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Can You Play Nice?

Kristyn

Tier 1
For Schools

Lesson Plan

Playground Etiquette Lesson Plan

Students will practice cooperation, conflict resolution, and respect by role-playing playground scenarios and reflecting on positive interaction strategies.

Building these social skills fosters a safer, more inclusive playground where students feel empowered to solve conflicts and support peers.

Audience

7th Grade

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Interactive role-play and guided discussion.

Materials

  • Chart Paper and Markers, - Playground Scenarios Worksheet, - Conflict Resolution Strategies Poster, - Index Cards, and - Timer or Stopwatch

Prep

Prepare Materials

10 minutes

  • Print copies of Playground Scenarios Worksheet
  • Write various playground prompts on index cards (e.g., disputes over turns, exclusion)
  • Display Conflict Resolution Strategies Poster in the classroom
  • Review Playground Etiquette Lesson Plan for overall flow

Step 1

Warm-Up Discussion

5 minutes

  • Ask: “What makes playground time fun and fair?”
  • Record student responses on chart paper
  • Introduce three key values: cooperation, respect, conflict resolution
  • Explain how today’s activities will practice these values

Step 2

Scenario Role-Play

15 minutes

  • Divide students into groups of 3–4
  • Distribute one index card scenario and a copy of Playground Scenarios Worksheet per group
  • Groups read their scenario, assign roles, and plan a positive resolution
  • Role-play their scenario, using strategies from Conflict Resolution Strategies Poster
  • Teacher circulates to prompt deeper thinking and support groups

Step 3

Group Reflection

5 minutes

  • Each group shares their scenario and chosen resolution strategy
  • Class discusses which strategies worked well and why
  • Highlight alternative approaches and reinforce positive behaviors

Step 4

Exit Ticket

5 minutes

  • Provide each student a sticky note or slip of paper
  • Prompt: “Write one strategy you will use to play nicely at recess tomorrow.”
  • Collect responses to assess understanding and plan follow-up support
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Slide Deck

Can You Play Nice? Playground Etiquette for 7th Graders

A 30-minute Tier 1 lesson on:

  • Cooperation
  • Respect
  • Conflict Resolution

Welcome everyone! Introduce today’s lesson “Can You Play Nice?” Explain we’ll learn how to cooperate, show respect, and resolve conflicts on the playground.

Lesson Objectives

By the end of today, you will be able to:

  • Practice cooperation during games
  • Show respect to all classmates
  • Apply conflict resolution strategies when disagreements arise

Read the objectives aloud. Ask if anything needs clarification.

Key Values

Cooperation: Working together fairly to achieve a shared goal.

Respect: Treating others kindly, listening, and including everyone.

Conflict Resolution: Using calm strategies to solve disagreements.

Define each term and invite students to share quick examples.

Scenario Examples

  • A student feels left out of kickball.
  • Two friends argue over whose turn it is on the swing.
  • Players disagree about game rules.

Show these examples to spark ideas. Encourage students to imagine similar situations they’ve seen.

Scenario Role-Play

  1. Divide into groups of 3–4.
  2. Grab an index-card scenario and a copy of Playground Scenarios Worksheet.
  3. Use Conflict Resolution Strategies Poster to plan your role-play.
  4. Act out the scenario, demonstrating a positive resolution.

Explain group setup and point out posters/worksheets around the room.

Group Reflection

  • Which strategy did your group choose?
  • How did it help solve the problem?
  • What else could you try next time?

Facilitate sharing—ask follow-up questions to deepen discussion.

Exit Ticket

On a sticky note, write one strategy you will use to play nicely at recess tomorrow.

Distribute sticky notes or slips and remind students to write legibly.

Thank You!

Great work today—let’s make our playground a fun, fair, and friendly place!

Thank the class for their participation and remind them to practice these skills at recess.

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Worksheet

Playground Scenarios Worksheet

Use this worksheet to analyze and resolve playground conflicts. Work with your group to fill in each section, using strategies from the Conflict Resolution Strategies Poster.


Scenario 1: Excluding a Classmate

A group is playing four‐square at recess. Two students intentionally ignore a third student’s attempts to join the game. The excluded student looks upset and walks away.

  1. Roles (list names and roles – e.g., Player A, Player B, Excluded Student):


  2. Which conflict resolution strategy will you use? (Name and briefly describe):


  3. Resolution Plan – Step by step, how will you help everyone feel included and solve this problem?





  4. Reflection – After your role-play, what went well? What could you try differently next time?




Scenario 2: Dispute Over Swing Turns

Two friends reach the swing at the same time. One says “I was here first,” while the other says, “No, I waited longer in line.” Both refuse to step aside.

  1. Roles (list names and roles):


  2. Which conflict resolution strategy will you use? (Name and briefly describe):


  3. Resolution Plan – How will you help them take turns fairly?





  4. Reflection – What worked in your solution? What might you adjust?




Scenario 3: Rule Argument in Kickball

During kickball, one player insists on changing the rules so their team wins. Teammates on both sides begin to argue, and the game stops.

  1. Roles (list names and roles):


  2. Which conflict resolution strategy will you use? (Name and briefly describe):


  3. Resolution Plan – How will you guide everyone back to playing by fair rules?





  4. Reflection – Which part of your plan helped calm the disagreement? What else could help next time?




Scenario 4: Teasing on the Playground

A student teases another about their clothing. Laughter follows, and the teased student looks embarrassed and hurt.

  1. Roles (list names and roles):


  2. Which conflict resolution strategy will you use? (Name and briefly describe):


  3. Resolution Plan – How will you stop the teasing and support the hurt student?





  4. Reflection – How did using your chosen strategy impact the situation? What would you recommend to classmates next time?




Personal Commitment

Pick one conflict resolution strategy you’ve practiced today. Write how you will use it the next time a disagreement arises on the playground:









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Activity

Conflict Resolution Strategies Poster

Use these simple steps to solve playground conflicts fairly and peacefully!


🗣️ Use “I” Statements

• Speak calmly and focus on your own feelings.
• Example: “I feel upset when I can’t get a turn.”

🤝 Active Listening

• Take turns listening without interrupting.
• Repeat back what you heard to make sure both sides feel understood.

⚖️ Find a Compromise

• Brainstorm solutions that meet everyone’s needs.
• Agree on a fair choice, even if it’s not exactly what you wanted.

🧘 Take a Break

• Step away for a moment to cool down.
• Use deep breaths or count to five before returning to talk.

🆘 Ask for Help

• If you can’t solve it together, seek an adult or trusted friend to mediate.


Keep this poster in mind the next time a disagreement arises—play nice and stay respectful!

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Warm Up

Playground Values Warm-Up

Time: 5 minutes
Materials: Chart paper and markers, sticky notes (or index cards)

1. Think–Pair–Share (3 minutes)

  • Prompt: “What makes recess fun and fair for everyone?”
  • Step 1 (1 min): Students jot down 1–2 ideas on a sticky note.
  • Step 2 (2 min): Turn to a partner, share your ideas, and look for common themes.

2. Whole-Group Share (1 minute)

  • Ask pairs to stick one of their ideas on the chart paper under the heading “Fun & Fair Playground”.
  • Quickly scan the chart and highlight recurring ideas (e.g., taking turns, including others, playing by the rules).

3. Connect to Key Values (30 seconds)

  • Teacher says: “Many of your ideas show three big values we’ll practice today:”
    • Cooperation
    • Respect
    • Conflict Resolution

4. Quick Vote (30 seconds)

  • On a new sticky note, each student writes one of these three values they think is most important for a fair playground today.
  • Place your note under the matching value on the chart.

Transition: Point to the value with the most votes and say, “Great—today we’ll learn how to build on these values so recess is fun and fair for everyone!”

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Cool Down

Playground Exit Ticket

Use a strategy from the Conflict Resolution Strategies Poster to guide your behavior tomorrow at recess.

1. Strategy I will use at recess tomorrow:


2. How I will apply this strategy to play nicely:





Turn in your exit ticket as you leave today.

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