Lesson Plan
Emotion Regulation Roadmap
Students will identify and regulate big emotions by practicing self-calming strategies through modeling, station activities, and reflection to reduce classroom disruptions.
Teaching self-regulation empowers 3rd graders to manage strong feelings, improve focus, and foster a positive learning environment.
Audience
3rd Grade Class
Time
45 minutes
Approach
Interactive modeling, hands-on practice, reflection
Prep
Teacher Preparation
15 minutes
- Review the Big Feelings, Big Tools Slide Deck to familiarize yourself with key self-regulation strategies.
- Print and cut the Feelings Check-In Warm-Up Cards and Tips & Tricks Share-Out Prompt Cards.
- Assemble materials for each calm-down station and place corresponding Calm-Down Stations Tour Guides at each area.
- Print the Reflection Exit Ticket Sheets.
- Prepare picture supports or sentence starters for students needing extra language assistance.
Step 1
Feelings Check-In Warm-Up
5 minutes
- Distribute Feelings Check-In Warm-Up Cards to each student.
- Prompt students to choose a card that matches how they feel today and share one word about why.
- Validate each feeling and introduce the concept of big emotions needing helpful tools.
Step 2
Introduce the Emotion Regulation Roadmap
10 minutes
- Project the Big Feelings, Big Tools Slide Deck.
- Define "big feelings" and explain why they can be hard to manage.
- Introduce 2–3 self-regulation strategies (e.g., deep breathing, counting, positive self-talk) with step-by-step visuals.
- Model each strategy while describing your inner thoughts aloud.
Step 3
Modeling & Guided Practice
10 minutes
- Invite volunteers to come up and practice a chosen strategy using the slide visuals.
- Offer supportive feedback: "Great job noticing your heartbeat slowing down."
- Differentiate: pair students who need extra support with a peer buddy or provide a visual cue card.
Step 4
Calm-Down Stations Tour
10 minutes
- Divide students into small groups and assign them to different calm-down stations.
- At each station, students follow the Calm-Down Stations Tour Guides to practice a strategy (e.g., quiet corner with headphones, stress ball squeeze, breathing spot).
- Rotate groups every 2 minutes until all have visited each station.
- Circulate to monitor use of strategies and offer praise.
Step 5
Tips & Tricks Share-Out
5 minutes
- Reconvene as a class and distribute Tips & Tricks Share-Out Prompt Cards.
- In pairs, students discuss which station they liked best and why.
- Invite a few pairs to share insights with the whole class.
Step 6
Reflection Exit Ticket
5 minutes
- Hand out the Reflection Exit Ticket Sheets.
- Prompt students to write or draw: 1) One feeling they managed today, 2) The tool they used, and 3) How it helped them.
- Collect exit tickets to gauge understanding and plan follow-up supports.

Slide Deck
Big Feelings, Big Tools
Today we will learn how to calm our minds and bodies when emotions get BIG!
Welcome everyone! Today we’re going to learn how to calm our bodies and minds when our feelings get BIG. Get ready for some fun tools.
What Are Big Feelings?
Big feelings are strong emotions like anger, sadness, or worry that can feel overwhelming.
Ask: “What are some strong feelings you’ve felt? How did they make your body feel?” Validate responses.
Play the deep breathing demo. Invite students to breathe along quietly. Pause video after each inhale/exhale.
How to Use Deep Breathing
• Sit tall with feet on floor
• Place one hand on your belly
• Breathe in slowly for 3 seconds
• Breathe out slowly for 3 seconds
Lead students step-by-step: inhale for 3, exhale for 3. Demonstrate with hand on belly.
Show counting demo video. Encourage students to count silently or on their fingers.
Strategy 3: Positive Self-Talk
• Think “I can handle this”
• Say kind words inside your head
• Notice how you feel calmer and more ready
Explain that telling ourselves kind words helps calm our thoughts and feelings.
Calm-Down Stations
• Breathing Corner (headphones + soft music)
• Stress Ball Squeeze
• Quiet Reading Spot
Introduce each calm-down station. Explain group rotations and expectations.
Practice & Share
• Choose a station and try a tool
• Notice how your big feeling changes
• Be ready to tell us which tool you liked best
Explain next steps: practice a strategy, then we’ll share and reflect.

Warm Up
Feelings Check-In Cards
Use these cards to help students name and share their current emotion. Print and cut along the outlines so each student receives one card.
Card Faces (front):
- Happy 🙂
- Sad ☹️
- Angry 😠
- Scared 😨
- Excited 😃
- Tired 😴
- Worried 😟
- Calm 😌
Card Prompt (back):
"I feel [emotion] today because..."
(Students share one word aloud.)
Distribute one card per student. Give each student a moment to think, then invite volunteers to share the emotion word they chose and one reason why. Validate each response before moving into the main lesson.


Activity
Calm-Down Stations Tour Guides
Use these station guides to help students practice different self-regulation strategies in small groups. Rotate every 2 minutes until each group has visited all stations. Provide a timer or signal to cue rotations.
Station Setup
- Divide the room into three areas and label each with a station number.
- At each station, place a clearly visible card with the station title, materials list, and step-by-step instructions.
- Provide a central timer (class clock or phone on speaker) and a gentle signal (e.g., chime) to mark rotations.
Rotation Instructions (for Teacher)
- Assign students to three groups and have each group start at a different station.
- Start the timer for 2 minutes and invite students to follow the station card instructions.
- When the signal sounds, students silently rotate clockwise to the next station.
- Repeat until all groups have visited each station.
- Circulate to observe and offer praise or assistance as needed.
Station 1: Breathing Corner
Materials:
- Headphones and soft instrumental music playlist
- Visual breathing prompt (e.g., a printed “belly breathing” diagram)
Instructions:
- Put on headphones and play the soft music quietly.
- Sit comfortably and place one hand on your belly.
- Breathe in for 3 seconds (feel your belly rise), then out for 3 seconds (feel your belly fall).
- Repeat until the timer rings.
Station 2: Stress Ball Squeeze
Materials:
- A set of small stress balls or fidget squeezes (1 per student)
- Hand wiping cloths or sanitizing spray for hygiene
Instructions:
- Take a stress ball and hold it in one hand.
- Squeeze the ball really tight for a count of 5.
- Release slowly for a count of 5, noticing how your hand and arm relax.
- Switch hands and repeat.
- Continue until the timer rings.
Station 3: Quiet Reading Spot
Materials:
- A small selection of picture books or comics
- Cushions or a soft rug for comfortable seating
Instructions:
- Choose a book and find a cozy spot.
- Read silently, paying attention to the pictures and words.
- If you notice your mind wandering or feeling fidgety, take three deep breaths before returning to reading.
- Read until the timer rings.
After all rotations, reconvene as a class for the Tips & Tricks Share-Out Prompt Cards.


Discussion
Tips & Tricks Share-Out
Use this discussion guide to help students reflect and share their favorite calm-down tools. Students will work in pairs to practice listening and speaking, then share highlights with the whole class.
Materials
- Tips & Tricks Share-Out Prompt Cards (cut into individual cards)
- Timer or signal for turn taking
- Optional: recording sheet or notebook for student notes
Discussion Steps
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Pair Up (1 minute)
Have students find a partner. Explain that each pair will take turns reading and responding to a prompt card. -
Distribute Prompt Cards (1 minute)
Give each pair 2–3 prompt cards from Tips & Tricks Share-Out Prompt Cards. If pairs finish early, rotate cards among groups. -
Partner Share (3 minutes)
- Student A reads the prompt aloud.
- Student B responds, using a sentence starter if needed:
• “I liked ___ station because ___.”
• “This tool helped me by ___.” - Switch roles for the next prompt.
- Encourage eye contact, active listening, and positive feedback.
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Whole-Class Share (1 minute)
Invite 3–4 pairs to share one key insight:- Which tool they liked best
- How it helped
- When they might use it again
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Reflection & Connection
Highlight common themes and praise students for using kind words and listening skills. Remind them to use these tools whenever they feel a big emotion.
Prompt Card Examples
Cut these into cards so each student pair gets a mix:
Card 1: Favorite Station
“Which calm-down station did you like best and why?”
Card 2: How It Helped
“Describe how using that tool changed how you felt.”
Card 3: Future Use
“When could you use this tool again in school or at home?”
Card 4: Teach a Friend
“How would you explain this tool to a friend who’s never tried it?”
Card 5: New Idea
“Think of one more calm-down tool idea. What would it be?”
Card 6: Kind Words Reminder
“Share one positive self-talk phrase you can say when you feel upset.”
After cards are discussed and shared, celebrate students’ insights and encourage them to keep practicing these tools!


Cool Down
Reflection Exit Ticket
Use this sheet to reflect on your practice today. You can write words, draw pictures, or do both!
Name: _______________________ Date: ________________
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One feeling I managed today was:
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The tool I used was:
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This tool helped me by:
Thank you for sharing! I'll review your reflections to see which strategies are helping you most.

