Lesson Plan
Session 1 Lesson Plan
Students will identify and reflect on their personal strengths to boost self-worth and set a concrete goal to apply one strength in daily life.
Recognizing individual strengths builds resilience and self-esteem, empowering students to face challenges with confidence and purpose.
Audience
Middle School Students
Time
30 minutes
Approach
Guided reflection, discussion, and goal-setting.
Materials
- Strengths Reflection Worksheet, - Mirror or Blank Paper, - Pens or Pencils, and - Strength Application Plan Worksheet
Prep
Teacher Preparation
10 minutes
- Review the Strengths Reflection Worksheet and Strength Application Plan Worksheet
- Prepare pens/pencils and mirror or blank paper
- Arrange a quiet, comfortable space for one-on-one discussion
- Note any student-specific accommodations or prompts needed
Step 1
Introduction and Icebreaker
5 minutes
- Greet the student and explain the session’s focus on personal strengths and self-worth
- Prompt: “If you were a superhero, what strength would you have? Why?”
- Note responses to reference during the session
Step 2
Personal Strengths Reflection
10 minutes
- Hand out the Strengths Reflection Worksheet
- Ask the student to list five personal strengths and provide examples of each
- Encourage them to use the mirror or blank paper to jot additional ideas or doodles
- Offer prompts or visuals if needed to support understanding
Step 3
Discussion of Strengths
8 minutes
- Use these questions to guide conversation:
• Which strength makes you most proud?
• How has this strength helped you overcome a past challenge?
• When you use this strength, how do you feel? - Listen actively and affirm each contribution to reinforce self-worth
Step 4
Goal-Setting
5 minutes
- Introduce the Strength Application Plan Worksheet
- Invite the student to choose one of their strengths and set a specific, achievable goal to practice it this week
- Record the goal, identify when and where they will apply the strength, and note any reminders needed
Step 5
Closing and Encouragement
2 minutes
- Summarize the key strength(s) identified and the goal set
- Reinforce belief in the student’s abilities: “Remember, your strengths are your superpowers.”
- Encourage them to refer to their worksheets throughout the week
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Worksheet
Strength Application Plan Worksheet
Name: _________________________ Date: _______________
Instructions
Choose one strength you identified on the Strengths Reflection Worksheet. Use this plan to set a clear goal for practicing it, outline the steps, anticipate challenges, and note reminders to help you succeed.
1. Strength Chosen
What strength will you focus on this week?
2. My Specific Goal
Write a clear, achievable goal that uses your chosen strength. For example: “This week, I will use my empathy to help a friend who’s upset by asking how they feel and listening.”
Goal:
3. When and Where
Identify exactly when and where you will practice this strength.
- Day(s) of the week:
- Time or class/activity:
- Location:
4. Action Steps
List 2–4 steps you will take to reach your goal.
2. __________________________________________
3. __________________________________________
4. __________________________________________
5. Potential Challenges and Solutions
Think ahead to what might get in your way and how you can handle it.
- Challenge: __________________________
Solution: __________________________
- Challenge: __________________________
Solution: __________________________
6. Reminders and Supports
Note any cues or people who can help remind you to practice your goal.
- Visual reminder (e.g., sticky note, phone alarm):
- Person to check in with (teacher, friend, mentor):
7. Weekly Reflection
At the end of the week, reflect on your experience. Use the space below to answer:
- Did I meet my goal? Why or why not?
- How did using this strength impact me or others?
- What will I do next to keep building this strength?
(Keep this plan somewhere you can see it every day to remind yourself of your strengths in action.)
Slide Deck
Welcome & Session Overview
Session Objectives:
- Identify personal strengths
- Reflect on how these strengths build resilience
- Set a concrete goal to apply one strength
Today’s Flow:
- Icebreaker
- Strengths Reflection
- Discussion
- Goal-Setting
- Closing & Encouragement
Greet the student warmly. Explain the focus: discovering personal strengths to boost self-worth. Outline the session steps. Emphasize that this is a safe, supportive space.
Icebreaker: Superhero Strengths
Prompt:
“If you were a superhero, what strength would you have? Why?”
• Share your superhero power.
• Discuss how it relates to a real strength you possess.
Encourage creativity and curiosity. Ask the student to elaborate on their choice. Connect their superhero power to real-life strengths.
Personal Strengths Reflection
Instructions:
- List five personal strengths
- For each, write an example of when you used it
- Reflect on how it felt and who it helps
Use a mirror or blank paper to jot extra ideas or doodles as you work.
Hand out the Strengths Reflection Worksheet. Read the instructions aloud. Offer examples or visuals if the student needs support.
Discuss Your Strengths
Ask:
• Which strength makes you most proud?
• How has this strength helped you overcome a challenge?
• When you use this strength, how do you feel?
Use these guiding questions. Listen actively, ask follow-ups, and affirm each response to reinforce self-worth.
Set Your Strength Goal
Steps:
- Choose one strength to focus on
- Write a clear, achievable goal
- Identify when and where to practice it
- Note reminders and people who can support you
Introduce the Strength Application Plan Worksheet. Help the student choose one strength and craft a SMART goal. Model an example if needed.
Session Recap & Encouragement
Summary:
- Strengths discovered
- Goal established
Encouragement:
“Remember, your strengths are your superpowers. Keep this plan visible to stay motivated!”
Summarize the strengths identified and the goal set. Offer genuine praise and remind the student to keep their worksheets handy as daily reminders.
Script
Session 1 Script
Slide 1: Welcome & Session Overview (5 minutes)
Teacher (smiling, making eye contact):
“Hi, [Student Name]! I’m really glad we have this time together today. Over the next 30 minutes, we’re going to discover some of your personal strengths, talk about how they help you handle challenges, and set a goal to practice one of those strengths this week. This is a one-on-one space where you can share anything—there’s no wrong answer here. Sound good?”
(Pause for affirmation.)
Teacher:
“Here’s our plan for today:
- Icebreaker: You’ll tell me your superhero power.
- Personal Strengths Reflection on the Strengths Reflection Worksheet.
- A short discussion about your top strengths.
- Goal-setting on the Strength Application Plan Worksheet.
- Closing and encouragement.
Let’s get started!”
Slide 2: Icebreaker – Superhero Strengths (5 minutes)
Teacher (holding up a thinking pose):
“Imagine you’re a superhero. What special strength or power would you have? And why would you choose that?”
(Pause and listen.)
Teacher (nodding):
“Wow, that’s awesome. You chose [repeat student’s answer]. That reminds me of your ability to [connect to real strength]. How do you think that power shows up in real life for you?”
(Pause for response. Follow-up if needed: “Can you tell me a quick story when you showed that strength?”)
Teacher:
“Thank you—that gives us a great starting point. Now let’s explore even more strengths.”
Slide 3: Personal Strengths Reflection (10 minutes)
Teacher (handing over worksheet):
“Here’s your Strengths Reflection Worksheet. On the top, write your name and today’s date. Then list five personal strengths—qualities or abilities you feel proud of. For each, write an example of a time you used it, how it felt, and who it helped. You can doodle or jot extra ideas on the blank paper or mirror if that helps spark ideas.”
Teacher:
“Let me know when you finish one or if you need any examples or prompts.”
(While student works, offer gentle encouragement: “Great start! Tell me about Strength #2 when you’re ready.”)
Slide 4: Discuss Your Strengths (8 minutes)
Teacher (after student completes worksheet):
“Awesome job completing your list. I want to hear more. Let’s talk about these questions together:
• Which strength makes you most proud?
• How has that strength helped you overcome a challenge?
• When you use this strength, how do you feel?”
(Pause after each question, listen actively, affirm responses: “That’s really impressive. I can see why you feel proud.”)
Teacher (optional follow-up):
“If you had to give that strength a nickname—like “The Listener” or “The Problem-Solver”—what would you call it?”
Slide 5: Set Your Strength Goal (5 minutes)
Teacher (handing over second worksheet):
“Now, let’s focus on turning one of your strengths into action this week. Here’s your Strength Application Plan Worksheet. First, pick one strength from your list. Then on this page we’ll:
- Write a clear goal using that strength.
- Decide exactly when and where you’ll practice it.
- List a few steps to reach your goal.
- Note any challenges you might face and how you’ll handle them.
- Choose reminders or someone to check in with you.
Teacher:
“For example, if your strength is patience, you might say, ‘This week, I will use my patience by listening fully to a friend in class before I respond.’ Let’s fill in each section together. Which strength do you want to focus on?”
(Guide student through each field. Ask: “What’s your specific goal?” “When will you do this?” “Who can remind you?”)
Slide 6: Session Recap & Encouragement (2 minutes)
Teacher (smiling, summarizing):
“Fantastic work today, [Student Name]. You discovered strengths like [Student’s chosen strength], and you set a clear goal: [Read goal], on [day/time]. I believe in your ability to make this happen—remember, your strengths are your superpowers.”
Teacher:
“Keep both worksheets somewhere you’ll see them every day. I’m excited to hear how it goes when we meet next time. You’ve got this!”
(End with a genuine high-five or thumbs up.)
Lesson Plan
Session 2 Lesson Plan
Students will reflect on their progress toward their chosen strength goal, identify successes and barriers, learn new resilience strategies, and plan next steps to continue building self-worth.
Reflecting on achievements and challenges reinforces confidence, teaches problem-solving, and equips students with tools to persist when faced with obstacles.
Audience
Middle School Students
Time
30 minutes
Approach
Guided reflection, discussion, strategy development.
Materials
- Goal Progress Reflection Worksheet, - Resilience Strategies Planning Worksheet, - Strength Application Plan Worksheet, - Pens or Pencils, and - Mirror or Blank Paper
Prep
Teacher Preparation
10 minutes
- Review the Goal Progress Reflection Worksheet, Resilience Strategies Planning Worksheet, and the student’s existing Strength Application Plan Worksheet
- Prepare pens/pencils and mirror or blank paper
- Arrange a comfortable one-on-one setting and gather any notes on the student’s week of practice
- Prepare prompts for resilience strategies relevant to the student’s experiences
Step 1
Welcome and Check-In
3 minutes
- Greet the student and remind them of last week’s goal-setting session
- Explain that today we’ll look at what went well, what was challenging, and build new strategies to keep growing
- Emphasize that all progress, big or small, is valuable
Step 2
Goal Progress Reflection
8 minutes
- Hand out the Goal Progress Reflection Worksheet
- Ask the student to complete sections on whether they met their goal, what helped them succeed, and what got in the way
- Encourage honest reflection and note feelings alongside events
Step 3
Discuss Progress and Challenges
7 minutes
- Use guided questions:
• What successes are you most proud of?
• Which obstacles surprised you, and how did you respond?
• How did using your strength affect you or others? - Listen actively and validate all experiences, reinforcing resilience
Step 4
Resilience Strategies Building
8 minutes
- Introduce the Resilience Strategies Planning Worksheet
- Brainstorm 2–3 concrete strategies or coping skills to handle similar challenges in the future (e.g., taking deep breaths, asking for help, using positive self-talk)
- For each strategy, outline steps, identify when to use it, and note any supports needed
Step 5
Next Steps Planning & Encouragement
4 minutes
- Look back at the Strength Application Plan Worksheet and decide if you’ll continue the same goal or set a new one
- Record updated or new goal details: what, when, where, and how you’ll practice your strength
- Choose reminders and a person to check in with for accountability
Step 6
Closing Affirmation
2 minutes
- Summarize key insights: progress made, resilience strategies chosen, and next goal
- Reinforce belief in the student’s abilities: “You’ve shown real growth and you have tools to keep moving forward.”
- Encourage the student to keep their worksheets visible as daily reminders
Worksheet
Goal Progress Reflection Worksheet
Name: _________________________ Date: _______________
Instructions
Look back at the goal you set on the Strength Application Plan Worksheet. Reflect honestly on what happened this week. Answer the questions below with details and feelings.
1. Did I meet my goal?
- Yes ☐ No ☐
Explain why or why not:
2. Successes I’m Most Proud Of
What went well? Describe at least one moment when you used your strength successfully.
3. Challenges and My Responses
What obstacles or surprises did I face? How did I handle them?
4. Impact of My Strength
How did using this strength affect me or others around me?
5. Emotions and Insights
What feelings did I notice while working toward my goal? What did I learn about myself?
6. Next Steps
Based on this reflection, will I continue with the same goal or set a new one? Write your updated plan below (you may use another Strength Application Plan Worksheet if needed).
My next goal or adjustment:
When and where I will practice:
Supports or reminders I will use:
(Keep this reflection with your strength plan to track your growth and guide your next steps.)
Worksheet
Resilience Strategies Planning Worksheet
Name: _________________________ Date: _______________
Instructions
When you faced challenges while using your strength, a plan can help you bounce back even stronger. Use this worksheet to:
- Identify specific obstacles you encountered.
- Brainstorm 2–3 concrete resilience strategies or coping skills.
- Outline steps for each strategy, note when to use it, and who or what can support you.
1. Challenges I Faced
List one or two obstacles or surprises that made it hard to practice your strength.
Obstacle #1:
Obstacle #2 (optional):
2. Strategy #1
Name of Strategy:
(e.g., deep breathing, positive self-talk, asking for help)
Steps to Use This Strategy:
2. __________________________________________
3. __________________________________________
**When I Will Use It:** __________________________
**Supports I Can Use:** (person, tool, reminder) __________________________
3. Strategy #2
Name of Strategy:
Steps to Use This Strategy:
2. __________________________________________
3. __________________________________________
**When I Will Use It:** __________________________
**Supports I Can Use:** __________________________
4. Strategy #3 (optional)
Name of Strategy:
Steps to Use This Strategy:
2. __________________________________________
3. __________________________________________
**When I Will Use It:** __________________________
**Supports I Can Use:** __________________________
5. My Action Plan
- Which of these strategies will I try first and why?
- How will I remind myself to use this strategy when I need it?
(Keep this worksheet with your other materials and review it whenever you encounter a challenge. You have the power to choose how you respond!)
Slide Deck
Welcome & Check-In
• Remember last session’s strength goal
• Today’s focus:
– Reflect on what went well and what was hard
– Discuss successes and obstacles
– Build resilience strategies
– Plan next steps
Greet the student and remind them of last week’s goal-setting session. Explain that today we’ll reflect on progress, identify challenges, and build new resilience strategies. Emphasize that all progress—big or small—is valuable.
Goal Progress Reflection
Instructions:
- Indicate Yes/No for goal met
- Describe successes and barriers
- Note the impact of using your strength
- Reflect on your feelings and insights
Hand out the Goal Progress Reflection Worksheet. Invite the student to honestly complete each section: did they meet their goal, what helped or got in the way, and how they felt.
Discuss Progress & Challenges
Questions:
• What success are you most proud of?
• Which obstacles surprised you, and how did you respond?
• How did using your strength affect you or others?
Use these prompts to guide a supportive conversation. Validate all achievements and responses to obstacles.
Build Your Resilience Strategies
Steps:
- Identify one or two challenges you faced
- Brainstorm strategy names (e.g., deep breathing, positive self-talk)
- Outline steps for each strategy
- Note when to use it and who or what can support you
Introduce the Resilience Strategies Planning Worksheet. Brainstorm 2–3 concrete coping skills. For each, outline steps, when you’ll use it, and supports needed.
Plan Your Next Strength Goal
• Continue or set a new strength goal
• Write a clear, actionable goal
• Specify when and where you’ll practice
• Choose reminders and someone to check in
Look back at the Strength Application Plan Worksheet. Decide to continue the same goal or set a new one. Fill in details: goal statement, timing, location, reminders, and accountability partner.
Session Recap & Affirmation
Summary:
- Progress made and insights
- Resilience strategies to try
- Next strength goal details
“Great work! You’ve shown real growth—and you have tools to keep moving forward.”
Summarize the student’s progress, chosen resilience strategies, and next goal. Reinforce belief in their abilities and encourage keeping worksheets visible.
Script
Session 2 Script
Slide 1: Welcome & Check-In (3 minutes)
Teacher (warm smile):
“Hi, [Student Name]! Welcome back. Last time, you identified one of your personal strengths and set a goal to practice it this week. Today we’ll look at what went well, what felt challenging, and then build some new strategies to help you keep growing. Remember, every bit of progress counts—big or small. Ready to dive in?”
(Pause for affirmation.)
Teacher:
“Great. Let’s start by reflecting on your goal.”
Slide 2: Goal Progress Reflection (8 minutes)
Teacher (handing over worksheet):
“Here’s your Goal Progress Reflection Worksheet. First, check Yes or No to whether you met your goal. Then tell me why or why not. Be honest—this helps us learn. Afterwards, describe one success you’re proud of, any challenges you faced, and how using your strength affected you or others. Finally, note your feelings and what you learned about yourself.”
Teacher:
“Take your time writing. I’ll be right here if you have questions or need a prompt.”
(Offer encouragement as student writes: “Good detail! Tell me more about that moment you felt proud.”)
Slide 3: Discuss Progress & Challenges (7 minutes)
Teacher (after student completes reflection):
“Nice work reflecting. Let’s talk through a few questions:
• What success are you most proud of?
• Which obstacle surprised you, and how did you respond?
• How did using your strength impact you or someone else?”
(Pause between each question. Listen actively and affirm: “That shows real creativity,” or “I admire how you kept going.”)
Teacher (optional follow-up):
“When you hit that challenge, what did you tell yourself to keep moving forward?”
Slide 4: Build Your Resilience Strategies (8 minutes)
Teacher (handing over worksheet):
“Now we’ll plan for next time a challenge comes up. This is your Resilience Strategies Planning Worksheet. First, list one or two obstacles you faced this week. Then we’ll brainstorm 2–3 coping strategies—like deep breathing, asking for help, or positive self-talk. For each strategy, write the steps, when you’ll use it, and who or what can support you.”
Teacher:
“Which obstacle do you want to start with?”
(Guide student through each section. Ask: “What name will you give this strategy?” “What’s the first step?” “When will you remember to use it?”)
Slide 5: Plan Your Next Strength Goal (4 minutes)
Teacher (returning to previous worksheet):
“Let’s look back at your Strength Application Plan Worksheet. Based on what you’ve learned, you can either continue with the same goal or adjust it. Fill in your updated goal statement, choose the day and place to practice, and pick reminders or someone to check in with you. Clear next steps help keep you on track.”
Teacher:
“Which strength and goal will you focus on moving forward?”
(Provide support as needed: “Maybe we shorten the goal to make it more achievable.”)
Slide 6: Session Recap & Affirmation (2 minutes)
Teacher (smiling, summarizing):
“You’ve done excellent work today. You reflected on successes and challenges, created resilience strategies like [student’s strategy name], and set your next goal: [read updated goal] on [day/time]. You’re building real momentum.”
Teacher:
“Keep all your worksheets visible—on your desk or wall. You have the tools and the power to keep growing. I believe in you, [Student Name]. You’ve got this!”
(Offer a genuine fist bump or thumbs-up.)
Cool Down
General Reflection
Name: _________________________ Date: _______________
Instructions
Use this quick exit ticket to reflect on today’s session. Answer the questions below with your thoughts.
1. One Key Takeaway
What is one important thing you learned or realized today?
2. One Question I Still Have
What question or concern do you still have about using your strength or the strategies we discussed?
(Hand this in before you leave. Your feedback helps us plan the next steps!)
Warm Up
Goal Check-In Warm-Up
Name: _________________________ Date: _______________
Instructions
Take 2 minutes to recall the strength goal you set last session and rate your confidence in meeting it this week.
1. My Strength Goal
Write your chosen strength and the goal you set:
2. Confidence Rating
On a scale of 1 to 5, how confident are you in achieving this goal?
1 ☐ 2 ☐ 3 ☐ 4 ☐ 5 ☐
(1 = Not confident at all; 5 = Very confident)
3. One-Word Check-In
Choose one word that describes how you feel about working on this goal today:
Lesson Plan
Session 1 Plan
Students will identify and reflect on their personal strengths to boost self-worth and set a concrete goal to apply one strength in daily life.
Recognizing individual strengths builds resilience and self-esteem, empowering students to face challenges with confidence and purpose.
Audience
Middle School Students
Time
30 minutes
Approach
Guided reflection, discussion, and goal-setting.
Materials
- Strengths Reflection Worksheet, - Mirror or Blank Paper, - Pens or Pencils, and - Strength Application Plan Worksheet
Prep
Teacher Preparation
10 minutes
- Review the Strengths Reflection Worksheet and Strength Application Plan Worksheet
- Prepare pens/pencils and mirror or blank paper
- Arrange a quiet, comfortable space for one-on-one discussion
- Note any student-specific accommodations or prompts needed
Step 1
Introduction and Icebreaker
5 minutes
- Greet the student and explain the session’s focus on personal strengths and self-worth
- Prompt: “If you were a superhero, what strength would you have? Why?”
- Note responses to reference during the session
Step 2
Personal Strengths Reflection
10 minutes
- Hand out the Strengths Reflection Worksheet
- Ask the student to list five personal strengths and provide examples of each
- Encourage them to use the mirror or blank paper to jot additional ideas or doodles
- Offer prompts or visuals if needed to support understanding
Step 3
Discussion of Strengths
8 minutes
- Ask: Which strength makes you most proud? How has this strength helped you overcome a past challenge? When you use this strength, how do you feel?
- Listen actively and affirm each contribution to reinforce self-worth
Step 4
Goal-Setting
5 minutes
- Introduce the Strength Application Plan Worksheet
- Invite the student to choose one of their strengths and set a specific, achievable goal to practice it this week
- Record the goal, identify when and where they will apply the strength, and note any reminders needed
Step 5
Closing and Encouragement
2 minutes
- Summarize the key strength(s) identified and the goal set
- Reinforce belief in the student’s abilities: “Remember, your strengths are your superpowers.”
- Encourage them to refer to their worksheets throughout the week
Slide Deck
Welcome & Session Overview
Session Objectives:
- Identify personal strengths
- Reflect on how these strengths build resilience
- Set a concrete goal to apply one strength
Today’s Flow:
- Icebreaker
- Strengths Reflection
- Discussion
- Goal-Setting
- Closing & Encouragement
Greet the student warmly. Explain the focus: discovering personal strengths to boost self-worth. Outline the session steps. Emphasize that this is a safe, supportive space.
Icebreaker: Superhero Strengths
Prompt:
“If you were a superhero, what strength would you have? Why?”
• Share your superhero power.
• Discuss how it relates to a real strength you possess.
Encourage creativity and curiosity. Ask the student to elaborate on their choice. Connect their superhero power to real-life strengths.
Personal Strengths Reflection
Instructions:
- List five personal strengths
- For each, write an example of when you used it
- Reflect on how it felt and who it helps
Use a mirror or blank paper to jot extra ideas or doodles as you work.
Hand out the Strengths Reflection Worksheet. Read the instructions aloud. Offer examples or visuals if the student needs support.
Discuss Your Strengths
Ask:
• Which strength makes you most proud?
• How has this strength helped you overcome a challenge?
• When you use this strength, how do you feel?
Use these guiding questions. Listen actively, ask follow-ups, and affirm each response to reinforce self-worth.
Set Your Strength Goal
Steps:
- Choose one strength to focus on
- Write a clear, achievable goal
- Identify when and where to practice it
- Note reminders and people who can support you
Introduce the Strength Application Plan Worksheet. Help the student choose one strength and craft a SMART goal. Model an example if needed.
Session Recap & Encouragement
Summary:
- Strengths discovered
- Goal established
Encouragement:
“Remember, your strengths are your superpowers. Keep this plan visible to stay motivated!”
Summarize the strengths identified and the goal set. Offer genuine praise and remind the student to keep their worksheets handy as daily reminders.
Lesson Plan
Session 2 Plan
Students will reflect on their progress toward their chosen strength goal, identify successes and barriers, learn new resilience strategies, and plan next steps to continue building self-worth.
Reflecting on achievements and challenges reinforces confidence, teaches problem-solving, and equips students with tools to persist when faced with obstacles.
Audience
Middle School Students
Time
30 minutes
Approach
Guided reflection, discussion, strategy development.
Materials
- Goal Progress Reflection Worksheet, - Resilience Strategies Planning Worksheet, - Strength Application Plan Worksheet, - Pens or Pencils, and - Mirror or Blank Paper
Prep
Teacher Preparation
10 minutes
- Review the Goal Progress Reflection Worksheet, Resilience Strategies Planning Worksheet, and the student’s existing Strength Application Plan Worksheet
- Prepare pens/pencils and mirror or blank paper
- Arrange a comfortable one-on-one setting and gather any notes on the student’s week of practice
- Prepare prompts for resilience strategies relevant to the student’s experiences
Step 1
Welcome and Check-In
3 minutes
- Greet the student and remind them of last week’s goal-setting session
- Explain that today we’ll look at what went well, what was challenging, and build new strategies to keep growing
- Emphasize that all progress, big or small, is valuable
Step 2
Goal Progress Reflection
8 minutes
- Hand out the Goal Progress Reflection Worksheet
- Ask the student to complete sections on whether they met their goal, what helped them succeed, and what got in the way
- Encourage honest reflection and note feelings alongside events
Step 3
Discuss Progress and Challenges
7 minutes
- Use guided questions:
• What successes are you most proud of?
• Which obstacles surprised you, and how did you respond?
• How did using your strength affect you or others? - Listen actively and validate all experiences, reinforcing resilience
Step 4
Resilience Strategies Building
8 minutes
- Introduce the Resilience Strategies Planning Worksheet
- Brainstorm 2–3 concrete strategies or coping skills to handle similar challenges in the future (e.g., taking deep breaths, asking for help, using positive self-talk)
- For each strategy, outline steps, identify when to use it, and note any supports needed
Step 5
Next Steps Planning & Encouragement
4 minutes
- Look back at the Strength Application Plan Worksheet and decide if you’ll continue the same goal or set a new one
- Record updated or new goal details: what, when, where, and how you’ll practice your strength
- Choose reminders and a person to check in with for accountability
Step 6
Closing Affirmation
2 minutes
- Summarize key insights: progress made, resilience strategies chosen, and next goal
- Reinforce belief in the student’s abilities: “You’ve shown real growth and you have tools to keep moving forward.”
- Encourage the student to keep their worksheets visible as daily reminders
Slide Deck
Welcome & Check-In
• Remember last session’s strength goal
• Today’s focus:
– Reflect on what went well and what was hard
– Discuss successes and obstacles
– Build resilience strategies
– Plan next steps
Greet the student and remind them of last week’s goal-setting session. Explain that today we’ll reflect on progress, identify challenges, and build new resilience strategies. Emphasize that all progress—big or small—is valuable.
Goal Progress Reflection
Instructions:
- Indicate Yes/No for goal met
- Describe successes and barriers
- Note the impact of using your strength
- Reflect on your feelings and insights
Hand out the Goal Progress Reflection Worksheet. Invite the student to honestly complete each section: did they meet their goal, what helped or got in the way, and how they felt.
Discuss Progress & Challenges
Questions:
• What success are you most proud of?
• Which obstacles surprised you, and how did you respond?
• How did using your strength affect you or others?
Use these prompts to guide a supportive conversation. Validate all achievements and responses to obstacles.
Build Your Resilience Strategies
Steps:
- Identify one or two challenges you faced
- Brainstorm strategy names (e.g., deep breathing, positive self-talk)
- Outline steps for each strategy
- Note when to use it and who or what can support you
Introduce the Resilience Strategies Planning Worksheet. Brainstorm 2–3 concrete coping skills. For each, outline steps, when you’ll use it, and supports needed.
Plan Your Next Strength Goal
• Continue or set a new strength goal
• Write a clear, actionable goal
• Specify when and where you’ll practice
• Choose reminders and someone to check in
Look back at the Strength Application Plan Worksheet. Decide to continue the same goal or set a new one. Fill in details: goal statement, timing, location, reminders, and accountability partner.
Session Recap & Affirmation
Summary:
- Progress made and insights
- Resilience strategies to try
- Next strength goal details
“Great work! You’ve shown real growth—and you have tools to keep moving forward.”
Summarize the student’s progress, chosen resilience strategies, and next goal. Reinforce belief in their abilities and encourage keeping worksheets visible.
Worksheet
Strengths Reflection Worksheet
Name: _________________________ Date: _______________
Instructions
Think about qualities or abilities you’re proud of. List five personal strengths below. For each strength, write a real-life example when you used it and how it felt or who you helped. Use the space and doodle if it helps spark ideas.
Strength #1
Strength: __________________________
Example of when I used this strength:
How did it feel, or who did it help?
Strength #2
Strength: __________________________
Example of when I used this strength:
How did it feel, or who did it help?
Strength #3
Strength: __________________________
Example of when I used this strength:
How did it feel, or who did it help?
Strength #4
Strength: __________________________
Example of when I used this strength:
How did it feel, or who did it help?
Strength #5
Strength: __________________________
Example of when I used this strength:
How did it feel, or who did it help?
Reflection Questions
- Which strength makes you most proud?
- Why does this strength stand out to you?
- What new strength or quality did you discover about yourself today?
- How could you use one of these strengths in your life this week?
(Tip: Use your responses here to fill in the Strength Application Plan Worksheet and set a goal to practice one strength this week.)
Cool Down
Session 2 Cool Down
Name: _________________________ Date: _______________
1. Strategy I Will Use
Which resilience strategy will I try first this week? Why?
2. Positive Affirmation
Write a sentence that reminds you of your strength and resilience:
3. Next Action Step
What is one action I will take today to practice my chosen strength or strategy?
(Please hand this in before you leave. Great job building your resilience!)