Lesson Plan
Your Brain on Stress and Finding Your Lifelines
By the end of the lesson, students will identify at least three personal stressors (internal/external), demonstrate one regulated-breathing technique, define suicidal ideation in age-appropriate terms, list three warning signs, and name three trusted adults/resources (including how to contact them) using Acknowledge–Care–Tell steps.
Understanding how stress impacts us and knowing how to find help are crucial life skills. This lesson empowers students to manage stress, recognize serious warning signs in themselves and others, and connect with vital support systems to ensure their well-being and safety.
Audience
9th Grade
Time
45 minutes
Approach
Interactive discussions, practical breathing exercises, self-reflection, and guided scenario practice.
Materials
Whiteboard or projector, Markers, Stress and Support Essentials Slide Deck, One-Word Stress Check-In Warm-Up, 2-Minute Pre/Post Pulse Check (5 Items) Quiz, Pulse Check Answer Key and Scoring Guide, Box Breathing Drill and Reset Timer Activity, My Stress Map (Internal/External) Worksheet, Who Are My Safe People and How to Reach Them Discussion, Acknowledge–Care–Tell Helper Script, My Lifeline Card (Wallet-Size Resource List) Journal, and Grounding Exit Ticket (5-4-3-2-1) Cool-Down
Prep
Preparation
15 minutes
- Review all generated materials: Your Brain on Stress and Finding Your Lifelines Lesson Plan, Stress and Support Essentials Slide Deck, One-Word Stress Check-In Warm-Up, 2-Minute Pre/Post Pulse Check (5 Items) Quiz, Pulse Check Answer Key and Scoring Guide, Box Breathing Drill and Reset Timer Activity, My Stress Map (Internal/External) Worksheet, Who Are My Safe People and How to Reach Them Discussion, Acknowledge–Care–Tell Helper Script, My Lifeline Card (Wallet-Size Resource List) Journal, Grounding Exit Ticket (5-4-3-2-1) Cool-Down.
- Print copies of My Stress Map (Internal/External) Worksheet for each student.
- Print copies of My Lifeline Card (Wallet-Size Resource List) Journal for each student.
- Prepare a whiteboard or projector for the slide deck.
- Ensure a quiet space for the breathing activity.
- Familiarize yourself with school-specific mental health resources to share with students.
Step 1
Warm-Up & Pre-Check (5 minutes)
5 minutes
- Distribute the One-Word Stress Check-In Warm-Up.
- Have students complete the 2-Minute Pre/Post Pulse Check (5 Items) Quiz individually. Collect responses.
- Introduce the lesson objectives. Emphasize the importance of creating a safe and supportive learning environment for this sensitive topic. Clarify confidentiality and mandatory reporting responsibilities.
- Begin the Stress and Support Essentials Slide Deck by defining 'stress' versus 'stressor' and introducing the 'fight-flight-freeze' response.
Step 2
Understanding Stress & Regulation (15 minutes)
15 minutes
- Continue with the Stress and Support Essentials Slide Deck to explain internal and external stressors.
- Distribute My Stress Map (Internal/External) Worksheet and have students identify personal stressors.
- Transition to regulation skills. Lead students through the Box Breathing Drill and Reset Timer Activity. Practice the technique together, encouraging students to notice its effects.
Step 3
Suicidal Ideation & Help-Seeking (15 minutes)
15 minutes
- Using the Stress and Support Essentials Slide Deck, introduce suicidal ideation in age-appropriate terms, emphasizing that it's about thoughts, not actions.
- Discuss common warning signs of suicidal ideation.
- Introduce the Acknowledge–Care–Tell (ACT) steps for help-seeking using the Acknowledge–Care–Tell Helper Script. Model brief scenarios or facilitate a Who Are My Safe People and How to Reach Them Discussion about how to apply ACT.
- Highlight 988 and school support systems as key resources.
Step 4
Personal Lifelines & Cool-Down (10 minutes)
10 minutes
- Distribute the My Lifeline Card (Wallet-Size Resource List) Journal.
- Guide students to identify and write down three trusted adults/resources and how to contact them.
- Have students complete the 2-Minute Pre/Post Pulse Check (5 Items) Quiz again. Collect responses and compare to pre-check if desired (for teacher's informal assessment).
- Conclude with the Grounding Exit Ticket (5-4-3-2-1) Cool-Down, encouraging students to reflect on a coping strategy they learned.

Slide Deck
Welcome! Setting the Stage
Today, we're talking about something we all experience: stress.
Our goal is to understand how stress affects us and learn how to find support when we need it.
- Safe Space: This is a place to learn and share respectfully.
- Confidentiality: What we share stays here, unless someone is at risk of harm (important: explain your mandatory reporting role).
Let's start with a quick check-in!
Welcome students and set a positive, safe tone. Briefly introduce the topic of stress and its impact. Emphasize that this is a safe space for discussion and learning. Go over classroom norms for sensitive topics. Reassure students about confidentiality, but also be clear about mandatory reporting requirements if they disclose something that indicates they or someone else is at risk of harm. Distribute the One-Word Stress Check-In Warm-Up and the 2-Minute Pre/Post Pulse Check (5 Items) Quiz.
Internal vs. External Stressors
Not all stress comes from the same place. Some stress comes from inside us, and some from outside us.
- Internal Stressors: Things that come from our own thoughts, feelings, or bodies.
- Examples: perfectionism, negative self-talk, anxiety, illness.
- External Stressors: Things that happen around us or to us.
- Examples: school deadlines, family issues, social pressures, world events.
What are some examples YOU can think of for each?
Introduce the concept of internal vs. external stressors. Engage students in a brief discussion about different feelings or happenings that fall into each category.
Regulating Our Brains: Box Breathing
When stress hits, our breathing often changes.
Box Breathing is a simple, powerful technique to help us calm down.
- Breathe In: Inhale slowly through your nose for a count of 4.
- Hold: Hold your breath for a count of 4.
- Breathe Out: Exhale slowly through your mouth for a count of 4.
- Hold: Hold your breath for a count of 4.
Let's try it together! (Refer to Box Breathing Drill and Reset Timer Activity)
Introduce box breathing. Explain the process clearly and calmly. Demonstrate it first, then guide students through it together using the Box Breathing Drill and Reset Timer Activity. Emphasize the benefits of regulated breathing for stress management. Allow for a minute or two of quiet practice.
Sometimes, stress can feel like too much to handle.
When we feel really overwhelmed, some people might have thoughts about not wanting to be alive. This is called suicidal ideation.
- It's about thoughts, not actions. Having these thoughts does NOT mean you will act on them. It means your brain is in a lot of pain.
- You are not alone. Many people experience these feelings.
- Help is available. These thoughts can be managed and overcome.
It's important to know the warning signs – in yourself and in your friends.
Introduce the idea that sometimes big problems can lead to difficult feelings, specifically talking about when people have thoughts about not wanting to be alive. Emphasize that these are thoughts and experiences many people have, and it doesn't mean they are "crazy" or alone. Reassure them that help is available. Keep language age-appropriate and avoid overly graphic details.
Understanding Suicidal Ideation
When stress builds up, it can sometimes lead to intense feelings of sadness or hopelessness.
Suicidal ideation means having thoughts about ending one's own life.
- It's a serious mental health concern, not a character flaw.
- Having thoughts is different from taking action. Many people experience these thoughts and never act on them.
- It's a sign of extreme emotional pain, and it's treatable.
- The most important thing to remember: You are not alone, and help is available.
Transition to the importance of recognizing when stress becomes overwhelming. Introduce the concept of suicidal ideation. Emphasize that these are serious thoughts, but not necessarily actions, and that help is available. Keep language clear, factual, and non-judgmental. Stress that asking for help is a sign of strength.

Warm Up
One-Word Stress Check-In
Instructions: In one word, how are you feeling about stress today? Write your word in the space below.
(Teacher: You may choose to have students share their words aloud or anonymously, or simply use this as a personal reflection to gauge the room.)


Quiz
2-Minute Pre/Post Pulse Check (5 Items)

Answer Key
Pulse Check Answer Key and Scoring Guide
This answer key provides the correct responses for the multiple-choice questions and guidance for the Likert scale self-assessment questions in the 2-Minute Pre/Post Pulse Check (5 Items) Quiz.
Questions and Answers
Question 1
Prompt: Which of the following best describes a 'stressor'?
Correct Answer: A specific event or situation that causes stress
Reasoning: A stressor is the trigger or cause of stress, while stress is the body's reaction to that trigger.
Question 2
Prompt: How confident are you in identifying your own internal stressors?
Correct Answer: This is a Likert scale self-assessment question. There is no single 'correct' answer. Students' responses reflect their self-perceived confidence. Teachers can look for shifts in confidence from pre- to post-lesson as an indicator of learning.
Scoring Guide: Observe the general trend of responses. An increase in confidence from pre- to post-assessment suggests improved self-awareness.
Question 3
Prompt: Which of these is an example of an 'external stressor'?
Correct Answer: A looming homework deadline
Reasoning: External stressors are outside events or situations. Negative self-talk, feeling anxious, and perfectionism are internal experiences.
Question 4
Prompt: What does 'suicidal ideation' refer to?
Correct Answer: Having thoughts about ending one's life
Reasoning: Suicidal ideation specifically means thoughts or ideas about suicide, distinct from the act itself. It's crucial to emphasize this distinction.
Question 5
Prompt: How confident are you that you know how to reach out for help if you or a friend were struggling with overwhelming thoughts?
Correct Answer: This is a Likert scale self-assessment question. There is no single 'correct' answer. Students' responses reflect their self-perceived confidence. Teachers can look for shifts in confidence from pre- to post-lesson as an indicator of learning.
Scoring Guide: As with Question 2, look for an upward trend in confidence from pre- to post-assessment, indicating improved understanding of help-seeking resources and processes.


Activity
Box Breathing Drill and Reset Timer
Purpose: This activity will help you practice a simple breathing technique called Box Breathing, which can help calm your mind and body when you feel stressed.
Instructions: Follow along with your teacher. We will go through several rounds together. Try to visualize a box as you breathe.
How to do Box Breathing:
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Inhale for 4 seconds: Slowly breathe in through your nose, counting to four in your head. Feel your belly expand.
(Imagine drawing the first side of the box upward)
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Hold for 4 seconds: Hold your breath gently for four seconds.
(Imagine drawing the top side of the box across)
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Exhale for 4 seconds: Slowly breathe out through your mouth, counting to four. Feel your belly flatten.
(Imagine drawing the second side of the box downward)
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Hold for 4 seconds: Hold your breath again, gently, for four seconds before inhaling again.
(Imagine drawing the bottom side of the box across to complete it)
Let's Practice!
(Teacher: Lead students through 3-5 rounds of box breathing. Encourage them to close their eyes if they feel comfortable, or focus on a still point. Use a calm, steady voice to guide the counts.)
Teacher Script Prompts:
- "Okay everyone, let's get comfortable in our seats, feet flat on the floor, hands resting in your lap."
- "We're going to breathe together. I'll count us through each step."
- "Ready? Let's begin. Breathe in... one, two, three, four."
- "Hold... one, two, three, four."
- "Breathe out... one, two, three, four."
- "Hold... one, two, three, four."
- "And again, breathe in... one, two, three, four..."
Reflection (after practice):
- How does your body feel after a few rounds of box breathing?
- When might be a good time to use this technique in your daily life?


Worksheet
My Stress Map: Internal and External Stressors
Instructions: Think about the things that make you feel stressed. In the boxes below, write down as many stressors as you can think of, then categorize them as either Internal (coming from within you) or External (coming from outside you). You can draw or write. Remember, there are no right or wrong answers – this is about understanding yourself.
Internal Stressors
(Things that come from your own thoughts, feelings, or body)
External Stressors
(Things that happen around you or to you)
Reflect and Connect:
- Looking at your map, do you notice more internal or external stressors?
- How do these stressors make you feel in your body or mind?
- Is there one stressor you feel you might have some control over?


Discussion
Who Are My Safe People and How to Reach Them?
Purpose: This discussion helps us identify reliable support systems and understand how to use them when facing challenges.
Discussion Prompts:
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Identifying Trusted Adults: Think about the adults in your life (at home, school, community) who you trust and feel comfortable talking to when you have a problem. Who are they?
- Teacher Note: Remind students that these don't have to be family; they could be teachers, counselors, coaches, religious leaders, etc. Encourage them to think broadly.
- Teacher Note: Remind students that these don't have to be family; they could be teachers, counselors, coaches, religious leaders, etc. Encourage them to think broadly.
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Why these people? What qualities make these adults safe and trustworthy? (e.g., they listen without judgment, they offer practical help, they keep things confidential when appropriate, they make you feel understood).
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How to Reach Out (Acknowledge–Care–Tell): We learned about Acknowledge–Care–Tell (ACT). How would you use these steps to talk to a trusted adult if:
- Scenario A: You notice a friend has been much quieter than usual, skipping meals, and making comments about everything being "hopeless."
- Scenario B: You yourself have been feeling overwhelmed by stress, can't sleep, and have had fleeting thoughts of not wanting to deal with anything anymore.
- Teacher Note: Guide students to apply ACT: Acknowledge (what you see/feel), Care (show concern), Tell (a trusted adult).
- Scenario A: You notice a friend has been much quieter than usual, skipping meals, and making comments about everything being "hopeless."
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Beyond Individuals: Besides people, what other resources are available for support (e.g., 988, school counselors, mental health apps, websites)? How do you access these?


Script
Acknowledge–Care–Tell (ACT) Helper Script
(Teacher: Use this script to introduce and practice the ACT steps. Adjust language as needed for your students.)
Introduction to ACT
"Alright class, we've talked about stressors and how to manage our own stress. Now, let's discuss what to do when someone—maybe even you—is going through something really tough, especially when it comes to those overwhelming thoughts we discussed earlier.
It can be scary to think about, but knowing what to do can make a huge difference. We're going to learn three simple but powerful steps called Acknowledge–Care–Tell, or ACT for short."
Step 1: Acknowledge (What you see or hear)
"The first step is Acknowledge. This means noticing when something seems off with someone, or recognizing difficult feelings in yourself.
It's about paying attention to changes in behavior, things people say, or how they act. It doesn't mean you have to be a mind-reader, just a kind observer. What might you acknowledge if you noticed a friend who usually loves to joke around suddenly becoming very quiet and withdrawn?"
(Pause for student responses, guide them towards observable behaviors.)
"Exactly. You might acknowledge that they've stopped participating, or they look sad, or they're not eating lunch anymore.
For yourself, acknowledging might mean recognizing that you've felt sad for a long time, or that you're having trouble concentrating, or that you're just not feeling like yourself."
Step 2: Care (Show your concern)
"The second step is Care. Once you've acknowledged something, it's important to show genuine concern. This means letting the person know you're worried about them, or that you care about your own well-being.
It doesn't mean you have to solve all their problems! It's just about opening a door for conversation and showing empathy. What are some simple, caring things you could say to a friend you're worried about?"
(Pause for student responses, guide towards empathetic statements.)
"Great ideas. You might say, 'Hey, I've noticed you've been a bit quiet lately, and I'm a little worried. Is everything okay?' Or, 'I care about you, and I want to make sure you're doing alright.'
If it's about yourself, showing care might mean acknowledging that you deserve to feel better and that it's okay to seek help."
Step 3: Tell (A trusted adult)
"The most crucial step, especially when the situation feels serious or overwhelming, is Tell. This means sharing your concerns with a trusted adult.
This isn't 'tattling.' This is about safety and getting help. When someone is struggling with very difficult thoughts, they need adult support. Who are some trusted adults you could tell?"
(Pause for student responses: parents, guardians, teachers, school counselors, coaches, principals, school nurses, family friends, religious leaders.)
"Fantastic. These are your lifelines. It's okay if you don't know exactly what to say; just letting an adult know, 'I'm worried about [friend's name],' or 'I'm not feeling okay,' is enough. They will know what to do next.
And remember, there are also professional resources like the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. You can call or text 988 anytime, day or night, if you or someone you know needs support.
Guided Practice / Scenarios
"Now, let's try putting ACT into practice. I'm going to give you a couple of brief scenarios. Think about how you would Acknowledge, Care, and Tell in each situation. We can discuss these in small groups or as a class.
(Refer to the scenarios in the Who Are My Safe People and How to Reach Them Discussion material, or create new ones on the fly. Emphasize that the goal is practice, not perfection.)
"Remember, ACT is a tool to help yourself and your friends. It's about being brave enough to notice, kind enough to care, and smart enough to get help from a trusted adult."


Journal
My Lifeline Card: Your Personal Resource List
Purpose: This card is for you to keep. It's a reminder of your personal strengths and the people and resources you can reach out to when you need support. It's designed to be cut out and kept in your wallet, backpack, or somewhere you can easily access it.
FRONT OF CARD
My Personal Lifelines
(When things get tough, these are the people I can reach out to.)
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Name:
How to Contact: -
Name:
How to Contact: -
Name:
How to Contact:
BACK OF CARD
Crisis Resources
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988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
- Call or Text: 988 (Available 24/7)
- Website: 988lifeline.org
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Crisis Text Line
- Text: HOME to 741741
- Website: crisistextline.org
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School Counselor/Support Staff:
- Name(s):
- How to Contact: (e.g., visit office, email, phone)
- Name(s):
My Go-To Calming Strategy
(What helps me reset when I feel overwhelmed? E.g., Box Breathing, listening to music, taking a walk, drawing.)
Instructions for use:
- Fill in the names and contact information for your trusted adults/resources.
- Add any other local or personal resources you find helpful.
- Write down one calming strategy you can use.
- Cut out the card along the dashed lines (or fold it) and keep it in a safe, accessible place.
(Dashed line for cutting)
(Dashed line for cutting)


Cool Down
Grounding Exit Ticket: 5-4-3-2-1
Purpose: This cool-down activity helps you reflect and calm your mind by focusing on your senses. It can be a great way to reset after a busy or intense discussion.
Instructions: Take a moment to quietly observe your surroundings and yourself. Fill in the blanks below based on what you notice right now.
5 - Name 5 things you can see.
4 - Name 4 things you can feel (texture, temperature, pressure, etc.).
3 - Name 3 things you can hear.
2 - Name 2 things you can smell.
1 - Name 1 thing you can taste (or a taste you remember).
Reflect: How do you feel after completing this grounding exercise?


Lesson Plan
Your Brain on Stress: Find Your Lifelines
By the end of the lesson, students will identify at least three personal stressors (internal/external), demonstrate one regulated-breathing technique, define suicidal ideation in age-appropriate terms, list three warning signs, and name three trusted adults/resources (including how to contact them) using Acknowledge–Care–Tell steps.
Understanding how stress impacts our brains and having a clear plan for seeking help are critical life skills. This lesson empowers students to manage stress, recognize serious mental health challenges in themselves and others, and connect with vital support systems, fostering a safer and healthier school community.
Audience
9th Grade
Time
45 minutes
Approach
Interactive discussion, guided breathing practice, personal reflection, and scenario-based role-playing.
Materials
Whiteboard or projector, Stress and Support Essentials Slide Deck, Markers or pens, One-Word Stress Check-In Warm-Up, 2-Minute Pre/Post Pulse Check (5 Items) Quiz, Pulse Check Answer Key and Scoring Guide, Box Breathing Drill and Reset Timer Activity, My Stress Map (Internal/External) Worksheet, Who Are My Safe People and How to Reach Them Discussion Guide, Acknowledge–Care–Tell Helper Script, My Lifeline Card (Wallet-Size Resource List) Journal, Grounding Exit Ticket (5-4-3-2-1) Cool Down, and Index cards or small slips of paper for Lifeline Cards
Prep
Teacher Preparation
15-20 minutes
- Review all generated materials: Your Brain on Stress: Find Your Lifelines Lesson Plan, Stress and Support Essentials Slide Deck, One-Word Stress Check-In Warm-Up, 2-Minute Pre/Post Pulse Check (5 Items) Quiz, Pulse Check Answer Key and Scoring Guide, Box Breathing Drill and Reset Timer Activity, My Stress Map (Internal/External) Worksheet, Who Are My Safe People and How to Reach Them Discussion Guide, Acknowledge–Care–Tell Helper Script, My Lifeline Card (Wallet-Size Resource List) Journal, and Grounding Exit Ticket (5-4-3-2-1) Cool Down.
- Ensure projector/whiteboard is set up for the Stress and Support Essentials Slide Deck.
- Print copies of the One-Word Stress Check-In Warm-Up (or prepare whiteboard space for responses), 2-Minute Pre/Post Pulse Check (5 Items) Quiz, My Stress Map (Internal/External) Worksheet, My Lifeline Card (Wallet-Size Resource List) Journal, and Grounding Exit Ticket (5-4-3-2-1) Cool Down.
- Have extra index cards or small slips of paper available for students to create their Lifeline Cards.
- Familiarize yourself with the Acknowledge–Care–Tell Helper Script for guided practice.
Step 1
Pre-Check & Safety Norms (5 minutes)
5 minutes
- Display Slide 1: Welcome & Warm-Up and distribute the One-Word Stress Check-In Warm-Up.
- Explain that today's lesson will cover potentially sensitive topics related to stress and mental health.
- Establish classroom safety norms: confidentiality, respect, and 'pass' if uncomfortable.
- Distribute the 2-Minute Pre/Post Pulse Check (5 Items) Quiz and instruct students to complete the 'pre-check' section (first 5 questions). Collect when complete.
- Introduce the lesson's main topic: understanding stress and finding lifelines.
Step 2
Defining Stress & Ideation (10 minutes)
10 minutes
- Use Stress and Support Essentials Slide Deck slides 2-4 to define 'stress' vs. 'stressor' and introduce the 'fight–flight–freeze' response.
- Facilitate a brief discussion using Who Are My Safe People and How to Reach Them Discussion Guide prompts: "What does stress feel like in your body?" or "When do you typically feel stressed?"
- Transition to slide 5 and introduce 'suicidal ideation' in age-appropriate terms, emphasizing it's about thoughts, not actions. Reiterate safety norms and resources if students feel overwhelmed.
Step 3
Regulation & Stressors (15 minutes)
15 minutes
- Display Slide 6: Box Breathing and lead the class through the Box Breathing Drill and Reset Timer Activity.
- Guide students to complete the 'Box Breathing Practice' section of the Box Breathing Drill and Reset Timer Activity.
- Use Stress and Support Essentials Slide Deck slide 7 to explain internal vs. external stressors.
- Distribute My Stress Map (Internal/External) Worksheet and have students identify 3-5 internal and external stressors. Allow 5-7 minutes for completion.
- Briefly discuss common themes from the worksheet (without sharing personal details).
Step 4
Warning Signs & ACT (10 minutes)
10 minutes
- Display Slide 8: Warning Signs and discuss three common warning signs for mental health struggles or suicidal ideation.
- Introduce the Acknowledge–Care–Tell (ACT) steps using Slide 9: Acknowledge-Care-Tell.
- Use the Acknowledge–Care–Tell Helper Script to guide students through brief scenarios, practicing how to apply ACT steps to support a peer or themselves.
Step 5
Lifeline Cards & Post-Check (5 minutes)
5 minutes
- Distribute My Lifeline Card (Wallet-Size Resource List) Journal and instruct students to list three trusted adults/resources (family, friends, school counselor, etc.) and how to contact them. Ensure 988 is included.
- Play calming music as students complete their cards. Emphasize that these cards are personal resources.
- Distribute the 2-Minute Pre/Post Pulse Check (5 Items) Quiz again and have students complete the 'post-check' section. Collect when complete.
- Conclude the lesson with the Grounding Exit Ticket (5-4-3-2-1) Cool Down to help students transition out of the topic and encourage a sense of calm.

Slide Deck
Welcome: Your Brain on Stress
Today we'll explore:
- What stress does to us
- How to manage it
- Where to find help
Safety Note: Some topics may be sensitive. Please be respectful and know you can 'pass' or seek support if needed. Resources are available!
Welcome students and introduce the topic. Explain that this lesson will cover important topics related to stress and mental health. Set the stage for a safe and respectful learning environment. Remind students of the One-Word Stress Check-In Warm-Up they are completing.
Stress vs. Stressor
Stress
Your body's natural reaction to a challenge or demand.
Stressor
Anything that causes stress.
Example: A pop quiz is a stressor, and the feeling in your stomach is stress.
Ask students: 'What comes to mind when you hear the word stress?' Allow for a few responses. Then, introduce the difference between stress (our body's response) and a stressor (what causes stress).
Fight, Flight, or Freeze
Our bodies have an automatic response to danger:
- Fight: Confront the threat (e.g., argue, defend).
- Flight: Run away from the threat (e.g., avoid, escape).
- Freeze: Become still or shut down (e.g., go blank, hide).
This response is natural, but sometimes it kicks in when there's no real danger, like before a big test.
Explain the 'fight, flight, or freeze' response as an evolutionary survival mechanism. Ask: 'When have you felt your body prepare to fight, flee, or freeze?'
What Does Stress Feel Like?
Stress can show up in many ways:
- Fast heartbeat
- Sweaty palms
- Trouble sleeping
- Feeling irritable
- Difficulty concentrating
- Stomach aches or headaches
These are your body's signals!
Encourage students to share (if comfortable) what 'stress' feels like in their bodies. This connects to the initial discussion point in the lesson plan.
Understanding Suicidal Ideation
Suicidal Ideation
Refers to thoughts about ending one's life.
- It's a serious mental health concern.
- Having these thoughts does NOT mean you will act on them.
- It is a sign that someone is in extreme pain and needs support.
- It's okay to talk about these thoughts. Help is available.
This is a crucial and sensitive slide. Define suicidal ideation carefully and age-appropriately. Emphasize that it refers to thoughts, not necessarily actions. Reiterate that it's okay to talk about these thoughts and that help is available. Refer back to established safety norms. Emphasize that having thoughts is different from acting on them, and help is available. Connect to the Who Are My Safe People and How to Reach Them Discussion Guide.
Box Breathing: A Regulation Skill
Box breathing is a powerful technique to calm your nervous system.
Here's how:
- Inhale for 4 counts
- Hold for 4 counts
- Exhale for 4 counts
- Hold for 4 counts
Repeat several times. Let's try it with the Box Breathing Drill and Reset Timer Activity!
Introduce box breathing as a simple, effective regulation skill. Lead students through the Box Breathing Drill and Reset Timer Activity.
Internal vs. External Stressors
Internal Stressors
Stressors that come from within you.
- Worries, self-doubt, perfectionism
- Negative self-talk
- High expectations for yourself
External Stressors
Stressors that come from outside you.
- School pressure, homework
- Family conflicts, friend issues
- Social media, news events
Explain the difference between internal and external stressors. Give examples for each. Students will then complete My Stress Map (Internal/External) Worksheet.
Recognizing Warning Signs
If you or someone you know is struggling, look for these changes:
- Mood: Extreme sadness, anger, anxiety, loss of interest.
- Behavior: Withdrawing, changes in sleep/eating, risky actions, talking about dying.
- Thoughts: Feeling hopeless, worthless, trapped, or like a burden.
These are not just 'bad moods'—they are signals for help.
Discuss these warning signs and explain why it's important to recognize them in ourselves and others. Emphasize that these are signals that someone needs help. Connect to the ACT steps coming next.
Acknowledge–Care–Tell (ACT)
If you or a friend are struggling:
- Acknowledge: Notice the warning signs. Don't ignore them.
- Care: Show you care by listening, offering support, and letting them know they're not alone.
- Tell: Tell a trusted adult immediately. This is not breaking a trust; it's getting someone the help they need.
Your role is to ACT, not to solve their problems.
Introduce the Acknowledge–Care–Tell steps clearly. Explain what each step means and why it's important. This slide will lead into the guided practice using the Acknowledge–Care–Tell Helper Script.
Build Your Lifeline Network
Who are the trusted adults and resources you can turn to?
- Family members
- Teachers, counselors, coaches
- School staff (nurse, administrator)
- Crisis hotlines like 988
It's important to know who they are and how to reach them.
Reinforce the importance of having a support network. Explain that students will be creating their own My Lifeline Card (Wallet-Size Resource List) Journal. Emphasize that these are personal and private resources.
You Are Not Alone
Remember:
- Stress is normal, and you can learn to manage it.
- Warning signs mean it's time to ACT.
- Your lifelines are there to support you.
- Seeking help is a sign of strength.
Complete your Grounding Exit Ticket (5-4-3-2-1) Cool Down before you leave.
Distribute the post-check quiz and the Grounding Exit Ticket (5-4-3-2-1) Cool Down. Emphasize that everyone has a support network and that seeking help is a sign of strength. Thank students for their participation.

Warm Up
One-Word Stress Check-In
Instructions: In one word, how are you feeling today related to stress? Think about a word that best describes your current level of stress or how stress is affecting you.
Teacher Notes:
- Purpose: This warm-up serves as a quick, low-stakes check-in to gauge the overall emotional climate of the classroom and introduce the topic of stress. It can also inform the teacher of any immediate needs.
- Implementation:
- Option 1 (Verbal): Go around the room and ask each student to share one word. Emphasize that there are no right or wrong answers.
- Option 2 (Written): Have students write their word on a sticky note and place it on a designated spot on the board/wall, or write it directly on this sheet.
- Option 3 (Anonymous Digital): Use a digital poll tool if available.
- Follow-up: Acknowledge the range of responses. For example: "I hear words like 'tired,' 'busy,' 'calm,' and 'focused.' It shows that stress affects us all differently, and that's okay. Today, we're going to talk more about how stress impacts our brains and how we can find support."


Quiz
2-Minute Pre/Post Pulse Check (5 Items)

Answer Key
Pulse Check Answer Key and Scoring Guide
This guide is designed to help teachers interpret student responses on the 2-Minute Pre/Post Pulse Check (5 Items) Quiz. Since the quiz uses a Likert scale, there are no 'correct' or 'incorrect' answers in the traditional sense. Instead, the focus is on assessing self-perceived understanding and growth.
Interpreting Responses:
- Strongly Agree / Agree: Indicates a strong self-perception of understanding or skill in that area.
- Neutral: May suggest some understanding but a lack of confidence, or an area where further clarification might be beneficial.
- Disagree / Strongly Disagree: Points to areas where students feel they lack understanding or skill. These are key areas to focus on for targeted support.
Scoring/Growth Measurement:
Compare individual student responses from the 'Pre-Check' (Questions 1-5) to the 'Post-Check' (Questions 6-10).
- Positive Growth: A shift from 'Disagree' or 'Neutral' to 'Agree' or 'Strongly Agree' on corresponding questions indicates successful learning and increased confidence.
- Stagnant/Negative: If a student's response remains 'Disagree' or 'Neutral' or moves in a negative direction, it suggests the learning objective for that item may not have been fully met for that student. This signals a need for further one-on-one check-ins or re-teaching.
Question-Specific Interpretation Guide:
Pre-Check (Questions 1-5) & Post-Check (Questions 6-10)
Questions 1 & 6: "I understand the difference between 'stress' and a 'stressor.'"
- Objective: Students define stress and stressor.
- Interpretation: Higher agreement post-lesson shows understanding of key vocabulary. If students still disagree, review definitions and provide more examples.
Questions 2 & 7: "I know at least one technique to help me calm down when I feel stressed."
- Objective: Students demonstrate one regulated-breathing technique (box breathing).
- Interpretation: Increased agreement suggests students feel equipped with a coping skill. If not, offer more practice with box breathing or other simple regulation strategies.
Questions 3 & 8: "I can identify warning signs that someone might be struggling with their mental health."
- Objective: Students list three warning signs.
- Interpretation: A positive shift indicates improved awareness of how to recognize mental health struggles. If scores are low, revisit the warning signs and discuss real-world (non-identifying) examples.
Questions 4 & 9: "I know what 'suicidal ideation' means in simple terms."
- Objective: Students define suicidal ideation in age-appropriate terms.
- Interpretation: Greater agreement shows better understanding of this sensitive concept. If students are still unsure, gently re-explain the definition, emphasizing that it's about thoughts and that help is available.
Questions 5 & 10: "I know at least three trusted adults or resources I can talk to if I need help."
- Objective: Students name three trusted adults/resources (including how to contact them) using Acknowledge–Care–Tell steps.
- Interpretation: Stronger agreement here signifies students feel they have a support system. If responses are low, ensure students had adequate time to complete their My Lifeline Card (Wallet-Size Resource List) Journal and reinforce the importance of identifying lifelines, including 988 and school-based supports.


Activity
Box Breathing Drill and Reset Timer
Box breathing is a simple, yet powerful technique to calm your body and mind. It can help you regulate your emotions and reduce stress.
Instructions:
- Find a comfortable position: Sit upright with your feet flat on the floor, or lie down if you prefer. Close your eyes gently or soften your gaze.
- Visualize a box: Imagine drawing a box with your breath.
- Inhale: Slowly inhale through your nose for a count of 4. As you inhale, imagine drawing the first side of the box upwards.
- Hold (top): Hold your breath gently for a count of 4. Imagine drawing the top side of the box across.
- Exhale: Slowly exhale through your mouth for a count of 4. Imagine drawing the other side of the box downwards.
- Hold (bottom): Hold your breath gently again for a count of 4. Imagine drawing the bottom side of the box across to complete it.
Repeat this cycle several times, focusing on the counts and the sensation of your breath.
Teacher Notes:
- Purpose: To teach and practice a practical self-regulation skill that students can use anytime, anywhere.
- Implementation:
- Introduce box breathing using Slide 6: Box Breathing.
- Lead the class through a guided practice of box breathing. You can use a visual timer if available, or simply count aloud.
- Encourage students to focus on the rhythm and their breath. Remind them it's okay if their mind wanders; just gently bring their focus back to the counts.
- After a few cycles, ask students to reflect on how they feel. (e.g., "How does your body feel after a few rounds of box breathing?")
- Adaptation: For students who find the 4-count challenging, suggest starting with a 3-count for each step.
- Reset Timer: Use this activity as a quick 'reset' during class if students seem overwhelmed or need a moment to refocus.


Worksheet
My Stress Map: Internal & External Stressors
Instructions: Stressors can come from inside us (internal) or outside us (external). Think about what makes you feel stressed. In the boxes below, list at least three internal stressors and three external stressors that you experience.
Internal Stressors
(Things that come from your thoughts, feelings, or expectations for yourself)
External Stressors
(Things that come from your environment, people around you, or situations outside your control)
Reflection Questions (Optional Discussion):
- Do you notice any patterns in your stressors? Are more of them internal or external?
- How do these stressors typically make you feel or react?
- Which type of stressor feels harder for you to manage, and why?


Discussion
Who Are My Safe People and How to Reach Them?
Purpose: This discussion helps us identify reliable support systems and understand how to use them when facing challenges.
Discussion Prompts:
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Identifying Trusted Adults: Think about the adults in your life (at home, school, community) who you trust and feel comfortable talking to when you have a problem. Who are they?
- Teacher Note: Remind students that these don't have to be family; they could be teachers, counselors, coaches, religious leaders, etc. Encourage them to think broadly.
- Teacher Note: Remind students that these don't have to be family; they could be teachers, counselors, coaches, religious leaders, etc. Encourage them to think broadly.
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Why these people? What qualities make these adults safe and trustworthy? (e.g., they listen without judgment, they offer practical help, they keep things confidential when appropriate, they make you feel understood).
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How to Reach Out (Acknowledge–Care–Tell): We learned about Acknowledge–Care–Tell (ACT). How would you use these steps to talk to a trusted adult if:
- Scenario A: You notice a friend has been much quieter than usual, skipping meals, and making comments about everything being "hopeless."
- Scenario B: You yourself have been feeling overwhelmed by stress, can't sleep, and have had fleeting thoughts of not wanting to deal with anything anymore.
- Teacher Note: Guide students to apply ACT: Acknowledge (what you see/feel), Care (show concern), Tell (a trusted adult).
- Scenario A: You notice a friend has been much quieter than usual, skipping meals, and making comments about everything being "hopeless."
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Beyond Individuals: Besides people, what other resources are available for support (e.g., 988, school counselors, mental health apps, websites)? How do you access these?


Script
Acknowledge–Care–Tell (ACT) Helper Script
Purpose: To guide students through applying the Acknowledge–Care–Tell steps using brief, age-appropriate scenarios. This script helps facilitate practice without putting students on the spot to share personal experiences.
Introduction (Teacher Script)
"Earlier, we talked about the Acknowledge–Care–Tell, or ACT, steps. This is a powerful tool to remember when you or someone you know might be struggling. It reminds us how to respond in a supportive way.
Now, we're going to practice using ACT with a few hypothetical scenarios. Remember, our goal here is to think through the steps, not to find perfect answers. There's no pressure to share personal experiences."
Scenario 1: The Quiet Friend
Teacher: "Imagine your friend, usually really energetic and outgoing, has been really quiet lately. They've stopped joining in on conversations during lunch and haven't replied to your texts about weekend plans. They just seem really withdrawn.
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Acknowledge: What warning signs are you acknowledging here? What are you noticing that's different about your friend?"
- (Listen for: withdrawing, changes in behavior/mood, less engaged.)
Teacher: "Great observations. So you've acknowledged something is up. Now, what does Care look like in this situation? How could you show your friend you care?"
* *(Listen for: checking in, asking if they're okay, listening without judgment, offering to hang out doing something low-key.)*
Teacher: "Excellent. Showing you care is so important. Now, let's say after you checked in, your friend mumbled something like, 'I just feel so alone all the time, and nothing seems fun anymore.' What would the Tell step involve here? Who would you tell, and why?"
* *(Listen for: telling a trusted adult like a parent, teacher, counselor, coach; explaining that it's to get your friend help, not to get them in trouble; knowing it's okay to break confidentiality for safety.)*
Scenario 2: Overwhelmed by School
Teacher: "Now, let's think about yourself. You've got a huge project due, two tests next week, and you feel completely overwhelmed and can't seem to focus. You're starting to feel stomach aches and aren't sleeping well.
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Acknowledge: What warning signs are you acknowledging in yourself in this scenario?"
- (Listen for: physical symptoms of stress, trouble sleeping, difficulty concentrating, feeling overwhelmed.)
Teacher: "Good. You're recognizing those signs. How can you show yourself Care in this moment? What can you do to support yourself?"
* *(Listen for: using a regulation skill like box breathing, taking a short break, talking to someone, planning out tasks.)*
Teacher: "Right, self-care is vital. If these feelings persisted, or if they started to get really dark—like thoughts of 'I wish I wasn't here' or 'It would be easier if I just disappeared'—what would the Tell step look like for you? Who would you tell, and how would you reach out?"
* *(Listen for: identifying a specific trusted adult, using the [My Lifeline Card (Wallet-Size Resource List) Journal](#lifeline-card-journal), calling/texting 988, talking to a school counselor.)*
Concluding Remarks (Teacher Script)
"These scenarios show that ACT isn't just for extreme situations; it's about paying attention to ourselves and others and knowing when and how to seek support. Remember, your role is to ACT, not to solve big problems on your own. Connecting with a trusted adult is the most important step."

