Lesson Plan
Session 1 Lesson Plan
Students will identify and label basic feelings (happy, sad, angry, scared) and practice turn-taking using a Talking Stick.
Naming emotions and passing a special Talking Stick fosters self-awareness, respectful listening, and cooperative turn-taking in a supportive group setting.
Audience
Male and female kindergarten and first graders
Time
30 minutes
Approach
Interactive teaching plus structured turn-taking
Materials
- Feeling Flashcards (Feeling Flashcards), - Talking Stick (Talking Stick Guidelines), - Feelings Chart Worksheet (Feelings Chart Worksheet), - Session 1 Feelings Script (Session 1 Feelings Script), - Soft ball or beanbag, and - Timer
Prep
Teacher Preparation
10 minutes
- Review all cards in Feeling Flashcards
- Print enough copies of Feelings Chart Worksheet for each student
- Locate or create a Talking Stick and decorate if desired
- Read through the Session 1 Feelings Script to familiarize yourself with prompts
Step 1
Warm-Up: Emotion Mirror
5 minutes
- Gather students in a circle.
- Show one card at a time from Feeling Flashcards.
- Ask students to mimic the facial expression and name the feeling.
- Praise correct names and reinforce any missed ones.
Step 2
Teach: Feelings Vocabulary
8 minutes
- Use the Session 1 Feelings Script to introduce each feeling:
• "This is happy. Can you say happy? When do you feel happy?" - Hold up the card for each feeling.
- Invite 1–2 volunteers to share a time they felt that way.
Step 3
Activity: Feelings Chart
7 minutes
- Hand out Feelings Chart Worksheet.
- Instruct students to circle a face that matches how they feel right now.
- Walk around and ask each child, “Why did you pick that face?” to encourage explanation.
Step 4
Game: Pass & Share
7 minutes
- Students form a circle and pass the Talking Stick.
- When a student holds the stick, they name a feeling and share a time they felt it.
- After sharing, they pass the stick to the next student.
- Continue until each student has held the stick or time is up.
Step 5
Cool-Down: Breathing Buddies
3 minutes
- Invite students to lie on their backs and place the beanbag on their stomach.
- Guide them to take 3 deep belly breaths, watching the bag rise and fall.
- Reinforce that this is a self-soothing strategy they can use when upset.

Slide Deck
Session 1: Feelings & Fairness
Today we will learn to:
• Name how we feel
• Take turns when we play
• Calm ourselves when we are upset
Welcome students and introduce the session’s goal: learning about feelings and sharing turns. Set a positive tone and explain we will play, talk, and practice together.
Warm-Up: Emotion Mirror
- Sit in a circle.
- I will show a feeling card.
- You make the same face and name the feeling.
- Feelings: happy, sad, angry, scared.
Materials: Feeling Flashcards
Guide the Warm-Up activity. Hold up each flashcard and model the face. Encourage students to make the same face and say the feeling word.
Teach: Feelings Vocabulary
Let’s learn these feeling words:
• Happy: When you smile and laugh.
• Sad: When you feel like crying.
• Angry: When you feel mad.
• Scared: When you feel frightened.
Ask: “When do you feel ___?”
Use the script Session 1 Feelings Script. Introduce each feeling, hold up the card, say the word, and invite 2 volunteers to share when they felt it.
Activity: Feelings Chart
- Get your Feelings Chart Worksheet.
- Circle the face that shows how you feel right now.
- Tell a friend or me why you chose it.
Distribute the worksheet. Model how to circle and explain your choice. Encourage each student to share why they picked their face.
Game: Pass & Share
- Form a circle and pass the beanbag.
- Spin the Turn-Taking Spinner.
- The spinner picks who holds the bag.
- That person names a feeling and shares a time they felt it.
- Continue until everyone has a turn.
Explain the rules clearly. Demonstrate passing the beanbag. Spin the spinner to pick the speaker. Remind students to name a feeling and share a story.
Cool-Down: Breathing Buddies
- Lie on your back and place the beanbag on your belly.
- Breathe in slowly through your nose (watch the bag rise).
- Breathe out slowly through your mouth (watch the bag fall).
- Repeat 3 times.
Introduce breathing buddies. Demonstrate placing the beanbag on the belly and breathing deeply. Guide students through three breaths.
Wrap-Up & Look Ahead
Great job today!
• We named feelings.
• We practiced taking turns.
• We learned a calming trick.
Next time: Using polite words and solving problems!
Review what we learned today. Praise students for sharing and taking turns. Announce next session’s topic: using words to ask for help and solve problems.

Script
Session 1 Feelings Script
Warm-Up: Emotion Mirror (5 minutes)
Teacher: “Okay friends, let’s all sit in a circle. I’m going to show you a card with a face on it. When I hold it up, you make the same face with your own face and tell me what feeling it is. Ready?”
(Show Feeling Flashcards one at a time.)
Teacher: “This face looks like happy. Show me your happy face! Say the word: happy.”
Students respond.
Teacher: “Great job!”
Teacher: “This face is sad. Show me sad. Say sad.”
Students respond.
Teacher: “Nice work!”
Teacher: “Now we have angry. Make an angry face and say angry.”
Students respond.
Teacher: “Thank you!”
Teacher: “Last one is scared. Show your scared face and say scared.”
Students respond.
Teacher: “Fantastic copying!”
Teach: Feelings Vocabulary (8 minutes)
Teacher: “Today we’re going to learn more about these feelings. I’ll hold up each card again, say the feeling, and then I’ll ask you a question about it.”
- Happy
- Teacher holds up the Happy card. “This is happy. Can you all say happy together?”
- Students say: “happy.”
- Teacher: “When do you feel happy? Who wants to share?”
- Follow-up Prompts: “I feel happy when I see my family. What about you?”
- Invite 2 volunteers. Praise each: “Thank you for sharing—great example!”
- Teacher holds up the Happy card. “This is happy. Can you all say happy together?”
- Sad
- Show Sad card. “This feeling is sad. Say sad.”
- Students say: “sad.”
- Teacher: “Can someone tell me a time they felt sad?”
- Follow-up Prompts: “I felt sad when I lost my toy. What makes you feel sad?”
- Invite 2 volunteers. Encourage full sentences: “I felt sad when…”
- Show Sad card. “This feeling is sad. Say sad.”
- Angry
- Show Angry card. “This is angry. Say angry.”
- Students say: “angry.”
- Teacher: “When might you feel angry? Who will share?”
- Follow-up Prompts: “I feel angry if someone takes my turn. What about you?”
- Invite 2 volunteers. Acknowledge: “Nice talking about feelings!”
- Show Angry card. “This is angry. Say angry.”
- Scared
- Show Scared card. “This is scared. Say scared.”
- Students say: “scared.”
- Teacher: “Can you tell me something that makes you feel scared?”
- Follow-up Prompts: “I feel scared in the dark. Anyone else?”
- Invite 2 volunteers and validate their answers.
- Show Scared card. “This is scared. Say scared.”
Activity: Feelings Chart (7 minutes)
Teacher: “Now let’s see how we feel right now. I’m passing out your Feelings Chart Worksheet. Find the face that shows your feeling and circle it.”
(Distribute worksheets and give students time.)
Teacher (circling on own paper as a model): “I’m circling happy because I felt good when I saw you today.”
Teacher: “Who wants to tell me why they circled that face?”
- Call on a child: “Thank you for sharing—nice work using your words!”
- Prompt quieter students: “Can you whisper to me why you chose that face?”
Game: Pass & Share (7 minutes)
Teacher: “Let’s play Pass & Share! We’ll sit in a circle and pass this beanbag. When I spin our Turn-Taking Spinner and it lands on you, hold the beanbag, name one feeling word, and share a time you felt that feeling.”
Teacher (demonstrates one round): “For example, I feel happy when I eat ice cream.”
Teacher: “Ready? We’ll pass the beanbag three times, then I’ll spin. Go!”
(After spinning and sharing for each student.)
Teacher: “Great job everyone! You all shared your feelings clearly and waited for your turn.”
Cool-Down: Breathing Buddies (3 minutes)
Teacher: “Time to calm down with Breathing Buddies. Lie on your back on the carpet. Place your beanbag on your belly.”
Teacher (quietly guiding):
- “Breathe in slowly through your nose—watch the beanbag go up.”
- “Breathe out slowly through your mouth—watch it go down.”
- “Let’s do this three times together.”
(Count breaths in a calm voice.)
Teacher: “Wonderful breathing! This helps us feel calm when we’re upset.”
Wrap-Up & Look Ahead (2 minutes)
Teacher: “Today we:
- Named happy, sad, angry, and scared
- Practiced taking turns sharing feelings
- Learned a breathing trick to calm down
You all did an amazing job!”
Teacher: “Next time, we will learn how to use polite words to ask for help and solve problems. I can’t wait!”


Worksheet
Session 1: Feelings Chart Worksheet
Name: __________________________ Date: __________________________
Circle the face that shows how you feel right now:
😃 Happy 😢 Sad 😠 Angry 😱 Scared
Why did you choose this face?


Warm Up
Warm-Up: Emotion Mirror (5 minutes)
- Gather students in a circle.
- Show one card at a time from Feeling Flashcards.
- Ask students to mimic the facial expression and name the feeling.
- Praise correct names and reinforce any missed ones.


Cool Down
Cool-Down: Breathing Buddies (3 minutes)
- Invite students to lie on their backs on the carpet.
- Give each student a soft ball or beanbag to place gently on their belly.
- Guide them to breathe in slowly through their nose, watching the bag rise on their tummy.
- Then breathe out slowly through their mouth, watching the bag fall.
- Repeat this deep belly breathing three times together.
- Remind students that this Breathing Buddies strategy helps them feel calm when they’re upset.


Activity
Game/Activity: Pass & Share (7 minutes)
Objective: Practice taking turns, active listening, and naming feelings in a group setting.
Materials:
- Talking Stick (Talking Stick Guidelines)
Instructions:
- Have students sit in a circle on the floor.
- Introduce the Talking Stick: only the student holding the stick may speak.
- Teacher starts by passing the stick to a classmate.
- When a student holds the stick, they name one feeling word (happy, sad, angry, or scared) and share a time they felt it (e.g., “I feel sad when I lose my toy.”).
- After sharing, the student passes the stick to the next person.
- Continue until every student has held the stick or time is up.
Teaching Tips & Variations:
- Encourage full sentences: “I feel ___ when ___.”
- For students who are shy, allow them to show a feeling card instead of speaking aloud.
- To extend, invite students to ask a follow-up question after each share (e.g., “What helped you feel better?”).


Game
Talking Stick Guidelines
Purpose: The Talking Stick is a visual cue that helps students practice respectful listening and fair turn-taking. Only the student holding the stick may speak; everyone else listens quietly.
Materials Needed:
- A special stick or decorated baton (about 1–2 feet long)
- Optional decorations: ribbons, stickers, paint, or yarn
Preparation Steps:
- Choose a lightweight stick or dowel—smooth and safe for small hands.
- Invite students (or decorate yourself beforehand) to add stickers, paint, or yarn to personalize the stick.
- Practice passing the stick so it’s comfortable for all students to hold.
How to Use in Class:
- Gather students in a circle on the floor.
- Explain: “Only the person holding the Talking Stick may talk. When you’re finished, you pass it to the next person.”
- Model one round: hold the stick, speak clearly (“I feel happy when I play with friends.”), then pass gently to a classmate.
- Continue passing around the circle. Encourage each student to hold the stick, name a feeling, and share a brief example.
Teaching Tips & Variations:
- Set a gentle timer (5–10 seconds) for each turn to keep momentum.
- For shy students, allow them to choose a feeling card to show instead of speaking aloud.
- Use positive praise (“Thank you for listening!”) after each student passes the stick.
- Variation: After everyone has had a turn, invite students to pass again but this time share a self-soothing strategy or polite phrase (e.g., “Please may I have a turn?”).


Lesson Plan
Session 2 Lesson Plan
Students will learn and use polite phrases (please, thank you, excuse me, I’m sorry), practice asking for help and turns, and apply simple problem-solving strategies.
Using polite language and self-advocacy builds respectful communication, empowers students to express needs appropriately, and fosters positive peer interactions.
Audience
Kindergarten and first graders
Time
30 minutes
Approach
Interactive teaching and role play
Materials
- Polite Words Flashcards (Polite Words Flashcards), - Scenario Cards (Session 2 Scenario Cards), - Session 2 Polite Language Script (Session 2 Polite Language Script), - Polite Phrases Worksheet (Polite Phrases Worksheet), - Soft ball or beanbag, and - Timer
Prep
Teacher Preparation
10 minutes
- Review all cards in Polite Words Flashcards
- Print enough copies of Polite Phrases Worksheet for each student
- Prepare or collect Session 2 Scenario Cards
- Read through the Session 2 Polite Language Script
Step 1
Warm-Up: Polite Greeting Circle
5 minutes
- Gather students in a circle on the floor.
- Introduce a beanbag or soft ball as the “greeting ball.”
- Teacher models: “Hello, Maria! Please pass me the ball.”
- Pass the ball to a student; they greet a peer using “please” and “thank you.”
- Continue until each child has greeted a classmate.
Step 2
Teach: Polite Phrases
7 minutes
- Show each card from Polite Words Flashcards.
- Say the phrase clearly (please, thank you, excuse me, I’m sorry).
- Ask students to repeat each phrase aloud.
- Model short dialogues: “May I have a turn, please?” “Thank you for sharing.”
- Invite 2–3 volunteers to practice with you.
Step 3
Activity: Role-Play Practice
8 minutes
- Pair up students and give each pair a Session 2 Scenario Cards.
- Scenarios include common conflicts (waiting for a turn, asking for help, bumping accidentally).
- Provide the Session 2 Polite Language Script as a guide.
- Students take turns acting out the scenario, using polite phrases and self-advocacy.
- Circulate, prompt use of full sentences, and praise correct usage.
Step 4
Game: Problem-Solving Carousel
7 minutes
- Form small groups of 3–4 students at different stations.
- Each station has a different Session 2 Scenario Card.
- Students read or listen to the scenario and discuss a polite solution (e.g., “Excuse me, may I have a turn?”).
- Rotate groups every 2 minutes so each group visits at least two stations.
- At the end, invite one student per station to share their solution with the class.
Step 5
Cool-Down: Compliment Circle
3 minutes
- Gather students back in a circle.
- Teacher starts by passing the beanbag and giving a compliment: “I like how Sara used ‘please’ today.”
- The holder passes to a peer and offers a compliment or thank-you statement.
- Continue until each student has given or received one compliment.
- Reinforce that polite words make everyone feel good.

Slide Deck
Session 2: Polite Words & Problem-Solving
Today we will learn to:
• Use polite words (please, thank you, excuse me, I’m sorry)
• Ask for help or turns nicely
• Solve small problems together
Welcome students and introduce today’s focus: using polite words to ask and share, and solving little problems together.
Warm-Up: Polite Greeting Circle
- Sit in a circle and hold the “greeting ball.”
- Teacher models: “Hello, Alex! Please pass me the ball.”
- Pass the ball to a classmate.
- That student says: “Hello, [Name]! Thank you!”
- Continue until everyone has greeted a peer.
Guide the Warm-Up: demonstrate greeting a peer with the ball, then invite students to practice using “please” and “thank you.” Keep it light and fun.
Teach: Polite Phrases
Let’s learn these phrases:
• Please
• Thank you
• Excuse me
• I’m sorry
Materials: Polite Words Flashcards
Ask: “How do we ask for a turn?”
Model: “May I have a turn, please?”
Show each flashcard, say the phrase, and have students repeat. Model simple dialogues and invite volunteers.
Activity: Role-Play Practice
- Pair up and get a Session 2 Scenario Card.
- Use the Session 2 Polite Language Script to guide you.
- Take turns acting out and using polite phrases.
- Encourage: “Excuse me, may I have a turn?” or “I’m sorry I bumped you.”
Pair students and hand out scenario cards. Circulate to prompt full sentences and praise polite language.
Game: Problem-Solving Carousel
- Split into small groups (3–4 students).
- Visit a station with a new Session 2 Scenario Card.
- Read or listen, then discuss a polite solution: e.g., “Excuse me, may I try next?”
- Rotate every 2 minutes so each group visits two stations.
- Share one solution from each station.
Organize 3–4 stations with different scenario cards. Time each round and help groups stay on task.
Cool-Down: Compliment Circle
- Sit in a circle and pass the beanbag.
- The teacher starts: “I like how Mia said ‘please’ today.”
- Next student passes to a friend and offers a compliment or thank-you.
- Continue until everyone has given or received one.
Lead the Compliment Circle: model a compliment, then pass the beanbag. Encourage genuine praise.
Wrap-Up & Look Ahead
Great work today!
• You used polite words clearly.
• You practiced asking and taking turns.
• You solved problems with kindness.
Next time: Learning calming and self-soothing strategies!
Review today’s successes, praise students, and preview our next session on calm-down and self-soothing strategies.

Script
Session 2 Polite Script
Warm-Up: Polite Greeting Circle (5 minutes)
Teacher: “Okay friends, let’s all sit in a circle. This is our greeting ball. When you hold the ball, you’ll greet the friend next to you using please and thank you. Ready?”
Teacher (demonstrates): “Hello, Alex! Please pass the ball.”
Student (holds ball): “Hello, [Name]! Thank you!”
Teacher: “Great job, Alex—nice polite words!”
Teacher: “Now pass the ball to the next friend and greet them.”
(Continue around the circle until each student has had a turn.)
Teach: Polite Phrases (7 minutes)
Teacher: “We’re going to learn four important polite phrases using our Polite Words Flashcards. Everyone say ‘ready!’”
- Please
Teacher shows the Please card. “This word is please. Say it with me: please.”
Students repeat.
Teacher: “We use please when we ask for something nicely. For example: ‘May I have a turn, please?’ Who can try that sentence?”
Follow-up Prompt: “Great! What else could you ask for, please?” - Thank you
Teacher shows the Thank You card. “This is thank you. Say it: thank you.”
Students repeat.
Teacher: “We say thank you when someone helps us. For example: ‘Thank you for sharing the marker.’ Who wants to try?”
Follow-up Prompt: “What else can you say thank you for?” - Excuse me
Teacher shows the Excuse Me card. “This phrase is excuse me. Say it: excuse me.”
Students repeat.
Teacher: “Use excuse me when you need to get someone’s attention politely: ‘Excuse me, may I talk?’ Who can practice?”
Follow-up Prompt: “What are other times we say excuse me?” - I’m sorry
Teacher shows the I’m Sorry card. “This phrase is I’m sorry. Say it: I’m sorry.”
Students repeat.
Teacher: “We say I’m sorry when we’ve made a mistake or bumped someone. For example: ‘I’m sorry I bumped you.’ Who wants to try?”
Follow-up Prompt: “What else might make you say I’m sorry?”
Teacher: “Fantastic! You’re becoming polite phrase experts.”
Activity: Role-Play Practice (8 minutes)
Teacher: “Now let’s practice with our Session 2 Scenario Cards. I’ll show you one example.”
Teacher (holds up a card): “Scenario: Two friends both want the same crayon. What could you say?”
Student volunteer: “Excuse me, may I have a turn with the crayon, please?”
Teacher: “Excellent use of excuse me and please!”
Teacher: “Now pair up. Each pair gets a scenario card. Read it together, then act it out using our polite phrases. I’ll be walking around to help.”
(Students pair and role-play. Teacher prompts quiet pairs: “Remember full sentence: I’m sorry I __.”)
Teacher (circulating): “Great work! I heard a perfect ‘thank you’ there!”
Game: Problem-Solving Carousel (7 minutes)
Teacher: “Time for our Problem-Solving Carousel. Form groups of three or four and move to a station with a new Session 2 Scenario Card.”
Instructions at each station:
- Read or listen to the scenario.
- Discuss as a group: What polite phrase will you use? How will you solve the problem? (e.g., “Excuse me, may I try next?”)
- Take turns sharing your solution.
Teacher: “We’ll spend two minutes at each station. When the timer dings, rotate to the next station.”
(After rotations) Teacher: “Wonderful ideas! Who can share one solution from Station 1?”
Student: “We said, ‘I’m sorry I took your turn. Please may I have it back?’”
Teacher: “Great use of I’m sorry and please!”
Cool-Down: Compliment Circle (3 minutes)
Teacher: “Let’s end with a Compliment Circle. Sit in a circle and pass the beanbag. When you hold it, give a compliment or say thank you to someone for using polite words today.”
Teacher (models): “I like how Emma said please when asking for the scissors.” Passes to Emma.
Students pass the beanbag one by one, sharing compliments: “Thank you, Diego, for saying excuse me!” “I’m proud of Lily for saying I’m sorry!”
Teacher: “You all did an amazing job noticing polite words.”
Wrap-Up & Look Ahead (2 minutes)
Teacher: “Today we:
• Learned please, thank you, excuse me, I’m sorry
• Practiced asking nicely and solving problems
• Gave each other compliments for polite words
Great work, everyone! Next time, we’ll learn some calming and self-soothing strategies to help when big feelings come. I can’t wait!”


Worksheet
Session 2: Polite Phrases Worksheet
Name: _____________________________ Date: ____________________
- Circle the polite word you would use in each situation:
Situation: You want to ask for a turn with a toy.
• Excuse me • Thank you • I’m sorry • Please
Situation: Someone gives you a crayon you asked for.
• I’m sorry • Please • Excuse me • Thank you
Situation: You accidentally bump a friend.
• Thank you • I’m sorry • Excuse me • Please
- Draw a line to match each polite phrase with when to use it:
Please ------------------------------- a) When someone helps you
Thank you ------------------------ b) When you ask for something
Excuse me ------------------------- c) When you need attention politely
I’m sorry ------------------------- d) When you make a mistake or bump someone
- Write your own sentence using one polite phrase:
" _____________________________________________________________ "


Activity
Session 2 Scenario Cards
Use these short scenarios for Role-Play Practice and the Problem-Solving Carousel. Read or act out each one, then decide which polite phrase to use and practice saying it in a full sentence.
- Scenario: You and a friend both want the same red crayon at the art table.
Prompt: “What can you say?” - Scenario: You need help zipping up your coat before going outside.
Prompt: “How do you ask the teacher nicely?” - Scenario: You accidentally bump your friend in line and their blocks fall over.
Prompt: “What polite words do you use?” - Scenario: A classmate gives you a marker after you asked for one.
Prompt: “What do you say back?” - Scenario: You have a question during quiet work time.
Prompt: “How do you get the teacher’s attention politely?” - Scenario: You borrowed a toy from a friend and forgot to say thank you.
Prompt: “What phrase can you say now?”

