Lesson Plan
Body Image Boost Lesson Plan
Students will identify and challenge negative self-talk about body image and practice self-compassion through interactive activities, fostering confidence and resilience.
Middle school girls often face peer pressure and internalized negative body image, which can be exacerbated by trauma and neurodiverse challenges. This lesson provides safe, structured tools to build self-esteem and emotional resilience.
Audience
Middle School Girls (Grades 6–8)
Time
30 minutes
Approach
Interactive games, guided discussion, and reflective exercises.
Prep
Preparation
10 minutes
- Review Body Image Boost Slide Deck to familiarize yourself with content flow.
- Print copies of Negative Self-Talk Worksheet and Self-Compassion Reflection Worksheet.
- Print and cut apart Game Cards for Bingo for each student.
- Arrange seating in small groups and clear a board or wall space for Bingo.
- Review Body Image Boost Script to ensure trauma-informed delivery.
- Prepare any sensory supports (fidgets, noise-cancelling headphones) for neurodiverse students.
Step 1
Introduction
5 minutes
- Welcome students warmly, following the opening in Body Image Boost Script.
- Icebreaker: Ask each student to share one thing they like about their body, using sentence stems on the board.
- Introduce lesson goals: identifying negative self-talk and practicing self-compassion.
- Establish group norms: respect, confidentiality, and supportive listening.
Step 2
Negative Self-Talk Challenge
10 minutes
- Distribute Negative Self-Talk Worksheet.
- Students list common negative body-related thoughts they’ve experienced.
- Model one example visually for neurodiverse learners.
- Pair-share: Students swap examples with a partner and reframe one negative thought into a positive statement.
- Invite volunteers to share reframes; record a few on the board.
Step 3
Body Image Bingo Game
7 minutes
- Introduce Positive Body Image Bingo Game, handing out Game Cards from Game Cards for Bingo.
- Call out affirmations or body-positive statements; students mark matching squares.
- When a student shouts “Bingo,” pause to discuss the affirmations they marked.
- Encourage sensory breaks or support as needed.
Step 4
Reflection & Self-Compassion
6 minutes
- Hand out Self-Compassion Reflection Worksheet.
- Prompt students to write a self-compassion statement and one coping action they can use against negative thoughts.
- Allow drawing or alternative formats for expression.
- Offer supportive feedback; display selected examples anonymously.
Step 5
Closing
2 minutes
- Summarize key takeaways: challenging negative self-talk and practicing self-compassion.
- Direct students to review Body Image Worksheets Answer Key for sample reframes and statements.
- Lead a final group affirmation: “I am enough.”
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Slide Deck
Body Image Boost
Building Confidence & Self-Compassion
Grades 6 – 8 | 30 minutes
Welcome students warmly. Introduce yourself and the purpose of today’s session. Point out the slide title and invite students to settle in. You may display a calming image related to nature or abstract shapes. Provide fidgets or noise-cancelling headphones as needed.
Icebreaker: Something I Like
• Think of one part of your body you appreciate
• Write or draw your idea on a sticky note
• When invited, share with the group
(Sentence stem on board: "I like my ___ because...")
Explain the icebreaker: each student will share one thing they like about their body. Model your own example first. Use visuals or sentence-stem cards on the board. Allow students to draw or write if they prefer.
Goals & Norms
Goals:
- Identify negative self-talk
- Practice reframing thoughts
- Build self-compassion
Norms:
- Respect each other
- Keep sharing confidential
- Listen with kindness
Review lesson goals and group norms clearly. Post norms visually on the wall. Ask for student agreement or suggestions. Keep this slide visible during activities for reference.
Negative Self-Talk Challenge
- List 2–3 negative thoughts you’ve had about your body
- Pair up and swap one example
- Help your partner reframe it into a positive statement
- Volunteer reframes will be recorded on the board
Hand out the Negative Self-Talk Worksheet now. Read each step aloud and pause for processing time. Offer sentence starters for neurodiverse learners (e.g., "I often think..."). Circulate to support pairs.
Positive Body Image Bingo
• Each square has a body-positive statement
• Mark squares when you hear the statement called
• First to get 5 in a row calls “Bingo!”
• Discuss the marked affirmations
Distribute Bingo cards and game pieces. Call out affirmations one at a time. Allow extra processing time. When someone wins, discuss the affirmations they marked.
Reflection & Self-Compassion
- Write a self-compassion statement (e.g., “I deserve kindness.”)
- Choose one coping action to use against negative thoughts
- (Optional) Draw a picture that shows you being kind to yourself
Provide the Self-Compassion Reflection Worksheet. Read prompts aloud. Invite drawing or writing, whichever feels safer. Encourage students to identify a go-to coping strategy. Offer praise for participation.
Closing & Group Affirmation
Key Takeaways:
- We can reframe negative self-talk
- Self-compassion strengthens resilience
Final Affirmation:
"I am enough."
Summarize learnings: challenging negative thoughts and practicing self-compassion. Lead everyone in a slow, collective affirmation: “I am enough.” Direct students to the answer key for examples if they need more ideas.
Script
Body Image Boost Script
Introduction (5 minutes)
[Show slide: Body Image Boost from Body Image Boost Slide Deck]
"Hello everyone! Welcome to our Body Image Boost session. I’m so glad you’re here today. My name is [Your Name], and I’ll be your guide as we talk about how we think and feel about our bodies. If at any point you need a fidget, noise-cancelling headphones, or a short break, that’s totally okay—just let me know."
"Today, we have three goals: 1) Identify negative self-talk, 2) Learn how to reframe those thoughts into positive ones, and 3) Practice self-compassion—being as kind to ourselves as we are to our friends."
Note for students: If you ever feel uncomfortable sharing, you can write privately or pass. This is a safe space.
Icebreaker: Something I Like
[Show slide: Icebreaker: Something I Like]
"On your table are sticky notes and markers. Think of one part of your body that you appreciate—anything at all! It could be your hair, your hands, your smile, or even your knees. You can write or draw your idea on your sticky note."
"I’ll model mine first: I like my hands because they help me create art. Now it’s your turn. Take a minute."
"Great! Would anyone like to share? Just say, ‘I like my ___ because…’"
Pause for 2–3 volunteers.
"Thank you for sharing. I love hearing all the different things we appreciate about our bodies!"
Goals & Norms
[Show slide: Goals & Norms]
"Here are our goals again: identify negative self-talk, reframe thoughts, and build self-compassion. Our group norms are:"
- Respect each other
- Keep what we share here confidential
- Listen with kindness
"Does anyone have questions or suggestions about these norms?"
Pause for quick discussion.
"Awesome—let’s get started!"
Negative Self-Talk Challenge (10 minutes)
[Show slide: Negative Self-Talk Challenge]
"I’m handing out the Negative Self-Talk Worksheet. On the top, you’ll see space to write two or three negative thoughts you’ve had about your body. For example, I might write, ‘I think my arms are too big.’ I’ll put that on the board to show you how."
Model writing on the board: “I think my arms are too big.”
"Now it’s your turn. Use the sentence starters on the board—‘I often think…’ or ‘I feel…’—if that helps. You have two minutes."
"Great work! Next, please pair up with a partner. Swap one negative thought with each other—and here’s the fun part—reframe that negative thought into a positive statement. For example, ‘My arms are strong and help me carry my backpack.’"
"You have three minutes to practice. Remember: you don’t have to share anything that feels too private—you can keep it on your worksheet."
Circulate to support students, using simple, direct language and offering sentence stems for students who need extra processing time.
After 3 minutes:
"Let’s come back together. Who would like to share a negative thought and its reframe? Feel free to just read what’s on your worksheet."
Record 2–3 examples on the board.
"Thank you—those were amazing reframes!"
Positive Body Image Bingo (7 minutes)
[Show slide: Positive Body Image Bingo]
"Now it’s time for a quick game of Positive Body Image Bingo Game! I’m passing out your bingo cards and markers from the Game Cards for Bingo. Each square has a different body-positive statement."
"I’ll call out statements one at a time. If you see that statement on your card, mark the square. Get five in a row—horizontally, vertically, or diagonally—and shout ‘Bingo!’"
Read each affirmation slowly, allowing extra processing time. Example statements: ‘I love my hair,’ ‘My legs are strong,’ ‘My smile brightens the day.’
When a student calls “Bingo!”:
"Congratulations! Which five statements did you mark?"
Discuss briefly.
Reflection & Self-Compassion (6 minutes)
[Show slide: Reflection & Self-Compassion]
"Please take the Self-Compassion Reflection Worksheet. First, write a self-compassion statement. For example: ‘I deserve kindness and respect.’ Then, choose one coping action you can use when a negative thought pops into your head—maybe taking three deep breaths, reciting an affirmation quietly, or placing a hand on your heart. You can also draw a picture if that feels better."
"Would anyone like to share their self-compassion statement or coping action?"
Allow 1–2 volunteers.
"Thank you for sharing; those are wonderful strategies!"
Closing & Group Affirmation (2 minutes)
[Show slide: Closing & Group Affirmation]
"Let’s review our key takeaways: we can notice negative self-talk, reframe it into positive thoughts, and practice self-compassion. If you want more examples, check the Body Image Worksheets Answer Key."
"Now, let’s end with our final group affirmation. On the count of three, we’ll say together: ‘I am enough.’ Ready? 1… 2… 3… I am enough."
"Thank you all for your honest participation today. Remember: you are enough—just as you are. Have a wonderful rest of your day!"
Worksheet
Negative Self-Talk Worksheet
Part 1: Identify Negative Thoughts
Use these sentence stems if helpful:
- “I often think…”
- “I feel…”
- ____________________________________________ (optional)
Part 2: Reframe Your Thoughts
For each negative thought above, write a positive or balanced reframe.
Thought 1: _______________________________________
Reframe 1: ______________________________________
Thought 2: _______________________________________
Reframe 2: ______________________________________
Thought 3: _______________________________________ (if used)
Reframe 3: ______________________________________
Tip: Focus on what your body can do for you, not just how it looks.
Worksheet
Self-Compassion Reflection Worksheet
Part 1: Self-Compassion Statement
Write a kind statement to yourself. Examples:
- “I deserve kindness and respect.”
- “My worth is not defined by how I look.”
Part 2: Coping Action
Choose one action you can do when negative thoughts arise. Examples:
- Take three deep breaths
- Place a hand on your heart and say an affirmation
- Write down a positive thought
Part 3: Optional Drawing
Draw a picture that shows you being kind to yourself or using your coping action.
Game
Positive Body Image Bingo Game
Overview
Positive Body Image Bingo is a quick, engaging game to reinforce body-positive affirmations and vocabulary. Students listen for affirmations called out by the teacher and mark matching squares on their bingo cards. The first student to complete a row (horizontal, vertical, or diagonal) calls “Bingo!” and shares the affirmations they matched.
Materials
- Printed Bingo cards with a 5×5 grid and the center square marked “FREE”
- Affirmation call-out list (see below)
- Markers (e.g., bingo chips, colored stickers, or crayons)
- Game Cards for Bingo (optional pre-cut sets)
Affirmations (24 Statements)
- I love my hair
- My smile brightens the day
- My legs are strong
- I am kind to my body
- My arms help me hug friends
- My eyes help me see beauty
- I am enough
- My feet carry me far
- My voice matters
- My skin protects me
- I appreciate my breath
- I am proud of myself
- My body can dance
- My hands help me create
- I am unique and special
- My mind is powerful
- I feel love in my heart
- My presence is valued
- My posture is confident
- I can achieve anything
- I am brave and resilient
- My laughter is joyful
- My energy shines
- I trust my instincts
(Place these randomly on each student’s card, leaving the center square as “FREE.”)
Instructions
- Distribute one Bingo card and markers to each student.
- Explain the rules: You will call out an affirmation from the list. If a student has that exact phrase on their card, they mark the square. The center square is a free space.
- Read affirmations clearly and slowly, pausing 5–7 seconds between each to allow processing time.
- Continue calling affirmations until a student has five in a row (horizontal, vertical, or diagonal) and shouts “Bingo!”
- When a Bingo is called, pause the game. Ask the student to read the five affirmations they marked.
- Engage the group: briefly discuss why those statements feel positive or meaningful.
- If time permits, clear cards and play a second round or swap cards so students experience different layouts.
Differentiation & Sensory Supports
- Provide pre-filled cards with some squares already marked for students who need fewer demands.
- Allow students extra time to process each affirmation—consider a visual timer.
- Offer noise-cancelling headphones or quiet corners for sensory breaks.
- Read affirmations aloud and display them on a board or slide for visual support.
- Encourage students to call “Bingo” privately if speaking aloud is uncomfortable; then share affirmations one-on-one with the teacher.
Variation
- Use smaller grids (4×4) for a shorter game.
- Turn it into a cooperative challenge: aim for the whole class to fill their cards within a set number of calls.
- After Bingo, invite students to create and call out their own body-positive affirmations in a “student-led round.”
Answer Key
Body Image Worksheets Answer Key
This answer key provides sample responses and the reasoning behind them. Use it to guide grading and to support students in understanding how to reframe negative thoughts and create self-compassion statements.
A. Negative Self-Talk Worksheet (link to worksheet)
1. Identify Negative Thoughts
Teachers: Accept any genuine negative body-related thought. Look for clarity and honesty. Common examples include:
• “I often think my thighs are too big.”
• “I feel my skin has too many blemishes.”
• “I think my nose is crooked.”
2. Reframe Your Thoughts
Reframing Process:
- Spot the negative belief.
- Focus on what the body part does or a positive quality it has.
- Write a balanced, present-tense statement that highlights strength, function, or uniqueness.
| Original Thought | Sample Reframe |
|---|---|
| I often think my thighs are too big. | My thighs are strong and help me run, jump, and play with friends. |
| I feel my skin has too many blemishes. | My skin protects me every day, and blemishes are a normal part of growing. |
| I think my nose is crooked. | My nose is unique and helps me breathe deeply and enjoy fresh air. |
Teacher Note:
- Award full credit when students shift focus from appearance to function or positive attribute.
- Partial credit for neutral or balanced reframes (e.g., “My thighs look like everyone else’s.”).
B. Self-Compassion Reflection Worksheet (link to worksheet)
1. Self-Compassion Statement
Good Statement Criteria:
- Uses kind, nonjudgmental language.
- Addresses the student directly (“I deserve…”).
- Affirms inherent worth, not contingent on appearance.
Example responses:
• “I deserve kindness and respect, no matter what.”
• “My worth is not defined by how I look.”
• “I am proud of who I am on the inside and out.”
2. Coping Action
Good Action Criteria:
- Concrete and easy to remember.
- Calming or empowering.
- Feasible in the moment of distress.
Example responses:
• “When negative thoughts arise, I will take three deep breaths with my hand on my heart.”
• “I will quietly say, ‘I am enough,’ and smile at myself in a mirror.”
• “I will draw or doodle something happy for two minutes.”
3. Optional Drawing
Students may draw a self-portrait or scene showing themselves using their coping action (e.g., sitting peacefully with headphones on or breathing deeply). Award credit for effort and connection to their chosen action.
Scoring Guide:
- Part 1 & 2 (Negative Self-Talk): 5 points each reframe, based on clarity, positivity, and shift in focus.
- Part 1 (Listing Thoughts): 2 points per clear, relevant negative thought.
- Self-Compassion Statement: Up to 5 points for kindness, self-worth affirmation, and originality.
- Coping Action: Up to 5 points for concreteness, feasibility, and calming quality.
- Drawing (optional): Up to 3 bonus points for creativity and connection to coping action.
Use this key to provide feedback: highlight strong reframes, suggest language adjustments, and celebrate unique, compassionate statements.
For more examples and further guidance, revisit the Body Image Boost Script and the Body Image Boost Slide Deck.
Cool Down
Self-Reflection Exit Ticket
Thank you for participating today! Please answer the questions below honestly to help you—and us—see how much you’ve learned and how the group felt.
1. How well did you understand today’s lesson?
(1 = Not at all, 3 = Somewhat, 5 = Completely)
1 2 3 4 5
2. How confident do you feel reframing a negative thought into a positive one on your own?
(1 = Not confident, 5 = Very confident)
1 2 3 4 5
3. Write one thing you learned or a “lightbulb moment” you had today.
4. How comfortable did you feel sharing in your small group?
(1 = Not comfortable, 5 = Very comfortable)
1 2 3 4 5
5. How supportive and respectful did our group feel today?
(1 = Not supportive, 5 = Very supportive)
1 2 3 4 5