Finding Our Calm
Students will learn to identify what anxiety feels like by recognizing physical signs in themselves and will practice a simple belly breathing exercise to find calm.
Early awareness of anxiety and self-regulation skills helps children manage emotions, supports focus in class, and builds a foundation for lifelong emotional wellbeing.
Discussion, feeling chart, guided breathing
Prep
Prepare Materials
5 minutes
- Print enough copies of the Anxiety Feeling Chart for each student
- Print and display the Calm Breathing Visual on a board or wall
- Set up the Classroom Timer for guided breathing practice
- Review both materials to familiarize yourself with key feelings and breathing steps
Step 1
Introduction to Anxiety
3 minutes
- Gather students in a circle and ask if they’ve ever felt their heart race or tummy flutter when nervous
- Define anxiety as a feeling of worry or nervousness in our bodies
- Show the Anxiety Feeling Chart and point out common signs (butterflies, fast heart)
- Ask students to point to a feeling on the chart they’ve experienced
Step 2
Recognizing Signs
4 minutes
- Prompt students to share physical signs they notice when they feel worried (e.g., sweaty palms, shaky knees)
- Facilitate 2–3 student examples, linking each to the chart’s images
- Emphasize that noticing these signs is the first step to finding calm
Step 3
Guided Breathing Practice
5 minutes
- Introduce belly breathing: breathe in through nose (belly grows), breathe out through mouth (belly shrinks)
- Display the Calm Breathing Visual and model the steps
- Set the Classroom Timer for 60 seconds and guide students through deep breaths together
- Repeat the 60-second breathing cycle two times, counting breaths aloud
Step 4
Reflection and Closure
3 minutes
- Ask: “How do you feel now compared to before?” and invite 2–3 students to share
- Reinforce that they can use belly breathing whenever they notice anxious feelings
- Point to the Calm Breathing Visual as a reminder of steps
- Praise effort and remind students they’re learning a skill for any time they feel worried
