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Your Classroom, Their Haven: Emotional Safety

Christina.russo

Tier 2
For Schools

Lesson Plan

Your Classroom, Their Haven: Emotional Safety Lesson Plan

Staff will identify key components of an emotionally safe classroom and explore practical strategies to implement them, leading to enhanced student well-being and a more positive learning environment.

Creating emotionally safe classrooms is fundamental for student development. When students feel safe, they are more likely to engage, take risks, and thrive academically and socially. This session provides actionable tools for teachers to build these essential environments.

Audience

Elementary School Staff

Time

30 minutes

Approach

Interactive discussion, practical strategies, and collaborative activity.

Materials

Your Classroom, Their Haven: Emotional Safety Slide Deck](#heartfelt-classrooms-slide-deck), Emotional Safety Strategies Handout](#emotional-safety-handout), and Safety Scenario Activity](#safety-scenario-activity)

Prep

Preparation Steps

15 minutes

  • Review all generated materials: Your Classroom, Their Haven: Emotional Safety Slide Deck, Emotional Safety Strategies Handout, and Safety Scenario Activity.
    - Print copies of the Emotional Safety Strategies Handout for each staff member.
    - Prepare materials for the Safety Scenario Activity (e.g., cut out scenario cards if applicable).
    - Ensure projector and computer are set up for the slide deck.

Step 1

Warm-Up: What Does Safety Feel Like?

5 minutes

  • Begin by asking staff: 'Think about a time you felt truly safe and supported in a professional setting. What did that feel like? What contributed to that feeling?'
    - Allow a few moments for silent reflection, then invite 2-3 staff members to share their thoughts briefly.
    - Transition by connecting their experiences to the importance of emotional safety for students.

Step 2

Introduction to Emotional Safety

5 minutes

  • Use Your Classroom, Their Haven: Emotional Safety Slide Deck slides 2-5 (Agenda, Emotional Safety Definition, Why it Matters).
    - Briefly review the agenda, define emotional safety in the classroom context, and discuss why it's critical for elementary students (e.g., brain development, learning readiness, social-emotional growth).

Step 3

Key Pillars of Emotional Safety

8 minutes

  • Use Your Classroom, Their Haven: Emotional Safety Slide Deck slides 6-8.
    - Present 2-3 key pillars or components of emotional safety (e.g., predictable routines, respectful communication, validation of feelings).
    - Distribute the Emotional Safety Strategies Handout and briefly highlight its contents, encouraging staff to refer to it throughout the session and afterwards.

Step 4

Activity: Safety Scenario Solving

10 minutes

  • Introduce the Safety Scenario Activity.
    - Divide staff into small groups (3-4 people).
    - Provide each group with a scenario and instruct them to brainstorm 2-3 strategies from the handout (or their own ideas) that could help create emotional safety in that situation.
    - Bring groups back together to share one scenario and their solutions with the larger group. Facilitate a brief discussion after each share.

Step 5

Wrap-Up & Next Steps

2 minutes

  • Use Your Classroom, Their Haven: Emotional Safety Slide Deck slide 10.
    - Briefly summarize the key takeaways.
    - Encourage staff to choose one strategy from the Emotional Safety Strategies Handout to implement in their classroom this week.
    - Thank them for their participation.
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Slide Deck

Your Classroom, Their Haven: Emotional Safety

Creating Emotionally Safe Spaces for Students

For Elementary Staff

Welcome everyone. Begin by setting a positive tone. Briefly introduce the topic of emotional safety in the classroom and its critical role in student success and well-being, especially at the elementary level. Explain that this session is about practical strategies.

Our Path to a Haven: Today's Agenda

Today, we will explore:

  • What is Emotional Safety?
  • Why it Matters for Our Students
  • Key Pillars of Emotional Safety
  • Applying Strategies: Scenario Activity
  • Your Impact: Building Heartfelt Classrooms

This is for the warm-up activity. Ask staff to reflect on a time they felt truly safe and supported in a professional setting. What did it feel like? What contributed to that feeling? After a moment of reflection, invite 2-3 people to share briefly.

Warm-Up: What Does Safety Feel Like?

Think of a time you felt truly safe and supported in a professional setting.

  • What did that feel like?
  • What contributed to that feeling?

This is for the warm-up activity. Ask staff to reflect on a time they felt truly safe and supported in a professional setting. What did it feel like? What contributed to that feeling? After a moment of reflection, invite 2-3 people to share briefly.

Emotional Safety: The Foundation

What is emotional safety in the classroom?

  • Feeling respected and valued.
  • Free from fear of judgment or harm.
  • Able to express feelings and take risks.

Transition from their personal experiences to the students. Emphasize that for students, emotional safety is the foundation for all learning. Define emotional safety as a classroom where students feel respected, valued, and free from fear of judgment or harm.

Why It Matters for Our Students

  • Learning Readiness: A safe brain is a learning brain.
  • Social-Emotional Growth: Building resilience and empathy.
  • Engagement: Students are more likely to participate and thrive.
  • Behavior: Reduces anxiety and disruptive behaviors.

Explain why emotional safety is paramount for elementary students. Mention how it impacts brain development, readiness to learn, social-emotional skills, and overall school engagement. Connect it to Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs implicitly.

Pillar 1: Predictable Routines & Clear Expectations

Students thrive on consistency and knowing what to expect.

  • Consistent Daily Schedule: Visual schedules, predictable transitions.
  • Clear Classroom Rules: Co-created, positively stated, consistently reinforced.
  • Fair & Predictable Responses: Students understand consequences and support.

Introduce the first pillar. Talk about the importance of consistent daily routines, clear expectations, and predictable consequences. How does this reduce anxiety and create a sense of security? Give a quick example or ask for one.

Pillar 2: Respectful Communication & Validation

How we speak and listen builds trust.

  • Active Listening: Truly hear and understand students.
  • Validate Feelings: Acknowledge emotions without judgment ("I see you're feeling frustrated").
  • Positive Language: Focus on what to do, not what not to do.
  • Conflict Resolution Skills: Teach students how to communicate their needs respectfully.

Introduce the second pillar. Discuss how teachers model and foster respectful interactions. Highlight active listening, validating feelings (even negative ones), and using 'I' statements. Distribute the Emotional Safety Strategies Handout now and encourage staff to refer to it.

Pillar 3: Fostering Belonging & Connection

Every student needs to feel like they belong.

  • Community Building: Morning meetings, cooperative learning.
  • Celebrate Diversity: Recognize and value individual differences.
  • Inclusive Environment: Ensure all voices are heard and respected.
  • Positive Teacher-Student Relationships: Building trust and rapport.

Introduce the third pillar. Discuss how creating a sense of belonging makes students feel accepted. Mention celebrating diversity, collaborative activities, and opportunities for all students to contribute. This sets up the activity, where staff will apply these concepts.

Activity: Safety Scenario Solving

Work in small groups to discuss scenarios.

  • How can you apply strategies to create emotional safety?
  • Be ready to share your best ideas!

This slide is for the activity. Explain the Safety Scenario Activity instructions clearly. Divide into groups, give scenarios, and monitor their discussions. Remind them to think about the pillars and strategies from the handout.

Your Impact: Building Heartfelt Classrooms

Every small step makes a big difference!

  • Recap: Predictable Routines, Respectful Communication, Fostering Belonging.
  • Challenge: Choose one strategy to implement this week.
  • Thank you for making a difference!

Summarize the key takeaways: emotional safety is foundational, involves predictable routines, respectful communication, and fostering belonging. Encourage staff to commit to trying one new strategy this week. Thank them for their engagement.

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Worksheet

Emotional Safety Strategies Handout: Cultivating Heartfelt Classrooms

Creating an emotionally safe classroom is one of the most powerful things you can do for your students. When students feel safe, they can truly learn, grow, and thrive. Use these strategies to build a classroom where every student feels valued and secure.


Pillar 1: Predictable Routines & Clear Expectations

  • Visual Schedules: Display a clear daily schedule with pictures or icons, especially helpful for younger students or those who benefit from visual aids. Review it daily.
  • Consistent Routines: Establish predictable routines for transitions, asking questions, getting materials, and completing work. Practice these routines until they become automatic.
  • Co-created Classroom Rules: Involve students in creating a few positive, easy-to-understand classroom rules. Refer to them regularly and reinforce them consistently.
  • Predictable Responses: Respond to student behaviors (both positive and challenging) in a consistent and fair manner. Students need to know what to expect.

Pillar 2: Respectful Communication & Validation

  • Active Listening: When a student is speaking, give them your full attention. Make eye contact, nod, and paraphrase what you hear to show you understand.
  • Validate Feelings: Acknowledge and name students' emotions without judgment. For example, say "I hear you're feeling frustrated because..." or "It looks like you're sad right now." This doesn't mean you agree with their actions, but that you recognize their feelings.
  • Use "I" Statements: Model using "I" statements to express your own feelings and needs, such as "I feel concerned when I see you pushing, because someone could get hurt."
  • Positive Language: Frame instructions and feedback positively. Instead of "Don't run!" try "Please use your walking feet."
  • Teach Conflict Resolution: Explicitly teach students steps to resolve disagreements peacefully, such as talking it out, sharing, or asking for help.

Pillar 3: Fostering Belonging & Connection

  • Morning Meetings/Community Circle: Start the day with a gathering that includes greetings, sharing, group activities, and messages. This builds a sense of community.
  • Cooperative Learning: Design activities where students work together in small groups. This encourages collaboration and mutual support.
  • Celebrate Diversity: Create opportunities for students to share about their cultures, traditions, and unique talents. Ensure classroom materials reflect diverse backgrounds.
  • Positive Teacher-Student Relationships: Greet students individually, show genuine interest in their lives, and spend informal moments connecting with them.
  • Inclusive Environment: Ensure all students feel their voice is heard and respected. Encourage empathy and understanding among peers.

My Action Plan: One Small Step

Choose one strategy from this handout that you will commit to implementing in your classroom this week. Write it down here to make it an intention!













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Activity

Safety Scenario Activity: Building Emotional Safety

Instructions:

  1. Divide into small groups of 3-4 staff members.
  2. Each group will receive one scenario.
  3. Read your scenario carefully.
  4. Discuss within your group: What emotional safety challenges are present in this scenario?
  5. Brainstorm at least 2-3 practical strategies you could use to create or restore emotional safety for the students involved, referencing the Emotional Safety Strategies Handout as needed.
  6. Be prepared to share your scenario and your proposed solutions with the larger group.

Scenario 1: The Quiet Coder

Sarah, a usually enthusiastic 3rd grader, has become very quiet in class, especially during group work. When it's time for her group to share their coding project, she shrinks in her seat and whispers "I don't want to talk." Her group members seem impatient, and one sighs loudly, saying, "Come on, Sarah! We need to finish this!"

Discussion Points:

  • What emotional safety might Sarah be lacking?
  • How can you support Sarah and the group?
  • Which strategies from the Emotional Safety Strategies Handout would you use?














Scenario 2: The Lunchtime Exclusion

During lunch recess, you notice a small group of 2nd graders whispering and pointing at another student, Leo, who is sitting alone. Leo looks down at his lunchbox and won't make eye contact with anyone. Later, you overhear one of the whispering students say, "We don't want Leo to play with us because he always tells on us."

Discussion Points:

  • What emotional safety concerns are present for Leo?
  • How would you address the behavior of the whispering group?
  • Which strategies from the Emotional Safety Strategies Handout would you use to foster belonging?














Scenario 3: The Frustrated Artist

During an art project, a 1st grader named David starts to get visibly frustrated. He rips his paper, throws his crayon down, and yells, "This is stupid! I can't do anything right!" Other students look at him with wide eyes, and a few giggle nervously.

Discussion Points:

  • What feelings is David expressing, and what might be behind them?
  • How can you help David regain emotional composure and a sense of safety?
  • Which strategies from the Emotional Safety Strategies Handout would you apply to this situation and to the class?













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