Lesson Plan
Bye-Bye Back-to-School Jitters Lesson Plan
Students will identify common back-to-school anxiety signs and practice two calming strategies to manage their feelings and build confidence.
Starting a new school year can trigger nerves; teaching coping skills and normalizing these feelings boosts emotional well-being, classroom community, and student engagement.
Audience
6th Grade (Middle School Students)
Time
30 minutes
Approach
Interactive discussion with hands-on calming activities.
Materials
- Back-to-School Jitters Slide Deck, - Facilitator's Script for Bye-Bye Back-to-School Jitters, - Back-to-School Jitters Worksheet, - Back-to-School Jitters Warm-Up Activity, - Back-to-School Jitters Cool-Down Activity, - Printed copies of the worksheet, and - Stress balls or other calming tools (optional)
Prep
Teacher Preparation
10 minutes
- Download and review all materials:
- Print enough worksheets for every student
- Queue slideshow on classroom display
- Gather optional calming tools (stress balls, fidgets)
Step 1
Warm-Up
5 minutes
- Welcome students and share a brief personal anecdote about first-day jitters to model vulnerability
- Distribute Back-to-School Jitters Warm-Up Activity
- Instruct students to write or draw one thing they’re excited about and one thing that makes them nervous about school
- Collect or have students keep responses for later discussion
Step 2
Guided Discussion
10 minutes
- Display Slide 3–4 from Back-to-School Jitters Slide Deck to define anxiety and its physical signs
- Use prompts from Facilitator's Script for Bye-Bye Back-to-School Jitters to ask:
- What are your top back-to-school worries?
- How does your body feel when you’re nervous?
- Record key student responses on chart paper or board
Step 3
Calming Strategies Activity
10 minutes
- Introduce two techniques using Slide 5–7 of Back-to-School Jitters Slide Deck: Box Breathing and Positive Affirmations
- Model Box Breathing together: inhale 4 counts, hold 4, exhale 4, hold 4 (repeat)
- Pair students to practice Box Breathing for one minute
- Distribute Back-to-School Jitters Worksheet and ask students to list which strategies they’ll use and when
Step 4
Cool-Down & Reflection
5 minutes
- Lead students through Back-to-School Jitters Cool-Down Activity: guided breathing or silent drawing of a calming scene
- Invite volunteers to share one takeaway or a positive affirmation from the worksheet
- Encourage students to keep their worksheets in binders and use the strategies whenever they feel anxious
Slide Deck
Bye-Bye Back-to-School Jitters
Let’s learn what jitters feel like and how to wave them goodbye!
Welcome students to today’s lesson on handling those first-day nerves! Introduce yourself and briefly share why you’re excited for the new year.
Lesson Objectives
• Identify common back-to-school anxiety signs
• Practice Box Breathing
• Create and use Positive Affirmations
Explain that by the end of today’s session, they’ll be able to spot anxiety signs and practice two calming strategies.
What Is Anxiety?
Anxiety is our body’s way of reacting to worries or excitement—it can make us feel nervous, shaky, or distracted.
Define anxiety in student-friendly terms. Emphasize that it’s a normal feeling when facing something new or uncertain.
Signs of Anxiety
• Racing heart
• Butterflies in stomach
• Sweaty palms
• Restlessness
• Trouble focusing
Engage students by asking if they’ve ever felt any of these. Use chart paper to record additional signs they share.
Calming Strategy #1: Box Breathing
- Inhale for 4 seconds
- Hold for 4 seconds
- Exhale for 4 seconds
- Hold for 4 seconds
(Repeat 3–4 times)
Demonstrate each step visually and count aloud. Then guide students through one full round together.
Calming Strategy #2: Positive Affirmations
• Write statements like “I am prepared,” or “I can do hard things.”
• Say them quietly or aloud when you feel nervous.
Explain how our thoughts shape feelings. Invite volunteers to share a positive statement about themselves.
Wrap-Up & Next Steps
• Remember the signs of anxiety
• Use Box Breathing and affirmations
• Keep your worksheet and practice often
You’ve got this!
Summarize key takeaways. Encourage students to practice these strategies daily and keep their affirmations handy.
Script
Facilitator’s Script for Bye-Bye Back-to-School Jitters
Materials Needed
- Back-to-School Jitters Warm-Up Activity
- Back-to-School Jitters Slide Deck queued on screen
- Back-to-School Jitters Worksheet
- Back-to-School Jitters Cool-Down Activity
- Optional: stress balls or fidgets
1. Warm-Up (5 minutes)
Teacher (smiling, eye contact): “Good morning, everyone! Welcome to our lesson: Bye-Bye Back-to-School Jitters. I’m so excited to start this year with you. Before we dive in, I want to share a quick story about me. On my first day in middle school, I remember feeling so nervous that my stomach felt like it was doing flips. I wondered, ‘Will I find my classroom? Will I make friends?’ Those butterflies in my stomach were real!”
Teacher: “Now, I’m passing out the Back-to-School Jitters Warm-Up Activity. On this sheet, draw or write: 1) One thing you’re excited about this year, and 2) One thing that makes you a little nervous. I’ll give you two minutes. Ready? Go!”
(After 2 minutes)
Teacher: “Time’s up! If you feel comfortable, raise your hand and share one exciting thing. (Pause for 2–3 responses.) Thanks for sharing! Now, raise your hand to share one thing that made you nervous. (Pause for 2–3 responses.) Wonderful—thank you. Keep these responses; we’ll refer back to them in a bit.”
2. Guided Discussion (10 minutes)
Teacher: “Let’s see what experts say. (Advance to Slide 3 of the Back-to-School Jitters Slide Deck.) Here’s a student-friendly definition of anxiety. ‘Anxiety is our body’s way of reacting to worries or excitement—it can make us feel nervous, shaky, or distracted.’”
Teacher: “In your own words, what do you think anxiety is?”
(Pause; call on 2–3 students.)
Teacher (advancing to Slide 4): “These are some common signs of anxiety: racing heart, butterflies in your stomach, sweaty palms, restlessness, trouble focusing.** Who’s ever felt one of these before a big event?**”
(Pause; collect 3–4 examples.)
“Let’s record any other signs you notice.”
(Write additional responses on chart paper or the board.)
3. Calming Strategies Activity (10 minutes)
Teacher (advance to Slide 5): “Now let’s learn our first calming strategy: Box Breathing. Here’s how it works:
- Inhale for 4 seconds
- Hold for 4 seconds
- Exhale for 4 seconds
- Hold for 4 seconds
Repeat 3–4 times.”
Teacher (modeling, counting aloud): “Ready? Inhale… two… three… four… hold… two… three… four… exhale… two… three… four… hold… two… three… four. (Repeat two more full rounds.) Great job!”
Teacher: “Now turn to a partner and practice box breathing together for one full round. I’ll walk around and listen.”
(1 minute partner practice)
Teacher (advance to Slide 6 & handing out worksheets): “Our second strategy is Positive Affirmations. These are statements like ‘I am prepared’ or ‘I can do hard things.’ When you feel nervous, say them quietly or out loud. On your Back-to-School Jitters Worksheet, write down which calming strategy you’ll use and when you plan to use it—today, tomorrow morning, or before a test.”
(Students fill out worksheet: 2–3 minutes.)
4. Cool-Down & Reflection (5 minutes)
Teacher: “Let’s all take a moment to calm our bodies one more time. Follow along with our Back-to-School Jitters Cool-Down Activity. You can choose silent breathing or draw a calming scene on your warm-up sheet.”
(Lead 1 minute guided breathing or drawing.)
Teacher: “Who wants to share one positive affirmation from your worksheet?”
(Invite 2–3 volunteers.)
Teacher (smiling): “Fantastic! Remember, you’ve got these tools anytime you feel nervous—box breathing and your own affirmations. Keep your worksheet in your binder and practice whenever you need a confidence boost. You did an amazing job today. Let’s wave goodbye to those jitters—here we go!”
(Teacher and students wave hands side to side.)
Teacher: “Thank you all. I’m proud of you, and I know you’re going to have a wonderful year!”
Worksheet
Back-to-School Jitters Worksheet
Name: ____________________________ Date: ________________
- Think of a time you felt nervous about starting something new (like the first day of school). Describe how your body felt (e.g., racing heart, butterflies, sweaty palms):
- Box Breathing Plan: After learning Box Breathing, when and where will you use this strategy? Be as specific as you can (for example, "before homeroom" or "at home before bed"):
- Positive Affirmations: Write two statements you can say to calm yourself when you feel anxious.
a. ________________________________
b. ________________________________
- Strategy in Action: Choose one calming strategy (Box Breathing or a Positive Affirmation). Describe exactly when and where you will practice it this week:
- Reflection (optional): After you try your strategy, write one sentence about how it helped you feel calmer:
Tip: Keep this worksheet in your binder and revisit it whenever you feel back-to-school jitters. You’ve got this!
Warm Up
Back-to-School Jitters Warm-Up Activity
Name: ____________________________ Date: ________________
Take 2 minutes to draw or write your responses below:
- One thing I’m excited about this year:
- One thing that makes me a little nervous about school:
Cool Down
Back-to-School Jitters Cool-Down Activity
Take a moment to help your mind and body relax. Choose one of the two options below:
Option 1: Guided Breathing
- Sit comfortably with both feet on the floor and hands resting in your lap.
- Close your eyes or soften your gaze downward.
- Inhale slowly through your nose for 4 counts: 1…2…3…4.
- Exhale gently through your mouth for 6 counts: 1…2…3…4…5…6.
- Repeat this cycle 3–5 times, focusing on the rise and fall of your chest.
Option 2: Calming Scene Drawing
- Flip to a blank space on your warm-up sheet or grab a clean sheet of paper.
- Imagine a place that makes you feel peaceful (a beach, forest, cozy room).
- Use pencils, crayons, or markers to draw that scene.
- Add colors and details—birds, waves, trees, soft clouds—whatever makes you feel calm.
- Take your time; there’s no rush.