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Lesson Plan

Building Bridges Lesson Plan

Establish trust and rapport with the 5th grader by engaging in guided icebreaker activities, filling out personal worksheets, and discussing feelings to create a safe foundation for future sessions.

Building a strong therapeutic relationship early helps the student feel understood, valued, and safe, fostering open communication and setting the stage for emotional growth and collaboration.

Audience

5th Grade

Time

60 minutes

Approach

Interactive activities and discussions.

Materials

Prep

Prepare Materials

10 minutes

  • Print and assemble Rapport-Building Icebreaker Cards
  • Print Feelings Chart Worksheet and All About Me Worksheet
  • Gather drawing paper, crayons, comfortable seating, and pillows
  • Arrange a quiet, welcoming space for one-on-one conversation

Step 1

Greeting and Introduction

5 minutes

  • Welcome the student by name and invite them to sit in the comfortable space
  • Explain the purpose of this session as a time to get to know each other
  • Assure confidentiality and emphasize that this is a safe environment for sharing

Step 2

Icebreaker Activity

10 minutes

  • Present Rapport-Building Icebreaker Cards and explain the rules
  • Ask the student to pick a card and answer the question
  • Model by answering the first card yourself to build trust
  • Encourage open-ended responses and positive reinforcement

Step 3

All About Me Worksheet

15 minutes

  • Distribute the All About Me Worksheet
  • Invite the student to fill in sections about interests, family, and favorite activities
  • Ask follow-up questions to deepen understanding
  • Provide support and praise for sharing personal details

Step 4

Feelings Chart Discussion

15 minutes

  • Show the Feelings Chart Worksheet
  • Invite the student to identify and point to how they feel today
  • Discuss recent examples that made them feel that way
  • Validate their emotions and normalize a range of feelings

Step 5

Free Expression Drawing

10 minutes

  • Provide drawing paper and crayons
  • Ask the student to draw something that represents their feelings or interests
  • Observe and briefly discuss their drawing to gain insights
  • Reinforce the value of creative expression

Step 6

Wrap-Up and Next Steps

5 minutes

  • Summarize key points shared during the session
  • Ask the student how they felt about today’s activities
  • Discuss any questions or concerns they have
  • Preview the focus for the next session and schedule the follow-up
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Building Bridges

First One-on-One Therapy Session
5th Grade | 60 Minutes

Let’s get to know each other and create a safe space to share!

Welcome the student warmly by name and introduce today’s session as a chance to get to know each other and build trust. Emphasize confidentiality and that this space is safe for sharing.

Today’s Goals

• Build rapport and trust
• Share interests and experiences
• Explore feelings together
• Create a comfortable environment

Outline the session’s goals so the student knows what to expect. Reinforce that the focus is on fun, sharing, and understanding feelings.

Icebreaker Activity

  1. Pick a card from the Rapport-Building Icebreaker Cards
  2. Read the question aloud
  3. Answer it yourself first to model openness
  4. Invite the student to share their response

Explain the icebreaker rules and model the first question yourself. Encourage open-ended answers and positive feedback. Use Rapport-Building Icebreaker Cards.

All About Me Worksheet

• Interests and hobbies
• Favorite activities and games
• Family and friends
• Dreams and goals

Complete the worksheet and share more about you!

Distribute the All About Me Worksheet. Prompt the student to fill in sections about hobbies, family, and favorites. Ask follow-ups to deepen understanding.

Feelings Chart Discussion

  1. Identify today’s feeling on the chart
  2. Describe a recent moment you felt this way
  3. Talk about what helped or could help
  4. Remember, all feelings are okay!

Show the Feelings Chart Worksheet. Ask the student to point out how they feel and share a recent example. Validate their emotions and normalize them.

Free Expression Drawing

• Draw something that shows how you feel or what you love
• Use colors and shapes freely
• Share what you created and why

Provide drawing paper and crayons. Encourage the student to express feelings or interests through art. Observe and ask open-ended questions about their drawing.

Wrap-Up & Next Steps

• Key takeaways from today’s activities
• How did you feel about sharing?
• Any questions or thoughts?
• Plan for our next session

Summarize what was shared today. Ask for feedback on how the session felt. Preview the next session’s focus and confirm the follow-up appointment.

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Worksheet

Feelings Chart Worksheet

Instructions: Look at the faces and names below. Circle or color the face that best matches how you feel today.

🙂 Happy ○
😔 Sad ○
😡 Angry ○
😲 Surprised○
😰 Scared ○
🤩 Excited ○
😕 Confused ○
😌 Calm ○

2. Why do you feel this way today?










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Worksheet

All About Me Worksheet

Instructions: Please answer the questions below so we can get to know each other better.

  1. My name is: _______________________________


  2. I am ______ years old and in ______ grade.


  3. Three words that describe me are:


    1. ________________________



  4. My favorite hobbies and activities are:

    • ____________________________________________




  5. My favorite subject in school is __________________ because ____________________________________________________________________.





  6. When I’m not at school, I like to:
    ____________________________________________________________________________





  7. My family includes:
    ____________________________________________________________________________




  8. One fun fact about me is:
    ____________________________________________________________________________




  9. Something I’m proud of is:
    ____________________________________________________________________________




  10. One goal I have for this year is:
    ____________________________________________________________________________






  11. Draw a picture of yourself or something you love on the back of this page. (Feel free to use colors and be creative!)
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Script

Building Bridges Script

Greeting and Introduction (5 minutes)

Therapist: Hi [Student Name]! Come on in and make yourself comfortable on these pillows. I’m so glad we get to spend time together today.

Therapist: We have about an hour to talk, play, and learn about each other. Everything you share here is private and safe. Does that sound good?

[Wait for student response]

If the student seems nervous, you can say:
Therapist: It’s perfectly normal to feel a little nervous at first. Take your time—I’m here to support you.

Therapist: My goal today is to get to know you better. You can share as much or as little as you like. Ready to begin?


Icebreaker Activity (10 minutes)

Therapist: I have a deck of Rapport-Building Icebreaker Cards here. Each card has a fun question to help us learn about each other.

Therapist: I’ll draw the first card and answer it so you can see how it works.
Draws a card
Therapist: Mine says, “If you could have any superpower, what would it be and why?” I’d choose the power of flight so I could see the world from above and feel free.

Therapist: Now it’s your turn. Please pick one card, read the question aloud, and then share your answer.

[Wait for student to pick and answer]

Possible follow-up prompts:

  • Therapist: That’s really interesting! Can you tell me more about why you chose that?
  • Therapist: How would you use that superpower on a typical day?
  • Therapist: I love that answer—I wouldn’t have thought of that!

Continue until time is up or you’ve drawn 3–4 cards.


All About Me Worksheet (15 minutes)

Therapist: Next, let’s fill out the All About Me Worksheet together. This helps me learn about your interests, family, and goals.

Therapist: I’ll start so you see how it goes.

  1. My name is: [Therapist Name]
  2. I am a counselor and I love helping students feel happy at school.

Therapist: Your turn! Go ahead and write your name, age, grade, and the three words that describe you.

[Give student time to write]

Therapist: I see you wrote “creative” as one of your words. Can you share a time when you felt really creative?

[Wait for response]

Therapist: Great! Now let’s move to your favorite hobbies and activities.

Continue working through each question. For each response, ask a follow-up such as:

  • Therapist: Why is that your favorite subject?
  • Therapist: What do you enjoy most about that hobby?
  • Therapist: Tell me more about a goal you have for this year.

Offer praise as they share:
Therapist: Thank you for sharing that—it helps me understand you better.


Feelings Chart Discussion (15 minutes)

Therapist: Now we’ll check in on how you’re feeling today with the Feelings Chart Worksheet. Look at the faces and pick the one that matches your current feeling.

Therapist: Which face did you choose?

[Wait for student to point or circle]

Therapist: You picked “_____.” Can you tell me why you feel this way today?

[Listen and validate]

Follow-up questions:

  • Therapist: When was the last time you felt like this?
  • Therapist: What helped you feel better or what might help next time?

Therapist: It’s completely okay to have all kinds of feelings. Thank you for sharing honestly.


Free Expression Drawing (10 minutes)

Therapist: For our next activity, here’s paper and crayons. I’d like you to draw something that shows how you feel or something you really care about.

Therapist: There’s no wrong way to draw—use any colors and shapes you like.

[Give student drawing time]

Therapist: That’s a beautiful drawing! Would you like to tell me about it?

Follow-up prompts:

  • Therapist: What part of this drawing is your favorite?
  • Therapist: How does this picture show how you feel inside?

Therapist: Creative expression can help us understand our feelings. Thank you for sharing your art.


Wrap-Up and Next Steps (5 minutes)

Therapist: We’ve learned a lot about you today—your interests, feelings, and creative side. How did you feel about our time together?

[Wait for student response]

Therapist: Is there anything you want to ask me before we finish?

[Answer questions]

Therapist: For our next session, we’ll talk more about ways to help you handle __________ (the feeling they chose) and practice strategies together. Does that sound good?

[Confirm next session time]

Therapist: Thank you so much for sharing today, [Student Name]. I look forward to seeing you again soon!

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