
- Ask and answer two questions.
- Switch partners every 2–3 minutes.
Sample questions:
• What’s your favorite book?
• If you could have any pet, what would it be?
Hand out one Icebreaker Question Card per pair. Set a timer for each round. Remind students to use follow-up questions and listen carefully.
All About Me Worksheet
Complete the All About Me Worksheet:
- Name
- Favorite Color
- Favorite Animal
- Draw a Self-Portrait
Distribute the All About Me Worksheet. Encourage creativity in their drawings and answers. Offer help with spelling if needed.
Group Share & Reflection
- Volunteers share one interesting fact they learned.
- Reflect: How did it feel to learn something new?
- Emphasize: Everyone’s story matters.
Invite volunteers to share. Ask follow-up questions: “How did that make you feel?” Reinforce the importance of listening and sharing.
Next Steps
- Keep noticing common interests with classmates.
- Be kind and listen actively every day.
- Get ready for Session 2: Team-Building Fun!
Congratulate students on a successful start. Preview Session 2: team-building games that strengthen our classroom community.
Script
Session 1 Script: Icebreaker Bash
1. Welcome & Warm-Up (5 minutes)
Teacher (smiling at the door):
“Good morning, friends! Welcome to Connection Quest. I’m so happy to see each of you today. Over the next few sessions, we’ll be getting to know one another, building friendships, and learning how to work together as a team.
“Right now, as you come in, please pick up a name tag and a marker from the table. If you need help, just let me know. When you have your materials, find a seat at your desk and get ready to share a bit about yourself.”
(Pause to greet students, help with name tags, then gather attention.)
Teacher:
“Before we start, raise your hand if you’ve ever felt a little nervous meeting someone new. [Wait, scan responses.] That’s perfectly normal! Today, our activities will help us feel more comfortable and excited about making new friends.”
2. Name Tag Introductions (5 minutes)
Teacher (holding up own name tag):
“On your name tag, write your name in big, clear letters. Then write or draw your favorite hobby—for example, I might draw a soccer ball because I love soccer. Take your time!”
(Allow 1–2 minutes for writing.)
Teacher:
“Great job! Now stand up and walk around the room. Your goal is to find three classmates whose hobbies you share or that you think sound interesting. When you meet someone, say:
‘Hi, I’m ___, and I love ___. What do you like to do?’
And then ask one follow-up question, like ‘Why do you enjoy that hobby?’”
(Set a 2-minute timer, circulate, gently remind students to use full sentences and eye contact.)
Teacher (timer dings):
“Alright, friends, please return to your seats.”
Teacher:
“Who would like to share one hobby they discovered in common with someone else? [Take 1–2 volunteers.] That’s awesome—thank you for sharing!”
3. Icebreaker Question Pairs (10 minutes)
Teacher (holding up a stack of cards):
“Next, we’re going to use our Icebreaker Question Cards. Each pair of students will get one card. Turn to your neighbor, introduce yourself by name, and take turns asking each other the two questions on your card. Remember:
• Listen carefully to their answer.
• Ask one follow-up question to learn more.
You’ll have 3 minutes with each partner. When you hear the chime, find a new partner and pick a new card.”
(Distribute cards, start timer, play gentle chime after 3 minutes, repeat two rounds.)
Teacher (after third chime):
“Time’s up—please return to your seats.”
Teacher:
“Who can tell us one interesting thing they learned about a classmate? [Choose a volunteer or two.] Thank you for sharing—those are great connections!”
4. All About Me Worksheet (7 minutes)
Teacher (holding up the worksheet):
“Now it’s time for our All About Me Worksheet. On your desk is a sheet where you will:
- Write your name.
- Write your favorite color.
- Write your favorite animal.
- Draw a self-portrait.
Be as creative as you like! If you’re not sure how to spell a word, raise your hand and I’ll help. I’ll play some quiet music while you work.”
(Play soft background music, circulate to support spelling and encourage detailed drawings. Give a 1-minute warning.)
Teacher (after 7 minutes):
“Great job, artists and writers! Please put your pencils down.”
5. Group Share & Reflection (3 minutes)
Teacher:
“To wrap up, let’s share. Who would like to show their self-portrait and tell us their favorite animal? [Invite 2–3 students.]”
Teacher (after shares):
“Thank you! Now, think about today’s activities. How did it feel to learn something new about someone else? [Pause for responses.] Yes—exciting, comforting, fun! Learning about each other helps us feel connected and valued.”
Teacher:
“That feeling of connection is exactly what Connection Quest is all about.”
6. Next Steps (Closing)
Teacher:
“You all did an amazing job today building new friendships. Keep noticing things you have in common with your classmates and always listen when someone shares. In our next session, we’ll play team-building games to work together even more. Have a wonderful rest of your day, and I’ll see you next time!”
Worksheet
All About Me Worksheet
Hello, 3rd graders! Use this worksheet to tell us more about you. Be creative and have fun!
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My Name Is:
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My Favorite Color Is:
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My Favorite Animal Is:
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If I Could Have Any Superpower, It Would Be:
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Three Words That Describe Me:
- ___________________________
- ___________________________
- ___________________________
- ___________________________
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Draw A Self-Portrait Here:
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Something Else I’d Like My Classmates To Know About Me:
Activity
Session 2 Activity: Friendship Web
Objective: Students will visualize their connections by discovering shared interests and experiences. This activity builds teamwork, empathy, and a sense of belonging.
Materials:
- A ball of yarn or string
- Name Tags (optional: stick-on labels)
- Chart paper or whiteboard
- Markers
- A list of prompt cards (see Prep)
Time: 30 minutes
Prep (10 minutes):
- Clear desks to create a circle in the center of the room.
- Write each student’s name on a name tag or label and place them at each desk.
- Create prompt cards with simple statements such as:
• “I have a pet.”
• “My favorite food is pizza.”
• “I play a sport.”
• “I love to read books.”
• “I have a sibling.”
• “My favorite color is blue.” - Place the prompt cards face down in the center of the circle.
Instructions:
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Form a Circle (2 minutes)
- Ask students to pick up their name tag (if using) and place it on their shirt.
- Invite everyone to move their chairs into a large circle, sitting shoulder to shoulder.
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Explain the Web (3 minutes)
- Show the ball of yarn and explain that each strand of the web represents a connection between classmates.
- Demonstrate: hold the yarn end, pick a prompt card, read it aloud, and identify someone who shares that trait. For example: “I have a pet.” “Sarah, I have a pet cat too!”
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Build the Web (15 minutes)
- The first student picks a prompt card, reads it, names one or two classmates who match, and gently tosses the ball of yarn to one of them while holding on to their end of the string.
- The next student repeats: draw a card, read it, find a peer who shares that trait, and toss the yarn to them (while still holding on).
- Continue until each student has drawn at least one card and connections crisscross to form a web.
- Encourage students to use full sentences: “I also love to read books, Emily!”
- Remind them to speak clearly and look at each other when tossing the yarn.
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Observe & Reflect (7 minutes)
- Once the web is complete, pause and ask students to look at the colorful connections.
- On chart paper or the whiteboard, draw a simple circle labeled “Our Classroom Community” and a smaller web sketch beneath it.
- Invite volunteers to share:
- “How did it feel when you saw how many connections we have?”
- “Why is it important to notice what we have in common?”
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Debrief & Clean Up (3 minutes)
- Gently wind the yarn back into a ball and explain you’ll use it for future activities.
- Ask students to return chairs to their desks and reflect:
- Turn to a neighbor and say one new thing you learned about them.
Extension (if time allows):
- Pass out sticky notes and ask each student to write one interest or fun fact. Post them on a “Connection Wall” to revisit throughout the unit.
Next Steps: In Session 3, we’ll use these connections as a foundation for a small-group collaborative project where empathy and understanding guide our teamwork.