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Can You Read My Mind

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Lesson Plan

Mind-Reading Role Plays Plan

Students will recognize and interpret nonverbal cues—facial expressions, gestures, and tone—through role‐play activities, applying these skills in everyday conversational scenarios.

Reading nonverbal signals enables students to understand peers’ feelings, respond appropriately, and build positive social interactions in school and beyond.

Audience

4th Grade Group

Time

45 minutes

Approach

Guided role‐play practice and reflection

Prep

Prepare Materials

10 minutes

Step 1

Introduction

5 minutes

  • Greet students and explain today’s goal: learning to ‘read minds’ by noticing nonverbal cues.
  • Briefly discuss what nonverbal communication is and why it matters.
  • Share an everyday example (e.g., friend crossing arms when upset).

Step 2

Teach Key Cues

10 minutes

  • Present Nonverbal Clues in Action.
  • Highlight three cue types: facial expressions, gestures, and tone of voice.
  • Ask students to identify the emotion or meaning in each example.

Step 3

Model Role-Plays

5 minutes

  • Use two volunteers to demonstrate a conversation with mismatched verbal and nonverbal signals.
  • Guide the demonstration with Facilitator Conversation Prompts.
  • Debrief by asking students what nonverbal cues they noticed and what they meant.

Step 4

Partner Practice

15 minutes

  • Pair students and assign each a scenario (e.g., asking to play, resolving a conflict).
  • Students role‐play, focusing on nonverbal expression and interpretation.
  • Circulate and support pairs using Facilitator Conversation Prompts.
  • Encourage partners to switch roles and practice multiple cues.

Step 5

Emotion Charades

5 minutes

  • Divide into small groups and use Emotion Charades Cards.
  • One student acts out an emotion, others guess based on facial and body cues.
  • Rotate so each student has a turn.

Step 6

Reflective Feelings Circle

5 minutes

  • Gather in a circle and use Reflective Feelings Circle Guide.
  • Each student shares one cue they learned and how they’ll use it.
  • Reinforce positive observations and encourage ongoing practice.
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Slide Deck

Nonverbal Clues in Action

Learn how to read feelings and intent by noticing:
• Facial Expressions
• Gestures
• Tone of Voice

Let’s become nonverbal detectives!

Welcome students! Explain that nonverbal clues are ways people “talk” without words. Today we’ll look at facial expressions, gestures, and tone. Invite students to pay close attention.

Facial Expressions

Happy Sad Surprised Angry

Question: What features helped you decide the emotion?

Show each image and pause. Ask: “What emotion do you see?” Highlight eyebrow positions, mouth shape, eye contact.

Gestures

• Thumbs Up = approval
• Shrug = uncertainty
• Arms Crossed = closed off or upset

Question: How would you feel if someone used these gestures toward you?

Demonstrate each gesture or ask a volunteer. Emphasize how body posture and hand movements convey meaning.

Tone of Voice

“I’m fine.”
• Soft & slow = sad or tired
• Loud & fast = excited or angry
• Rising pitch = question or uncertainty

Question: Which tone sounds friendly?

Read aloud the phrases in different tones: excited vs bored vs angry. Ask students to mimic.
Emphasize pitch, volume, speed.

Quick Practice

  1. Someone whispers “Good job” but rolls their eyes.
  2. A friend shakes their head while saying “Sure.”
  3. Mom’s face is tight when she says “We’ll see.”

What nonverbal clues do you notice?

Display the scenarios one by one. Ask small groups to discuss then share with class.

Key Takeaways

  1. Facial Expressions show inner feelings
  2. Gestures add meaning to words
  3. Tone of Voice reveals attitude

Next: Let’s practice these in our role-plays!

Recap the three key nonverbal cues. Prepare transition to role-play partner practice.

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Slide Deck

Nonverbal Clues in Action

Learn how to read feelings and intent without words!

Welcome students! Explain that today we’ll be nonverbal detectives, learning how people “talk” without words by using expressions, gestures, and tone.

What Is Nonverbal Communication?

• Facial Expressions
• Gestures
• Tone of Voice

Nonverbal communication is how we share messages without speaking.

Define nonverbal communication and point out that it happens all the time in our daily lives.

Reading Facial Expressions

Examples:
• Happy: smile & raised cheeks
• Sad: downturned mouth & drooping eyes
• Surprised: raised eyebrows & open mouth
• Angry: furrowed brows & tight lips

What clues do these give?

Show or draw each facial expression. Ask: “What emotion do you see and what clues helped you decide?”

Understanding Gestures

Examples:
• 👍 Thumbs Up = approval
• 🤷 Shrug = uncertainty
• ❌ Arms Crossed = closed off or upset
• 👋 Wave = hello or goodbye

How do gestures change meaning?

Demonstrate each gesture or invite volunteers. Emphasize how posture and hand movements communicate meaning.

Tone of Voice Matters

Phrase: “I’m fine.”
• Soft & slow = sad or tired
• Loud & fast = excited or angry
• Rising pitch = question or uncertainty

Which tone sounds friendly?

Read the phrase in different ways. Encourage students to listen for pitch, volume, and speed.

Reflection & Key Takeaways

  1. Nonverbal cues include expressions, gestures, and tone of voice.
  2. They help us understand how someone really feels.

Reflection Questions:

  • Which nonverbal clue was easiest for you to notice?
  • How will you use these skills today?

Recap the three key types of nonverbal cues. Use the reflection questions to engage students in sharing their thoughts.

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Script

Facilitator Conversation Prompts

1. Model Role-Plays (5 minutes)

Teacher says:
“Alright, everyone, I need two volunteers. Alex and Mia, please come up front and stand here.”

“Alex, you’ll say the words ‘I’m really excited to play with you today!’ but use a flat voice and keep your arms crossed.”

“Mia, respond however feels natural. Ready? Go!”



After the short demonstration, teacher prompts:
“Okay, class, what did Alex’s words say? [pause for student answers] And what did Alex’s body tell us?”

Follow-up: “Why might someone cross their arms and use a flat tone even if they say happy words?”

2. Partner Practice Check-Ins (15 minutes)

While circulating, teacher uses these prompts:

  • “I see you raised your eyebrows there—what emotion is that showing?”
  • “Your friend’s tone just got louder. How does that change the feeling of their request?”
  • “Can you switch roles and try the same sentence with different gestures?”
  • “Tell me one nonverbal cue you used just now and why.”

3. Emotion Charades Guidance (5 minutes)

Teacher says:
“Remember, no words—only face and body!”

“If you’re acting ‘surprised,’ show me big open eyes and a dropped jaw.”

“When someone guesses, give them a thumbs up if they’re right, or shake your head and try again.”

4. Reflective Feelings Circle (5 minutes)

Teacher leads:
“Everyone, let’s sit in our circle. I want each of you to finish this sentence: ‘Today I noticed _______ as a nonverbal cue, and I will use it when I _______.’”



After each share, teacher affirms:
“Thank you, [Name]! That was a great example of using __________.”

End of Prompts

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Activity

Emotion Charades Cards (Activity)

Instructions:

  • Divide students into small groups of 3–4.
  • Give each group a shuffled stack of Emotion Charades Cards.
  • One student draws a card and silently acts out the emotion using only facial expressions and body language—no words or sounds!
  • The rest of the group guesses the emotion. When someone guesses correctly, the actor gives a thumbs up. Then the next student takes a turn.
  • Rotate until each student has acted out at least two cards.

Cards:

  • Happy: show a big smile, raise your eyebrows, maybe clap or jump lightly
  • Sad: droop your shoulders, frown, lower your head, look downward
  • Angry: furrow your brows, press lips tight, cross arms or stomp feet
  • Surprised: open eyes wide, drop your jaw, hold hands near your face
  • Scared: shrink back, hug yourself, open eyes wide and look around
  • Excited: bounce on your toes, wave arms, smile broadly
  • Bored: rest your head on your hand, yawn, look away
  • Nervous: tap your foot, bite your lip, wring your hands
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Cool Down

Reflective Feelings Circle Guide

Purpose:
Bring the class together to reflect on what they learned about nonverbal cues and set personal goals for using these skills.

Setup (1 minute)

  • Arrange chairs in a circle so every student can see each other.
  • Place a “talking object” (e.g., a small plush or ball) in the center.

Directions (5 minutes)

  1. Explain:
    • “We’re going to share one nonverbal cue we noticed today and how we’ll use it in real life.”
    • “Only the person holding the talking object shares; everyone else listens.”
  2. Pass the talking object around the circle.
  3. When a student holds the object, they complete this sentence:

    “Today I noticed _______ as a nonverbal cue, and I will use it when I _______.”


  4. After each student shares, the teacher responds:
    • “Thank you, [Name]! That was a great example of noticing __________.”
    • Offer positive feedback (e.g., “I love that you’ll use eyebrow raises to show surprise!”).
  5. Continue until each student has had a turn or time is up.

Closing (1 minute)

  • Reinforce:
    • “Using nonverbal cues helps us understand each other better.”
    • “Keep practicing noticing faces, gestures, and tone every day!”

End of Reflective Feelings Circle Guide

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